Kinky women in Ontario

I’ve got that stereotypical Canadian charm of a nice girl while simultaneously bleeding out inappropriate thoughts. I am a conquest brat with a love for power struggle and definitely not the type who is going to be waiting for you on my knees. I am not looking for an online only connection or to be a Domme. If you want me to take you seriously as a partner, you will communicate properly before jumping in.

I'm just a little brat.i like to have fun once I get to know people. I'm super shy. but a little freak. if you ask me what I'm doing and I say trail ride (IT'S NOT A HORSE Damn perverts) I ride UTVs and ATVs ..and hey how's it going is an acceptable way to start a message. I might be a kinky hoe but I'm still a lady and would like to be treated like one

I’m looking for a well-experienced Dom who genuinely enjoys the responsibility that comes with taking the lead. Confidence matters to me. I want someone who can naturally take control, make decisions, and lead without needing to constantly be told what to do. Someone with enough experience to understand that being dominant isn’t just about giving orders — it’s about paying attention, learning your partner, and knowing when and how to push them. I want someone who studies me. Someone observant enough to learn how I think, what makes me tick, what challenges me, what excites me, and where my boundaries are. Once you know me, I want you to be able to take that knowledge and use it to guide the dynamic — including introducing me to experiences you genuinely think would be good for me. I’m very interested in the psychological side of D/s. Mind games, anticipation, teasing, suspense, getting inside my head, challenging me mentally, and creating that delicious feeling of not always knowing what you have planned next. I want a Dom who can expand my world. Someone who will introduce me to new experiences and gradually take me outside of my comfort zone while still making me feel safe enough to let go. I’m drawn to a Dom with a strong presence — commanding, protective, confident, possessive in the consensual/fantasy sense, and comfortable with intensity. Someone who doesn’t need to announce that he’s dominant because you can feel it. But underneath all of that, I need trust, communication, respect, and genuine care. I want to be able to surrender because I know you’re paying attention. I want someone who understands that submission is something I’m choosing to give, and that trust should be earned and valued. I want chemistry. I want tension. I want to feel wanted. And I want a Dom who is actually interested in building something — not someone looking for a convenient label, a disposable dynamic, or someone to simply follow instructions. I’m not looking for someone to tell me they’re a Dom. I’m looking for someone who makes me feel why I want one. fetlife account Sweetly Ruined I only add people as friends if I’ve met them in person

switch, brat, Dom. I am a professional domnatrix in training if you would like to be a subby of mine there is a cost but I'll be happy to have u ❤️❤️❤️ also have O.F. if interested in it just ask

Looking to discover new kinks, currently love being dominated and love toys, open to any age just looking for someone who knows what they’re doing to show me a good time . Especially like CnC and Step daddy step daughter, ***s . etc

Goddess energy only. 👑 Yes, I’m an actual model. I’m here to make friends, explore, and meet interesting people. I love being admired, adored, and worshipped. If you know how to treat a goddess properly, we’ll probably get along. 😉

I am an open-minded, kind, and feminine woman. I value sincerity, a good sense of humor, and treating people with respect. I enjoy personal growth, spending time with my loved ones, and creating a warm and cozy home. I believe that strong relationships are built on trust, support, and a genuine interest in each other.

A little brat who loves to talk back and tease. I get what I want and I need someone to serve me and help me shut my brain off

Well...let's start with a quote that puts in perspective My thoughts on My role as a Mistress and our goals. As a Mistress, I am neither over-zealous nor fanatical. I am strict when need be and firm, but also compassionate and understanding. My Dominance is both subtle in undertone and matter of fact. I lead; you follow in My footsteps. I teach the lifestyle, I motivate, I encourage...a Mentor for those who seek to be initiated; a Dominant partner for those in search of one. I am a good listener. Any and all decisions I make are always in the best interests of both, not One or the other. Many men express the desire to ‘give up’ control. That works best with a Mistress that is in control of herself. And I am in control of Myself. Remember this: a good Mistress takes her responsibilities seriously and she is very responsible for the submissive who relies on her judgment, knowledge and experience, and protection. True submission, you will eventually realize, frees you from inhibitions that hold you back, and will allow you to pursue goals successfully outside and inside this lifestyle, but be an aid to exploring, discovering, and experiencing all your erotic interests openly, and this because you will have someone to encourage you to do so; sometimes encouragement could be a firm hand. :)

Sapiosexual | Demiromantic | Alpha Submissive w/ a penchant for service IF the connection is right, so please read everything prior to beginning a conversation with me. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ I wouldn't continue any further if a TPE "alternative traditional lifestyle" isn't for you, or cannot be provided by you — including marriage and biological ***. Additionally, if you have any addictions (consumption of psychoactive substances, but also including video games or any dysfunctional behaviours) then it's not me you're looking for. Finally, if you have peanut and/or *** allergies then it's a no from me. 🤷 _ I'm on the hunt for what feels like a needle in a hundred haystacks, so please don't waste my time by not reading my -entire- profile. I'm worth the effort, assuming you're anything like me. I will not engage in small talk with you — if that's what I wanted then I'd be speaking to my dogs, cats, and/or plants as opposed to being on here (tbh, I'd find more enjoyment from my conversations with them). 🐈🐕🪴 _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ At my core I am a humanist, intellectual, freethinker, ***-lover, strategist ("big picture/solutions-oriented), and (quite possibly) loyal to a fault. I'm full of curiousity, completely authentic, stoic, conscientious, playful, extremely attentive & thoughtful, reserved (in group settings), passive but assertive when warranted, introspective, able to love unconditionally, as well as having the ability to empathise with even the "worst of the worst". _ ✨ Side-note: My ability to empathise with anybody developed due to significant adverse events that I've experienced from a very young age, and yet I am extremely grateful for each and every one of them. Evidently, I've also become incredibly resilient and genuinely believe I have the ability to get through anything life throws at me. _ I also identify with many of the traits associated with the INTJ-A mbti profile; however, depending on the circumstances I can/will pull-in my feeler-side. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ Inherent beliefs I live by: At their core, people are innately good, but this doesn't mean that I don't realise that people can't make harmful decisions. Every experience is an opportunity to learn. Doing as little harm (as I possibly can) to other sentient beings/things. Approaching sensitive conversations with curiousity. Prioritising your life partner. Not constantly 'chasing' the newest possessions and/or new experiences, because neither of those things will result in feeling genuine happiness with one's life. Simply put, those things offer fleeting feelings of happiness and then reality sinks back in. 🤐 _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ General interests/hobbies: Horticulture, educational pursuits (podcasts, documentaries, non-fiction books, research), ***s (I feed some of the local wildlife), astronomy, sewing, "Buy It for Life", informal volunteering, walking the dogs, writing notes, relationship psychology, science, entrepreneurship, DIY, hiking, nature, art, health & wellness. _ Kink-wise: This isn't felt as roleplay to me, meaning it is NOT just a bedroom role or a 'hat' I put on and take off; it's who I am and it should be innately who you are, too. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ What I'm looking for: Somebody who is both emotionally and analytically intelligent, likely in the 45-55 age-range, an innate leader (with quiet confidence), flexible, curious/inquisitive, patient, nurturing & attentive, firm but fair, consistent, respectable, kind, a gentle/calm communicator, loyal, solutions-oriented, a team-player, family-oriented, transparent, that has a growth-mindset, can set + maintain healthy boundaries, and that can remain composed under pressure (I do NOT do well with aggressive behaviour, including raised voices and mannerisms, regardless of it being directed at me or otherwise). I am extremely inquisitive and desire knowing everything about my partner, and I expect them to desire that same level of connection. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ If you do not have the ability to put somebody else's legitimate needs above your personal desires, then this won't work out. 🤷 If you don't have the time or willingness to put effort into establishing a relationship, well no need to waste either of our time. Additionally, please be self-reflective enough not to set yourself up for failure by setting an expectation that you can't realistically fulfill long-term — participating in "biological mating rituals" isn't a valid excuse, and engaging in it is going to result in a lack of trust (and subsequent implosion of any possible relationship). 🙄 _ If you cannot appreciate/value what I bring to the table, my intrinsic motivation to please in various capacities, well that's going to be your loss ultimately. My happiness is derived from helping others. _____________ |↓| _____________

I’m the kind of girl who reads the book before watching the movie and always says 'bless you' to strangers who sneeze. I work hard at the bakery, but I prioritize balance whether that’s a quiet Sunday morning with coffee or a spontaneous weekend getaway. I’m looking for a partner who is kind, has a curious mind, and knows how to laugh at life’s little messes.

I am a Princess.. with a capital P! :) Yes I know this is a LONG profile, I use my profile as a filter. Suck it up and read, or don't bother me. If you don't qualify, I won't bother with any DMs. Due to some family health issues, my home is no longer available to host. You will need to host or pay for hotel room etc. When this changes, I will update here. I am not looking for sexting or long distance. My chat is short in order to see if we have compatible service hours. No point in connecting in long expressive chat, then we meet and realize there is no chemistry. It's not about looks but energy etc. I am hunting for local submissives only... real life face to face REGULAR service. NO MEET AND BEAT. I have a VERY busy life and you need to be responsible for keeping communication going. If I get distracted, please do not take offense and just keep messaging to keep my attention. I never try to ghost. If I am not interested, I will tell you directly. Business and in and out of the country, things get hectic. I am seeking service oriented subs who are not looking for sex. Wanting to please me and make me smile, who enjoys CFnm. Your body type is not important. Your vulnerability is. When in Mexico I seek a sub who speaks English and can help me learn the culture, language, translating, shopping locations etc. In Canada, available hours are critical. Suits shift worker, self employed or retired. Typically from noon to five during the week...1 to 2 times a month. Must be 40 yo or older. In Mexico I have alot more available hours. I am open to any age due to the size of the community, as long as you are mature. I do have some interest in chastity. Knowing I am in control of your orgasms is exciting. Not into Mommy or AB play. If you are looking for hot kinky sexual play, negative psychological treatment or hard sadistic play, you will not be suitable. I have been active as a switch for over 25 years.. and still find new things. It's amazing. I enjoy rituals and rules but not high protocol. I am a toy addict and truly love to test my toys on flesh that begs for my touch. If you like simple touch, soft to medium intensity, floggers and my special baby (check my photos)... you may suit my needs. My favourite is my violet wand ? I am aware electrical can be scary and I will walk you through it slowly. I have given seminars on the safe use of violet wands in the past... and I will respect your safe word. Google violet wand BEFORE you message me. First and foremost, I expect to be entertained and get attention. First meeting... you will buy me lunch/dinner, we have a conversation, and then, you go will home. If we both want to get to know each other more, the next 1 or 2 dinner dates are discussing particular interests and limits. Then we will plan a play session. If that works out for both of us, we will continue to bond and enjoy ourselves. I am in committed 24 year kinky marriage and not seeking a relationship. Just casual play partner friends. You will be serving me, not my husband. I own multiple businesses and am doing well. I require your body, submissive nature and your brains not your *** BUT you must have disposable income so I won't feel bad when you buy me dinner, purchase personal toys for yourself, etc. Oh and chocolate covered strawberries or candy apples occasionally. I seek a sub that benefits my life. Whatever talents you have, I can find a way to apply them in my personal and business life. Massage, computer, handyman, organizing, cooking, physical work, pedicures, detailed work, IT, online sales, mechanic, information gathering, house help, etc .. my personal assistant to use and ***. Your talents define the service I request. You are to make my life easier...what talents or training do you have? I am a warm and caring person yet I have a fun soft sadistic side. I am not a hard cold Domme who thinks you are worthless. In fact, I seek a strong confident syb who loves to serve. I will smile happily as I tease and *** you. As long as you try hard to please me and finish your tasks with care, you will find me patient and kind. If you misbehave on purpose I will not "punish" you, I will send you home. I seek a sub who craves to please, not a brat who needs an excuse to be beat. I DO NOT like to repeat myself. Read my profile as I get annoyed if you ask me something stated in it. If we do not connect as D/s private play partners, I can always use a foot massage, chat, servant or play partner at an event. I do not chat online... my life is too busy. I love newbies who are nervous and just want to experience a few things. If you see me at an event, feel free to drop by and chat. Compatibility, good service and hygiene matter to me more than body type. Sorry but you need to be 40+ years to apply to be my boy. If under 40, come serve me at events and I might play with you. Message me with more than just a "Hello" or I will ignore you. Do NOT ask me for kik, whatsapp, messenger etc. If I meet and like you, then you will get easier ways to contact me. Read my PickyPrincess Posts. Do you dare to dip a toe in? ? And congrats... you made it to the end of my book lol

I like sex... a lot, more than most I think and I have an unusually high drive that not many can keep up with. That being said, I wont fuck just anybody! Before anyone gets in my pants, they need to first get into my head, make me think, make me laugh. My time is precious and I dont have time for bed hoppers or vapid interactions. I like to keep things casual while also having connection. Friendship and actually enjoying each others company and having interest beyond sex is as important to me as physical attraction, chemistry and sexual compatibility. The goal is to find something that is somewhere between friends and lovers with the only commitment being to honesty, respect, consideration and appreciation. I am definitely drawn to cougar/cub dynamics with guys and bestie with benefits with the girlies but if the chemistry is right, I can be open to many different dynamics. If you call yourself a "dom" and you expect me to submit, then I'm probably not the girl for you. I also dont expect anyone to just freely submit to me either. I believe that submission is something that should be earned and should only be placed into capable hands. I am the most capable person I know but you dont have to take my word for it, I'm quite confident that it will be seen and experienced by whomever I might share my time with. As far as everything else about me, I work from home and make my own schedule. I have what some might call a free spirit, I'm a party girl that forgot to grow up, I paved my own path, I found the cheat codes necessary to live a life not stifled by societal norms and expectations... basically I do what I want. I love music, comedy, art, astrology, ***s, baseball and growing green things and really too much to name. I like philosophical conversations with intelligent people and I have zero patience for stupidity, ignorance and far left dissonance.

I want a man who’ll go down on me after he’s filled me full of his cum. The thought of you passionately kissing me after you’ve eaten my pussy (that’s full of your cum) makes me fucking sweat.

Currently single, Poly, demisexual, more into women than men and with women I am the opposite of a pillow princess 😝. Don’t assume I want to be called a good girl. I like to be bratty and flirty. Be chill and talk to me like a normal person if u wanna chat. VERY into primal stuff.

I'm a good, obedience slut who can be very, very nasty. I like being shown off, passed around, and properly humiliated. I'll do almost anything, if you know how to ask.. I need men who are assertive, controlling, who will push me outside my comfort zone and break me down. Debase me. Degrade me. Use me. I'm a slut built for one thing: servicing your needs. I want you to use me to fulfill your darkest, most fucked up fantasies. Be creative. Be thoughtful. I don't have time for "hey" or copy-paste bullshit. If you want this, try harder. Challenge me. Surprise me. Shock me. Excite me. Just don't fucking bore me. **Desires and Fantasies** To be an owned free use slut

I’m 100% real, my photos are not AI they are just professionally shot and took a LOT of effort and time to create ☺️💖🌸 check my profile on the WEBSITE to see more ”semi” approved photos!

im 22F. im not looking for a hookup, fwb. I wont rush into things. I am on a weight loss journey (lost over 40lbs so far!!) I like to workout and eat healthy. one of my fav bowls is Greek yogurt with oats, chia seeds (soaked first). a little bit of honey and blueberries 😋 I also love pizza and Caribbean foods. I like to horseback ride. I like to camp, travel, hike, and explore the outdoors. I have traveled to norway a few times.

Hi FBSM 💆‍♀️💆‍♂️Therapist here. I also do cuddling 🫂 sessions.

im looking for some fun nothing serious right now, if it goes that way kewl. I love to please good little sub here looking for a Dom who knows how to be pleased

Haiii! I’m Ally!! and I’m a soft little (Little age: 2-4) brat with a playful streak. I’m sweet, affectionate, and cuddly… until I get comfortable, then my teasing side shows up. I’ll pout just to see if you’ll correct me or throw a tiny bit of sass just to get your attention. I’m into agere, gentle guidance, and that warm Daddy Dom energy that’s patient but still knows how to lead when I need it. If you like someone cute, a little mischievous, and secretly craving structure, you’ll definitely enjoy me. 💗 🎀 A Little About Me 🎀 I’m 90 pounds and 5’6. I love spending my time gaming, coloring, and watching my favorite shows. My Little Pony is my comfort show, so be nice about it… or don’t, I kind of like the attention. I’m a virgin!! I’m also obsessed with dressing up cute, whether it’s cozy outfits or something with bows. I’m playful, creative :D Ps, if you think you can handle a brat like me you will have to rethink that hehe 🙃 you Wanna tease me in public? 🦄💗 Add my Lovense: Allywuh

Soft, boho, a little dreamy—but I notice everything. Especially the way a heart reacts, s***ds up, slips out of control. I’m drawn to that edge—the moment where it’s almost too much, and someone else has to step in. Not innocent. Just curious… and a little darker than I look. If you feel it, you’ll know.

magnetic personality with a dope vibe xx anything you want to know ask 🔥

I'm a 46 yr old curvy, polyamorous, bisexual, demisexual, pansexual babygirl, kitten, submissive, rope kitty (like a rope bunny), little. I am NOT interested in anything long distance or outside of my country. DO NOT WASTE MY TIME! Not interested with anything with ANYONE younger than myself... age range preferences: 40-69. I STILL prefer men/women older than me though. I AM NOT CURRENTLY LOOKING FOR ANYTHING WITH ANYONE RIGHT NOW. MY LIFE IS FULL. I do deal with some mental health issues such as; depression, anxiety, social anxiety, & body dysmorphia. I also have a past of cutting, but i haven't done so since 2010. I have PCOS (diagnosed at 18) & PTFS (potello femoral syndrome. Also known as runners knee) in my right knee (also diagnosed at 18). I have chemical sensitivities to scents. Pls be respectful of that. I am NOT interested in sex with anyone. It's more likely I will NOT have sex with you. I am 100% more sensual than I am sexual. I have to have a deep connection with someone long before sex happens. Don't waste your time if all you want is to fuck someone.

I’m a hard domme looking for a sub who can handle being dominated, humiliated, etc. If you want to chat, you must address me as miss, maam, or mistress.

I’m looking for a well-experienced Dom who genuinely enjoys the responsibility that comes with taking the lead. Confidence matters to me. I want someone who can naturally take control, make decisions, and lead without needing to constantly be told what to do. Someone with enough experience to understand that being dominant isn’t just about giving orders — it’s about paying attention, learning your partner, and knowing when and how to push them. I want someone who studies me. Someone observant enough to learn how I think, what makes me tick, what challenges me, what excites me, and where my boundaries are. Once you know me, I want you to be able to take that knowledge and use it to guide the dynamic — including introducing me to experiences you genuinely think would be good for me. I’m very interested in the psychological side of D/s. Mind games, anticipation, teasing, suspense, getting inside my head, challenging me mentally, and creating that delicious feeling of not always knowing what you have planned next. I want a Dom who can expand my world. Someone who will introduce me to new experiences and gradually take me outside of my comfort zone while still making me feel safe enough to let go. I’m drawn to a Dom with a strong presence — commanding, protective, confident, possessive in the consensual/fantasy sense, and comfortable with intensity. Someone who doesn’t need to announce that he’s dominant because you can feel it. But underneath all of that, I need trust, communication, respect, and genuine care. I want to be able to surrender because I know you’re paying attention. I want someone who understands that submission is something I’m choosing to give, and that trust should be earned and valued. I want chemistry. I want tension. I want to feel wanted. And I want a Dom who is actually interested in building something — not someone looking for a convenient label, a disposable dynamic, or someone to simply follow instructions. I’m not looking for someone to tell me they’re a Dom. I’m looking for someone who makes me feel why I want one. fetlife account Sweetly Ruined I only add people as friends if I’ve met them in person

switch, brat, Dom. I am a professional domnatrix in training if you would like to be a subby of mine there is a cost but I'll be happy to have u ❤️❤️❤️ also have O.F. if interested in it just ask

Goddess energy only. 👑 Yes, I’m an actual model. I’m here to make friends, explore, and meet interesting people. I love being admired, adored, and worshipped. If you know how to treat a goddess properly, we’ll probably get along. 😉

I’m the kind of girl who reads the book before watching the movie and always says 'bless you' to strangers who sneeze. I work hard at the bakery, but I prioritize balance whether that’s a quiet Sunday morning with coffee or a spontaneous weekend getaway. I’m looking for a partner who is kind, has a curious mind, and knows how to laugh at life’s little messes.

I am an open-minded, kind, and feminine woman. I value sincerity, a good sense of humor, and treating people with respect. I enjoy personal growth, spending time with my loved ones, and creating a warm and cozy home. I believe that strong relationships are built on trust, support, and a genuine interest in each other.

Well...let's start with a quote that puts in perspective My thoughts on My role as a Mistress and our goals. As a Mistress, I am neither over-zealous nor fanatical. I am strict when need be and firm, but also compassionate and understanding. My Dominance is both subtle in undertone and matter of fact. I lead; you follow in My footsteps. I teach the lifestyle, I motivate, I encourage...a Mentor for those who seek to be initiated; a Dominant partner for those in search of one. I am a good listener. Any and all decisions I make are always in the best interests of both, not One or the other. Many men express the desire to ‘give up’ control. That works best with a Mistress that is in control of herself. And I am in control of Myself. Remember this: a good Mistress takes her responsibilities seriously and she is very responsible for the submissive who relies on her judgment, knowledge and experience, and protection. True submission, you will eventually realize, frees you from inhibitions that hold you back, and will allow you to pursue goals successfully outside and inside this lifestyle, but be an aid to exploring, discovering, and experiencing all your erotic interests openly, and this because you will have someone to encourage you to do so; sometimes encouragement could be a firm hand. :)

I’m a warm, caring, and down-to-earth woman who enjoys meaningful conversations, good laughter, and appreciating the simple things in life. I love nature, exploring new places, and spending quality time with someone who makes me feel comfortable and valued. I believe the best relationships start with friendship, honesty, and a genuine connection.

just do it, i hope my age and my postal code don't scare you away because i made a mistake with all that, a friend help me set it up whiles i was busy working

I'm just a little brat.i like to have fun once I get to know people. I'm super shy. but a little freak. if you ask me what I'm doing and I say trail ride (IT'S NOT A HORSE Damn perverts) I ride UTVs and ATVs ..and hey how's it going is an acceptable way to start a message. I might be a kinky hoe but I'm still a lady and would like to be treated like one

Hi FBSM 💆‍♀️💆‍♂️Therapist here. I also do cuddling 🫂 sessions.

I desire a gentlemanly man who is thoughtful, attentive, and respectful, someone with a clear life purpose and the determination to move forward and grow. A man who believes in God and strives to apply His word in his daily life, building a relationship founded on faith, integrity, and genuine commitment.

I believe the best relationships are built on trust, respect, and lots of laughter. Hoping to meet someone who's ready for a genuine connection and excited to create a beautiful future together..

I'm a strong, self assured woman who knows exactly what she wants. I value respect, honesty, and the ability to follow through on your word. Control and discipline are part of who I am, but I also enjoy genuine conversation and building trust with those who understand the importance of boundaries. I’m not here to play games I’m here to connect with people who appreciate strength, guidance, and a commanding presence. If you’re serious, sincere, and ready to explore what it means to serve with respect, you’ll find me worth your time

A little brat who loves to talk back and tease. I get what I want and I need someone to serve me and help me shut my brain off

Behave yourself. I am a person, not a fetish dispenser. - Not interested in hookups, casual, or FWB. - I don't domme or switch. I like to poke the bear; I do not want to be the bear. - Monogamy only - I do not share well with others. - I get along best with those who identify Daddy Doms with a hint of a sadistic side. You’ll need a lot of patience and a love for the bratting, because taming me isn't an option. 😈

My profile is new but not new to the lifestyle. Never know what I'll find out here, but hopefully its fun. NB; made a mistake with my age and my postal code, hope that doesn't scare you away!

I love humiliating men. I'm looking for the men that pays to be humiliated. If you're looking for someone that will make you feel awful, hmu and let's me treat you how you want to be treated. (If you're not serious, please don't reach out)

Currently single, Poly, demisexual, more into women than men and with women I am the opposite of a pillow princess 😝. Don’t assume I want to be called a good girl. I like to be bratty and flirty. Be chill and talk to me like a normal person if u wanna chat. VERY into primal stuff.

Bisexual more into women but open to the right person if they came my way 48, Single and celibate for 4 years. Not new to the lifestyle, it's been a minute... I'm far more submissive with a man but can soft switch with women. I'm not a fan of ENM , but wouldn't be against a thrupple with the right people . I'm open to alot of things, with multiple people *max* 4 WITH THE RIGHT PEOPLE That means getting to know you. Meeting without an expectation of sex immediately. I've learned the hard way that there are bad people with the "best" intentions. so I have boundaries before submission or sex. I'm a very affectionate and emotional when I open up, but can come off, well cold at first. Also looking to get involved in the community, if there are still Munches invite me... lol I will not reply to anyone under 30! Don't message me like a horny dog it's so unattractive and I like intelligence in anyone I spend time with. kisses hehe

I want a man who’ll go down on me after he’s filled me full of his cum. The thought of you passionately kissing me after you’ve eaten my pussy (that’s full of your cum) makes me fucking sweat.

Sapiosexual | Demiromantic | Alpha Submissive w/ a penchant for service IF the connection is right, so please read everything prior to beginning a conversation with me. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ I wouldn't continue any further if a TPE "alternative traditional lifestyle" isn't for you, or cannot be provided by you — including marriage and biological ***. Additionally, if you have any addictions (consumption of psychoactive substances, but also including video games or any dysfunctional behaviours) then it's not me you're looking for. Finally, if you have peanut and/or *** allergies then it's a no from me. 🤷 _ I'm on the hunt for what feels like a needle in a hundred haystacks, so please don't waste my time by not reading my -entire- profile. I'm worth the effort, assuming you're anything like me. I will not engage in small talk with you — if that's what I wanted then I'd be speaking to my dogs, cats, and/or plants as opposed to being on here (tbh, I'd find more enjoyment from my conversations with them). 🐈🐕🪴 _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ At my core I am a humanist, intellectual, freethinker, ***-lover, strategist ("big picture/solutions-oriented), and (quite possibly) loyal to a fault. I'm full of curiousity, completely authentic, stoic, conscientious, playful, extremely attentive & thoughtful, reserved (in group settings), passive but assertive when warranted, introspective, able to love unconditionally, as well as having the ability to empathise with even the "worst of the worst". _ ✨ Side-note: My ability to empathise with anybody developed due to significant adverse events that I've experienced from a very young age, and yet I am extremely grateful for each and every one of them. Evidently, I've also become incredibly resilient and genuinely believe I have the ability to get through anything life throws at me. _ I also identify with many of the traits associated with the INTJ-A mbti profile; however, depending on the circumstances I can/will pull-in my feeler-side. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ Inherent beliefs I live by: At their core, people are innately good, but this doesn't mean that I don't realise that people can't make harmful decisions. Every experience is an opportunity to learn. Doing as little harm (as I possibly can) to other sentient beings/things. Approaching sensitive conversations with curiousity. Prioritising your life partner. Not constantly 'chasing' the newest possessions and/or new experiences, because neither of those things will result in feeling genuine happiness with one's life. Simply put, those things offer fleeting feelings of happiness and then reality sinks back in. 🤐 _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ General interests/hobbies: Horticulture, educational pursuits (podcasts, documentaries, non-fiction books, research), ***s (I feed some of the local wildlife), astronomy, sewing, "Buy It for Life", informal volunteering, walking the dogs, writing notes, relationship psychology, science, entrepreneurship, DIY, hiking, nature, art, health & wellness. _ Kink-wise: This isn't felt as roleplay to me, meaning it is NOT just a bedroom role or a 'hat' I put on and take off; it's who I am and it should be innately who you are, too. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ What I'm looking for: Somebody who is both emotionally and analytically intelligent, likely in the 45-55 age-range, an innate leader (with quiet confidence), flexible, curious/inquisitive, patient, nurturing & attentive, firm but fair, consistent, respectable, kind, a gentle/calm communicator, loyal, solutions-oriented, a team-player, family-oriented, transparent, that has a growth-mindset, can set + maintain healthy boundaries, and that can remain composed under pressure (I do NOT do well with aggressive behaviour, including raised voices and mannerisms, regardless of it being directed at me or otherwise). I am extremely inquisitive and desire knowing everything about my partner, and I expect them to desire that same level of connection. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ If you do not have the ability to put somebody else's legitimate needs above your personal desires, then this won't work out. 🤷 If you don't have the time or willingness to put effort into establishing a relationship, well no need to waste either of our time. Additionally, please be self-reflective enough not to set yourself up for failure by setting an expectation that you can't realistically fulfill long-term — participating in "biological mating rituals" isn't a valid excuse, and engaging in it is going to result in a lack of trust (and subsequent implosion of any possible relationship). 🙄 _ If you cannot appreciate/value what I bring to the table, my intrinsic motivation to please in various capacities, well that's going to be your loss ultimately. My happiness is derived from helping others. _____________ |↓| _____________

first account got deleted.. sensitive Sally didnt like my response. bubbly person.. the right chemistry can bring out that naughty side. Chocolate ONLY, SORRY GUYS.. I HAVE A TYPE AND ITS WHAT I PREFER. :) previously known as lil_demon69

Looking to discover new kinks, currently love being dominated and love toys, open to any age just looking for someone who knows what they’re doing to show me a good time . Especially like CnC and Step daddy step daughter, ***s . etc