Several art projects on the go, yearly launch of soup journal (soup hag must be appeased), dancing/cardio with cool lights, writing, role playing games, interesting conversations with interesting people, and small witch craft are my current focuses. I'm in a new chapter of me and I'm still settling into it, just a few pages in. I can be that lovely goblin slut that I talk about below, but a surprise discard breakup happened summer of 2025 and it's affected my nervous system in a big way. The goblin only comes out if she feels safe to be herself & there's an emotional & intellectual connection.
Spicy pisces, autistic/ adhd / ENFJ perimenopausal cis woman elder millennial with family responsibilities.
Ambivert, creative in several ways, which includes writing erotica sometimes (especially if inspired by a partner), crafting and role playing are my top interests. I'm dark, twisty, hilarious and horny. My major icons growing up were Miss Piggy, Elvira and Gonzo. IMO a goblin is a mix of primal-brat, fulltime silly goose. I enjoy making food, nature, roleplaying games, doing bad accents, therapy. I tend to gravitate towards other spectrum folks and enjoy going on ADHD tangents and echolalia with friends.
I'm very comfortable in my skin & it's incredibly important that my partner(s) feel safe & comfortable. In my heart, when my boundaries are being respected and I feel safe and loved, I'm a cackling goblin slut minion looking to get a rise out of my partners - and not be punished cruelly for it - let's be on the same page and agree that being mean is acceptable, but cold cruelty is not. If it feels like we're not playing the same game, I'm out. Be kind and funny - adhere to negotiations. I'm not the high protocol taking type of s, unless we craft a scene for me to fail miserable at high protocol (which sounds hilarious to me, but it's not for everyone).
I am a switch who gets more out of being a bottom, especially primal challenges. Wrestling? Hell yes, I'm going to lose on purpose. Made to submit? Oh, yes please, let's talk about it. Bound badly so I can escape & be taken down? This one is a favourite, I've broken cheap bondage equipment several times. Sensation play has to be my favourite kind of experience, which can involve the violet wand. Agreed upon *** and praise (which I tend to top with myself due to basically a lifelong interest in roleplaying), things discovered by my partner to make my eyes widen & face blush. Pet-play is fun. I enjoy topping for impact and electro.
