Cisgender

Are you cisgender?

What does cisgender mean?

When we're born, we're assigned as a boy or a girl depending on what genitals we possess. Sometime later in life, we question this, and where some people find their way to different places on the gender spectrum, others are happy to stick with the label given at birth - this makes that person cisgender. It simplifies the conversation on gender and removes the rigidity of the gender binary that has existed for so long. Gender is an essential part of what makes you YOU, so it's great to have the language to express it to others.

What does it mean to be cisgender?

To be cisgender means that you identify with the sex assigned at birth. For example, if you were assigned as female at birth and still identify as that gender, then you are cisgender.

What's the difference between cisgender and straight?

Cisgender applies to what gender you identify, whereas 'straight' is a definition of your sexual orientation. You can be cisgender and straight (heterosexual), or you can be cisgender and identify as LGBTQIA.

What is a cis woman or a cis man?

A cis woman or cis man is a person who identifies as the gender given at birth. It's just another way of saying cisgender but further identifies which sex you identify with too.

Is cisgender the opposite of transgender?

Gender isn't binary like that. It is more realistic to say that cisgender and transgender are at different ends of a scale. A person who identifies as another gender to the one assigned at birth might identify as transgender. However, they may identify as non-binary or gender fluid and not see themselves as transgender or cisgender. There is a whole spectrum of genders.

Members looking for: Cisgender

When reaching out to me if you do not include your age with your location city & state in the message it will be ignored.

I am seeking a male sub/switch who is between the ages of 28-60. Absolutely NO EXCEPTIONS to that age range, so don't even ask.

Looking for someone who can fully to commit to a minimum of 2+ sessions per month and medium online interaction between sessions such as kinky calls and messaging.

Where most people are only vetting for similar kinks and STI free, I'm vetting for compatibility, longevity, and overall satisfaction of the dynamic as well. This means I have an extremely thorough vetting process and do not do casual encounters. If you are looking for immediate play or one time interactions do not respond to this posting.

I’m seeking a cisgender male sub/switch between the age of 28-60 located in the Dallas/Fort Worth Texas area or Honolulu, Oahu, Hawaii. I would prefer someone who is into sensual domination, that also likes impact play and anal play. Must be drama and drug free and have a current full 10 test STI panel within 90 days or less. I’m not looking for a one time use sub/switch, but rather someone who is wanting regular sessions at least 2+ times per month or more. Weekly sessions is ideal. I am willing to take on subs/switches new to Femdom, but l have an extensive protocol regarding that type of interaction. I am open to all body types & ethnicities. Tattoos and body modifications are ok, and I like facial hair.

The expectations I have for my subs is pretty simple:

Transparency and honesty
Commitment to our dynamic
Consent
Respect my limits, consent, privacy, and boundaries

About me:

Kink since 2003. BDSM since 2012. Domme leaning switch since 2019. Currently I am engaging in M/s dynamics only as of late 2024.
What I offer my play partner is the opportunity to engage in a safe and consensual dynamic where their needs are met, their limits are respected, and their consent is required. I want to leave my partners better off than the way I found them.

I offer my partners:

Friendship
Emotional Support
Positive Guidance
Healthy Habits & Routines
Physical Intimacy
Safe Kink Exploration
Aftercare
Transparency & Honesty
Respect
Consent
Commitment
Respecting limits, consent, privacy, and boundaries

BDSM Play Partner28 to 60 years ● 25km around USA Dallas

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