BDSM Dating

BDSM Dating – Find Kinky, Like-Minded Partners 

Are you looking for a safe, sex-positive space to explore your kinks, connect with fellow BDSM lovers, and build relationships that cater to your desires? Welcome to Fetish.com, the ultimate BDSM dating site where dominants, submissives, switches, and curious newcomers come together to embrace their sexuality, share experiences, and form real connections.

Whether you're searching for a long-term BDSM relationship, a casual kinky fling, or a partner to explore power exchange with, this is your space to meet, chat, and play with like-minded people who get you.

What is BDSM Dating?

BDSM dating is all about exploring relationships through bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism—but it’s much more than just sex. It’s about trust, communication, and mutual pleasure in a way that fits your personal desires and boundaries.

From sensual dominance to intense power play, soft restraints to strict discipline, BDSM relationships take many forms. Whether you're experienced or just dipping your toes into the world of kink, the right partner makes all the difference. That’s where Fetish.com comes in — helping you find your perfect match, learn more about BDSM, and connect with a vibrant, welcoming community.

Why Join a BDSM Dating Site Like Fetish.com?

Unlike mainstream dating apps that often censor kink or make BDSM an afterthought, Fetish.com is built for people like you — those who crave relationships where power, pleasure, and play go hand in hand.

Here’s what makes BDSM dating on Fetish.com different:

Kink-Friendly Environment – No need to explain your interests or hide your desires. Everyone here embraces BDSM and fetish play.

Safe & Respectful Community – Consent and communication are key in BDSM, and our members understand that. We foster a space where respect, education, and exploration thrive.

Match with Like-Minded People – Whether you’re a Dom, sub, switch, brat, or just curious, find partners who share your kinks and relationship goals.

Learn & Grow – Explore our BDSM forum, articles, and live chatrooms to connect with experienced kinksters and get practical advice on BDSM relationships and play.

Express Yourself Freely – Share your journey, talk about your fantasies, and flirt openly in a judgment-free space where BDSM is the norm.

BDSM Dating for Every Dynamic & Kink

No matter your level of experience or what turns you on, there’s someone out there who shares your desires. BDSM relationships come in many forms, and Fetish.com welcomes them all.

For Dominants & Masters

Do you thrive on control and authority? Looking for a submissive partner who loves to surrender? Whether you prefer gentle domination, discipline, or a full-time D/s dynamic, you’ll find subs eager to serve, obey, and explore with you. 

For Submissives & Slaves

Do you love the thrill of submission? Want to find a Dom, Master, or Mistress who can guide you into pleasure, discipline, and surrender? BDSM dating gives you the chance to explore your desires safely and consensually with partners who understand the beauty of power exchange. 

For Switches & Brats

Maybe you enjoy being in control one day and surrendering the next. Or perhaps you love teasing, testing limits, and pushing boundaries as a brat. No matter where you fall on the spectrum, Fetish.com helps you meet partners who love to play on your level.

For Kinksters & Fetish Lovers

BDSM dating isn’t just about power exchange—it’s also about sensory play, bondage, discipline, impact play, and exploring fantasies. Whether you’re into latex, rope bondage, pet play, impact play, humiliation, or anything in between, you’ll find partners who share your kinks.

How to Get Started with BDSM Dating on Fetish.com

Joining Fetish.com is easy—and it’s free to start! Here’s how to dive into the world of BDSM dating and community connections:

Step 1: Create Your Profile

Tell us about yourself! Share your kinks, interests, and what you’re looking for—whether it’s a play partner, a long-term BDSM relationship, or just great conversation. Not sure where to start? Take the BDSM Test to discover your preferences and better understand your dynamic.

Step 2: Browse & Match

Use our advanced search filters to find partners based on role, experience level, and specific kinks. Whether you’re after a hardcore Master/slave dynamic or sensual domination, you’ll find potential matches who turn you on.

Step 3: Join the Conversation

Fetish.com isn’t just for dating—it’s a thriving BDSM community where you can join forum discussions, post in chatrooms, and read expert-written kink articles. Get to know people before taking things to the next level.

Step 4: Connect & Play

Once you’ve found someone who piques your interest, start chatting! Whether you take things slow or dive right into planning your next scene, Fetish.com makes BDSM dating exciting, safe, and completely customizable to your needs.

Safe & Consensual BDSM Dating – Our Commitment

At Fetish.com, we believe that kink should always be safe, sane, and consensual. That’s why we encourage open conversations about boundaries, limits, and desires.

Consent First – No means no. Always discuss limits before play.

Safety Matters – Use safewords, establish trust, and never rush into anything.

Communication is Key – Talk about desires, aftercare needs, and expectations openly.

Community Support – Our forums and resources help newbies and experienced kinksters navigate the BDSM world confidently.

Ready to Start Your BDSM Dating Journey?

If you’re tired of vanilla dating sites that just don’t get your kinks, Fetish.com is the place to be. Whether you’re an experienced Dom, a curious sub, a seasoned kinkster, or just dipping your toes into BDSM, you’ll find real connections, real people, and real pleasure waiting for you.

Sign up today and take control of your BDSM dating experience!

Mistress uses her pet
I had just come in the door and set the motel door key down on the bedside table before reaching up and turning the light on and glancing over at the clock , 10 till 6 ! She hates it when I'm not on time , 10 minutes to get myself ready .
6 o clock on the nose I could hear the motel door key sliding through the slot and then the door opening and in walks my mistress , wearing 3 inch black heels with straps that criss-crossed up the calf to right below the knee , with black nylons that went up to mid thigh , hooked to a black garter belt . Wearing nothing else but a black bra under her beige trench coat .
After the door shut and her eyes adjusted she looks at me and says " there's my little pet just like I like him to be , wearing nothing but his leash and collar and his underpants " , she takes off her trench coat and hands it to me and tells me take care of this , I grabbed it and immediately head for the closet to hang it up , when I pass her I can smell her sweet intoxicating perfume making me weak in my knees but I stand strong and halfway to the closet I could feel her pull on my leash stopping me in mid-stride , and has she said "did you forget something you pathetic slave" I could feel the flat end of her riding crop land on the cheek of my ass , stinging slightly .
Thinking back quickly I stuttered out "yes ma'am , I'm sorry mistress , thank you mistress for letting me help you "
" Well put that away and then come back over here I have something for you , as soon as I seen them I thought of you , hope you love them as much as me " as she was making herself comfortable on the bed I turned around and looked at my mistress she was absolutely gorgeous , I would do everything and anything for her .
She was laying in the bed wearing no panties , but had a pair of pink crotchless frilly panties laying on top of her . She looked up at me and asked me if I liked her new panties which I immediately said "yes mistress" . She in turn flip them to me and said "good put them on then ". A little confused I pulled off my underwear and put on her panties like my mistress ordered me to . Now stand over here in front of me so I can look at you , I do and she reaches down and grabs my leash again pulling me towards her , reaching down between my legs she grabs my nutsack that's hanging out at the crotchless part of her panties , as she starting to squeeze my nutsack she tells me as she thinks that I look sexy in "MY" panties , as she's squeezing harder she tells me "let's get this straight right now ! YOU'RE MY BITCH ! You will do what I tell you to do when I tell you to do it do you understand me "? Yes mistress I said , "Well I think you still need a lesson taught lay across my knees" which I eagerly did , after feeling her hand land on the cheeks of my ass five or six times I started squirming , she stopped and said "Get off at me now , hope you learned your lesson" . After I got up there was a couple drops of smeared pre-cum on her upper thigh , she spoke right up "Look at what you did ! You smeared your stuff all over me , clean it up right now " has she reached behind the back of my head and pushed my head down into her crotch to lick her clean , which I did without question .
About that time there was a knock at the door , she tells me to go into the bathroom and shut the door and turn the shower on , which I did as told , I could hear the door open I can hear some mumbling but I couldn't hear nothing because of the shower running , I must have been there about 15 minutes , then I heard a knock on the door and I heard my mistress yell to turn the shower off and come out . I turn the shower off and open the bathroom door and came out my mistress was setting at the foot of the bed with a pillow at her lap , and there was a naked man setting at the head of the bed .
My mistress said come here so I stood in front of her and she said I told you I had I had a present for you . "This is Joe , I want to fuck him so I want you to suck his dick until he's hard enough to slide up into me " I looked a little confused and must have paused (because she's never asked me to service anybody before but her) but since I paused , her hand darted down and grab my nut sack and started squeezing again and said " YOU ARE MY BITCH , YOU ARE MY FUCK SLUT , YOU WILL DO WHATEVER I TELL YOU TO DO ! " I answered her back with a yes mistress
I turn around and get in the bed , I reach down and wrap my fingers around a limp shaft bringing my lips to his head then sucking his limp cock into my mouth , running my tongue on the underside of his shaft , about that time I could feel my mistresses riding crop landing on my ass again , and my mistress told me not to start yet cuz she wasn't ready and told me to look at her , I turned over and looked at her standing there with a strap-on between her legs which had a cock on it that was not only longer than mine but bigger rounder than mine also about the size of the man sitting in front of me I imagined would be
My mistress told me to stick my ass up in the air when I'm sucking his dick so she can fuck my virgin ass ," making you my bitch properly"
I did what my mistress told me to do , I put my head between the man's legs and started where I left off with his cock in my mouth it's about that time I could feel tip of my mistresses strap-on press up against my ass or as she calls it her pussy , I can feel the pressure against my ass and the head of her cock sliding in past my sphincter , sliding most of her shaft up inside me , it must have been exciting to Joe because I could feel his cock starting to get harder inside my mouth , and then they started synchronizing , my mistress and Joe both pushing their cocks in at the same time and then withdraw and then push their cocks back in me again , both of them trying to get every inch of their rods into me
About that time I felt the riding crop smack me on the ass again this time three times in a row then I heard my mistress say " you better not make him cum ! he's supposed to be fucking me , get this off of me "
I release Joe's cock and she pulls her rubber dick out of me and I help her take her strap-on off , she lays back on the bed and he gets between her legs it puts his hard rod up inside her , slowly going in and out of her , she tells me "come on you cum slut , lick and suck my clit while Joe fucks me"
After another 5 or 6 strokes both of them had an orgasm at the same time . After Joe got off of her she pushed my head down a little further and ordered me to clean her up inside and out . I did what my mistress ordered me to do and I used my tongue to clean her up inside and out

BDSM Dating

BDSM Dating – Find Kinky, Like-Minded Partners 

Are you looking for a safe, sex-positive space to explore your kinks, connect with fellow BDSM lovers, and build relationships that cater to your desires? Welcome to Fetish.com, the ultimate BDSM dating site where dominants, submissives, switches, and curious newcomers come together to embrace their sexuality, share experiences, and form real connections.

Whether you're searching for a long-term BDSM relationship, a casual kinky fling, or a partner to explore power exchange with, this is your space to meet, chat, and play with like-minded people who get you.

What is BDSM Dating?

BDSM dating is all about exploring relationships through bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism—but it’s much more than just sex. It’s about trust, communication, and mutual pleasure in a way that fits your personal desires and boundaries.

From sensual dominance to intense power play, soft restraints to strict discipline, BDSM relationships take many forms. Whether you're experienced or just dipping your toes into the world of kink, the right partner makes all the difference. That’s where Fetish.com comes in — helping you find your perfect match, learn more about BDSM, and connect with a vibrant, welcoming community.

Why Join a BDSM Dating Site Like Fetish.com?

Unlike mainstream dating apps that often censor kink or make BDSM an afterthought, Fetish.com is built for people like you — those who crave relationships where power, pleasure, and play go hand in hand.

Here’s what makes BDSM dating on Fetish.com different:

Kink-Friendly Environment – No need to explain your interests or hide your desires. Everyone here embraces BDSM and fetish play.

Safe & Respectful Community – Consent and communication are key in BDSM, and our members understand that. We foster a space where respect, education, and exploration thrive.

Match with Like-Minded People – Whether you’re a Dom, sub, switch, brat, or just curious, find partners who share your kinks and relationship goals.

Learn & Grow – Explore our BDSM forum, articles, and live chatrooms to connect with experienced kinksters and get practical advice on BDSM relationships and play.

Express Yourself Freely – Share your journey, talk about your fantasies, and flirt openly in a judgment-free space where BDSM is the norm.

BDSM Dating for Every Dynamic & Kink

No matter your level of experience or what turns you on, there’s someone out there who shares your desires. BDSM relationships come in many forms, and Fetish.com welcomes them all.

For Dominants & Masters

Do you thrive on control and authority? Looking for a submissive partner who loves to surrender? Whether you prefer gentle domination, discipline, or a full-time D/s dynamic, you’ll find subs eager to serve, obey, and explore with you. 

For Submissives & Slaves

Do you love the thrill of submission? Want to find a Dom, Master, or Mistress who can guide you into pleasure, discipline, and surrender? BDSM dating gives you the chance to explore your desires safely and consensually with partners who understand the beauty of power exchange. 

For Switches & Brats

Maybe you enjoy being in control one day and surrendering the next. Or perhaps you love teasing, testing limits, and pushing boundaries as a brat. No matter where you fall on the spectrum, Fetish.com helps you meet partners who love to play on your level.

For Kinksters & Fetish Lovers

BDSM dating isn’t just about power exchange—it’s also about sensory play, bondage, discipline, impact play, and exploring fantasies. Whether you’re into latex, rope bondage, pet play, impact play, humiliation, or anything in between, you’ll find partners who share your kinks.

How to Get Started with BDSM Dating on Fetish.com

Joining Fetish.com is easy—and it’s free to start! Here’s how to dive into the world of BDSM dating and community connections:

Step 1: Create Your Profile

Tell us about yourself! Share your kinks, interests, and what you’re looking for—whether it’s a play partner, a long-term BDSM relationship, or just great conversation. Not sure where to start? Take the BDSM Test to discover your preferences and better understand your dynamic.

Step 2: Browse & Match

Use our advanced search filters to find partners based on role, experience level, and specific kinks. Whether you’re after a hardcore Master/slave dynamic or sensual domination, you’ll find potential matches who turn you on.

Step 3: Join the Conversation

Fetish.com isn’t just for dating—it’s a thriving BDSM community where you can join forum discussions, post in chatrooms, and read expert-written kink articles. Get to know people before taking things to the next level.

Step 4: Connect & Play

Once you’ve found someone who piques your interest, start chatting! Whether you take things slow or dive right into planning your next scene, Fetish.com makes BDSM dating exciting, safe, and completely customizable to your needs.

Safe & Consensual BDSM Dating – Our Commitment

At Fetish.com, we believe that kink should always be safe, sane, and consensual. That’s why we encourage open conversations about boundaries, limits, and desires.

Consent First – No means no. Always discuss limits before play.

Safety Matters – Use safewords, establish trust, and never rush into anything.

Communication is Key – Talk about desires, aftercare needs, and expectations openly.

Community Support – Our forums and resources help newbies and experienced kinksters navigate the BDSM world confidently.

Ready to Start Your BDSM Dating Journey?

If you’re tired of vanilla dating sites that just don’t get your kinks, Fetish.com is the place to be. Whether you’re an experienced Dom, a curious sub, a seasoned kinkster, or just dipping your toes into BDSM, you’ll find real connections, real people, and real pleasure waiting for you.

Sign up today and take control of your BDSM dating experience!