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Female (26) Gainesville, Virginia
I am in Raleigh county of Beckley WV. No idea why it keeps saying just Raleigh I am not in the Carolina's. I find it really ridiculous that so many people say they are Dom but they are not wanting to be in a relationship. You cannot use the word Dom to be a player the lifestyle is about safety if you are meeting a submissive with the intention of controlling her once that is a hookup. a D/s relationship allows you to build over time that bond. you can not bond on hookups and you are not a true Dom. It is just an excuse for hookups or one nighters. Ridiculous go sit in a BDSM club and play Dom. Safety and Trust in D/s is very important PLEASE DON'T SEND ME YOUR PRIVATE PARTS! THANKS FOR UNDERSTANDING IF I AM INTERESTED (I prefer the element of surprise when we are in person thanks.) Are you interested in living off grid and stuff that is about self sufficiency. I have an acre now but would like to get at least 10 acres. The more the better but I don't want to have to depend on these corporations. Looking for someone who has the same interests. I won't be online here long. looking for a Dom that wants the same long term. Joined site March 14, 2021 If you're interested please respond because I may just look at profiles. Disclosure: I am always upfront with my partners that I have been blessed with my gift (HSV 1/herpes) for over 20 years. I have never found in the past that this was an issue. Note: With my experience if you are a Dom you speak of your likes and not hide your attributes. you are aggressive in what you want (first contact) you show your face because it is the place I will look into your eyes and wait for gestures. Prefer someone close or willing to relocate here. I have a 14 year old daughter and she is doing excellent in school so I don't want to uproot her for a long term relationship. Not interested in online sex or hook ups. Son 35 in PA not interested in anyone under 40 just respect. Submissive looking for a Dom that will adhere to limits. Had a Dom that was experienced with stimulation and gradually increased thresholds. Looking for someone with experience preferred but may allow a new Dom the chance to broaden his experience. It is hard to trust just anyone no ego driven individuals aftercare is a must. Please don't play with people's safety in this lifestyle. I have been out of the lifestyle for about 16 years raising a 14 year old. I am looking for a stable trusting Dom. He must understand that to be my Dom you know we have to click. I am giving up full control to you. Eyes wide open and looking straight up for each gesture and non verbal queue. I am not into knife play or ***. Mostly experienced with bondage, restraint, cuffs, Saint Andrews Cross, spreader bar, paddles, floggers, whips, canes, swing, n* clamps.etc. No ddlg Visited with a partner in the past mainly Florida swinger's clubs, private parties, hotel events, restaurant closures, nudist events and hotels, theater play with glory holes, and private homes. 100% Submissive 100% Rope bunny 95% Masochist 90% Voyeur 84% Experimentalist 62% Degradee 53% Exhibitionist 52% Brat 50% Slave 32% Primal (Prey) 29% Vanilla 19% Pet 9% Non-monogamist 0% Ageplayer 0% */Girl 0% Switch* Always welcome to a chat. However I am not interested in cybersex. I have made friends from all over the world. My experience doesn't mean I cannot learn life is full of lessons daily. Come let's have an adult conversation about politics, social issues, your county or mine. You never know I found that the world is actually a ripple that affects all our lives. I have met people who know people that knew me or some family. because eventually our lives are woven in some way. Also, I can't relocate for at least 6 years. My daughter is doing excellent with school and I don't want to move her from this area. Straight A's for 2 years every report card is not easy to find with a school. Not to mention that she has also gotten awards as well. Submissive woman looking for a long term relationship with a Dominant male. Don't need a man Financially. Self employed and independent, dominant in my career. Wanting a Dom (Sir, Daddy, Master) that likes control of daily reports of tasks and trips. Choosing daily wear and office attire. Spanking sessions as reminder of who owns me. I only need one Dom not into seeing a variety of Dom's. Impact play is a plus but not required. Bondage and role playing are a plus but not required. Open to a possible swing partner but once again I am only looking for one Dominant man to fill the role and don't plan on playing once in a while or even weeks between without my Dom's being available and close enough. No online cyber sex at all has to be real in the flesh contact. https://open.spotify.com/track/4ftH531mTsmuvpTmQUu7zg?si=59Oo2qYEQP-gNtsB67Fvqg
Female (55) Raleigh, West Virginia
I am a confident, nurturing dominant woman who believes leadership and care go hand in hand. I am drawn to men who find comfort in trust, consistency, and emotional vulnerability. I enjoy taking charge, making decisions, setting the tone of the relationship, and creating a space where my partner can let go of some of life’s burdens and simply be. My style of dominance is rooted in protection, accountability, loyalty, and genuine concern for the well-being of the person I am with. I value open communication, emotional honesty, and deep trust above all else. For the right man, I offer steady leadership, unwavering support, and a relationship built on safety, respect, and connection.
Female (50) Charleston, West Virginia
I’m a warm, genuine woman who values honesty, laughter, and meaningful connections. I enjoy good conversations, exploring new places, music, and spending time with people who bring positive energy into my life. What excites me most is meeting someone who is authentic, emotionally mature, and open to building a real connection. I appreciate kindness, confidence, and a good sense of humor. I’m here to explore new connections, make friends, and hopefully find something that develops naturally into a lasting relationship with the right person. ❤️
Female (41) Ashburn, Virginia
I am a woman passionate about everything I do. When I commit to something be it at work, in my projects, or in my relationships I give it my all, with dedication, energy, and heart. I consider myself a caring person, always attentive to the details and needs of others, because I believe that affection is also shown in small gestures.
Female (46) Ashburn, Virginia
**Don’t DM me if you are under the age of 36. The answer will be “No.” No exceptions.** 🔥**Not here for quick scenes, pen pals, or long-distance power trips. If you’re real, local, age-appropriate(ish), and ready for more, read on.**🔥 In my everyday life, I’m the one in charge. I lead, manage chaos, and take care of everyone else. But behind closed doors, I want to let it go and be released from the confines of my own hypervigilance and self-inflicted independence. I want an emotionally present man whose authority is tangible and absolute: someone who doesn’t stand down or ask for permission but knows how to take control, handle me, and put me exactly where I belong—back into my feminine energy. I like strength with care and guidance toward my ultimate good, dominance with follow-through, and a man who can pin me down, correct me when I get mouthy, and still hold me afterward to remind me that I’m deeply kept and cherished, despite my many faults. I’m soft, curvy, service-driven, and very aware of how useful I can be to the right man. Explicit direction turns me on. Praise and punishment both have their place. I like intensity, impact, free use, the juxtaposition and mixing of *** and praise, being pushed to my edge, and being reminded that I’m your filthy little problem to deal with. I want to give myself fully, but only after a solid, fulfilling emotional connection comes first. I’m not here for hit-it-and-quit-it kink or being someone’s weekend fantasy. The dynamic I hold out for centers around depth, mutual care, and consistency. I recognize it’s a tall order. I’m worth it. Some of my favorite fantasies live right on the line between safety and surrender. Handing you the key. Knowing you’d show up without asking. Slipping in quietly while I sleep and taking what’s yours, always with trust and restraint behind the power. I want a level of ownership with a man who sees the human behind the filthy mouth and perverse desires. I’m ONLY looking for a serious, long-term, monogamous relationship with someone who is local, emotionally-available, age-appropriate (38+ish), and has actual, lived-out experience in all aspects of this lifestyle (not merely self-identifying as a Dominant because he has anger to work out and enjoys throwing someone around the bedroom). If you want something casual or short-term, I’m not your girl. If you want to build something real and take responsibility for what you claim, my DM’s are open. ❤️ (But be careful in how you approach — I’m quick to block.) **How I like men to communicate with me:** **Yes**, please, Daddy:** - Respectful, direct communication - Interest in something that could potentially eventually grow into a long-term, monogamous relationship - Clear intentions and honest follow-through - Calm confidence and emotional maturity - Curiosity about me as a person, not just sex - Boundaries taken seriously the first time - Age 38+ **No, Sir (respectfully): 🙅‍♀️** - Leading with sex or sexual messages - Disrespectful or dismissive communication - Pushing after I’ve said no or I’m not interested - Looking for quick fixes, casual, or short-term dynamics - Anything classified as “NSA” - Younger than 36 - Poly, open, or ethically non-monogamous setups or in any sort of situation where someone else might believe they are in a relationship with you ——— My dirty code: https://dirtycode.io/U02WN == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 100% Degradee 100% Rope bunny 96% Submissive 92% Voyeur 91% Exhibitionist 83% Masochist 75% Pet 73% Experimentalist 66% Brat 53% Slave 22% Non-monogamist 20% Rigger 19% Primal (Prey) 18% Vanilla 12% Master/Mistress 12% Sadist 10% Dominant 9% Owner 7% Switch 6% Brat tamer 4% Daddy/Mommy 2% Primal (Hunter) 2% Degrader 0% Ageplayer 0% Little
Female (46) Alexandria, Virginia
Looking for someone who wants free access to my large tits. To enjoy sucking on them.
Female (47) Stafford, Virginia
I'm not a paid member, so if you're interested in chatting, send me a msg. *** I don't share pics. On here for more than that. *** READ MY PROFILE THOROUGHLY BEFORE MESSAGING ME ***** Exploring my bi sexuality. Found I am bi a few yrs after leaving & divorced. Survived an abusive 8yr marriage. Not into bbc, ever again. Disabled, dislocated left hip (I wear a lift on my left sneaker) and stroke from birth that affected my entire right side. Love lesbian lickig & couples porn, passionate sensual. Kissing and touching is amazing. Tongue action by women is my thing. ******
Female (42) Virginia Beach, Virginia
Soft, curious, and naturally more submissive with the right energy. I’m drawn to older, grounded men who are calm, confident, and take their time. I appreciate someone who leads with intention, not ego, someone who enjoys creating a dynamic built on trust, communication, and real chemistry. Looking for something that feels good and makes sense. Outside of this, I enjoy reading, movies, and getting lost in a good game.
Female (28) Wakefield, Virginia
I started a *** if interested here's the link. New ideas are welcome but nothing to gross please! I don't do ***, poop, or *** 😘https://***.com/MysticMinx20
Female (31) Charleston, West Virginia
LOCAL TO ME!! Ages 45 and up only. I can't believe I have to say that!! I like being a mommy or a caregiver. I find joy in that. It's all new to me, but I found I like it a lot. I'm not into diaper play, more of a seduction of a caring mommy. I have kinks, but I am more than my kinks. I enjoy going to a munch or two. Sitting down with like-minded people having a meal is really nice. I have a few play parties that I go to, and I really like the people there. I would really like to have someone to go with me to a few. They are once a month and local to me. Vanilla side: I am a mom to three adult ***, 2 live close to me. I am a grandmother to 6 grandkids and one grand dog. I prefer drama free, but I know life gets crazy at times. I will listen and try not to fix it, but I will help you with comments.
Female (58) Ashburn, Virginia
I'm not quite sure what to say about myself, but if you wanna know about anything,message me—I'm an open book. as for what I'm looking for id say a man who has a dominate side a leader if you will who is Kind, patience, loving and understanding yet firm when necessary, i want a man who is clear about his desires, holds strong morals, and is ready to defend his beliefs. willing to treat me like a lady but also his personal toy behind closed doors degrade and use me always open band very willing to trying things once
Female (36) Stuart, Virginia
I'm a single mother of 3. with no prior commitment..*** are grown with families of their own Thick thighs and brown eyes..
Female (50) Miami, West Virginia
Hi! I'm a sub/little who's into creative writing amd psychology. I'm also into witchcraft, and I'm a big fan of dnd the roleplaying game. Those are just some of the things about me. I'm hoping to meet a person looking for a serious relationship here :) I'm a little so I'm looking for a dom into ddlg specifically!
Female (25) Gainesville, Virginia
I am a woman of high standards and even higher expectations. I value intelligence, discretion and absolute refinement in those who seek my time. Your ***, my pleasure. I don't play nice and i don't do ''soft''. If you are looking for a mother figure, keep moving. I am here to explore the limits of your endurance and the depths of your submission. My style is a blend of psychological play and structured discipline and the beautiful music of your reactions. I am firm, fair, but unapologetically demanding. I expect proper etiquette and address. Consistency and reliability. A willingness to be molded into your best self. FYI, no casual ''hey'' openers. SSC is the law, but ''comfortable'' is not on the menu.
Female (28) Virginia Beach, Virginia
I enjoy variety. i like making friends and having fun. I am no slave. More of a brat.
Female (43) Booth, West Virginia
Hi, thanks for looking at my profile. I am new to the kinky lifestyle, looking to find my nitch. I am leaning towards switch due to the fact I am independent and like to control , but my nurturing side would submit in a trusted connection. Looking for local friends to do outdoor activities with, hike, camp, horseback ride.
Female (58) Fincastle, Virginia
PLEASE NOTE: i’m 18, i put the wrong age when creating my account! i love being perved over by old men 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫 sexualize me pls im just a dumb *** bimbo !! just a brat with a fat butt 😋😋😋 butt stuff is my favoriteeeeee if u couldn’t tell hehe
Female (20) Lansdowne, Virginia
I am open to most things. I love to read and write.
Female (37) Strasburg, Virginia
Hi I'm a 45 yr old bisexual female. To b honest a lot of the stuff that's on here and has to do with BDSM is new to me. But I've always loved being spanked. I love to b petted like I would pet it cat or dog. I am more of a submissive than a dom if I'm in a relationship with a man. but if I'm in a relationship with a woman I'm more of a Dom than a submissive. At least that's my opinion or how I feel.
Female (47) Institute, West Virginia
I rule through presence, precision, and psychological depth. For those who crave direction and crave a space where strength meets surrender, I offer guidance with purpose and power.
Female (45) Leesburg, Virginia
Uhh. Hi. You can call me Chaos haha. I am 31, a mom of one, CNA to 3, NSFW script Writer. Sadomasochistic, switchy, brat. I probably won't be on here much cause I work all the time, but *shrugs* ya never know. Don't come at me with demands for honorifics or my submission. That shit is earned.
Female (32) Collinsville, Virginia
I am a big believer in physical attraction/chemistry as the starting point of a potential relationship. Without chemistry, there is no point in going any further. I believe there has to be a balance of give and take in a relationship.
Female (36) Chesapeake, Virginia
45, thick Black wife, been hotwifing openly with my secure, handsome husband for 13+ years. Love good dick, good food, good trips, and good conversation. Super laid-back — no drama, no games. Family and home always come first; this is just the fun part. I’m into intelligent, mature men who can talk smart one minute and fuck me stupid the next. Big on stamina, hygiene, and respect. Looking for: respectful bulls, other hotwife couples for friendship + play, mature experienced men who know how to treat a grown woman. Bring brains, big dick, and chill energy. No time for rude, pushy, or entitled people. My pussy’s too good and life’s too short.
Female (47) Alexandria, Virginia

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I am a woman passionate about everything I do. When I commit to something be it at work, in my projects, or in my relationships I give it my all, with dedication, energy, and heart. I consider myself a caring person, always attentive to the details and needs of others, because I believe that affection is also shown in small gestures.
Female (46) Ashburn, Virginia
I am a positive woman with a balanced character. I have no bad habits. I like to communicate with sincere people who do not play other people's roles. Waking up every morning I try to find a reason for joy and smile…. I am looking for a fit man who takes care of his body, goes in for sports and does not lose faith in love. Who is romantic in character and decisive in actions and who has no harmful habits
Female (40) Charleston, West Virginia
I am a confident, nurturing dominant woman who believes leadership and care go hand in hand. I am drawn to men who find comfort in trust, consistency, and emotional vulnerability. I enjoy taking charge, making decisions, setting the tone of the relationship, and creating a space where my partner can let go of some of life’s burdens and simply be. My style of dominance is rooted in protection, accountability, loyalty, and genuine concern for the well-being of the person I am with. I value open communication, emotional honesty, and deep trust above all else. For the right man, I offer steady leadership, unwavering support, and a relationship built on safety, respect, and connection.
Female (50) Charleston, West Virginia
I'm a single mother of 3. with no prior commitment..*** are grown with families of their own Thick thighs and brown eyes..
Female (50) Miami, West Virginia
New on here and willing to try new things!! I’m okay with an age gap and hope to see people who like me!!
Female (18) Daniels, West Virginia
Hey there! I'm a laidback person who loves to keep things simple and enjoy the little things in life. I’m all about good vibes, honest conversation, and a good laugh. I’m here to find someone who’s also down for a longterm connection, but who’s also open minded and enjoys a little bit of adventure and kink. If you’re easygoing, open to exploring, and looking for something meaningful 'with some playful fun along the way' let’s chat!
Female (40) Charleston, West Virginia
Soft, curious, and naturally more submissive with the right energy. I’m drawn to older, grounded men who are calm, confident, and take their time. I appreciate someone who leads with intention, not ego, someone who enjoys creating a dynamic built on trust, communication, and real chemistry. Looking for something that feels good and makes sense. Outside of this, I enjoy reading, movies, and getting lost in a good game.
Female (28) Wakefield, Virginia
Please don't have your first message be a corny pick up line or an unsolicited dp 😶 Thank you!
Female (18) Norfolk, Virginia
45, thick Black wife, been hotwifing openly with my secure, handsome husband for 13+ years. Love good dick, good food, good trips, and good conversation. Super laid-back — no drama, no games. Family and home always come first; this is just the fun part. I’m into intelligent, mature men who can talk smart one minute and fuck me stupid the next. Big on stamina, hygiene, and respect. Looking for: respectful bulls, other hotwife couples for friendship + play, mature experienced men who know how to treat a grown woman. Bring brains, big dick, and chill energy. No time for rude, pushy, or entitled people. My pussy’s too good and life’s too short.
Female (47) Alexandria, Virginia
I am a woman of high standards and even higher expectations. I value intelligence, discretion and absolute refinement in those who seek my time. Your ***, my pleasure. I don't play nice and i don't do ''soft''. If you are looking for a mother figure, keep moving. I am here to explore the limits of your endurance and the depths of your submission. My style is a blend of psychological play and structured discipline and the beautiful music of your reactions. I am firm, fair, but unapologetically demanding. I expect proper etiquette and address. Consistency and reliability. A willingness to be molded into your best self. FYI, no casual ''hey'' openers. SSC is the law, but ''comfortable'' is not on the menu.
Female (28) Virginia Beach, Virginia
Hello all! I’m a 35 almost 36 yr old kinky bookworm :) I’m pretty open when it comes to experiencing new stuff. I’m married but I’m polyamorous and pansexual. Age doesn’t bother me as long as everyone’s over 18 and consenting duh. I do love to travel as well. I’m a bit of an attention whore so all the likes and loves and messages I love getting. I’m mostly on Fetlife oddball303 is my name on there too :) send me a request or message on here or there I don’t mind :)
Female (35) Norfolk, Virginia
Into kind fun people who want to get naked and kinky Have hsv2, manage it with medication, Have bf 💘, hook up separately, here just for me.
Female (43) Charlottesville, Virginia
I am looking for a female for friendship and fun, I am married but he will not be involved. Would love to find a local female for ongoing fun. I am free and cannot mail so if interested , mail me...
Female (58) Martinsville, Virginia
I started a *** if interested here's the link. New ideas are welcome but nothing to gross please! I don't do ***, poop, or *** 😘https://***.com/MysticMinx20
Female (31) Charleston, West Virginia
I am a big believer in physical attraction/chemistry as the starting point of a potential relationship. Without chemistry, there is no point in going any further. I believe there has to be a balance of give and take in a relationship.
Female (36) Chesapeake, Virginia
I'm not quite sure what to say about myself, but if you wanna know about anything,message me—I'm an open book. as for what I'm looking for id say a man who has a dominate side a leader if you will who is Kind, patience, loving and understanding yet firm when necessary, i want a man who is clear about his desires, holds strong morals, and is ready to defend his beliefs. willing to treat me like a lady but also his personal toy behind closed doors degrade and use me always open band very willing to trying things once
Female (36) Stuart, Virginia
Hi! I’m Darling, I am not new to kink but I guess I am new on acting on it. I am currently separate and working on a divorce. I am very submissive and shy, especially at first, but once I trust you I am probably the biggest goofball you’ll ever meet. I play DnD, have a custom PC, LOVE renfaires, FX makeup, and lots more(: I have been really wanting to explore with a hard-dom and also more of my little side. I have kind of suppressed it, and I understand it’s a bit harder to explain. I just really, really like being taken care of. I take care of everyone in my life, I have everything on my shoulders, and i’d just like to be on the other end of it for once :relaxed: I like em mean, dominant, bossy, and I like to be put in my place. However my “no” needs to be respected (like safe word). *I have autism so I have a hard time reading certain situations. It’s better to just be up front with me, I’ll understand:) **
Female (26) Lynchburg, Virginia
I’m a pretty laid back girl. I like to have fun. I love cooking dinner at home, watching Netflix and snuggling on the couch. I’m open minded I have a good sense of humor I’m looking for someone who has the same energy and desire to get to know each other.
Female (45) Virginia Beach, Virginia
I'm Audrey I'm 26 little one in VA willing to relocate to you. little age is 5 wanna become a full time live in little .
Female (26) Virginia Beach, Virginia
I’m a warm, genuine woman who values honesty, laughter, and meaningful connections. I enjoy good conversations, exploring new places, music, and spending time with people who bring positive energy into my life. What excites me most is meeting someone who is authentic, emotionally mature, and open to building a real connection. I appreciate kindness, confidence, and a good sense of humor. I’m here to explore new connections, make friends, and hopefully find something that develops naturally into a lasting relationship with the right person. ❤️
Female (41) Ashburn, Virginia
Uhh. Hi. You can call me Chaos haha. I am 31, a mom of one, CNA to 3, NSFW script Writer. Sadomasochistic, switchy, brat. I probably won't be on here much cause I work all the time, but *shrugs* ya never know. Don't come at me with demands for honorifics or my submission. That shit is earned.
Female (32) Collinsville, Virginia
5ft5in 201lbs Caramel skin, thick, top heavy, love swimming, love dressing sexy. Reddish brown hair to my shoulders. Searching* Did hard core bdsm sessions for 15 years, now I jus wanna be desired worshipped adored! AND SERVED I'm looking for friends or Subs! Maybe a sweet daddy, but that would be more longterm. Not into submitting but have had to be domestic as a wife n mom and I hate it. I'm here to be Me to feel free, to feel anything again. Learning what the new me likes date by date. Can you convince me ur worth my time? I used to have a foot fetish, but I need to re evaluate what turns me on! Besides a really good pressureless Maasage! But more than anything a long-term commitment if those exist in this lifestyle. Trust at my age with kids is not easy to come by!
Female (30) Alexandria, Virginia
I am real. I do not have my face on my profile for privacy. I am mainly for a female that I can play with 😍 women really turn me on, squirt in my mouth and all over me 💦 For Men: I like men that love to eat pussy and ass. I also like to give golden streams
Female (32) Hampton, Virginia
Some things about me are that I travel for work often since I work Renaissance fairs. Been to a couple cool places but that means my life is mostly in the road. my hobbies include magic the gathering mono green for life and dnd. I'm also currently learning how to play the violin
Female (24) Fairlea, West Virginia

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