Find kinky women in Ottawa

I'm a polyamorous brat who started out on the website to learn more about other brats and find people to discuss techniques with. I'm mature and mischievous, and curiosity may have killed the cat, but I like the ending to that sentence better. I am not a sub, and I'm not looking to change that. I _can_ submit, but I am not submissive by nature. Likewise the other way around. I like the power struggle, especially with an equal, and sometimes, I love to come out on top. I like tying someone up as much as I like being tied up. To me, being a brat is about empowerment, and whether I end up on the bottom or on the top, I'll find that empowerment in what I can do to my partner or in what I can make my partner do. That's why my profile says I'm a switch. Mostly here to meet like-minded people and exchange experiences; I come from a very button-up background when it comes to talking about sex, and curiosity is my fatal flaw. Good conversation is always worth it, but don't expect me to respond to your cheesy or well-used pickup lines. I have a partner; I'm not here to fulfill a need, especially not other people's, so if you're trying to get me to fit into your fantasy, I'll disappoint you. I like to break crowns. If you're confident, charming, mysterious, and interested in a challenge, I'll happily steal yours too.
Female (33) Ottawa, Ontario
Looking to further explore the kink world, have some fun and meet some dope ass women (both for friendship and for play). Pretty open minded and will try most things at least once (probably more ?). Looking for experiences that are respectful, educational and nasty ?. Outside of kink I enjoy being outdoors, spending time with the people I cherish, eating good food, binge watching my latest favourite show and travelling. Always looking to platonically connect with other POC women in the area as well, so if you fit the bill feel free to hop in the DMs ?
Female (27) Ottawa, Ontario
Pm for the kinkier things I can’t say in my bio.. my username says it all. I love older men and women who know how to give the right spots extra attention ..
Female (23) Ottawa, Ontario
Hello slave, I am an experienced dominant woman, I come from Germany but travel very often. I am looking for a real and worthy submissive at my feet, someone with whom I can make him happy and make him the happiest submissive in the BDSM world at my feet. I am looking for a sufficiently motivated submissive, a submissive willing to bow at my feet and belong to me. I have a strong background in BDSM and would like to find a submissive who is worthy and willing to be guided for a long-term relationship.
Female (35) Ottawa, Ontario
Looking for a dom that is into BDSM. Love to be owned but hopefully there can be some attraction between us for this to be more enjoyable.
Female (21) Ottawa, Ontario
Hi ! I’m currently blonde - 5’4. I’m going to school for engineering- but would prefer traditional gender roles later in life with the right person. I’m well educated & well spoken - have a bit of an attitude & people think I’m funny & generally fun to be around. I’m looking for a successful man , below 45 please. I’ve must be very dominant, enjoy engaging in rough play - putting me in my place ( whenever the occasion arises ) & controlling their lady. I cook , I clean & do basically about everything & anything you’d want. I’d be interested to play with you & your friend(s) (males). I’ve never done something like this before but the thought of it excites me. If not - I would be happy being all yours too ! No sub males or switches. CNC is my favourite. **Desires and Fantasies** CNC Rough sex Anal DP GB Humiliation Completely controlled physically & emotionally
Female (22) Ottawa, Ontario
A submissive who is shy but I'm complex when you get to know me. Looking for a daddy dom, who can pleasure me and baby me the way I've always wanted ?
Female (22) Ottawa, Ontario
I am 420 friendly, can be a little timid at first but once I open up I’m very fun and outgoing. Im pretty straightforward, open minded and adventurous. I love trying something new and going to different places to eat. I like to read , binge watch anime and other tv shows and occasionally like to colour. I enjoy going out for a swim, spending time at a spa and sun bathing is my favorite thing to do.
Female (24) Ottawa, Ontario
Description They broke the mold when they made me, because one of me is all this world can handle. Femme fatale. Woman made poetry. Magical and mysterious. Or simply hilarious in pajamas watching Monty Python eating popcorn. I am the girl next door. The philosophical vixen in stilleos, the dancing queen, the healer nude by the fire. I am embodiment of a woman. If I were a flavour of ice cream, I would be chocolate chip mint. Sofisticated and fresh, cleansing the palate, but still sweet, with just the right amount of naughty chocolate, to drive you wild, and keep coming back for more. My funny bone is directly connected to my G-spot, and I just love to laugh. All my life, I've been told I think like a man, but I am soft like a woman. Easy going, enjoying my perverted horny mind, while also loving the finer things, such as dainty lace and silks along my pale soft skin. Not fully dom nor submissive, a femme fatale who enjoys playing games; alluring and seductive. I love to tease, finding a person's breaking point, as we dance toe to toe, to see... who comes out on top....
Female (39) Ottawa, Ontario
I'm an introvert who values human connection and have been living off-grid in the Ottawa Valley throughout the last few years. I'd rather be in the woods than almost anywhere else. I don't fit into the mainstream and have learned to embrace it. I'm in a long distance poly relationship and am seeking someone more local to play with.
Female (39) Ottawa, Ontario
#MILF - I got those curves. #420friendly #Beerfriendly Looking for that perfect kink fulfilled relationship with someone... I'm outgoing, very open/open minded, I'm fun and bubbly and have a good sense of humor. *submissive, CNC, somnophilia, toys, bondage, public, cuckold, exhibitionist/public play* xox
Female (28) Ottawa, Ontario
Ottawa-Montreal-Toronto-Kingston Newish to ENM wanting to connect with open minded gentle souls with a feminine vibe that have interest in health, wellness, therapy, music, art, nature, alternative festivals and much more. My partner and I are loving parents in a nested relationship for 14+ years looking for emotional, intelectual and fun experiences solo or together in a consensual way. Appreciate relationships that are trauma informed, nurturing, healthy and safe. Interested in taking things in a slow, respectful and gentle way. Would love to learn Shibari! If you identify as a ???❤️???‍♀️ let's hang out and see how it flows.
Female (42) Ottawa, Ontario
ENM poly at heart bi/pan political weirdo union thug far left free palestine trans lives matter and if any of that is off putting dont bother alcohol free and you dont have to be but if you need to drink or get drunk im not into it (and can tell when someones white knuckling not drinking so dont test your ability to not drink out with me) learning to live life on lifes terms just figuring things out Update: looking for people in my area, not looking for online play or chatting from too far a distance. I visit Toronto and Montreal sometimes, but not looking for long distance pen pals
Female (39) Ottawa, Ontario
Mostly looking for a sub girl or little brat to have fun with, tease, play, edge …I tend to be dominant with women but more submissive with men. I’m an awesome gusher ;)
Female (45) Ottawa, Ontario
Hello! brand new here, not sure exactly what I’m looking for. i guess I luke a dominant caring guy, just want something physical. Love chatting and open to experience more, just nit into degradation. ?
Female (47) Ottawa, Ontario
If you have long hair you've already scored points with me lol I guess that's a fetish lol ooh or a sexy accent haha Not sure how pansexual isn't an option on here but yeah once I realized there are more than two genders...I've only ever been with men but let's just say I don't want to limit myself lol Not really sure why I'm here lol Just figured I should investigate why I keep feeling inclined to offer myself as a sex slave to literally any man I've gotten remotely close to. Alas never had anyone take me up on it. I think they think I'm either kidding or too good to be true lol Now these have been 'normal' guys. Not to be rude but I find it hard to start something with someone specifically searching for a sub...does that make any fucking sense whatsoever? lol I have to have a genuine interest in you to make me want to give myself over ya know? I popped on here for research mostly so not necessarily looking to meet someone but if it happens then cool. Maybe I'm needy or vanilla or whatever but a regular conversation over coffee at least would be a good place to start. Not to be mean but I'm not going to talk to you if you don't have a picture lol and if you're so uncreative as to have 69 in your name...you'll have to work harder to gain my interest lol also sorry lads but if you're younger you have an uphill battle lol I always end up going older for some reason but eh I guess I could always try something new lol
Female (38) Ottawa, Ontario
?️‍?married bbw looking for connection and fun on the dl of all kinds… virtual for now, open to fantasizing about more More open minded than you think… come as you are and we’ll see if it’s a match!! ?
Female (29) Ottawa, Ontario
Most important thing to know about me is that I am married, my husband is aware of my activities and approves, I am a bratty submissive, my husband doesn’t have interest in the lifestyle hence my search for a Dom. I enjoy: impact, Cnc play. solo or with couples as I am also bi. love public play, and am not opposed to being recorded.
Female (40) Ottawa, Ontario
I’m new to this: -the app -and the lifestyle I know a little but I’m still looking to learn
Female (21) Ottawa, Ontario
I have been in the lifestyle for over ten years, I am open minded, witty and sacrastic. I enjoy meeting new people and making new connections. I'm mostly look for some cyber fun, don't hesitate to say Hi! 100% Ageplayer 100% Degradee 100% Boy/Girl 98% Submissive 94% Masochist 93% Voyeur 90% Pet 89% Exhibitionist 84% Rope bunny 83% Experimentalist 82% Non-monogamist 70% Primal (Prey) 52% Brat 20% Slave 18% Vanilla 0% Switch
Female (34) Ottawa, Ontario
Looking for regular, discreet hook ups. Want to test my limits with someone willing to train and be patient with me. Open to group settings, couples and singles
Female (43) Ottawa, Ontario
a normal self reliant, independent gal. can do for myself, but would like to share life. Do not bother chatting with me if you are super heavy into belittling or majorly degrading. I will not tolerate it.
Female (42) Ottawa, Ontario

New members in Ottawa

Hello slave, I am an experienced dominant woman, I come from Germany but travel very often. I am looking for a real and worthy submissive at my feet, someone with whom I can make him happy and make him the happiest submissive in the BDSM world at my feet. I am looking for a sufficiently motivated submissive, a submissive willing to bow at my feet and belong to me. I have a strong background in BDSM and would like to find a submissive who is worthy and willing to be guided for a long-term relationship.
Female (35) Ottawa, Ontario
Looking to further explore the kink world, have some fun and meet some dope ass women (both for friendship and for play). Pretty open minded and will try most things at least once (probably more ?). Looking for experiences that are respectful, educational and nasty ?. Outside of kink I enjoy being outdoors, spending time with the people I cherish, eating good food, binge watching my latest favourite show and travelling. Always looking to platonically connect with other POC women in the area as well, so if you fit the bill feel free to hop in the DMs ?
Female (27) Ottawa, Ontario
Pm for the kinkier things I can’t say in my bio.. my username says it all. I love older men and women who know how to give the right spots extra attention ..
Female (23) Ottawa, Ontario
Looking for a dom that is into BDSM. Love to be owned but hopefully there can be some attraction between us for this to be more enjoyable.
Female (21) Ottawa, Ontario
I'm a polyamorous brat who started out on the website to learn more about other brats and find people to discuss techniques with. I'm mature and mischievous, and curiosity may have killed the cat, but I like the ending to that sentence better. I am not a sub, and I'm not looking to change that. I _can_ submit, but I am not submissive by nature. Likewise the other way around. I like the power struggle, especially with an equal, and sometimes, I love to come out on top. I like tying someone up as much as I like being tied up. To me, being a brat is about empowerment, and whether I end up on the bottom or on the top, I'll find that empowerment in what I can do to my partner or in what I can make my partner do. That's why my profile says I'm a switch. Mostly here to meet like-minded people and exchange experiences; I come from a very button-up background when it comes to talking about sex, and curiosity is my fatal flaw. Good conversation is always worth it, but don't expect me to respond to your cheesy or well-used pickup lines. I have a partner; I'm not here to fulfill a need, especially not other people's, so if you're trying to get me to fit into your fantasy, I'll disappoint you. I like to break crowns. If you're confident, charming, mysterious, and interested in a challenge, I'll happily steal yours too.
Female (33) Ottawa, Ontario
Hi ! I’m currently blonde - 5’4. I’m going to school for engineering- but would prefer traditional gender roles later in life with the right person. I’m well educated & well spoken - have a bit of an attitude & people think I’m funny & generally fun to be around. I’m looking for a successful man , below 45 please. I’ve must be very dominant, enjoy engaging in rough play - putting me in my place ( whenever the occasion arises ) & controlling their lady. I cook , I clean & do basically about everything & anything you’d want. I’d be interested to play with you & your friend(s) (males). I’ve never done something like this before but the thought of it excites me. If not - I would be happy being all yours too ! No sub males or switches. CNC is my favourite. **Desires and Fantasies** CNC Rough sex Anal DP GB Humiliation Completely controlled physically & emotionally
Female (22) Ottawa, Ontario
Looking for regular, discreet hook ups. Want to test my limits with someone willing to train and be patient with me. Open to group settings, couples and singles
Female (43) Ottawa, Ontario
I'm an introvert who values human connection and have been living off-grid in the Ottawa Valley throughout the last few years. I'd rather be in the woods than almost anywhere else. I don't fit into the mainstream and have learned to embrace it. I'm in a long distance poly relationship and am seeking someone more local to play with.
Female (39) Ottawa, Ontario
I am 420 friendly, can be a little timid at first but once I open up I’m very fun and outgoing. Im pretty straightforward, open minded and adventurous. I love trying something new and going to different places to eat. I like to read , binge watch anime and other tv shows and occasionally like to colour. I enjoy going out for a swim, spending time at a spa and sun bathing is my favorite thing to do.
Female (24) Ottawa, Ontario
A submissive who is shy but I'm complex when you get to know me. Looking for a daddy dom, who can pleasure me and baby me the way I've always wanted ?
Female (22) Ottawa, Ontario
#MILF - I got those curves. #420friendly #Beerfriendly Looking for that perfect kink fulfilled relationship with someone... I'm outgoing, very open/open minded, I'm fun and bubbly and have a good sense of humor. *submissive, CNC, somnophilia, toys, bondage, public, cuckold, exhibitionist/public play* xox
Female (28) Ottawa, Ontario
Mostly looking for a sub girl or little brat to have fun with, tease, play, edge …I tend to be dominant with women but more submissive with men. I’m an awesome gusher ;)
Female (45) Ottawa, Ontario
Description They broke the mold when they made me, because one of me is all this world can handle. Femme fatale. Woman made poetry. Magical and mysterious. Or simply hilarious in pajamas watching Monty Python eating popcorn. I am the girl next door. The philosophical vixen in stilleos, the dancing queen, the healer nude by the fire. I am embodiment of a woman. If I were a flavour of ice cream, I would be chocolate chip mint. Sofisticated and fresh, cleansing the palate, but still sweet, with just the right amount of naughty chocolate, to drive you wild, and keep coming back for more. My funny bone is directly connected to my G-spot, and I just love to laugh. All my life, I've been told I think like a man, but I am soft like a woman. Easy going, enjoying my perverted horny mind, while also loving the finer things, such as dainty lace and silks along my pale soft skin. Not fully dom nor submissive, a femme fatale who enjoys playing games; alluring and seductive. I love to tease, finding a person's breaking point, as we dance toe to toe, to see... who comes out on top....
Female (39) Ottawa, Ontario
Ottawa-Montreal-Toronto-Kingston Newish to ENM wanting to connect with open minded gentle souls with a feminine vibe that have interest in health, wellness, therapy, music, art, nature, alternative festivals and much more. My partner and I are loving parents in a nested relationship for 14+ years looking for emotional, intelectual and fun experiences solo or together in a consensual way. Appreciate relationships that are trauma informed, nurturing, healthy and safe. Interested in taking things in a slow, respectful and gentle way. Would love to learn Shibari! If you identify as a ???❤️???‍♀️ let's hang out and see how it flows.
Female (42) Ottawa, Ontario
ENM poly at heart bi/pan political weirdo union thug far left free palestine trans lives matter and if any of that is off putting dont bother alcohol free and you dont have to be but if you need to drink or get drunk im not into it (and can tell when someones white knuckling not drinking so dont test your ability to not drink out with me) learning to live life on lifes terms just figuring things out Update: looking for people in my area, not looking for online play or chatting from too far a distance. I visit Toronto and Montreal sometimes, but not looking for long distance pen pals
Female (39) Ottawa, Ontario
If you have long hair you've already scored points with me lol I guess that's a fetish lol ooh or a sexy accent haha Not sure how pansexual isn't an option on here but yeah once I realized there are more than two genders...I've only ever been with men but let's just say I don't want to limit myself lol Not really sure why I'm here lol Just figured I should investigate why I keep feeling inclined to offer myself as a sex slave to literally any man I've gotten remotely close to. Alas never had anyone take me up on it. I think they think I'm either kidding or too good to be true lol Now these have been 'normal' guys. Not to be rude but I find it hard to start something with someone specifically searching for a sub...does that make any fucking sense whatsoever? lol I have to have a genuine interest in you to make me want to give myself over ya know? I popped on here for research mostly so not necessarily looking to meet someone but if it happens then cool. Maybe I'm needy or vanilla or whatever but a regular conversation over coffee at least would be a good place to start. Not to be mean but I'm not going to talk to you if you don't have a picture lol and if you're so uncreative as to have 69 in your name...you'll have to work harder to gain my interest lol also sorry lads but if you're younger you have an uphill battle lol I always end up going older for some reason but eh I guess I could always try something new lol
Female (38) Ottawa, Ontario
Most important thing to know about me is that I am married, my husband is aware of my activities and approves, I am a bratty submissive, my husband doesn’t have interest in the lifestyle hence my search for a Dom. I enjoy: impact, Cnc play. solo or with couples as I am also bi. love public play, and am not opposed to being recorded.
Female (40) Ottawa, Ontario
a normal self reliant, independent gal. can do for myself, but would like to share life. Do not bother chatting with me if you are super heavy into belittling or majorly degrading. I will not tolerate it.
Female (42) Ottawa, Ontario
I have been in the lifestyle for over ten years, I am open minded, witty and sacrastic. I enjoy meeting new people and making new connections. I'm mostly look for some cyber fun, don't hesitate to say Hi! 100% Ageplayer 100% Degradee 100% Boy/Girl 98% Submissive 94% Masochist 93% Voyeur 90% Pet 89% Exhibitionist 84% Rope bunny 83% Experimentalist 82% Non-monogamist 70% Primal (Prey) 52% Brat 20% Slave 18% Vanilla 0% Switch
Female (34) Ottawa, Ontario
Hello! brand new here, not sure exactly what I’m looking for. i guess I luke a dominant caring guy, just want something physical. Love chatting and open to experience more, just nit into degradation. ?
Female (47) Ottawa, Ontario
?️‍?married bbw looking for connection and fun on the dl of all kinds… virtual for now, open to fantasizing about more More open minded than you think… come as you are and we’ll see if it’s a match!! ?
Female (29) Ottawa, Ontario
I’m new to this: -the app -and the lifestyle I know a little but I’m still looking to learn
Female (21) Ottawa, Ontario

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