Kinky women in Ottawa

I'm a 45 yr old curvy, polyamorous, bisexual, demisexual, pansexual babygirl, kitten, submissive, rope kitty (like a rope bunny), little. I am NOT interested in anything long distance or outside of my country. DO NOT WASTE MY TIME! Not interested with anything with ANYONE younger than myself... age range preferences: 38-69. I STILL prefer men/women older than me though. I do deal with some mental health issues such as; depression, anxiety, social anxiety, & body dysmorphia. I also have a past of cutting, but i haven't done so since 2010. I have PCOS (diagnosed at 18) & PTFS (potello femoral syndrome. Also known as runners knee) in my right knee (also diagnosed at 18). I have chemical sensitivities to scents. Pls be respectful of that. I am NOT interested in sex with anyone. It's more likely I will NOT have sex with you. I am 100% more sensual than I am sexual. I have to have a deep connection with someone long before sex happens. Don't waste your time if all you want is to fuck someone.

I am mostly a soft-domme who is looking forward to exploring more of the femdom life. I am still fairly new to this, but love a good subby boy that I can tease and experiment with.

I want to explore with people and maybe discover new things, I am very submissive I work in a bookstore and in my free time I am a gamer girl I am looking for someone to satisfy my wild kinky side whether it be in person or online It takes me a while to feel comfortable and safe with someone so if you are looking for a quick fuck then I am not for you. Hoping to please you soon 😘 kinks: ***, ***, restraints, edging, orgasm control/denial, sleep play, breath play, cnc, freeuse and much more side note if you'd like to control my *** toys let me know.. I love it when it hurts can you make me suffer please? 🥺🥰

I'm a polyamorous brat who started out on the website to learn more about other brats and find people to discuss techniques with. I'm mature and mischievous, and curiosity may have killed the cat, but I like the ending to that sentence better. I am not a sub, and I'm not looking to change that. I _can_ submit, but I am not submissive by nature. Likewise the other way around. I like the power struggle, especially with an equal, and sometimes, I love to come out on top. I like tying someone up as much as I like being tied up. To me, being a brat is about empowerment, and whether I end up on the bottom or on the top, I'll find that empowerment in what I can do to my partner or in what I can make my partner do. That's why my profile says I'm a switch. Mostly here to meet like-minded people and exchange experiences; I come from a very button-up background when it comes to talking about sex, and curiosity is my fatal flaw. Good conversation is always worth it, but don't expect me to respond to your cheesy or well-used pickup lines. I have a partner; I'm not here to fulfill a need, especially not other people's, so if you're trying to get me to fit into your fantasy, I'll disappoint you. I like to break crowns. If you're confident, charming, mysterious, and interested in a challenge, I'll happily steal yours too.

Sapiosexual | Demiromantic | Alpha Submissive w/ a penchant for service IF the connection is right, so please read everything prior to beginning a conversation with me. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ I wouldn't continue any further if a TPE "alternative traditional lifestyle" isn't for you, or cannot be provided by you — including marriage and biological ***. Additionally, if you have any addictions (consumption of psychoactive substances, but also including video games or any dysfunctional behaviours) then it's not me you're looking for. Finally, if you have peanut and/or *** allergies then it's a no from me. 🤷 _ I'm on the hunt for what feels like a needle in a hundred haystacks, so please don't waste my time by not reading my -entire- profile. I'm worth the effort, assuming you're anything like me. I will not engage in small talk with you — if that's what I wanted then I'd be speaking to my dogs, cats, and/or plants as opposed to being on here (tbh, I'd find more enjoyment from my conversations with them). 🐈🐕🪴 _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ At my core I am a humanist, intellectual, freethinker, ***-lover, strategist ("big picture/solutions-oriented), and (quite possibly) loyal to a fault. I'm full of curiousity, completely authentic, stoic, conscientious, playful, extremely attentive & thoughtful, reserved (in group settings), passive but assertive when warranted, introspective, able to love unconditionally, as well as having the ability to empathise with even the "worst of the worst". _ ✨ Side-note: My ability to empathise with anybody developed due to significant adverse events that I've experienced from a very young age, and yet I am extremely grateful for each and every one of them. Evidently, I've also become incredibly resilient and genuinely believe I have the ability to get through anything life throws at me. _ I also identify with many of the traits associated with the INTJ-A mbti profile; however, depending on the circumstances I can/will pull-in my feeler-side. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ Inherent beliefs I live by: At their core, people are innately good, but this doesn't mean that I don't realise that people can't make harmful decisions. Every experience is an opportunity to learn. Doing as little harm (as I possibly can) to other sentient beings/things. Approaching sensitive conversations with curiousity. Prioritising your life partner. Not constantly 'chasing' the newest possessions and/or new experiences, because neither of those things will result in feeling genuine happiness with one's life. Simply put, those things offer fleeting feelings of happiness and then reality sinks back in. 🤐 _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ General interests/hobbies: Horticulture, educational pursuits (podcasts, documentaries, non-fiction books, research), ***s (I feed some of the local wildlife), astronomy, sewing, "Buy It for Life", informal volunteering, walking the dogs, writing notes, relationship psychology, science, entrepreneurship, DIY, hiking, nature, art, health & wellness. _ Kink-wise: This isn't felt as roleplay to me, meaning it is NOT just a bedroom role or a 'hat' I put on and take off; it's who I am and it should be innately who you are, too. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ What I'm looking for: Somebody who is both emotionally and analytically intelligent, likely in the 45-55 age-range, an innate leader (with quiet confidence), flexible, curious/inquisitive, patient, nurturing & attentive, firm but fair, consistent, respectable, kind, a gentle/calm communicator, loyal, solutions-oriented, a team-player, family-oriented, transparent, that has a growth-mindset, can set + maintain healthy boundaries, and that can remain composed under pressure (I do NOT do well with aggressive behaviour, including raised voices and mannerisms, regardless of it being directed at me or otherwise). I am extremely inquisitive and desire knowing everything about my partner, and I expect them to desire that same level of connection. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ If you do not have the ability to put somebody else's legitimate needs above your personal desires, then this won't work out. 🤷 If you don't have the time or willingness to put effort into establishing a relationship, well no need to waste either of our time. Additionally, please be self-reflective enough not to set yourself up for failure by setting an expectation that you can't realistically fulfill long-term — participating in "biological mating rituals" isn't a valid excuse, and engaging in it is going to result in a lack of trust (and subsequent implosion of any possible relationship). 🙄 _ If you cannot appreciate/value what I bring to the table, my intrinsic motivation to please in various capacities, well that's going to be your loss ultimately. My happiness is derived from helping others. _____________ |↓| _____________

PSA: I have lost 206 pounds and counting, if you don’t like saggy skin and saggy tits. Don’t bother stopping by! ✌🏼✌🏼 Update: I do not live in Ottawa. I live near it. The odd one out... I have never been the same as my sibilings... I knew I was always different. They were into partying and doing other things while I was at home reading about BDSM. I was 16 when I started my research. I'm 31 now, my previous relationships were not what I wanted in the bedroom. Let me tell you 10 things about me... I'm a BBW I have medium length purple hair I have brown eyes. I love tattoos and piercings. I love ***s. I have 3 dogs. :) I'm the 2nd oldest of my sibilings. But that's just the ones I grew up with I love reading and learning new things. I love music (I play clarinet and saxophone) I don't give up. I want to travel all over the world and one day I'll get there. Beach bum to the max. I don't really want to give away much... if you have any questions, or want to know more about me... well you can message me. :)

I’m a switch shy at first but quite talkative if we match energy caregiving energy will take care of my dom willing to meet up for smoke sesh or drink hit me up if you’re wanting some adventures bi unsure of what I want atm

💜 DM’s CLOSED 💜 Not interested x

***Cannot host**** 🗝️ 🗝️ ***I’m disabled, I have a permanent ileostomy*** 🗝️ 🗝️ ***Please be a feminist, socialist, atheist, anti-fascist, anti-zionist and opposed to genocide.*** 🗝️ 🗝️ I love being pleased, worshipped and spoiled. I would like to find a long term partner/FLR who can tolerate my bossy side who is also helpful and doting. I’m affectionate, caring, cuddly and nurturing. I am able to correct and be firm when needed. 🗝️ 🗝️ You are slim and attractive. You like to please. You have an insatiable need to provide oral. In general you like a wide variety of music and are interested in arts and culture. 🗝️ 🗝️ Also looking for useful subs to help me with my Swedish (2 years of Duolingo) 🗝️ 🗝️ 🗝️

I am naturally a homebody… looking to meet new, fun and flirty people. Not looking for anything in particular, but require chemistry and for you to have a personality. I love cracking jokes and laughing, but also insightful conversations and learning new things. very 420 friendly and like to tease a lot. 😇 you’ve been warned 🤭

Please don't take it to heart if I don't respond. I'm learning in my own ways with boundaries set up. I'm usually online for the forms. If by miracle I do reach out or reply I only entertain one conversation at a time. I'm a Brat through and through. I want to learn as much as possible about this and books and research only go so far. I am married but I've hidden this part of myself thinking that it would just go away. I just need to know if this is just a fantasy rather than a lifestyle and then move accordingly. Any guidance or help from an actual Dom or Brat Tamers would be amazing.

not looking for anything atm, don't message :)

Pan, solo-poly, aceflux, single mom, adapting to disabilities that aren't going away, sapio, sensual, into literature and choir and art and caring about the planet and each other. Primarily looking for poly and ace community, but open to possibilities if I have the spoons.

I'm tall, curvy and one of my best assets are my tits. I'm also a nerdy gamer chick who will beat you at Mario kart. What attracts me to people the most is there vibe. Everything else is secondary to me. I'm a bratty sub looking for an attentive dom who's also on the romantic side. My top 10 wants in no particular order: 1. friends and to be able to be my weird nerdy random self with the person I'm with. 2. honesty I won't lie to you don't lie to me 3. spoiled and treated like a goddess 4. tied up and spanked 😉 5. chased and made to feel desired. 6. to try new things. 7. romance and horror movies 8. attention! I don't need to see you all the time but I want regular texts. 9. to be put in my place when I'm being a brat. 10. regularly talk about our fantasies and desires. If I interest you send me a message and let's chat for a bit and see where it goes.

couple profile. she's 46, he's 53. looking for folks in the same age group only

Looking for a connection with the possibility of becoming long term with a man who enjoys deep conversations, has a good sense of humour, values consistency and honesty, and knows the answer to "life, the universe, and everything." Monogamous relationships only - poly / enm are not for me.

Looking to explore: Bondage -straps, handcuffs. Blindfolding, role playing (must be comfortable with, likely not the first few times) Toys -open to exploring someone using toys on me. Receiving oral - only 6 men have successfully made me cum and orgasm with their mouth. It was hot 🔥 🥵 Suggestions from you depending on how much I Iike you I can be adventurous -very open to pleasing you. ask me about my LIKES 😉

Just looking for some funnnn~ Outgoing, but a little shy at times! I love plants, thrifting, music (from heavy metal to slow melodies), and any kinds of food!! Looking to explore a little bit

Description They broke the mold when they made me, because one of me is all this world can handle.

Hey! I’m currently a student so I at times have quite a busy schedule. I am in an open relationship! I’m also new to the kink community and may not know as much as other. I look forward to getting to know other people and myself ?

Heyy, I'm Lillith I'm mostly looking for a Dom. Really hoping to try out new things! Playful and always bratty, I love to keep things fun

Im curious but a little guarded. You would have to be gentle with me. Having said that, I really enjoy spankings. I've had some experience with it, but would like to explore it some more. Maybe even try something new. Its possible that I could be interested in taking on a few men. Something to maybe look into. Im open to learning about and trying something completely new to me.

MJ (female, 20, bisexual) My partner and I are looking to explore together with the right people, reach out if you’re interested😘

I am a young but mature, innocent, creative, hard headed, loving, twisted, passionate creature of a woman who has always cared more for others than myself. I've always been the person to take care of everyone else very misunderstood, a different breed you might say Yet people have still somehow been drawn in by my oddities, and over time have grown to care for me to. I need someone to take care of my needs. a dominate figure who I’ll listen and obey at every turn. I’ll talk back to be put in my place I want sensual with dominance. I want to be treated like a princess and your play toy.

Sapiosexual | Demiromantic | Alpha Submissive w/ a penchant for service IF the connection is right, so please read everything prior to beginning a conversation with me. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ I wouldn't continue any further if a TPE "alternative traditional lifestyle" isn't for you, or cannot be provided by you — including marriage and biological ***. Additionally, if you have any addictions (consumption of psychoactive substances, but also including video games or any dysfunctional behaviours) then it's not me you're looking for. Finally, if you have peanut and/or *** allergies then it's a no from me. 🤷 _ I'm on the hunt for what feels like a needle in a hundred haystacks, so please don't waste my time by not reading my -entire- profile. I'm worth the effort, assuming you're anything like me. I will not engage in small talk with you — if that's what I wanted then I'd be speaking to my dogs, cats, and/or plants as opposed to being on here (tbh, I'd find more enjoyment from my conversations with them). 🐈🐕🪴 _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ At my core I am a humanist, intellectual, freethinker, ***-lover, strategist ("big picture/solutions-oriented), and (quite possibly) loyal to a fault. I'm full of curiousity, completely authentic, stoic, conscientious, playful, extremely attentive & thoughtful, reserved (in group settings), passive but assertive when warranted, introspective, able to love unconditionally, as well as having the ability to empathise with even the "worst of the worst". _ ✨ Side-note: My ability to empathise with anybody developed due to significant adverse events that I've experienced from a very young age, and yet I am extremely grateful for each and every one of them. Evidently, I've also become incredibly resilient and genuinely believe I have the ability to get through anything life throws at me. _ I also identify with many of the traits associated with the INTJ-A mbti profile; however, depending on the circumstances I can/will pull-in my feeler-side. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ Inherent beliefs I live by: At their core, people are innately good, but this doesn't mean that I don't realise that people can't make harmful decisions. Every experience is an opportunity to learn. Doing as little harm (as I possibly can) to other sentient beings/things. Approaching sensitive conversations with curiousity. Prioritising your life partner. Not constantly 'chasing' the newest possessions and/or new experiences, because neither of those things will result in feeling genuine happiness with one's life. Simply put, those things offer fleeting feelings of happiness and then reality sinks back in. 🤐 _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ General interests/hobbies: Horticulture, educational pursuits (podcasts, documentaries, non-fiction books, research), ***s (I feed some of the local wildlife), astronomy, sewing, "Buy It for Life", informal volunteering, walking the dogs, writing notes, relationship psychology, science, entrepreneurship, DIY, hiking, nature, art, health & wellness. _ Kink-wise: This isn't felt as roleplay to me, meaning it is NOT just a bedroom role or a 'hat' I put on and take off; it's who I am and it should be innately who you are, too. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ What I'm looking for: Somebody who is both emotionally and analytically intelligent, likely in the 45-55 age-range, an innate leader (with quiet confidence), flexible, curious/inquisitive, patient, nurturing & attentive, firm but fair, consistent, respectable, kind, a gentle/calm communicator, loyal, solutions-oriented, a team-player, family-oriented, transparent, that has a growth-mindset, can set + maintain healthy boundaries, and that can remain composed under pressure (I do NOT do well with aggressive behaviour, including raised voices and mannerisms, regardless of it being directed at me or otherwise). I am extremely inquisitive and desire knowing everything about my partner, and I expect them to desire that same level of connection. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ If you do not have the ability to put somebody else's legitimate needs above your personal desires, then this won't work out. 🤷 If you don't have the time or willingness to put effort into establishing a relationship, well no need to waste either of our time. Additionally, please be self-reflective enough not to set yourself up for failure by setting an expectation that you can't realistically fulfill long-term — participating in "biological mating rituals" isn't a valid excuse, and engaging in it is going to result in a lack of trust (and subsequent implosion of any possible relationship). 🙄 _ If you cannot appreciate/value what I bring to the table, my intrinsic motivation to please in various capacities, well that's going to be your loss ultimately. My happiness is derived from helping others. _____________ |↓| _____________

I am mostly a soft-domme who is looking forward to exploring more of the femdom life. I am still fairly new to this, but love a good subby boy that I can tease and experiment with.

I want to explore with people and maybe discover new things, I am very submissive I work in a bookstore and in my free time I am a gamer girl I am looking for someone to satisfy my wild kinky side whether it be in person or online It takes me a while to feel comfortable and safe with someone so if you are looking for a quick fuck then I am not for you. Hoping to please you soon 😘 kinks: ***, ***, restraints, edging, orgasm control/denial, sleep play, breath play, cnc, freeuse and much more side note if you'd like to control my *** toys let me know.. I love it when it hurts can you make me suffer please? 🥺🥰

I'm a 45 yr old curvy, polyamorous, bisexual, demisexual, pansexual babygirl, kitten, submissive, rope kitty (like a rope bunny), little. I am NOT interested in anything long distance or outside of my country. DO NOT WASTE MY TIME! Not interested with anything with ANYONE younger than myself... age range preferences: 38-69. I STILL prefer men/women older than me though. I do deal with some mental health issues such as; depression, anxiety, social anxiety, & body dysmorphia. I also have a past of cutting, but i haven't done so since 2010. I have PCOS (diagnosed at 18) & PTFS (potello femoral syndrome. Also known as runners knee) in my right knee (also diagnosed at 18). I have chemical sensitivities to scents. Pls be respectful of that. I am NOT interested in sex with anyone. It's more likely I will NOT have sex with you. I am 100% more sensual than I am sexual. I have to have a deep connection with someone long before sex happens. Don't waste your time if all you want is to fuck someone.

PSA: I have lost 206 pounds and counting, if you don’t like saggy skin and saggy tits. Don’t bother stopping by! ✌🏼✌🏼 Update: I do not live in Ottawa. I live near it. The odd one out... I have never been the same as my sibilings... I knew I was always different. They were into partying and doing other things while I was at home reading about BDSM. I was 16 when I started my research. I'm 31 now, my previous relationships were not what I wanted in the bedroom. Let me tell you 10 things about me... I'm a BBW I have medium length purple hair I have brown eyes. I love tattoos and piercings. I love ***s. I have 3 dogs. :) I'm the 2nd oldest of my sibilings. But that's just the ones I grew up with I love reading and learning new things. I love music (I play clarinet and saxophone) I don't give up. I want to travel all over the world and one day I'll get there. Beach bum to the max. I don't really want to give away much... if you have any questions, or want to know more about me... well you can message me. :)

I'm a polyamorous brat who started out on the website to learn more about other brats and find people to discuss techniques with. I'm mature and mischievous, and curiosity may have killed the cat, but I like the ending to that sentence better. I am not a sub, and I'm not looking to change that. I _can_ submit, but I am not submissive by nature. Likewise the other way around. I like the power struggle, especially with an equal, and sometimes, I love to come out on top. I like tying someone up as much as I like being tied up. To me, being a brat is about empowerment, and whether I end up on the bottom or on the top, I'll find that empowerment in what I can do to my partner or in what I can make my partner do. That's why my profile says I'm a switch. Mostly here to meet like-minded people and exchange experiences; I come from a very button-up background when it comes to talking about sex, and curiosity is my fatal flaw. Good conversation is always worth it, but don't expect me to respond to your cheesy or well-used pickup lines. I have a partner; I'm not here to fulfill a need, especially not other people's, so if you're trying to get me to fit into your fantasy, I'll disappoint you. I like to break crowns. If you're confident, charming, mysterious, and interested in a challenge, I'll happily steal yours too.

I’m a switch shy at first but quite talkative if we match energy caregiving energy will take care of my dom willing to meet up for smoke sesh or drink hit me up if you’re wanting some adventures bi unsure of what I want atm

I like to be a punished and am definitely a brat. I’m Into spanking, bondage, I like to be controlled but to fight you all the way on it. I’m into ddlg, bdsm, abdl, and a lot of other stuff. my only limits are no vaginal sex.

I value my time and yours. To chat, please send a token of interest via PayPal first. paypal.me/FirecrackerBaby101 sugar baby looking for good vibes and good times only 🔥🔥 any pay pigs out there 🐷😘 private photos will only be unlocked with additional tribute 😋😜 Love good banter ! Bubbly outgoing raver into ethical non-monogamy. I’m in a wonderful primary relationship but looking to make meaningful connections while being spoiled and treated like the princess I am 😘 Bios aren’t really my thing, but currently in school for my second career ! Love a good adventure and always down to try something new :) definitly a little brat can you keep up 👀😉

bi-curious and looking to play…. hopeful for something drama free…easy, NSA, but longer term to build connection and explore deeper

I am naturally a homebody… looking to meet new, fun and flirty people. Not looking for anything in particular, but require chemistry and for you to have a personality. I love cracking jokes and laughing, but also insightful conversations and learning new things. very 420 friendly and like to tease a lot. 😇 you’ve been warned 🤭

Hey guys, im Dréa nice to meet you all 💋 Im a experianced Sub/ Brat/Little/Pet, i have been into the Bdsm lifestyle since i was 20.... i gotta say im a little more experienced online then in person, Since for some reason its hard to find like minded people IRL. im also shy, and have anxiety probably the reason why i have not attended munches yet, or play party's or any bdsm kink related event around me. I downloaded this app to find myself again in the kink comuninity and find myself a Dom/Dynamic/Relationship and maybe possibly a sugar Daddy too, If this sounds good to you, Hit me up 😉 Btw: My voice Kink is up there for sure, 🥺🤭 Ps: My inbox gets overwelming, bare with me 😭😭

Hello hello, 23 She/they Bisexual. You will call me Nyx, or Magenta. Just send the most depraved horny shit to my inbox, I love it ;) looking for casual hookups right now.

Playful blondie with a wild side and dirty mind, I’ve been told I’m pretty funny, adventurous and full of bad ideas. I like keeping things creative and I’m full of surprise. I spend alot of time laughing with good company and flying under the radar. I’m pretty much the girl you won’t wanna miss out on having a ball with

***Cannot host**** 🗝️ 🗝️ ***I’m disabled, I have a permanent ileostomy*** 🗝️ 🗝️ ***Please be a feminist, socialist, atheist, anti-fascist, anti-zionist and opposed to genocide.*** 🗝️ 🗝️ I love being pleased, worshipped and spoiled. I would like to find a long term partner/FLR who can tolerate my bossy side who is also helpful and doting. I’m affectionate, caring, cuddly and nurturing. I am able to correct and be firm when needed. 🗝️ 🗝️ You are slim and attractive. You like to please. You have an insatiable need to provide oral. In general you like a wide variety of music and are interested in arts and culture. 🗝️ 🗝️ Also looking for useful subs to help me with my Swedish (2 years of Duolingo) 🗝️ 🗝️ 🗝️

Introvert that wants to be pushed outside of her box. But don't that let that confuse you with me being non-adventerous or inexperienced. I'm not one to easily trust or open up. I love to eat, and I am chronically online. if you get tiktok references, that's the way to get between my legs. spoil me, engage me, harness me and also let me thrive.

Please don't take it to heart if I don't respond. I'm learning in my own ways with boundaries set up. I'm usually online for the forms. If by miracle I do reach out or reply I only entertain one conversation at a time. I'm a Brat through and through. I want to learn as much as possible about this and books and research only go so far. I am married but I've hidden this part of myself thinking that it would just go away. I just need to know if this is just a fantasy rather than a lifestyle and then move accordingly. Any guidance or help from an actual Dom or Brat Tamers would be amazing.

hi! inexperienced and curious I’m a lesbian into dominant women 🥰 need to be put in my place I wanna be treated with love and *** 🥹 certified gooner ima. desperate bitch who needs a mommy to tame her please fuck me please I’m 24 7 horny and need it

I’m new I need some to show me things but ik something I’m brat and I have a couple of fantasies 🤭 im willing to do a threesome mmf or ffm it seems fun anal also seems fun some other things that are more of a one on one conversation. tbh if anyone one is up to record anything too is something i would love to try

Pan, solo-poly, aceflux, single mom, adapting to disabilities that aren't going away, sapio, sensual, into literature and choir and art and caring about the planet and each other. Primarily looking for poly and ace community, but open to possibilities if I have the spoons.

50 yr old single woman. New and oh so excited! looking for someone to introduce to me the world of bondage, discipline and limit testing. I would consider myself a sub but am open to anything

Just looking for some funnnn~ Outgoing, but a little shy at times! I love plants, thrifting, music (from heavy metal to slow melodies), and any kinds of food!! Looking to explore a little bit

short term: looking to build a connection and trust with someone to have fun with long term: looking for a relationship with someone open minded

Hi, I like to go by Kitten on here as I find my sexual orientation submissive in nature and curious about what kind of pleasure I can experience. I crave the idea of giving up control to another person who will take it upon themselves to see that I experience all kinds of pleasure and be sexually content. If nothing else, I want to experience pleasure where I do not have to worry about my hands getting tired or being unable to work myself hard enough to reach that point of climax and loss of control. Outside of sex and kink I am foremost a writer, studying English Literature and reading anything I can get my hands on. My hobbies are all creative in some way, I dabble in ***ting, sketching, singing, and so on. I love a good intellectual conversation from discussing the possibility of the universe and extraterrestrials to discussing the workings of the mind and other things. I’ve been described as an old soul and I’m very analytical about life. I love nature and ***s and have a deep found respect for them. I have respect for all people until they disrespect me and then it’s their choice whether they want to walk away or make amends. I'm looking to find like minded individuals to experience pleasure together and who I can relentlessly tease until they can no longer take it. 😘😊 - Kitten