Looking for a forever girl. I date with intention. I don't share my girls with other men.

I have a university degree, am retired, secure, and a good provider. I own a beautiful home on a park-like acre of property between , San Jose and the Pacific Ocean. I have no little ones or family, just a PITA parrot who has been my partner for 25 years. You will often find me working around my house, riding my motorcycle, attending kinky events, and enjoying good meals. I hope to do a lot of traveling with my future partners.

My goal is to find a girl without baggage that wants to live with me and share my life with me. I want someone with the time and desire to enjoy life with me from cuddling on the couch watching TV to traveling the world. NO: ONS, NSA, FWB, or ENM. I want strings attached. Make that chains attached. I believe in M/s style relationships and am very active in the local community. You should be comfortable in a Total Power Exchange relationship.

You should be fit, attractive, kinky, no little ones, not married to your job, and have a desire to live on the right side of the slash. I do love women and it would be great if you shared that interest with me. I love
s, however if you have a pet, it must get along with my parrot. He often wanders around the house and I can't put him at risk.

I have a lot to offer. I don't ask that you bring anything to the table other than yourself, along with the desire to give yourself fully to a loving, committed, relationship. If you show up at my door naked with a pizza I won't turn you away. I love pizza.

BDSM/Fetish Family18 to 50 years ● 500km around USA Belmont

Iowa's Premier Professional Disciplinarian and Domme

I am a mature, experienced, and confident Mistress based in Iowa, USA. As a professional Disciplinarian and Domme, I take great pride in my craft and the unique experiences I offer.
Adorned in my extensive wardrobe of soft, supple leather, I embody power and elegance. Among my favorite items are a striking pair of thigh-high stiletto boots and a luxurious full-length pair of leather gloves—both as seductive as they are commanding.
I am a firm and demanding Mistress, but not excessively cruel—unless you request it. My specialty lies in corporal and domestic punishment. I always have a cane or favorite implement close at hand, ready to deliver discipline. My approach is uniquely mine: I can be playfully wicked one moment and devastatingly strict the next, with sharp words and sharper actions, depending on my mood. I thrive on the power exchange and the emotional intensity of the experience.
For more intense play, I can utilize well-equipped local dungeons of your choosing. Whether your desires lean toward the sensually light or the brutally extreme, I relish crafting a scene that excites and challenges you.
Trust, integrity, and courtesy are the core values I uphold—both in my professional sessions and personal life. I do not need to prove my dominance; it is evident in my presence. I can be the strict, unrelenting bitch you crave—or the seductive, playful Mistress who leads you down a path of varied sensations: from tender caresses to exquisite ***.

My Expectations:

Good manners are non-negotiable.

Honesty is essential.

Cleanliness is mandatory.


Important Note:
I do not switch—do not embarrass yourself by asking.

If you seek structure, discipline, and the refined control of an experienced
Mistress, you will find it here. Give me your full attention and respect—and you may earn a place at my feet.

BDSM/Fetish Family23 to 70 years USA Polk City

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