My Shibari journey began nearly a decade ago, I will never claim to know everything because there will always be more to discover if our minds have that openness to observe without judgement and decide what elements bring pleasure to the table.

My passion for shibari is driven by the rules of shibari. Which is to use the ropes correctly.

Safe. Sane and Sensual.

I can create restraint, predicament bondage easily. However, I don't do suspension.

I'm into creating sensory experiences for the pleasure of the receiver.

I have a Pick & Mix collection of Crops & Suede Floggers and a broad veriety of toy's to ensure the receiver will not be able to predict what's coming next.

I'm looking for a RopeBunny who wants to receive this kind of attention.

A full tie & tease to the point of no return for your pleasure.

Respecting your boundaries and learning about your limits are top of my list.

Obviously, there is a lot more to me than my passion for shibari. and I hope I've given any RopeBunny wanting to find a genuine connection with a man who's going to respect her, not judge her, always empower her to be who she wants to be. some relevant details.

I'm not everyone's cup of tea.

I'm a complex cocktail of erotic mischief and pleasure.

Looking for a RopeBunny, who wants to be the centre of my attention, creating bespoke erotic ropes, creating rituals together.

I'm not looking for ONS.

I'm genuinely single and have my own flat.

I don't drive, I ride a mountain bike in all weather's all year round. Which has kept me looking younger than I am.

I know I'm 63. Soon to be 64.

It is just a number.

If I knew what I have learned about sex and kink when I was younger. But, then that's why I smile so much more these days.

I've always been kinky about kissing, touching, teasing, taking my time to appreciate the pleasure of touch.

I like the way I have to focus on the ropes and their effect on your body, the sexual tension growing between us.....

Are you a RopeBunny wanting a genuine Rigger?

Are you local to Bristol?

Have I got your attention, and would you like to meet for a coffee to ensure I am who I say I am?

If that's a Yes! To all the questions.

I would like to hear from you and see what we can do about it.

Respect
Jonathan x

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK Bristol

Mistress uses her pet
I had just come in the door and set the motel door key down on the bedside table before reaching up and turning the light on and glancing over at the clock , 10 till 6 ! She hates it when I'm not on time , 10 minutes to get myself ready .
6 o clock on the nose I could hear the motel door key sliding through the slot and then the door opening and in walks my mistress , wearing 3 inch black heels with straps that criss-crossed up the calf to right below the knee , with black nylons that went up to mid thigh , hooked to a black garter belt . Wearing nothing else but a black bra under her beige trench coat .
After the door shut and her eyes adjusted she looks at me and says " there's my little pet just like I like him to be , wearing nothing but his leash and collar and his underpants " , she takes off her trench coat and hands it to me and tells me take care of this , I grabbed it and immediately head for the closet to hang it up , when I pass her I can smell her sweet intoxicating perfume making me weak in my knees but I stand strong and halfway to the closet I could feel her pull on my leash stopping me in mid-stride , and has she said "did you forget something you pathetic slave" I could feel the flat end of her riding crop land on the cheek of my ass , stinging slightly .
Thinking back quickly I stuttered out "yes ma'am , I'm sorry mistress , thank you mistress for letting me help you "
" Well put that away and then come back over here I have something for you , as soon as I seen them I thought of you , hope you love them as much as me " as she was making herself comfortable on the bed I turned around and looked at my mistress she was absolutely gorgeous , I would do everything and anything for her .
She was laying in the bed wearing no panties , but had a pair of pink crotchless frilly panties laying on top of her . She looked up at me and asked me if I liked her new panties which I immediately said "yes mistress" . She in turn flip them to me and said "good put them on then ". A little confused I pulled off my underwear and put on her panties like my mistress ordered me to . Now stand over here in front of me so I can look at you , I do and she reaches down and grabs my leash again pulling me towards her , reaching down between my legs she grabs my nutsack that's hanging out at the crotchless part of her panties , as she starting to squeeze my nutsack she tells me as she thinks that I look sexy in "MY" panties , as she's squeezing harder she tells me "let's get this straight right now ! YOU'RE MY BITCH ! You will do what I tell you to do when I tell you to do it do you understand me "? Yes mistress I said , "Well I think you still need a lesson taught lay across my knees" which I eagerly did , after feeling her hand land on the cheeks of my ass five or six times I started squirming , she stopped and said "Get off at me now , hope you learned your lesson" . After I got up there was a couple drops of smeared pre-cum on her upper thigh , she spoke right up "Look at what you did ! You smeared your stuff all over me , clean it up right now " has she reached behind the back of my head and pushed my head down into her crotch to lick her clean , which I did without question .
About that time there was a knock at the door , she tells me to go into the bathroom and shut the door and turn the shower on , which I did as told , I could hear the door open I can hear some mumbling but I couldn't hear nothing because of the shower running , I must have been there about 15 minutes , then I heard a knock on the door and I heard my mistress yell to turn the shower off and come out . I turn the shower off and open the bathroom door and came out my mistress was setting at the foot of the bed with a pillow at her lap , and there was a naked man setting at the head of the bed .
My mistress said come here so I stood in front of her and she said I told you I had I had a present for you . "This is Joe , I want to fuck him so I want you to suck his dick until he's hard enough to slide up into me " I looked a little confused and must have paused (because she's never asked me to service anybody before but her) but since I paused , her hand darted down and grab my nut sack and started squeezing again and said " YOU ARE MY BITCH , YOU ARE MY FUCK SLUT , YOU WILL DO WHATEVER I TELL YOU TO DO ! " I answered her back with a yes mistress
I turn around and get in the bed , I reach down and wrap my fingers around a limp shaft bringing my lips to his head then sucking his limp cock into my mouth , running my tongue on the underside of his shaft , about that time I could feel my mistresses riding crop landing on my ass again , and my mistress told me not to start yet cuz she wasn't ready and told me to look at her , I turned over and looked at her standing there with a strap-on between her legs which had a cock on it that was not only longer than mine but bigger rounder than mine also about the size of the man sitting in front of me I imagined would be
My mistress told me to stick my ass up in the air when I'm sucking his dick so she can fuck my virgin ass ," making you my bitch properly"
I did what my mistress told me to do , I put my head between the man's legs and started where I left off with his cock in my mouth it's about that time I could feel tip of my mistresses strap-on press up against my ass or as she calls it her pussy , I can feel the pressure against my ass and the head of her cock sliding in past my sphincter , sliding most of her shaft up inside me , it must have been exciting to Joe because I could feel his cock starting to get harder inside my mouth , and then they started synchronizing , my mistress and Joe both pushing their cocks in at the same time and then withdraw and then push their cocks back in me again , both of them trying to get every inch of their rods into me
About that time I felt the riding crop smack me on the ass again this time three times in a row then I heard my mistress say " you better not make him cum ! he's supposed to be fucking me , get this off of me "
I release Joe's cock and she pulls her rubber dick out of me and I help her take her strap-on off , she lays back on the bed and he gets between her legs it puts his hard rod up inside her , slowly going in and out of her , she tells me "come on you cum slut , lick and suck my clit while Joe fucks me"
After another 5 or 6 strokes both of them had an orgasm at the same time . After Joe got off of her she pushed my head down a little further and ordered me to clean her up inside and out . I did what my mistress ordered me to do and I used my tongue to clean her up inside and out

Hi, lovely to meet you.

I always find introductions a bit awkward, but here we go. I’ve been a submissive for nearly six years now—honestly it’s a little terrifying to write that out loud, and I’ll save the existential crisis that comes with it for another time. What it does mean is that I’ve had enough experience to know myself, what I want, and the kind of connection I’m hoping to build with someone.

Ideally, I’m looking for a female-led relationship—something built on trust, communication, and the kind of dynamic where power exchange enriches rather than replaces the relationship. That said, I’m completely open to exploring one-off play sessions if that’s more what you’re looking for going in. At this point, I’ll be honest: I’m a bit tired of the search. Dating in general can feel exhausting, and trying to find something meaningful as a submissive guy adds an extra layer of difficulty that can be pretty discouraging at times.

I won’t go too deep into kinks right here since that’s definitely a conversation better had in DMs, but my top five are bondage, ***d orgasms, face sitting, marking, and nipple play. These are the areas I naturally gravitate toward and where I feel most at home. I’m also curious about exploring more—like eventually losing my anal virginity at some point, though that’s definitely a discussion for later and not something I’m rushing into. I’m also very interested in trying hypnosis as a kink, particularly the kind that blends relaxation, surrender, and trust. At the end of the day, what I really want is the experience of losing control in a way that feels safe and cared for.

As far as preferences go, I don’t have a huge checklist of requirements. The most important things to me are that the person I’m talking to enjoys the kinds of dynamics and kinks I’m into and is roughly around my age. Chemistry is a two-way street, and it’s nice to know if we tick each other’s boxes.

Outside of kink, I’ve been told I have that “hyperactive golden retriever” energy. I’m passionate—sometimes overwhelmingly so—about the things I love. I recently finished my degree in game design, which has been a huge part of my life for the past few years. I play guitar, and I’m currently bartending while looking for a graduate job. I’m always drawn to people who have creative or nerdy interests of their own. In terms of music, I’m pretty flexible—anything from classic rock like The Beatles to heavier bands like Avenged Sevenfold sits firmly in my library.

At the end of the day, I’m looking for someone who cares, someone confident and commanding, someone who’s excited to take the lead. I’ve been in a few relationships where the dynamic expectations didn’t match, often with partners who were also submissive, and it just didn’t work. I’m hoping to finally find something that fits.

I’ve done plenty of online dynamic work, and I’ve had a couple of professional sessions, so if you’re wondering whether I know how to serve—yes, I do.

Thank you for reading. Please feel free to reach out in dms. I'll try to reply asap.
Have a wonderful day.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 165km around UK Harlow

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