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Due to confusion and complaints, I've had to rewrite my profile more times than I care to admit. I'll probably have to rewrite it again soon.
If you're offended by something in it, just move on. I'm not going to apologise or justify myself all the time.

A little about me:

Vanilla:
I love reading (books, blogs, newspapers, cereal boxes), writing, binge watching way too many TV shows and movies, sleeping, eating pizza and gaming (when I get the time). I also love beer and red wine, but who doesn't?

BDSM:
Predominantly a Dom (pun intended), I'm looking for a good and obedient sub or slave. If that's not you, that's fine. Respect my choices and I'll respect yours.
I love to play and be naughty, with some people it comes easier than others.
I'm happy to send the first message, try to get the conversation going, but if all you can do is give me short replies and show you can't be bothered then I'll just block you. Sorry not sorry. We are here to have fun, play and go on a kink journey. Why make it difficult.
If I contact you it's because I liked something about you. I'm not going to chat with you for no reason.
Don't ask me who else I'm talking with, it's none of your business and I believe in boundaries and respecting each other.
Just so you know, I CAN be sadistic, but that doesn't mean I will be with you. I might want to be your Daddy Dom. Or something else.

If you're into furries, age regression or diapers that's fine. I'm not, and that's fine as well. If I still chat with you it's because I liked something else.

If we all act responsibly we can have loads of fun together.
If you're a * , I will insult you, your family and loved ones, belittle you and then block you. But you would have asked for it

And for all those nice ps out there: Hi, nice to meet you. I look forward to getting to know you x

My introduction to BDSM was by someone I started seeing, ~ 20 years ago, who fantasized many years about being a submissive in a DOM/sub relationship...

I instantly loved the experience, and we became a live-in DOM-sub couple for the next 8 years

Our favorite kinks were rough CNC, bondage, and Master/slave role play.

After 8 years my sub had an auto accident and had back injuries, she got into *** meds and lost interest in sex – which resulted in us parting

Afterwards I spent time in and out of vanilla relationships, and found they were not satisfying or fulfilling any longer

I decided to no longer settle for less than I really want, so I am looking for my subs who actually wants to meet in person and ultimately wants a long term BDSM Relationship with an experienced DOM,

but until then I am also open to subs without experience that are seeking a mentor or wanting exposure.

Ideally, I desire a submissive who wants to be dominated completely and ravished!

looking for m/fm/couples
i'm a switch and looking for someone who wants to explore my subside
i have experience with being a dom but would like to look in my sub site either way
a little about me: im 20 years, love to work on cars/bikes and i do listen to techno
fantasies: sub/dom, slave/pet, owner, bdsm, and more
limits: ***, perm damage

don't be afraid to msg

Im pretty new to bdsm I’ve never really try anything out yet but I’m pretty much open to try anything. But ya I’m a male sub looking for a local mistress or couple to be own by!

im looking for a women to make me her girly girl to dominate in a LTR BDSM relationship

I have never fully experienced BDSM or much kink play at all. I would like to meet others to learn more, talk and eventually experience things with others.

I feel i have missed out in some ways by not exploring sexuality more really due to my own feeling i would be doing something wrong. I have now decided I should be free to explore pleasure no matter the form.

In my opinion, life is supposed to be fun. I do not pretend or
profess to be an expert about anything related to or pertaining
to a BDSM relationship. I'm simply trying to express what I would like and what I am looking for in such a relationship. Playful.
Playfulness, Fun, and erotica.

For me personally, a 24/7 BDSM relationship is not necessary or even realistic.

I like to think of BDSM as a part of foreplay, as in, prelude to sex.
And of course, there can be a lot of foreplay and subsequent sex.

In a fun BDSM relationship, I think of myself primarily as the dominant partner, but not necessarily always. The idea of being a Switch sounds fun and exciting, with the right partner. Obviously,
a potential or future partner would need to feel the same. That is part of what would make her the Right Partner.

How's that for a personal ad? Not bad, if I do say so. A bit wordy perhaps, but it's pretty much to the point.

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I am 47 and a fairly seasoned Dom partial to OG, although I am not close minded. I believe the BDSM lifestyle is always growing and expanding with room for some of TNG, as long as the four pillars are upheld and important foundations are not forgotten. Looking to meet & chat with a masochistic sub, hopefully a bit bratty (not interested DD/lg). I had to release my last sub (24/7) almost 2 years ago. This time more of a play partner, not quite the depth of vetting necessary but safety is always paramount.

I would like to find a mistress and learn about the bdsm lifestyle. Very new to the lifestyle and I have a lot to learn.

Hey, I’m 23 year fit and slim boy living in Melbourne and new to BDSM, looking for friend, dom, dommee or play partners. 😊

The promise of BDSM is in removing the shackles of social norms and, for the sub, removing the uncertainties about whether they are doing what their partner wants.
I derive my greatest pleasure from sustaining my state of arousal. Nothing arouses me as much as bringing my partner to increasingly intense and multiple orgasms.
Let me take control and by doing so free you to indulge in your own sexuality.

I want to serve Mistress/Goddess. Full-time. I am an older man looking to serve a Dominant woman who is into BDSM. My goal is to find a woman that I can serve in an LTR.

IMHO I have the constitutional right to receive the punishment that I deserve. All in favor, inquire within. All opposed, fuck off! :-)

Looking to go on a date with a woman interested in talking about bdsm. I am new to this and want to explore the topic.

Who enjoys her submission, like to experiement,, is up for anything, likes being tied up, played with, toys, nights, BDSM/Fetish Clubs and weekends away.

Looking for attractive submissive female open to some bdsm play. Must be discrete, DD free

I’m new to bdsm and I’m looking for a domme to help introduce me and teach me more. I’m looking for something chat based to start out with but over time I’d love to progress and try new things.

I am seeking a genuine, mature submissive, a slave, or a curious newbie girl over 35 who is interested in BDSM.

If you would like to engage with a firm master for training, guidance, or a long-term relationship, please reach out to me on WhatsApp at +64220440134.

I am open to latex, BDSM , feminization, being a lil sisy slave to all dominatrix I'm obedient and do what I am told

Someone who adventures n isn't afraid to step out their comfort zone and somewhat experience with bdsm but I love face farting it just keeps me going

Good day, I am an experienced Dom, currently looking to own a submissive woman, woman must be classy during the day but willing to do BDSM chores every day to please her Dom..

Heyy I just moved to Arlington to go to uta and was wondering if anyone was looking for a dom to ease into the bdsm lifestyle and try new things