If you message me and are not 40-60, local or your first message is sexual I will not be replying.

Please be consistent, honest and real.


Please be a caregiver who is looking for a part time or full time live in sub. I am willing to work part time and serve you the rest of the time.

Not seeking extreme or bathroom stuff.

NO TPE EXTREME
!!!!. I will be owned and cherished or I'll stay single. No one younger than 40 or older than 60!!! No couples! Non negotiable!!!

NOT SEEKING CASUAL PLAY! IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT I'M NOT FOR YOU!
Seeking my forever owner. Looking for local around Los Angeles ideally though. Looking for someone seeking a live in pet to take care of you….

I am a very diverse individual and a bit chameleon like as I love all manner of disparate things and am myself a walking contradiction of tastes and interests. Equally at home in a dark goth club dancing like the world is ending and dining in a fine restaurant or seeing musical performances. I can be lots of different things and I like that I have a wide variety of things I enjoy. I am at heart a goofball and a silly human who does love the fun things though, I live for adventure and seeing new things.

Kink wise I am a submissive through and thorough, though I am not a doormat and stand firm upon being treated with respect, care and love. I give what I get and I love to serve and be the perfect plaything to someone who is worthy of that. I am very much into the softer side of myself and the harder side of my dominant. I adore being a cute sweet little kitten or doll living for harder, darker play. The dichotomy of being soft, sweet and innocent while doing very dirty and dark things has always thrilled me....

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As a little I enjoy coloring, making cookies, road trips, seeing new places with Daddy, enjoying time at the park together, snuggling on a cold winters day in pajamas with hot cocoa and a movie. Hiking, walking and just generally being outdoors. Playing dress up is a great love of mine. I can be a living doll and just dress up all day long!

I am a nudist and I enjoy being naked when possible. I’d like to have a partner that likes going to nudist friendly spaces and play parties. I have bit of an exhibitionist streak lol..


I am seeking that owner who will understand me, encourage me, give me structure and discipline. I give my heart in my submission, so please be real and know where my place in your life would be. I do not tolerate someone being unsure of my role in their lives and I will not sit in uncertainty.

BDSM/Fetish Family40 to 60 years ● 50km around USA Reseda

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