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What I’m Looking For: I’m looking for a connection that starts with mystery and builds slowly through conversation. Someone intelligent, sarcastic, perceptive, and confident—someone who doesn’t reveal everything about himself right away, but knows how to keep me curious, engaged, and thinking about him long after we stop talking. I’m drawn to a man who can read me well, challenge me, and take the lead with a quiet, unmistakable authority. I like confidence, control, and a playful dominant energy that can become more intense when trust has been established. Someone who can tell me what he thinks instead of simply agreeing with me, tease me without being cruel, and push back when I test him. I want someone who can make me feel a little off-balance—in the best possible way—without ever losing sight of my boundaries. I’d love for the connection to develop through increasingly personal conversations, phone calls, and late-night talks. A controlled, commanding voice and a sharp sense of humor are especially attractive to me. I like the tension of not knowing everything at once, the anticipation of being gradually drawn in, and the feeling that someone is learning exactly how to get under my skin. Physically, I’m drawn to someone lean and muscular, tattooed, and a little intimidating. But more important than appearance is presence: someone self-assured, composed, and comfortable taking control. I eventually want to meet in person and explore a sexual dynamic where he dominates me with rough, ***ful intensity while remaining attentive to my pleasure. I want to feel restrained, challenged, and pushed past my usual resistance while knowing that everything is consensual, negotiated, and grounded in trust. Even when I’m at his mercy, I want him focused on pleasing me—reading my reactions, respecting my limits, and making sure the intensity is something I genuinely want. Ultimately, I’m looking for a slow-burn connection built on chemistry, trust, anticipation, and a strong psychological dynamic. I want to feel challenged, intrigued, and desired while gradually surrendering control to someone who has earned it. I want the tension to build until giving in feels less like a decision and more like something he has carefully, patiently, and knowingly drawn out of me—leading eventually to an intense, consensual sexual encounter where anything is possible. Are you smart enough to catch me? 😘 I’m not looking for a boyfriend. I am looking for a long term on/off dark romance or a one time hookup. I’m extremely picky in whom I choose to engage with. The chemistry has to be there from the start. I play the submissive part well and crave domination, but I can be very mouthy. I will cut you off at the first sign of any drama (wives, girlfriends, etc) interfering. No sugar daddies please. I make my own ***. No unsolicited dick pics. Cheesy pick up lines will get ignored. Apparently I need to make it clear that baby/diaper stuff/shit and furries /*** role play are not my thing. They are both a huge turn off. Any ***phile stuff will get you reported and blocked immediately.
Female (38) Fitchburg, Wisconsin
I am a Dominant woman with lots to offer the right mature man. I am a sweet calm and wonderful woman in my daily life and doings. I carry myself with grace and wear my heart on my sleeves. My neighbors will think I am that nice lady next door BUT I am a KINKY disciplinarian at heart. I am very sociable and easy to talk to. I want our intimacy to deepen as we get know one another. I want us to communicate openly and honestly. I want us to build trust, to grow and explore together. The connection between a devout servant and Domme. I am very experienced in all the kinky things also in living my lifestyle as an independent woman, doing my domestic chores but not limited to housework, laundry done properly, cooking and gardening. I'm also quite athletic. I look forward to taking control of these spaces with kinky sweetness and kindness from the heart and great care of my future partner in a FLR BUT as a Dominant woman who will put you in your place when you step out of line. There will be a process where you will be trained to adapt to the important things in the kinky life, you will understand it and follow the rules based on how suitable it is for our time.. I am active outdoors as well and I intend to catch up on having a lot of fun allover the world. Sensual, serious and disciplinary corrections are also important in our daily life. You have to know, learn and adapt to how to please me physically, emotionally and sexually. I hope I am clear. Now if you fell that you are the one then get in touch with me then we can take it from there. Thank you.
Female (36) Milwaukee, Wisconsin
I’m back after deleting my old profile. For now I am looking to make friends and to learn more about the kinky world. Also, I DO NOT mess with couples or anyone that is attached in any way. I DO NOT MEET UP. That said, I will be friends (platonic) with anyone. After a lot of trial and error I have finally figured out that I prefer building a connection/getting to know someone before I even consider anything other than friendship.
Female (48) Stoughton, Wisconsin
Dominant Female 57 looking for service sub/sissy for cleaning, errands, etc. I like someone who dresses and is experienced. I'm starting over and new to the area. Very selective; screening is required. LaCrosse, WI area.
Female (57) La Crosse, Wisconsin
What i seek for is simple and laid out in the book of proverbs. I want a bold and responsible man. One that can stay right behind me and make me his priority. One that can handle issues amicably and doesn`t *** to say the truth or correct me. One that solves disputes and have time to listen his to his woman. I want a lover not a fighter.
Female (43) Milwaukee, Wisconsin
If you have no clothes on, or think that I want to see your naughty bits, please refrain from sending a message. You're sadly mistaken. I suggest you let that one marinate. I work full time and don't have room for bullshit. I have my shit together, and thrive and take pride in routine and structure. - that said, don't be whining or demanding if I am busy. You won't like the lack of response you get. I have been in this lifestyle since my first boyfriend way back when - early years. Haven't really had it any other way, as vanilla relationships seem boring and not enough for me. I like my men a little slap happy... keeps me on my toes knowing I can't sling out disrespect. I would like to have an intelligent conversation... if that's possible. you know, ya kinda gotta prime the brain before you F*** it type of thing. 50% sarcasm 20% dark humor 19% regret on my behavior 1% naivety 10% bad language
Female (28) Green Bay, Wisconsin
I’m 37 single hoping for the best I am an intelligent, sensitive, creative, woman who is working on becoming the person I have been called to be. I have a tendency to be a bit idealistic and romantic, but also logical and practical. At first I can be a bit reserved, but open up once I get to know you. I love and value learning, reading, and connecting with other people. I enjoy good food, music, art, culture, movies and engaging conversation.
Female (37) Milwaukee, Wisconsin
Confident, classy, and naturally dominant, I know what I want and value respect, loyalty, and genuine dedication. I’m seeking a submissive man who takes pride in serving, communicating openly, and earning my trust. I have a particular appreciation for mature, older gentlemen who are respectful, emotionally intelligent, and comfortable embracing a female-led dynamic. If you’re sincere, devoted, and ready to serve a strong Mistress, I’d love to hear from you.
Hi, I'm a little girl looking for a daddy i love being in a diaper and using it i also love the idea of being tied up. I would love to try other kinks too I also have a disability that means I can't drive but I'm highly capable of taking care of myself so if interested please message me
Female (32) Beloit, Wisconsin
Hello Lovelies! I’m looking for my very own girlfriend/***wife! Looking to spread the love, peace, and joy!
Female (26) Menasha, Wisconsin
Looking to meet new people and maybe see where things go if we click. I've got a busy life but will make time for the right man. Show me what a real man is like and let me be the passenger for a while I'm also a size queen... sorry anyone who's under 7 inches but I just can't feel anything 🤷‍♀️
Female (31) Sheboygan Falls, Wisconsin
Hey, I'm a 18 year old female located near Chicago, closer to Milwaukee, I have a fart fetish, I'm interested in talking to other women who also have this fetish. I'm lesbian !!!!!!!
Female (18) Milwaukee, Wisconsin
I’m a 57-year-old widow looking to find a man in the central Wisconsin area. Must be between the ages of 52 and 65. I am not a sub in any way. I am a switch. I’m looking to start a long-term relationship. No hook ups. No friends with benefits. Must drive. Must have teeth preferably a non-smoker. Want to enjoy an active sex life with somebody that is not vanilla. Would like to experiment with different forms of kink. Very much a sensualist. Not looking for a Dom. Can’t see likes need to message
Female (57) Merrill, Wisconsin
looking to meet new people and enjoy new experiences together.
Female (46) Lancaster, Wisconsin
I am a lady who has embraced her sexuality with depth and honesty. I’ve explored enough to know that the conventional has never satisfied me, I crave the raw energy that comes from power exchange. Sex, for me, isn’t just about pleasure, it’s about intensity, control, and the way desire sharpens when roles are clearly defined. I love the way a submissive’s body responds when I push limits, the way surrender deepens connection, and how kink turns intimacy into something unforgettable.
Female (52) Green Bay, Wisconsin
I'm demisexual and well I'm a brat lol, I'm new so just message me don't be shy but also don't just message me asking to fuck or play......not gonna happen. I don't want anything fake I want something serious if u don't want anything serious then don't message me.
Female (26) Milwaukee, Wisconsin
I’m Reginae a lifelong ice skater looking for a partner to share ice(and maybe a little hockey competition)not VVIP leave a mean (s) to get at you My life! VII I IV VII V VIII VI VII 0 I my l CT ife is a gift! And sharing it with loved once’s makes it heavenly VII I IV VII V VIII VI VII 0 I From low-key coffee dates to exciting escape rooms,there are so many options for fun first date
Female (43) Greenfield, Wisconsin
I have a laid-back personality and am currently looking for a partner who is safe, clean, and where both parties can be happy. Love life and always eager to take on new adventures.
Female (34) Adell, Wisconsin
married with 2 kids. My husband is very vanilla and is allowing me to explore my kinks with someone else. Don't get me wrong, he satisfies me. he's trying to step out of his comfort zone but he knows I want more and he can't give me more.
Female (39) Fox Lake, Wisconsin
I want to find a man who wants to get to know me and love me for me and i want a long term relationship, hopefully someday he would ask me to marry him and we would live the rest of our life together as friends, partners and lovers.
Female (34) Green Bay, Wisconsin
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Female (33) Milwaukee, Wisconsin
Some things about me are that I travel for work often since I work Renaissance fairs. Been to a couple cool places but that means my life is mostly in the road. my hobbies include magic the gathering mono green for life and dnd. I'm also currently learning how to play the violin
Female (24) Wilmot, Wisconsin
I love traveling, MN Wild, Modelo, Skewball, wine tasting, Rum & Dt Cokes, wrestling, hunting, fishing, pontoon rides, cookouts, getting my nails done, reading smutt, hanging with the Warden (My GSD), and mostly my kids. Retook my test... def a sub I’m new NEW. I’m ready to explore. Vanilla is okay, I’d just like more. If you’re beyond 100 miles—just pass. I cannot host as I have hella roommates (aka ***agers) that would roast tf outta me. Into playmates that are respectful, responsible, can show a clean bill of sexual health—I am not into heavy chatting or cyber sexting/video. If I want porn I got the hub. I am not interested in a relationship of any kind. BBW—I am short and big! 💋
Female (43) Hayward, Wisconsin
Sometimes people suck. But hey, I try to at least make people smile. I'm a married gal who loves her husband, but wants to explore online and have some fun friends to talk to. I love ***s, nature, beaches. I am only on here occasionally so if I don't respond right away don't worry. I always come back.
Female (45) Plover, Wisconsin

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What I’m Looking For: I’m looking for a connection that starts with mystery and builds slowly through conversation. Someone intelligent, sarcastic, perceptive, and confident—someone who doesn’t reveal everything about himself right away, but knows how to keep me curious, engaged, and thinking about him long after we stop talking. I’m drawn to a man who can read me well, challenge me, and take the lead with a quiet, unmistakable authority. I like confidence, control, and a playful dominant energy that can become more intense when trust has been established. Someone who can tell me what he thinks instead of simply agreeing with me, tease me without being cruel, and push back when I test him. I want someone who can make me feel a little off-balance—in the best possible way—without ever losing sight of my boundaries. I’d love for the connection to develop through increasingly personal conversations, phone calls, and late-night talks. A controlled, commanding voice and a sharp sense of humor are especially attractive to me. I like the tension of not knowing everything at once, the anticipation of being gradually drawn in, and the feeling that someone is learning exactly how to get under my skin. Physically, I’m drawn to someone lean and muscular, tattooed, and a little intimidating. But more important than appearance is presence: someone self-assured, composed, and comfortable taking control. I eventually want to meet in person and explore a sexual dynamic where he dominates me with rough, ***ful intensity while remaining attentive to my pleasure. I want to feel restrained, challenged, and pushed past my usual resistance while knowing that everything is consensual, negotiated, and grounded in trust. Even when I’m at his mercy, I want him focused on pleasing me—reading my reactions, respecting my limits, and making sure the intensity is something I genuinely want. Ultimately, I’m looking for a slow-burn connection built on chemistry, trust, anticipation, and a strong psychological dynamic. I want to feel challenged, intrigued, and desired while gradually surrendering control to someone who has earned it. I want the tension to build until giving in feels less like a decision and more like something he has carefully, patiently, and knowingly drawn out of me—leading eventually to an intense, consensual sexual encounter where anything is possible. Are you smart enough to catch me? 😘 I’m not looking for a boyfriend. I am looking for a long term on/off dark romance or a one time hookup. I’m extremely picky in whom I choose to engage with. The chemistry has to be there from the start. I play the submissive part well and crave domination, but I can be very mouthy. I will cut you off at the first sign of any drama (wives, girlfriends, etc) interfering. No sugar daddies please. I make my own ***. No unsolicited dick pics. Cheesy pick up lines will get ignored. Apparently I need to make it clear that baby/diaper stuff/shit and furries /*** role play are not my thing. They are both a huge turn off. Any ***phile stuff will get you reported and blocked immediately.
Female (38) Fitchburg, Wisconsin
I’m 37 single hoping for the best I am an intelligent, sensitive, creative, woman who is working on becoming the person I have been called to be. I have a tendency to be a bit idealistic and romantic, but also logical and practical. At first I can be a bit reserved, but open up once I get to know you. I love and value learning, reading, and connecting with other people. I enjoy good food, music, art, culture, movies and engaging conversation.
Female (37) Milwaukee, Wisconsin
What i seek for is simple and laid out in the book of proverbs. I want a bold and responsible man. One that can stay right behind me and make me his priority. One that can handle issues amicably and doesn`t *** to say the truth or correct me. One that solves disputes and have time to listen his to his woman. I want a lover not a fighter.
Female (43) Milwaukee, Wisconsin
I am a Dominant woman with lots to offer the right mature man. I am a sweet calm and wonderful woman in my daily life and doings. I carry myself with grace and wear my heart on my sleeves. My neighbors will think I am that nice lady next door BUT I am a KINKY disciplinarian at heart. I am very sociable and easy to talk to. I want our intimacy to deepen as we get know one another. I want us to communicate openly and honestly. I want us to build trust, to grow and explore together. The connection between a devout servant and Domme. I am very experienced in all the kinky things also in living my lifestyle as an independent woman, doing my domestic chores but not limited to housework, laundry done properly, cooking and gardening. I'm also quite athletic. I look forward to taking control of these spaces with kinky sweetness and kindness from the heart and great care of my future partner in a FLR BUT as a Dominant woman who will put you in your place when you step out of line. There will be a process where you will be trained to adapt to the important things in the kinky life, you will understand it and follow the rules based on how suitable it is for our time.. I am active outdoors as well and I intend to catch up on having a lot of fun allover the world. Sensual, serious and disciplinary corrections are also important in our daily life. You have to know, learn and adapt to how to please me physically, emotionally and sexually. I hope I am clear. Now if you fell that you are the one then get in touch with me then we can take it from there. Thank you.
Female (36) Milwaukee, Wisconsin
Dominant Female 57 looking for service sub/sissy for cleaning, errands, etc. I like someone who dresses and is experienced. I'm starting over and new to the area. Very selective; screening is required. LaCrosse, WI area.
Female (57) La Crosse, Wisconsin
Sub looking for a Dom. Not looking for a hookup. My life is busy and my work is demanding(mentally and emotionally). I know what I want in my life/future and I want someone who can show up completely, handle my attitude and be ready for an occasional challenge. I will be a challenge sooner or later. Hopefully it will be fun, in the end. I have some wildly odd hobbies, slightly alt lifestyle (not referencing *this* lifestyle) and quite frankly a strong personality that is both soft, fire, and everything in between.
Female (37) La Crosse, Wisconsin
Hey, I'm a 18 year old female located near Chicago, closer to Milwaukee, I have a fart fetish, I'm interested in talking to other women who also have this fetish. I'm lesbian !!!!!!!
Female (18) Milwaukee, Wisconsin
I am a lady who has embraced her sexuality with depth and honesty. I’ve explored enough to know that the conventional has never satisfied me, I crave the raw energy that comes from power exchange. Sex, for me, isn’t just about pleasure, it’s about intensity, control, and the way desire sharpens when roles are clearly defined. I love the way a submissive’s body responds when I push limits, the way surrender deepens connection, and how kink turns intimacy into something unforgettable.
Female (52) Green Bay, Wisconsin
Confident, classy, and naturally dominant, I know what I want and value respect, loyalty, and genuine dedication. I’m seeking a submissive man who takes pride in serving, communicating openly, and earning my trust. I have a particular appreciation for mature, older gentlemen who are respectful, emotionally intelligent, and comfortable embracing a female-led dynamic. If you’re sincere, devoted, and ready to serve a strong Mistress, I’d love to hear from you.
I just want to be taken out in the woods, ***d down to the ground, and made to take your cock and cum while I fight to get away. I won't tell if you don't tell.
Female (26) Janesville, Wisconsin
Looking to meet new people and maybe see where things go if we click. I've got a busy life but will make time for the right man. Show me what a real man is like and let me be the passenger for a while I'm also a size queen... sorry anyone who's under 7 inches but I just can't feel anything 🤷‍♀️
Female (31) Sheboygan Falls, Wisconsin
I’m a 57-year-old widow looking to find a man in the central Wisconsin area. Must be between the ages of 52 and 65. I am not a sub in any way. I am a switch. I’m looking to start a long-term relationship. No hook ups. No friends with benefits. Must drive. Must have teeth preferably a non-smoker. Want to enjoy an active sex life with somebody that is not vanilla. Would like to experiment with different forms of kink. Very much a sensualist. Not looking for a Dom. Can’t see likes need to message
Female (57) Merrill, Wisconsin
I have a laid-back personality and am currently looking for a partner who is safe, clean, and where both parties can be happy. Love life and always eager to take on new adventures.
Female (34) Adell, Wisconsin
I Am A DOMO Looking For SUBS!!!! I Have RULES You WIll Abide By, No Ands, If Or Buts About It!!! Pictures Will Be Uploaded Soon. Once This Page Fully Running,
Female (32) Milwaukee, Wisconsin
married with 2 kids. My husband is very vanilla and is allowing me to explore my kinks with someone else. Don't get me wrong, he satisfies me. he's trying to step out of his comfort zone but he knows I want more and he can't give me more.
Female (39) Fox Lake, Wisconsin
Hi, I'm a little girl looking for a daddy i love being in a diaper and using it i also love the idea of being tied up. I would love to try other kinks too I also have a disability that means I can't drive but I'm highly capable of taking care of myself so if interested please message me
Female (32) Beloit, Wisconsin
I love traveling, MN Wild, Modelo, Skewball, wine tasting, Rum & Dt Cokes, wrestling, hunting, fishing, pontoon rides, cookouts, getting my nails done, reading smutt, hanging with the Warden (My GSD), and mostly my kids. Retook my test... def a sub I’m new NEW. I’m ready to explore. Vanilla is okay, I’d just like more. If you’re beyond 100 miles—just pass. I cannot host as I have hella roommates (aka ***agers) that would roast tf outta me. Into playmates that are respectful, responsible, can show a clean bill of sexual health—I am not into heavy chatting or cyber sexting/video. If I want porn I got the hub. I am not interested in a relationship of any kind. BBW—I am short and big! 💋
Female (43) Hayward, Wisconsin
Hello Lovelies! I’m looking for my very own girlfriend/***wife! Looking to spread the love, peace, and joy!
Female (26) Menasha, Wisconsin
looking to meet new people and enjoy new experiences together.
Female (46) Lancaster, Wisconsin
I’m Reginae a lifelong ice skater looking for a partner to share ice(and maybe a little hockey competition)not VVIP leave a mean (s) to get at you My life! VII I IV VII V VIII VI VII 0 I my l CT ife is a gift! And sharing it with loved once’s makes it heavenly VII I IV VII V VIII VI VII 0 I From low-key coffee dates to exciting escape rooms,there are so many options for fun first date
Female (43) Greenfield, Wisconsin
Some things about me are that I travel for work often since I work Renaissance fairs. Been to a couple cool places but that means my life is mostly in the road. my hobbies include magic the gathering mono green for life and dnd. I'm also currently learning how to play the violin
Female (24) Wilmot, Wisconsin
I want to find a man who wants to get to know me and love me for me and i want a long term relationship, hopefully someday he would ask me to marry him and we would live the rest of our life together as friends, partners and lovers.
Female (34) Green Bay, Wisconsin
I’m back after deleting my old profile. For now I am looking to make friends and to learn more about the kinky world. Also, I DO NOT mess with couples or anyone that is attached in any way. I DO NOT MEET UP. That said, I will be friends (platonic) with anyone. After a lot of trial and error I have finally figured out that I prefer building a connection/getting to know someone before I even consider anything other than friendship.
Female (48) Stoughton, Wisconsin
If you have no clothes on, or think that I want to see your naughty bits, please refrain from sending a message. You're sadly mistaken. I suggest you let that one marinate. I work full time and don't have room for bullshit. I have my shit together, and thrive and take pride in routine and structure. - that said, don't be whining or demanding if I am busy. You won't like the lack of response you get. I have been in this lifestyle since my first boyfriend way back when - early years. Haven't really had it any other way, as vanilla relationships seem boring and not enough for me. I like my men a little slap happy... keeps me on my toes knowing I can't sling out disrespect. I would like to have an intelligent conversation... if that's possible. you know, ya kinda gotta prime the brain before you F*** it type of thing. 50% sarcasm 20% dark humor 19% regret on my behavior 1% naivety 10% bad language
Female (28) Green Bay, Wisconsin

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