Find kinky women in British Columbia

Hi, I’m Anna, a curious and open minded submissive exploring the kink world. While I have some experience, I’m always eager to learn and grow. I’m drawn to power exchange, impact play and so on. But above all, I value, trust, communication, and mutual respect.
New here curious in the truest sense. Leaning more towards connecting with women on here first and maybe moving offline. I’m fascinated by people: how they think, what draws them in, and what’s happening beneath the surface. I enjoy conversations with both men and women, especially when they drift into imagination, fantasy, and the unspoken. I’m intrigued by what people picture in their minds while they’re talking, when there kissing, when there touching themselves watching what they watch, who they imagine, what traits they’re projecting, and what stories are quietly unfolding. I’m particularly drawn to the deeper layers: desires people hesitate to name, curiosities they’re unsure how to voice, and thoughts that feel safer to explore in conversation than anywhere else. I value openness, nuance, and the kind of dialogue with strangers on here where honesty feels possible without pressure and maybe clarity will arise for you. Maybe, just maybe, you’ll learn something from me too. I’m also very good at offering a female perspective especially when it comes to understanding women. I’m keen on unpacking behaviors, dynamics, and emotional undercurrents, and I’m often told I’m good at explaining why people respond the way they do, particularly in relational and sexual contexts. I’m open to exploring the sexual side of your world the world your scared to share publicly and privately through conversation and shared curiosity, the porn you watch.. If you’re comfortable, I enjoy being sent photos or videos and talking about what they stir up for you. What draws you in? Do they remind you of someone specific, or embody a dynamic you crave? Is there a sense of submission, control, or vulnerability that resonates in yourself, or in the same or opposite sex? I’m interested not just in the image, but in what it unlocks. Same sex porn? Send me what got you off, tell me about why it makes you zing. Or do you simply watch just for a quick release, when you’re stressed or feeling lonely, I like to talk about it and maybe, get off reading your words. I enjoy erotic content and fantasy, but I’m intentional about it mindful of how it can affect connection and relationships, so I keep it in balance. But I wan to know what makes you feel those tingles, I want to see what you see. But only if you ask first. Maybe you’ll get a video I’ve watched and ask you to record something for me, to know what i watch got you there I come from a long-term relationship background and I’m approaching this space thoughtfully. Right now, I’m here to explore, read profiles, understand different perspectives, and gather inspiration for myself and for the way people express desire and identity. No photos for now conversation first. I like knowing that you’re not imagining me exactly. Curiosity, consent, and presence matter more to me than rushing anything.
i dont like old men (im 19, if youre over 35 i dont want you) date idea: we go on a date to a casino and you give me 🤑🤑 and with the 🤑🤑🤑 i win back we go to a cute adult shop and we pick out a cute outfit for me
Female (19) Burnaby, British Columbia
Someone shy. No dating experience. Not the best looking, sorry. Preferably, I wanna interact with people around my age. Thank you.
Hi there 😊 I'm a funloving kind hearted girl , but really need to find someone with the same energy ... love to play love to laugh and just need someone too do that with . New to this kind of platform , but not totally newbie lol I know pretty much what i like and don't .. I'm a lover not a fighter .. so take it easy on me for the first little bit here 😉 live half time in Lethbridge AB and half time Yahk BC
Female (49) Yahk, British Columbia
I have a wide range of interests, but I'm mostly into videogames, music and fashion, so text me if you're interested in any of these things ! I'm currently a university student. hope we can get along fine!
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Heyyy f21 here I have a 32size white milk that is in need of being drained to the last drop. I am looking to be cock or to just have fun!! add me on 👻kennedyvjls
I love hunting, reading, photography, and listening to music. Looking for serious relationship and friends.
Currently with a cuck. Down to talk about anything ask me anything you want to know. Open to roleplay and sexting or talking about your fantasies. Message me with no limits. I'll fuck you and your friends
New sub looking for a Dom or Daddy to help her learn about her kinks. No nudes or videos will be sent, so if you can’t respect that, then don’t message me. Looking for a *real* Dom/Daddy, not just the trolls looking for nudes. Would love to meet up for coffee and see if we have a connection, discuss what boundaries and limits. 😈 Looking for a steady FWB, possibly leading into a LTR (not keeping it off the table, cuz you never know!)
Female (48) Delta, British Columbia
I’m not looking for anything but if it naturally happens with all the proper communication and trust, honesty and loyalty it could become something but for now I’m just enjoying my time
Female (32) Kelowna, British Columbia
I am a happily married woman. We have an open marriage and he is fully aware and consensual of my activities. I have a full life of family, work, community service, and my athletic pursuits. Any person that I choose to play with must complement my life and add value to it. I seek to explore the depths of my sexual nature. I like variety and fun, light and dark passions. Good conversation is a must. You need to capture my intellectual interest and make me laugh to keep my attention. I like to read, watch movies, play outside. I run, practice yoga, hike in the summer, and dance. Interested? Send me a message, shoot your shot. Be respectful and remember I am a person first.
Not looking for a dom, looking for friends, Subs (or sub-leaning switch more leaning towards fem), also not looking for ageplay atm as i already have a little.
I would like to meet a man who is sincere, caring, responsible, who likes to stay active and exercises often. A man who takes pride on his appearance and who is educated.
Female (33) Langley, British Columbia
I am LaeLi, not Lae not Li, LaeLi. LaeLi Heart is the full name, don’t act chummy by giving me a nickname when I don’t know you. Into cute emos, or blonde white hunks with chiseled jaws. Don’t ever: Call me ma’am, it’s really disrespectful to call people this as it makes them feel old. It’s a term of respect for people OLDER than 40. Tell me how to react or what to do or “Don’t let x bother you” I can do what I want, I’m a big girl. Be a creep in the first dm you send. I like people who have manners. Ask to meet up (I will decide) Ask for real life information Push me to far out of my comfort zone. I’m stubborn and will block. Stalk me. Tell me to “simmer down” it is seriously rude.
Female (28) Duncan, British Columbia
Hi there! My name is Ashley and my husband passed away this year. I'm trying to pick up the pieces and I'm moving to the Vancouver area in July for a fresh start so I'm looking to connect with people! :)
I'm someone who values connection and authenticity. I love finding someone who’s open-minded and knows how to balance confidence with a softer, more submissive side. I believe in the beauty of mutual respect, communication, and being in tune with each other's needs. I’m looking for a man who’s comfortable being himself and isn’t afraid to embrace vulnerability. If you're kind-hearted, patient, and ready to explore a deeper connection, let's see where this journey takes us!
Full-time little and bratty submissive with a masochist streak I pretend not to enjoy (spoiler: I totally do ). I’m currently in a dynamic with my Daddy Dom. He brings me the consistency, care, and the balance I crave. I love exploring our dynamic, pushing my limits safely, and being challenged while still feeling nurtured. I thrive on firm hands, clear rules, and being put in my place, with care. I love being spoiled, degraded, teased, and punished (all consensually, of course). I talk back, but it’s really just me begging for attention and structure. 😇 Because I have C-PTSD, I sometimes need extra reassurance and gentle communication. I’m not fragile, just someone who values safety, respect, and consistency while continuing to grow and heal.🌸 Ageplay is a big part of who I am. I flourish with soft dominance, guidance, and someone who knows how to mix patience with a little cruelty.
Female (21) Kamloops, British Columbia
Hi, So we r new on this site. Yes you read that properly- WE. We only play together, I’m not interested at all in playing without him. So don’t bother asking. We like playing together We are looking for - MMF or MFMF - 35 to 55 yrs old - clean - bi-curious ( male for sure) -travel for work, when together we will “stay over” . -not here to help anyone cheat on S/O, wives, husbands, extra… We are ENM & expect the same. Sorry, not looking for chat buddies. Please when asking to meet be realistic about location, availability, and willingness to meet. I don’t reply if u don’t have some type of proper photo of yourself. This is a shared account. Yes we both look, we both read messages, we return messages independently because it’s a fully shared account. We love to play….
Piggies, I have room for 2 more subs. Message me to set up an interview. Your Mistress has arrived. The Mistress of the Okanagan is here to punish you into submission. You will obey my 3 rules at all times. Repeat after me: 1. I will never do anything to harm Mistress 2. I obey every instruction given to me by my Mistress 3. I will submit my body and mind to my Mistress I will strip you of all your power. I will spank you into submission.
Female (40) Kelowna, British Columbia
Let's enjoy our time together and try.If this resonates with you, right l to me! 405-342 Free spirit looking for a like-minded partner 6386 more
Female (52) Surrey, British Columbia
A little scared but really eager to get into the scene, have been interested for years but don't know where to start. I know what I want, but don't know how to get it - I just want to dip my toes and meet the right people. Only interested in doms if you're willing to teach me a thing or two, happy to be a third.
I am mischievous in life, elegant, able to make gray everyday life warm and bright. I always remain optimistic. I believe in people and dream to meet a worthy man who needs care, love and tenderness. All people deserve to be happy and deserve to know what real love is. I know what it is and want to share this wonderful feeling with the man I am going to meet. Do you also think that without love life seems incomplete? Are you looking for a reliable companion who knows how to surround a man with comfort? Congratulations, you found me and you were not mistaken!
Female (39) Surrey, British Columbia

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i dont like old men (im 19, if youre over 35 i dont want you) date idea: we go on a date to a casino and you give me 🤑🤑 and with the 🤑🤑🤑 i win back we go to a cute adult shop and we pick out a cute outfit for me
Female (19) Burnaby, British Columbia
Hi there 😊 I'm a funloving kind hearted girl , but really need to find someone with the same energy ... love to play love to laugh and just need someone too do that with . New to this kind of platform , but not totally newbie lol I know pretty much what i like and don't .. I'm a lover not a fighter .. so take it easy on me for the first little bit here 😉 live half time in Lethbridge AB and half time Yahk BC
Female (49) Yahk, British Columbia
Currently with a cuck. Down to talk about anything ask me anything you want to know. Open to roleplay and sexting or talking about your fantasies. Message me with no limits. I'll fuck you and your friends
New here curious in the truest sense. Leaning more towards connecting with women on here first and maybe moving offline. I’m fascinated by people: how they think, what draws them in, and what’s happening beneath the surface. I enjoy conversations with both men and women, especially when they drift into imagination, fantasy, and the unspoken. I’m intrigued by what people picture in their minds while they’re talking, when there kissing, when there touching themselves watching what they watch, who they imagine, what traits they’re projecting, and what stories are quietly unfolding. I’m particularly drawn to the deeper layers: desires people hesitate to name, curiosities they’re unsure how to voice, and thoughts that feel safer to explore in conversation than anywhere else. I value openness, nuance, and the kind of dialogue with strangers on here where honesty feels possible without pressure and maybe clarity will arise for you. Maybe, just maybe, you’ll learn something from me too. I’m also very good at offering a female perspective especially when it comes to understanding women. I’m keen on unpacking behaviors, dynamics, and emotional undercurrents, and I’m often told I’m good at explaining why people respond the way they do, particularly in relational and sexual contexts. I’m open to exploring the sexual side of your world the world your scared to share publicly and privately through conversation and shared curiosity, the porn you watch.. If you’re comfortable, I enjoy being sent photos or videos and talking about what they stir up for you. What draws you in? Do they remind you of someone specific, or embody a dynamic you crave? Is there a sense of submission, control, or vulnerability that resonates in yourself, or in the same or opposite sex? I’m interested not just in the image, but in what it unlocks. Same sex porn? Send me what got you off, tell me about why it makes you zing. Or do you simply watch just for a quick release, when you’re stressed or feeling lonely, I like to talk about it and maybe, get off reading your words. I enjoy erotic content and fantasy, but I’m intentional about it mindful of how it can affect connection and relationships, so I keep it in balance. But I wan to know what makes you feel those tingles, I want to see what you see. But only if you ask first. Maybe you’ll get a video I’ve watched and ask you to record something for me, to know what i watch got you there I come from a long-term relationship background and I’m approaching this space thoughtfully. Right now, I’m here to explore, read profiles, understand different perspectives, and gather inspiration for myself and for the way people express desire and identity. No photos for now conversation first. I like knowing that you’re not imagining me exactly. Curiosity, consent, and presence matter more to me than rushing anything.
I am mischievous in life, elegant, able to make gray everyday life warm and bright. I always remain optimistic. I believe in people and dream to meet a worthy man who needs care, love and tenderness. All people deserve to be happy and deserve to know what real love is. I know what it is and want to share this wonderful feeling with the man I am going to meet. Do you also think that without love life seems incomplete? Are you looking for a reliable companion who knows how to surround a man with comfort? Congratulations, you found me and you were not mistaken!
Female (39) Surrey, British Columbia
Hi, So we r new on this site. Yes you read that properly- WE. We only play together, I’m not interested at all in playing without him. So don’t bother asking. We like playing together We are looking for - MMF or MFMF - 35 to 55 yrs old - clean - bi-curious ( male for sure) -travel for work, when together we will “stay over” . -not here to help anyone cheat on S/O, wives, husbands, extra… We are ENM & expect the same. Sorry, not looking for chat buddies. Please when asking to meet be realistic about location, availability, and willingness to meet. I don’t reply if u don’t have some type of proper photo of yourself. This is a shared account. Yes we both look, we both read messages, we return messages independently because it’s a fully shared account. We love to play….
Full-time little and bratty submissive with a masochist streak I pretend not to enjoy (spoiler: I totally do ). I’m currently in a dynamic with my Daddy Dom. He brings me the consistency, care, and the balance I crave. I love exploring our dynamic, pushing my limits safely, and being challenged while still feeling nurtured. I thrive on firm hands, clear rules, and being put in my place, with care. I love being spoiled, degraded, teased, and punished (all consensually, of course). I talk back, but it’s really just me begging for attention and structure. 😇 Because I have C-PTSD, I sometimes need extra reassurance and gentle communication. I’m not fragile, just someone who values safety, respect, and consistency while continuing to grow and heal.🌸 Ageplay is a big part of who I am. I flourish with soft dominance, guidance, and someone who knows how to mix patience with a little cruelty.
Female (21) Kamloops, British Columbia
Heyyy f21 here I have a 32size white milk that is in need of being drained to the last drop. I am looking to be cock or to just have fun!! add me on 👻kennedyvjls
I love hunting, reading, photography, and listening to music. Looking for serious relationship and friends.
Looking for couple to join in for fun, sign.es are accepted but not for single hookups. I’m a post-op trans woman, which means I have a vagina. Will host but must click first. Into roll playing, wrestling, tie ups and toys. 420 friendly
Female (35) Victoria, British Columbia
I am LaeLi, not Lae not Li, LaeLi. LaeLi Heart is the full name, don’t act chummy by giving me a nickname when I don’t know you. Into cute emos, or blonde white hunks with chiseled jaws. Don’t ever: Call me ma’am, it’s really disrespectful to call people this as it makes them feel old. It’s a term of respect for people OLDER than 40. Tell me how to react or what to do or “Don’t let x bother you” I can do what I want, I’m a big girl. Be a creep in the first dm you send. I like people who have manners. Ask to meet up (I will decide) Ask for real life information Push me to far out of my comfort zone. I’m stubborn and will block. Stalk me. Tell me to “simmer down” it is seriously rude.
Female (28) Duncan, British Columbia
New sub looking for a Dom or Daddy to help her learn about her kinks. No nudes or videos will be sent, so if you can’t respect that, then don’t message me. Looking for a *real* Dom/Daddy, not just the trolls looking for nudes. Would love to meet up for coffee and see if we have a connection, discuss what boundaries and limits. 😈 Looking for a steady FWB, possibly leading into a LTR (not keeping it off the table, cuz you never know!)
Female (48) Delta, British Columbia
Let's enjoy our time together and try.If this resonates with you, right l to me! 405-342 Free spirit looking for a like-minded partner 6386 more
Female (52) Surrey, British Columbia
Would like to explore more on what’s out there. 1.) haven’t tried anything but have a lot of fantasies. 2.) a little insecure, so would love someone who can put me in my place. 3.) open to anything, but do have some limits. So ask me!
Hit me up if youre into water sports, I like to slip and slide in it. NOt interested in doing it on you. I have lots of long distance remote control sex toys
I'm someone who values connection and authenticity. I love finding someone who’s open-minded and knows how to balance confidence with a softer, more submissive side. I believe in the beauty of mutual respect, communication, and being in tune with each other's needs. I’m looking for a man who’s comfortable being himself and isn’t afraid to embrace vulnerability. If you're kind-hearted, patient, and ready to explore a deeper connection, let's see where this journey takes us!
I’m a kind-hearted, genuine woman who believes in the power of love and connection. Family is important to me, and I’m looking for a partner who values the same. I enjoy life’s simple moments and am excited to find someone to build a loving, supportive future together
I would like to meet a man who understands the importance of mutual support and believes in the importance of shared goals and values in a relationship. I am attracted to a man who values deep conversations and is ready to share his emotions and experiences, creating an open and trusting environment for mutual understanding. I am looking for a partner who appreciates an active lifestyle, likes to travel and share new experiences, discovering the beauty of the world together and enjoying every moment together
Female (40) Sooke, British Columbia
A little scared but really eager to get into the scene, have been interested for years but don't know where to start. I know what I want, but don't know how to get it - I just want to dip my toes and meet the right people. Only interested in doms if you're willing to teach me a thing or two, happy to be a third.
I’m looking for someone who I have chemistry with who has a large cock. Nothing serious. Possibly start with a date to see if we have chemistry. Then I would like you to film me sucking and fucking your cock.
Female (36) Victoria, British Columbia
Here seeking people to talk to and explore with, I am very new to all of this and have minimal experience. Enjoy being controlled and humiliated and put in bondage. I am hoping to find someone that isn't going to rush me into anything and would be willing to be patient with me and talk and actually get to know one another.
Do you know what loneliness means? I have had this feeling here. And I could make nothing with it. I did not meet the person with whom I can share happiness, family life and such fine feeling as love! Therefore I am here. I understand that we need to get to know each other better
Female (40) Burnaby, British Columbia
Go fishing at three eight six PM... hike and c-country nitght three four four miles, dinner for around two to three movie or live music for zero five if you are Smart you will merge the numbar and txt me on what app. I'm easy going and totally down to earth, I love hunting and camping.
Not looking for a dom, looking for friends, Subs (or sub-leaning switch more leaning towards fem), also not looking for ageplay atm as i already have a little.

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