Kinky women in Australia

G'day, I am one of the community volunteer greeters here in the FET Universe, please hit me up if you need any help or guidance! You may have also received a welcome message from me, it's great to have you join the community. Also just to let you know, I am real person and not a bot, so please feel free to say Hi :relaxed: . If you received a Treasure Hunt item from me, was just sharing the love around but sorry to say you missed out on the fun as the hunt is now over. Not to worry there’s always bound to be another before you know it. . Also while you’re here, just remember to be kind to one another and that everyone needs a little bit of love. xoxo . If you are looking for some educational content on BDSM, please hit me up and I can share some forum content links with you. . Outside the above....thank you for checking out my profile…..please strap yourself in, my profile is ridiculously long, so grab yourself some popcorn, some chockie, a drink and get comfy, it’s going to be a long while before you come up for air ;) Sense of humour is a must! . Just a little bit of housekeeping, being rude will not get you anywhere, so don't be a twit, mind your manners and please be kind. . Also, as much as I love a good perv, seeing your pecker as an opening message while I am chowing down on my Weetbix is not my idea of protein in my diet. So big hint here, please just Don’t !!!! . I have several photos locked in my private gallery, please note that I **do not** give access unless I have known you for a very long time. The more you hassle me about gaining access the more I am likely not to give access. Please also be kind enough to chat to me first before sending through any friend requests. . Don’t like BBW’s………no worries, you know where the door is . I am also **NOT** a Domme, nor do I wish to be one.....so trying to convince me otherwise is fruitless......please exit, left or right, whichever is the fastest......there are some lovely Domme’s out there but this Pixie ain’t one or will ever be one. . Thank you for the marriage proposals but I can honestly do without them.....so let’s cut to the chase and save time....the answer is a respectful "not interested".....plus I look dreadful in white ;) . Geographical content – I live in Australia just in case you didn’t know it’s at the bottom of the world……. yes, I own a car but no sorry it doesn’t float on water, so no I can’t drive to you. I also don't fancy myself as a shark biscuit, so nope can't swim to you either. . So about me hey? Well, I'm not quite the average Pixie....... . I am a large BBW and comfortable in my own skin. I have more health issues than the alphabet should seriously allow, but that's life and I tend to just get on with it. They do however affect my daily life, so if you would like to know more, you are welcome to ask me. . You will never know what you will get with me, I am a bit of a Pandora’s box………. quirky, eccentric and totally weird. I am also an Aussie so expect the unexpected. I am very strong minded, stubborn and also very determined, so please don't ever limit me as I will prove you wrong, time and time again. . I love to laugh, and my humour is out there and if you don’t get it that’s ok, I do and that’s all that matters but if I can make you laugh or smile even better. To make someone smile, makes me smile . I am an alpha sub, intelligent, mischievous, cheeky and quite frankly a bit of a smart arse at times. . Lingerie and nails are high up on my list of things I love and will try to be creative with both. I think my dear old Nan will be most happy to see I no longer bite my nails and be quite chuffed her bribe of $5 eventually paid off :relaxed: and incase you are wondering, yes they are my real nails and I do my own nail art in my photos. . Music is my happy place, as are sparkles ✨✨and rainbows :rainbow: I love hearing new tunes and discovering artists that I have not heard before, so please feel free to share any of your favourites. . I am also an auralist, I love certain sounds, so if you can read IKEA instructions like a Shakespearean masterpiece, you will most certainly have my ears ;) . I totally dislike drama, so if you have any please check it at the door. Life is precious, enjoy what you can instead of dwelling on what cannot be changed and is in the past. . I’m very much a Sapiosexual, intelligence turns me on, as does a good convo and a good mind f*ck…… seek out my mind and you have a window into my soul. Idle chat bores me to tears, so please don't be boring..... . I enjoy being busy otherwise I get bored very quickly and tend to have a heap of things on the go all at once but if you’re my friend and you're having a hard time and need a friendly ear, I will drop everything without hesitation. . I really, really love to write, particularly poetry. If you’re brave enough, you can take a trip down the rabbit hole and look inside the mad musings of my mind. To view via the mobile website Fetish.com, sign on using same id and password as the app……from there, tap photo right hand side of screen, tap Browse heading and in the search area type the title of the poem, then scroll down to discussions heading and you should see it, tap heading and it will take you straight to the poem. A list of the titles of my poems are below. . A Valentine’s prayer The seductress A private gallery by any other name Unfettered Looking in A Kinkmas Carol…We wish you a kinky Kinkmas A Kinkmas Carol…God rest ye merry, kinky ones A Kinkmas Carol…Oh, what fun (co-written with lil-monster) A Kinkmas Carol...Cum he told me A Kinkmas Carol…I want a Domly Dom for Kinkmas A Kinkmas Carol…Away in a Dungeon A Kinkmas Carol…Bouncing boobies Down the Rabbit hole I go The FET Family singalong Linger Charred Crave Everyone needs a good sub (co-written with Fathership) Ten commands poem (co-written with Fathership) Vexed Brushstrokes Ghost A few good sins Whore A ballad of fragility What am I ? 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Hello, I'm somewhat new to this sort of stuff. single, 23, Victoria. I am not looking for a serious relationship only friends with benefits. I do not have much experience but am always eager to try something new.

Milf, 40s, Black. Size 10-12, fit, athletic/curvy build, healthy C cup with nipples that need attention. Sydney metro. Discreet, can’t host. Fair warning: I have a sharp tongue and not much patience. If you can’t handle direct, we won’t get far. **What I’m Looking For** Casual or semi-regular ANR/ABF sessions with the right person (20-45). I’m currently dry but would love to relactate with someone patient and consistent. **To be clear:** this is about nursing, not more. It’s also not a domme/sub dynamic, nor mummy/son roleplay. Just intimate, adult nursing with the right connection. If you’re looking for something else, keep scrolling. That said, a little edging while sucking never hurt anyone. **What I’m Not Looking For** Hook ups or booty calls Flakes, one-word messages, or anyone who can’t follow through, so if you’re unsure, don’t bother. Discretion is non-negotiable. **If This Speaks to You** Message me with what interests you and your availability. Skip the “hey.”

YOU MAKE ME SICK 😒🤏🏼 BBW B!tch 💋 Let me hurt humiliate and degrade you while I get all wet and juicy enjoying watching you squirm and squeal beneath me 💦 Subs, slaves, Masochists where are you at 😈 🔥🍆👠🍒🔗🔐$ Send me through any request you may have for content I also sell socks and underwear if you enjoy being a dirty little pervert 😈

Submissive with a brat streak — I don’t behave unless you give me a reason to. I like structure, control, and someone who can keep me exactly where I belong. I’ll test you, push back, and be a little trouble… just to see if you can handle it properly. If you can’t, I lose interest fast. I enjoy a firm hand and a bit of sting — the kind that leaves a reminder. If “5 finger necklace” means something to you, we’ll get along just fine. What I’m looking for is calm, confident dominance — not loud, not performative. Someone who doesn’t need to announce control because it’s obvious in the way they carry themselves. Respect, communication, and aftercare matter. If you know what you’re doing, I’m all yours. If you don’t, I’ll know. Vibe: Bratty. Playful. Likes to be put in her place — properly

I command with intention and expect the same in return. My leadership is rooted in psychological insight, disciplined structure, and the craft of nurturing a submissive’s evolution through guidance and authority. Authenticity, emotional depth, and unwavering dedication to service are non-negotiable. Submission isn’t a performance it’s a calling. If you’re drawn to a dynamic with a confident, driven woman who values respect and purpose, engage with honesty and self-awareness. I have zero tolerance for insincerity, laziness, or those who confuse submission with subservience

Been here for a little. Such fun people on here. honestly still trying things so down for anything still prefer dominant people though I don’t do online stuff

Open minded submissive after a D/S relationship, whether long term or FWB’s. My biggest turn on is a dirty talking Dom. I only respond to messages with face pics, sorry guys.

just here to have fun and talk to people ⚠️please don't text me right off the bat telling me what you'll do to me, i'll just block you because it makes me uncomfortable.⚠️ i am still very open to talking though, don't be scared

I’m a busy independent solo mum who likes some kinky fun in my free time. Looking for NSA, FWB, confident experienced Dom that can make me forget about all my worldly problems and transport me to a place of pleasure, ***, sensation and ecstay. I love a good dark sense of humor and appreciate intellectual connection. Unapologetic pothead (medical 😉) I’m fairly time poor, and time blind when it comes to messaging and chat etc. happy to plan my weekends off in advance if you’re localish and we click.

Hi there loves 💖 I am Becky I am pansexual, a lover of nature and I love to model and take photography I am into a range of different things I love guys and girls equally I am a princess and identify as a few different things Looking for a Daddy that treats me like i deserve to be spoiled like the princess i am! I'm 34 years young, I'm curvy I am into fetishes, and also identify as a middle (ddlg) around 12ish, which can be a kink but also just who I am, so it's something that is 24/7 for me. I need a ddy who can be compassionate, empathetic, sensitive, understanding, someone who can listen and help me through this awful world, someone who can protect me. NOT CASUAL, NOT POLY, MONOGAMOUS ONLY given how I am i can only ever live this 24/7 with someone i can trust and i fall too easily for people for me to ever do casual and i get far too jealous to ever be poly I also have medical conditions so they include: complex ptsd, anxiety disorder, epilepsy, fibromyalgia, two rods in my spine so fused and leaving me in chronic *** with limited flexibility etc. I have no colon so have short bowel syndrome i also have autism == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 98% Little 89% Ageplayer 87% Brat 87% Submissive 72% Vanilla 63% Rope bunny 63% Exhibitionist 50% Master/Mistress 49% Masochist 45% Primal (Prey) 44% Switch 17% Experimentalist 14% Dominant 9% Sadist 9% Slave 7% Owner 5% Rigger 4% Voyeur 3% Pet 2% Primal (Hunter) 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Brat tamer 0% Degrader 0% Degradee 0% Non-monogamist

I am vastly experienced in correcting male wrongdoing and offer role play scenarios ranging from a good smacked bottom from a matriarchal/ strict step mom/ authoritative auntie figure to judicial canings from a uniformed officer.My punishment room has a large, and greatly varied selection of disciplinary implements. The range is as eye popping as their effects are eye watering!!Straps, tawse , plimsolls, floggers , belts , paddles and My personal favourite Canes.Lots and lots of canes. I adore canes, maximum effect, minimum effort. My backhand is well practised, too. Lets have beautiful stripes on both cheeks.If all this seems a bit too severe.My right hand offers a spanking experience that will give You a warm glow for days.For BDSM enthusiasts I offer ball and nipple as well as wonderful deep peggings.I offer unhurried sessions (indoors and outdoors). You will greeted with a friendly smile by your Goddess with an and experienced old disciplinarian.

Just a shy submissive introvert (ISFJ-T) who hates coffee… shocking I know 💁🏻‍♀️ navigating life with a sprinkle of sass👸🏻… When I’m not overthinking, you’ll find me cleaning my way to clarity one dust bunny 🐰 at a time or reading smutty tales, the darker the better currently😏📚… I love sharks, otters, dinosaurs, volcanoes, thunderstorms, snow, trash tv 🍿… I also think i'm hilarious whether that's true remains to be seen😂 BDSM Test 98% Submissive 78% Masochist 78% Rope bunny 75% Voyeur 66% Brat 62% Primal (Prey) 60% Little 60% Vanilla 52% Slave 44% Experimentalist 28% Exhibitionist

This is probably a waste of time. However, here goes: Rubberdoll slave seeking dom couple owners Hello! I am an experienced slave and rubberdoll looking ideally for a similarly experienced and skilled dominant couple, preferably also into rubber and wishing to have a serious rubber discipline household. I run a kink business and have a life here so I am unable to shift overseas at short notice , however I have everything needed once others moved here. I would like to establish a home within the Brisbane / Gold Coast hinterland area, (that's AUSTRALIA) however I am happy to entertain possibilities for the time being. If you have advanced skills or at least truly wish to own a doll and have objectives in mind, are local or able to relocate here, then I'd love to hear from you! Please, newbies or swingers, this is not for you. I am not just seeking play, cyber, or NSA.Looking for kinky friends for fun, dates, skillshare, experimentation, events, and to build a household. And need also helpers for the latex clothing label!

Love being admired, teased, and taken slow… the kind of chemistry that starts with flirty chats and ends with me pinned down, breathless, and begging for more. If you’re in NSW, dominant/verbal, and think you can make this curvy minx blush… slide in with something cheeky. Boring gets ignored. 💋

For me, dominance is about energy, presence, and control of the mind before the body. I enjoy guiding a submissive into vulnerability and watching them thrive under firm direction. I’m seeking someone open to exploration, growth, and new experiences within a safe and consensual framework. Chemistry matters. Intelligence matters. Respect matters. If you crave surrender and understand that true submission begins in the mind, introduce yourself properly.

I am a masochistic brat who enjoys good, rough fun. I enjoy pushing my Dom’s buttons and testing my limits. While I consider myself a ‘good’ slave, my submission does not come easily and I need a Dom who is experienced in handling and playing with bratty slaves. Overall, I am just after a good fun time. Some of my most fave things to do are impact play, breathplay, bondage, public *** and ***. In trusted dynamics, I enjoy CNC and primal/outdoor play, *** play and knife play. You can also find me on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Lilbratkaylah358?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator

I'm seeking a generous partner who is interested in exploring a power dynamic where I take on a dominant role. Someone who is enthusiastic about embracing their submissive side and is willing to communicate openly about their desires and boundaries. A partner who values and respects my dominant nature and is willing to submit to my leadership and guidance in our relationship. I appreciate someone who is attentive, respectful, and willing to please, and who finds fulfillment in serving and submitting to my desires. It's important to me that we establish clear communication and have a strong foundation of trust and consent in our dynamic. I'm excited to find a partner who shares my interests and is enthusiastic about exploring a loving, consensual, and mutually fulfilling D/s relationship.

I'm down to try alot of things, I'm not on birth control, sick of cunts accusing me of "trying to trap them." fucking dumbasses 🤣. Also not looking for an online dom as those are pointless, I'm a brat 🤷‍♀️

I like a man who listens the first time. Not because he’s weak but because he knows exactly what he wants: my approval! add me on 1nsta G :hearts_around: honeyvaleriax

I'm an extremist in luv With submission , it's power and beauty... With submission, comes power. Confinement brings freedom. *** is pleasure. Submission is a part of me, loooking for a Dom I connect with to train with more and to serve, his pleasure being mine. A submissive with primal instincts, the ultimate fucktoy and highly regarded throat specialist, a cumslut driven by ***, *** and endurance..

Am a cheerful woman with a good sense of humor who can and wants to love. I know what I want out of life and I'm going to try to achieve this by all means.

non - monogamous, little just seeing what’s around I adore horror movies, gaming, random night adventures, driving listening to my favourite music hedalexkawoods on *** you’ll find out so much about me here 😳☺️😏

I command with intention and expect the same in return. My leadership is rooted in psychological insight, disciplined structure, and the craft of nurturing a submissive’s evolution through guidance and authority. Authenticity, emotional depth, and unwavering dedication to service are non-negotiable. Submission isn’t a performance it’s a calling. If you’re drawn to a dynamic with a confident, driven woman who values respect and purpose, engage with honesty and self-awareness. I have zero tolerance for insincerity, laziness, or those who confuse submission with subservience

Submissive with a brat streak — I don’t behave unless you give me a reason to. I like structure, control, and someone who can keep me exactly where I belong. I’ll test you, push back, and be a little trouble… just to see if you can handle it properly. If you can’t, I lose interest fast. I enjoy a firm hand and a bit of sting — the kind that leaves a reminder. If “5 finger necklace” means something to you, we’ll get along just fine. What I’m looking for is calm, confident dominance — not loud, not performative. Someone who doesn’t need to announce control because it’s obvious in the way they carry themselves. Respect, communication, and aftercare matter. If you know what you’re doing, I’m all yours. If you don’t, I’ll know. Vibe: Bratty. Playful. Likes to be put in her place — properly

For me, dominance is about energy, presence, and control of the mind before the body. I enjoy guiding a submissive into vulnerability and watching them thrive under firm direction. I’m seeking someone open to exploration, growth, and new experiences within a safe and consensual framework. Chemistry matters. Intelligence matters. Respect matters. If you crave surrender and understand that true submission begins in the mind, introduce yourself properly.

I’m someone who has grown into a woman who values authenticity,curiosity,and meaningful connections.Life has taught me to embrace both the challenges and joys with grace,and I try to approach every day with a sense of gratitude and humor.I’ve learned the importance of being confident in who I am while remaining open to learning from others.I value honesty,kindness,and a good sense of humor,and I love being around people who are equally passionate about life.

**Deep in my curious era … and honestly, loving it 🔥** I’m exploring what excites me and what challenges me — stepping into sensuality and kink with intention. Feeling my way into what fits, what ignites me … and what feels _alive_. I’m drawn to a blend of softness and structure … chemistry, presence, and that unspoken pull. Tenderness with tension. Gentleness with edge. Control with care. Presence with intention. There’s something deeply appealing about someone who can hold that balance — exploring together while staying playful, present, and connected. Free-spirited, gentle, warm, feminine … and sexy as hell. Open-minded, curious, and cheeky — with a strong streak, a playful edge, and a spark that shows up when the energy is right and I feel safe. I’m here for connection, chemistry, and experiences that feel good on every level. Bring emotional intelligence, passion, respect, heat, and grounded energy … bonus points if you can make me laugh and bring a bit of mischief ❤️‍🔥

I am a kinky submissive with a high sex drive, ready to explore with new faces after a sex drought of a relationship for 2 years. I love having a trusted dominant (and a little sadistic) partner who knows what they're doing and what they want. Nothing turns me on like a sexual partner who plans and takes control. And just for something a little extra, CNC really gets me going...

I’m a busy independent solo mum who likes some kinky fun in my free time. Looking for NSA, FWB, confident experienced Dom that can make me forget about all my worldly problems and transport me to a place of pleasure, ***, sensation and ecstay. I love a good dark sense of humor and appreciate intellectual connection. Unapologetic pothead (medical 😉) I’m fairly time poor, and time blind when it comes to messaging and chat etc. happy to plan my weekends off in advance if you’re localish and we click.

I lead with purpose and expect the same in return. My approach is deliberate—psychological depth, structured discipline, and the art of shaping a submissive’s growth through guidance and authority. I value authenticity, emotional intelligence, and a genuine commitment to service. Submission is not a role to play; it’s a responsibility to embrace. If you seek a dynamic with a strong, ambitious woman who demands respect and intention, approach me with clarity and self-awareness. I have no patience for games, half-hearted efforts, or those who mistake submission for weakness.

From the Shores of South Africa to the Sunshine of Australia At 38 years old, this Mermaid is still discovering the depths of her submission. I am a "Little" with a big heart and a long list of kinks—ranging from DDlg and TPE to chemical play and body writing. 🎨✨ 📋 THE OWNER’S MANUAL 📋 Model: The Ariel 2.0 Condition: Slightly used, highly spirited, and very submissive (under the right management). ⛓ 🌟 TOUCH MY MIND & MY BODY WILL FOLLOW 🌟 I am a work in progress—a canvas waiting for a Dom’s brush. Being submissive has never been about being powerless; it’s about the conscious decision to gift power to the person I deem worthy. 👑 My Happy Places: The Museum, Zoos, and wherever you tell me to be. 🏛🦁

Hi 👋🏼 I'm new in Brisbane, just moved up from Sydney, travelled most parts of Australia and looking for friends into rope, shibari, soft BDSM. Would like some female friends or trans/female before meeting men. Not into casual sex I can't use photos because of work privacy.

I am selective, discreet, and value authenticity. My dominance is psychological first I enjoy control, structure, discipline, and shaping a submissive into their highest potential through guidance and authority. I am seeking a dedicated personal submissive who understands that submission is a privilege, not a performance. Someone emotionally intelligent, consistent, respectful, and genuinely committed to serving a strong woman with ambition and depth. I am not here for endless chatting, time wasters, or fantasy collectors. If you approach me, do so with intention and self-awareness.

just here to have fun and talk to people ⚠️please don't text me right off the bat telling me what you'll do to me, i'll just block you because it makes me uncomfortable.⚠️ i am still very open to talking though, don't be scared

non - monogamous, little just seeing what’s around I adore horror movies, gaming, random night adventures, driving listening to my favourite music hedalexkawoods on *** you’ll find out so much about me here 😳☺️😏

I’m a freshly 18 year old young woman, and I recently realised how unsatisfied I am with the idea of vanilla sex. Looking for a man (or men) that will teach me how to be the perfect sub for anyone as I am pretty inexperienced. Or you could call me: “innocent”. Need someone with patience and good humour, willing to give you my best sex doll performance in return!!

Milf, 40s, Black. Size 10-12, fit, athletic/curvy build, healthy C cup with nipples that need attention. Sydney metro. Discreet, can’t host. Fair warning: I have a sharp tongue and not much patience. If you can’t handle direct, we won’t get far. **What I’m Looking For** Casual or semi-regular ANR/ABF sessions with the right person (20-45). I’m currently dry but would love to relactate with someone patient and consistent. **To be clear:** this is about nursing, not more. It’s also not a domme/sub dynamic, nor mummy/son roleplay. Just intimate, adult nursing with the right connection. If you’re looking for something else, keep scrolling. That said, a little edging while sucking never hurt anyone. **What I’m Not Looking For** Hook ups or booty calls Flakes, one-word messages, or anyone who can’t follow through, so if you’re unsure, don’t bother. Discretion is non-negotiable. **If This Speaks to You** Message me with what interests you and your availability. Skip the “hey.”

It would probably help if I had someone to help me write this :/ life as a real adult is draining..soooo many responsibilities and decisions and pressure to always have the answers.. I would much prefer a life of whimsical joy filled with glitter and all things pink where I cant switch off and just stay in my bubble.

I am a calm, deliberate Femdom who leads with presence, intelligence, and unwavering authority. I value depth over novelty, intention over impulse. Power, for me, is earned through trust, consistency, and surrender not ***. I seek a D/s dynamic rooted in respect, communication, and psychological connection, where control is consensual, structured, and deeply felt. I am not here to collect admirers I am here to build something intentional with the right submissive who understands discipline, devotion, and restraint.

I am a confident, intuitive Femdom who believes true submission is built on trust, presence, and emotional depth. I’m not interested in hollow control or performative dominance I seek a genuine power exchange where obedience is chosen, earned, and cherished. I value connection just as much as authority. I enjoy guiding a submissive who is self-aware, communicative, and eager to grow. Loyalty, consistency, and effort never go unnoticed with me. I reward devotion thoughtfully through praise, attention, privilege, and carefully chosen affection. My dominance is calm, deliberate, and rooted in mutual respect. I don’t need to raise my voice to be obeyed. I want a submissive who finds fulfillment in pleasing me, in structure, and in knowing their place is secure when they serve well. This is an intimate dynamic: minds first, trust always.

Love being admired, teased, and taken slow… the kind of chemistry that starts with flirty chats and ends with me pinned down, breathless, and begging for more. If you’re in NSW, dominant/verbal, and think you can make this curvy minx blush… slide in with something cheeky. Boring gets ignored. 💋

I value confidence, self control, and respect. I’m intentional with my words and actions, and I expect the same from others. Clear communication and mutual understanding matter to me more than anything. I’m not here for games, pressure, or assumptions. If you can’t respect boundaries, we won’t get along.

Born in 1970, seasoned to perfection, and just trying online dating before my friends stage an intervention involving wine, carbs, and “helpful suggestions.” I’m mature, confident, and still occasionally surprised that the 1990s weren’t “just last decade.” I’ve lived, laughed, traveled, raised eyebrows, and—full disclosure—I’m a Master when it comes to BDSM. Don’t panic. That just means I’m excellent at communication, boundaries, responsibility, and occasionally leaving people s***chless for sport. If you’re looking for someone warm, witty, and just mysterious enough to keep life interesting, congratulations—you’ve swiped your way into the grown-up section of the internet. What I’m Up To These Days Trying new restaurants, avoiding laundry like it’s a toxic ex, learning how to use dating apps without accidentally super-liking someone’s third-cousin, and maintaining a skincare routine so impressive it should really have its own TED Talk. Fun Facts About Me I know the lyrics to every great 80’s song and absolutely none of the names of my neighbor’s kids. I can hold a conversation, a boundary, a dinner party, and—metaphorically—your attention. I own power tools AND know how to use them. I’ve mastered the art of making chaos look intentional. My laugh is loud, contagious, and completely unstoppable once begun. Proceed at your own risk. Interests & Hobbies I like reading, cooking, exploring new coffee shops, watching movies that came out before the CGI era went rogue, and pretending I’m outdoorsy until the bugs show up. I also enjoy history, big stories, hero arcs, and fantasy worlds—whether in books, films, or occasionally in personality assessments. Favorite Movies & Series Anything with adventure, charm, clever dialogue, or epic soundtracks. Series where the characters have depth, the plot has twists, and nobody whispers so quietly I need subtitles. Music That Gets Me Moving Rock, 80’s anthems, soulful classics, and anything with a good beat. If it makes me sing loudly in the car, it counts. If it makes me chair-dance at a stoplight, even better. Sports? Let’s just say I appreciate sports the way I appreciate IKEA instructions: I’ll watch, I’ll cheer, I’ll commentate, and I will absolutely not follow everything that’s happening. But I enjoy the energy, the snacks, and the occasional “Did you see that?!” moment. Looking For A confident, respectful gentleman with a sense of adventure and a working knowledge of humor. Someone who knows the value of good communication, can keep up with playful banter, and doesn’t faint at the mention of the word BDSM. (If your only reference point is “that one movie,” don’t worry—we’ll recalibrate you.) You don’t need to be perfect—just genuine, grown, kind, and able to laugh at yourself. Bonus points if you're open-minded, emotionally intelligent, and capable of appreciating a woman who knows what she wants. Final Thought If you’re looking for someone who’s smart, sassy, affectionate, adventurous, and occasionally a delightful menace, say "hello". Worst-case scenario, you get a great conversation. Best-case scenario… well, you’ll just have to find out.

I like a man who listens the first time. Not because he’s weak but because he knows exactly what he wants: my approval! add me on 1nsta G :hearts_around: honeyvaleriax

I am a very cheerful and sincere person. Also a beautician and an hairstylist.I like to start each new day with a smile and finish it with a smile too. In life, there are many reasons for sadness and I understand that you cannot always feel happy, but still I think that you need the most positive attitude to life and then everything will be fine. Would you like to have a faithful, kind, bright and energetic lady by your side who knows how to take care of herself and her man.