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I will not respond if you are not local to me! A submissive isn’t weak or quiet. She’s tuned to energy, tone, and presence. She softens when she feels safe and gives because it feels natural, not ***d. Her submission unfolds for a man who leads with confidence, patience, intelligence, and real control. I’m that kind of submissive. I enjoy teasing, tension, playful brattiness, and that slow build of chemistry that makes surrender feel earned. I’m drawn to men who can make me laugh, hold my attention, and settle my mind with their presence. I’m five feet tall with long curly hair and blue eyes. I stay active and spend a lot of time balancing work, motherhood, and keeping my world running. My evenings are usually a mix of kids, homework, cooking, movies, cleaning, and a little quiet time for myself. Face photos are something I share only with people in my area who show genuine effort and follow through. I love being outdoors in warm weather and relaxing into cozy indoor hobbies when it’s cold. I read constantly, I enjoy learning, and I like exploring dynamics with someone who values connection as much as play. I enjoy both soft, tender submission and the sharper, more mischievous edge of being bratty when the chemistry is right. I don’t live online. I prefer real conversations, real voices, and meeting in person once there is actual interest. Endless messaging does nothing for me. I’m looking for someone older, ideally between 40 and 55, who leads with presence rather than ego. Someone grounded, emotionally intelligent, communicative, quick-witted, and capable of talking about life, interests, and desires beyond just kink. A man with his own passions and stability who wants something real, not a collection of online subs. If you can hold a conversation, respect boundaries, bring both depth and a little filth, and show up like an adult when it matters, I’m open to seeing where things can grow.

Female (40) Stanwood, Washington

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InsaneUnicorn

I absolutely suck at bios sorry in advance. I'm a huge nerd, I love video games, comics, movies, drawing, reading & writing, I'm can be shy at first and value good conversations over anything else. I LOVE dad jokes hit me with your best ones! my BDSM history has been interesting started out as a SB and had some fun with being a Domme myself in various ways, had a Dom in 2019 which was interesting and would like to have some more fun in 2025 😉 I'll add more in bits, there's so much to fill out on here ☺️

Female (24) Silverdale, Washington

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xLyrqz

Hihi My name is Lyra Ive been interested in BDSM for a long time and am mainly submissive, though I can be dominant at times. My sub side is kinky but I often do not feel horny or want to participate in sexual activities. I find myself just being submissive as It helps me feel supported and regulated. I am hoping to find friends or people who can just guide me when I fall back a little. :) I am also just fine making friends and talking about bdsm as it is something I am passionate about. I’m not looking for anything in person as I am shy. Online is great! it also doesn’t have to be long term at all, whatever is best for you! (I do not send)

Female (18) Washougal, Washington

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I want a long term relationship built on power exchange. My submissive will be cherished, guided, disciplined, and deeply owned. If you’ve been searching for a confident woman to surrender to completely for life this is your sign

Female (37) Seattle, Washington

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SlickFox

I enjoy huge dildos and pushing those boundaries. I take pleasure in being as being shared. Interested in engaging in tag teams, gangbangs, bukkake, or multi-male group activities. I enjoy being a sub and being taken care of. Open to water sports.

Female (27) Bothell, Washington

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Briana00

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Female (40) Tracyton, Washington

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PNWGirl92

If you are not interested in LTR in the near future… do NOT waste my time. I don’t do hookups or sexting only. I have a very high sex drive and have a hard time finding a life partner that has similar drive but wants more than just something physical. That being said I am looking for a relationship/life partner and hoping that this site will help me find someone like minded when it comes to the physical part but that is also looking to move forward in life with someone. I am not looking for anything casual or strictly physical. I’m at a point in life where I want to find that someone who is attractive to more than just my body. Again, I am very into kinks, playing out fantasies, teasing, tension build up, etc. but I am looking to do that with someone who wants more than just the sex. If this seems like you please reach out and let’s get to know each other. I’m into D/S relationship (I’m a brat/sub). If you made it this far and you think we are both looking for the same things please message I would love to get to know you better.

Female (32) Seattle, Washington

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BigRed8835

"I've got a line up of girls, and a line up of guys beggin' for me just to give em a try." I'm quite simple and an open book feel free to ask. If you feel I'm being a CUNT please do NOT hesitate to kindly FUCK OFF! I do NOT have the energy to deal with grown ass men being little bitches so please find someone who thinks that shit is cute honey cuz I'm NOT the one for you ;) A helpful hint, Trim your nails first 😜 Does a hunt that has no *** feed anyone!

Female (37) Tacoma, Washington

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Mary0520

I value the richness of the soul. Reading, art, travel, and in-depth dialogues with different souls are the sources of nourishment, curiosity, and sharpness for me. I believe that the depth of thought and the warmth of conversation are the glory that time can never take away.

Female (35) Seattle, Washington

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HurtMe

I'm a submissive masochist. I crave *** and TPE. I live to please men. I need physical ***, mental control, hand to skin, being manhandle, dragged, kicked, ***d, slapped, punched, ***d, restrained, caged, ***.

Female (31) Richland, Washington

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BlueEnchantress

Hi, I’m a woman who doesn’t want to submit to fate. I have many hobbies and a lot of life experiences. I wish to have a father who truly understands and knows me; I long for the kind of love that exists between a father and daughter. My father always takes care of me with kindness and consideration. I don’t use *** and I’m very healthy; I get a full check-up every year. I like gentlemen who are humorous and witty, as well as elegant and artistic ladies. Please put away your photos of your penis—it’s really small, lol.

Female (35) Seattle, Washington

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kausest

I am ready to put all my affairs aside to find my great love here. I came here with great hope and a real sincere desire to meet my other half. Maybe you are reading these lines now and you are my destiny? My true desire is to be a gentle loving woman, the keeper of the family hearth and caring for my family and beloved man. I am cheerful, smart and kind. I have a lot of feminine energy, love and warmth that I would like to give to my beloved man

Female (44) Kent, Washington

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EmeraldMoon

im a taurus gal.. thats kids are grown so its my time to enjoy life to the fullest .. i have tattoos.. lots of thc so always fun and full of laughs..love the out doors.. but wasnt raised right cuz i dont share .lol

Female (51) Oak Harbor, Washington

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Elssy01

I am a charismatic and cheerful woman and it is very easy and comfortable to be with me . I am a sociable woman and find a common language with anyone . I never try to complicate my life or the lives of the people around me, I remain positive in all the situations that life presents.

Female (49) Seatac, Washington

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Sophie1990

I value honesty, kindness, and depth. I enjoy meaningful conversations more than small talk. I love good food, good company, and the occasional quiet night in. I’m looking for someone who communicates openly and appreciates the simple, real parts of life. Let’s build something steady and sincere.

Female (34) Seattle, Washington

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emily12-8537

I have a very good and kind heart.I am a responsive woman and I help for people who need it.My friends say that I have a great potential for love,tenderness and passion and they say that my future husband is very lucky to be with me.I think that you will notice my energy and my thirst for love and tenderness and we will build a relationship in real life.I'm ready for this.On this dating site I want to meet my only one with whom we will be happy all our lives together. Let's not miss this chance and act!!!

Female (35) Seattle, Washington

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ashley_moore

I’m Ashley confident, curious, and not shy about knowing what I like. I enjoy control, teasing, and exploring deeper desires. If you’re bold enough to match my energy and respectful enough to earn my trust, we’ll have a very good time together.

Female (35) Seattle, Washington

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Shelovian

I love life in all its manifestations: the sound of the sea, the aroma of coffee in the morning and the cheerful long walks.I love to discover new things: recently I began to master the art of consistency and I believe that there are still many victories ahead. The gym, walks in the fresh air, the road behind the wheel all this is part of my life, full of movement and smiles. I believe that true happiness is in simplicity: in ringing laughter, light hugs and in silence, where two people feel each other without words. I'm not perfect, but I'm sincere. I don't promise that it will always be easy but I promise to be there when it's hard. I know how to listen, support, inspire and when I give my heart it's real, deep and serious An ideal relationship for me is ease and trust. When you are next to a person and can be yourself, without masks and games. When respect, support and warmth become not an effort, but a natural state of two people. What kind of man is close to me? Kind, purposeful, with a sense of humor and with real care inside. Someone who knows how to appreciate the freedom of another and at the same time create a feeling of a strong rear. A person with whom life is filled with even more light. For me, the most important thing in a relationship is reciprocity. I believe that a couple should be a team, where both are a support and inspiration for each other. I'm not looking for a fairy-tale prince; I'm looking for a real man who is strong in spirit, with a sense of humor and a willingness to invest in the relationship just like I do. where could you want as to have our first date beautiful?……………………………………..please I don’t see likes so do well to send a message and i am sincerely gonna reply who knows there might be a spark.

Female (54) Gleed, Washington

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MakerPretty

Bisexual, demisexual, Polyamorous, neurospicy Goddess, Artist and Maker. I love learning and exploring, teaching and growing in as many ways as possible. I am a Goddess for the intelligent, talented, and creative submissives. For the strong, and quick witted who need someone smarter than them in control. I am a muse. I'm knowledgeable in things like mycology, many forms of art and craft, cooking and baking, games, psychology, fandom, anime, nature, gardening, witchcraft.... My interests and skills range vastly, both inside and outside of the bedroom. In short, I'm fun to talk to and can get specifically kinky with you, easily. Try me. I'm a very open minded, but also a very discerning Goddess. How can you be of service to me? You are valid! You are seen. You are heard.

Female (41) Seattle, Washington

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Aussiegalcoug

A heartbroken sub whose beloved Dom of two years had to move away and is now unable to continue a relationship. Looking to fall in love all over again, allowing me to totally give myself over to my forever partner and Dom going forward. I promise to show the right man not only my full and uncompromising submission but also an insatiable appetite for shared pleasure. I will become your everything, as you will be mine.

Female (52) Seattle, Washington

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LaeLi

I am LaeLi, not Lae not Li, LaeLi. LaeLi Heart is the full name, don’t act chummy by giving me a nickname when I don’t know you. Into cute emos, or blonde white hunks with chiseled jaws. Don’t ever: Call me ma’am, it’s really disrespectful to call people this as it makes them feel old. It’s a term of respect for people OLDER than 40. Tell me how to react or what to do or “Don’t let x bother you” I can do what I want, I’m a big girl. Be a creep in the first dm you send. I like people who have manners. Ask to meet up (I will decide) Ask for real life information Push me to far out of my comfort zone. I’m stubborn and will block. Stalk me. Tell me to “simmer down” it is seriously rude.

Female (28) Seattle, Washington

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Thick-Mouse

🌟 Playful Princess Seeking Her Playful Protector! 🌟 Hey there! I’m a 36-year-old enchanting enchantress at 280lbs and 5'6", ready to sprinkle some magic into your life. I’m equal parts nerdy and cheeky, embracing my awkward side with a grin. I’m a spirited extrovert with a touch of kink, looking for a daddy who can handle my playful moods and adore my curves! I thrive on connection and love to serve, curling up like a good little girl while adding some sassy charm. If you’re ready to embark on a delightful journey filled with laughter, love, and a sprinkle of mischief, let’s chat! Just remember, I might be a baby girl, but I also have a bratty side waiting to play. ✨

Female (36) Port Orchard, Washington

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Lyta

Fit, athletic, high-libido, woman-shaped body looking for a one-time or ongoing NSA situation with like-minded humans of any gender configuration. Enjoy being spanked/flogged/otherwise physically punished (within limits) intermixed with being given pleasure and being told I’m a good girl. Bit of a CNC vibe, but that obviously needs to be well-negotiated - I love a good ball gag. Have recently discovered that I am an avid rope bunny, looking for experienced Riggers to increase my exposure. Open to couples and other multiple-partner configurations. My bucket-list fantasy would be multiple men, either in a group setting or taking turns. Safety PSA: I am looking for someone who does not have hangups about the use of condoms for both our well-being - I understand that your breeding kink is important to you, but it’s not my jam.

Female (41) Seattle, Washington

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Freakz4geeks

I'm a Dom looking for submissive obedient pets! I'm in the US so if youre planning on being controlled online you better be obedient. Time is *** and I dont have time to waste on you sad pathetic ones not ready to submit. Have a great day

Female (40) Puyallup, Washington

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Briana00

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Female (40) Tracyton, Washington

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25, f, 5'5. sub. thick and squishy, handles and soft slappable parts all over. communist, native pinkish in color with long pullable hair size queen, thick and tight cnc/impact/baby brat little g, furry, gamer, rper, goth girl no fursuit only prey instincts forever a stoner, dabby darling a talented fuck, a quick learner ♡ would love an older woman to teach me some things stoned_ape on fetlife

Female (25) Spokane, Washington

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Beverln

I am a cheerful and happy woman. I am a positive and life loving person with a good sense of humor. I see good things in every day. I am reliable, faithful and know how to love. I love to travel and explore new places. I like to study the culture and cuisine of different countries of the world.

Female (41) Redmond, Washington

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Theek1997

Easygoing and adventurous, I love exploring new places and trying new things. I'm passionate about fishing and enjoy the beach. Looking for someone to share fun experiences with and build a genuine connection.

Female (30) Seattle, Washington

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Female (31) Richland, Washington

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BlueEnchantress

Female (35) Seattle, Washington

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Female (34) Seattle, Washington

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Jamaicangstring

I will always maintain a healthy and positive lifestyle. I believe happiness is a choice, and I actively work to banish negative thoughts and memories from my mind. I want a real relationship, I envision a reliable man by my side, someone who is not only responsible for his actions but also embodies a deep sense of love and commitment. Someone I can trust implicitly with my dreams and vulnerabilities. I'm naturally a shy type, so I might be a little quiet at first, but I'm a good listener. I'm curious to hear what you're passionate about, whether it's something in the kink world, a hobby, or what you're having for dinner

Female (35) Seattle, Washington

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Heyyy f21 here I have a 32size white milk that is in need of being drained to the last drop. I am looking to be cock or to just have fun!! add me on 👻 allisonqkxp

Female (26) Bellingham, Washington

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bbunnbbunn

Hewwo, you can call me little bun! 🐰💗 I am a little looking for a virtual daddy to take care of me, joke around, and have fun playtime with. Though you don’t need to be a sugar daddy, that would be a nice plus heheh

Female (22) Seattle, Washington

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ItRainsInSeattle

Sensuous female sub looking for male dominant Do you enjoy the power exchange? The excitement that a simple spoken word can dictate? Or the connection a simple touch can convey? I work, live alone & am looking a monogamous Dom to share a passion with. You, should be a gentleman outside the four walls of home & an exotic dominant within those four walls of home.

Female (65) Seattle, Washington

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SEOIFJ

I'm someone who loves the simple things in life good conversations, laughter, shared adventures, and quiet moments. Family and friends are very important to me, and I believe in building strong, genuine connections. I'm caring, loyal, and always try to see the best in people.

Female (47) Lakewood, Washington

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Female (37) Seattle, Washington

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Female (35) Seattle, Washington

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Tomboi

Have a lifelong belly/bellyache kink, that I’ve had a lot of shame about. But if someone was willing to explore it with me, that would blow my mind. 🥺 More generally, I tend to be attracted to submissive types. 💜 soft androgyny- fembois, soft butches. Not into being aggressively dominant though, maybe more like a service top? I just love seeing submissives writhe in pleasure…

Female (31) Bellevue, Washington

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Female (40) Puyallup, Washington

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sofi

sofi 🤞 From UK shores to US skies, 💫 A soul that moves with purpose and grace. Yoga flows and gym beats, Skincare rituals, a daily embrace.🤳 Investing wisely in stone and code, Family roots deep, ***hood’s light. Balancing wellness, work, and heart Living fully, shining bright. Wandering paths where nature calls,🏔🌎 Traveling wide, breaking walls. A foodie’s taste for life’s delight, Savoring flavors, day and night.🌙

Female (34) Seattle, Washington

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ashley_moore

Female (35) Seattle, Washington

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Elvira-6077

I'm a humorous, sincere, and life-loving woman. I hope to explore more possibilities together. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Female (35) Bremerton, Washington

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surprisequeen

It is very hard for me to describe myself, but I will try to tell the main thing about me. I am a kind, sincere and decent girl. I was born and raised in a village. My grandmother raised me all my childhood. She instilled in me the values of family and work. I am very hardworking and not afraid of difficulties. I go through life with a smile, although sometimes it is very difficult for me. If you are interested in my profile, give me a ssign I will be glad to tell you more about myself and get to know you.

Female (42) Puyallup, Washington

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Daddyskinkylittlegir

Looking for a sweet daddy to diaper me, bounce me on his knee, change me , cuddle me, feed me bottles, punish me when I misbehave and am naughty, give me baths, feeds me. I'm a 28 naughty little girl that wants to explore her fetish more deeply and to have a good time. Bellingham WA!

Female (28) Bellingham, Washington

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Spicy678

Looking someone special I can call my kinky for a kinky date. A friend I can trust and confide in. Wanting a LTR that could lead to something serious.

Female (43) Seattle, Washington

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rose-5323

I'm looking for someone to love for the rest of my life. Hopefully he's a kind and honest man who is very serious about getting into a long-term relationship. I am attracted to older men who have a lot of life and who also want to travel around the world in the future.

Female (47) Kent, Washington

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Michelle-2925

I am working as a hairstylist. My work is designing all kinds of hair for customers. If you will see me work, you will know how much I love doing it. I want to make others look good and confident. Personally, I am a kind and calm woman. I don't like fighting. I hate ***. That's why I hate drunk people who can't control themselves. I like adventurous things

Female (43) Seattle, Washington

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BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK Manchester

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i just realized i LOVE the idea of mutualism. sharing the woman i feel deeply for - with a man. because i’m a lesbian, and she’s a lesbian, but getting dicked down is just so fun! if you’re a lesbian in the treasure valley who feels the same way, hmu and we can chat! maybe we’ll even find a guy to play with us😉

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 80km around USA Nampa

Looking for a dadddy dom /boyfriend

Hey I'm a brat sub that is looking for daddy Dom that is experienced in the life style. I've been in the life style since 2020 but I'm looking for some one that I can build a daddy daughter relationship with in the bed room and be my partner out side of the bedroom but he has to be a safe space for me to be able to come to when life is hard n be very non judgemental about my active addiction must be local only and bwc only

Kinky Date ● 29 to 45 years ● 25km around USA Alpha

I wanna end my sexual celibacy streak but...

I haven't had sex in over 3 years, almost 4 now... I would say I miss sex but most sex I had was disappointing and I rarely got to finish, along with it always being pretty vanilla. I want to end my years of sexual celibacy...but insecurities about my weight (despite that I've been losing) and my anxiety have made it so hard to do so... plus my life situation is pretty complicated too... but I miss physical affection, and I love my couple toys but obviously it's not the same... especially cause I feel silly when I'm choking myself when getting off...
I really wanna start having sex again but I just hate hookup culture and I'm just worried I'll end up with people who are like my previous experiences: vanilla, no foreplay or aftercare, won't eat me out, and won't bother making sure I get off too...I dunno how to end this but I hope/ think my point is clear lol.

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I’m a dirty babygirl who wants a strong BBC Daddy to take control and ruin me.
I only kneel for a real man with real size. For one who knows how to take, use, and bend me to his will.

I want to kneel, obey, and get used the way a filthy girl like me should.

If you can make me feel safe, seen, and yours, I’ll become even wetter, needier, and sweeter. If you can handle that, tell me how you’d break me in.

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Inexperienced

Im willing to try almost anythinggg

Im extremely shy in person though but im better when u get to know me
Im also on the submissive side
Im plus size n insecure but i like being humiliated and degraded at the same time
I wanna be controlled and be told what to do and what to say
Im into breeding, and being d?

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