Thank You for looking..
iโm not looking for one offs, i donโt meet straight away, iโm looking to get to know You and what You expect from me so i can fully submit to You..
iโm g, iโm submissive, extremely submissive, i have been for over twenty years.. iโm looking to be entirely committed to You, but in return iโm looking for a reciprocal arrangement. i need to feel wanted and loved as a submissive and to entirely trust You. iโm not looking for players, iโm not looking for one offs. i need to have things to look forward too, i need to know when iโll be seeing and serving You again. i need consistency.
iโm not a swinger, iโm not looking to sleep my way through the siteโฆi obviously enjoy vanilla sex like everyone else but kink is always my preference. it would be nice to meet one special person, or one special couple who appreciate my submissive needs. Ideally iโd like You to be Dominant, not necessarily all of the time but definitely when it counts.
iโm looking to be entirely devoted to You, to establish a connection and an understanding. iโd love to form a relationship which to all intents and purposes looks vanilla to those on the outside although we obviously know differently.
Now the shit stuffโฆ iโve been hurt, hurt too many times now and iโm not sure i can keep going through that. Yes iโd love to be owned again in the futureโฆ but iโm not looking to be owned one day and then disowned the next. iโm looking for someone who appreciates the complexities of ownership and the need for communication, i have emotions like everyone else and theyโve been destroyed in recent years.
iโm genuine, honest and trustworthy. iโm single and have nothing to hide and iโm happy to meet for a social too see if we might be on the same wavelength.
Some important thingsโฆ
TRUST.. i think trust is THE most important thing. i need to trust someone fully in order to submit fully. It really is that simple. iโm willing to put myself in some compromising situations which totally depend on a bond between us.
HONESTY.. Close to and alongside trust is honesty. Please be honest, iโm open and honest about everything and if You canโt afford me the same courtesy i really do not want to know. iโve nothing to hide, i really hope You donโt too. Please donโt lie to me, i cannot abide liars.
i will NOT accept a friend invite without chatting first and establishing some friendly banterโฆ asking to be a friend without talking is likely to get You blocked..
iโm verified, iโm a paid up member and i have face photos which i keep private. This is a very private thing to me and certainly not something everyone would understand, iโm not looking to be โoutedโ.. my submission doesnโt happen overnight, it requires time. iโm unlikely to meet You right now or at the drop of a hat, even less so now. iโm submissive, iโm not stupid or a doormat. Firstly please talk to me like Youโd talk to anyone else, everything else comes over time.
i work, like a lot.. but iโm looking to change this and i do have free time in the evenings and at weekends.. i rarely have any weekdays off unfortunately.. hopefully this will change over the next year.. i have my own place, itโs pretty small and the walls are thin, ha.. but i can accommodate.. i can also travel, i drive and iโm happy to come to You, or meet at a hotel.. (i know somewhere thatโs ideal)..
i have been submissive for a long time and iโve been fortunate to experience a lot over the years. iโve served Dominant Ladies and Dominant Couplesโฆ iโve experienced everything from mild to severe Domination and i enjoy the differences that people bring. iโm well versed in submitting and iโd like to think nothing shocks me anymore. i imagine i am too extreme for most people but please donโt let that put You off.
Please do not hesitate to get in touch whether You are experienced or just interested in kink and bdsm, i am always willing to answer any questions openly and truthfully.
i enjoy all aspects of bdsm, serving, being controlled, doing as iโm told, rules, protocol, , punishment and . i am yet to use my safeword and have never said โnoโ to anything sane. i do and always will remain polite, respectful, courteous and thankful whilst serving. Although i am happiest serving whilst made to dress like a slut i am also happy to serve whilst naked and . iโm clean and always shaved for meets..
Interests include but are not limited to..
.. i am a bit of a slut, i like being made to endure for Your amusement. i like to be pushed hard, iโd like to be made to wear Your marksโฆ iโve a particular interest in cbt, i hope You might too..
.. iโm an odd thing, i enjoy being humiliated, i think itโs the lack of control.. i find being made to dress slutty humiliating, and i enjoy how that makes me feel.. i also quite like the cnc and f***d bi bring, itโs hard to explain and not everyone will get it but for me itโs about doing as iโm told or doing things iโm made to..
Closeness.. i love to be touched, stroked, to have my hair played with.. it doesnโt always need to be about the extreme.. The After care is really important too, i would like to feel loved as Your submissive, beat me but hold me afterwards. But After care is not just immediate, after care is also about when we are apart and involves communication and talking about feelings and insecurities that may crop up..
Finally i have a stoma, it saved my life, iโm not ashamed of it or embarrassed by itโฆ but if it bothers You it might be best not to message thanks..
Anyway thank You for reading, if You got this far and might like to chat please put โsub slutโ in the subject bar so i know Youโve not nodded off..
Thanks.. hi
. I have lots of toys and BDSM gear from being a dom so there's lots to play with lol. I also like videogames so it would be cool if u also wanted to be friends aswell, I enjoy having fun with ppl I have a connection with anyways. I can possibly host depending on circumstances as I don't live alone. Feel free to message me, my sc is on my profile. Finally include the word blueberry when saying hello so I know you read this thankssss
