That's the version, I reckon. To start with, I like the idea of a monogamous relationship with a fun sexy lady. Polyamory is well and swell for those who are into. Honestly, I am not judgmental stuffy sort of person. I mean, whatever blows yer skirt up is ok with me. But for me personally, I just feel like One Woman is enough, and that's what I like. Also, I like to be honest and have people return the favor.

So, here's some more Honest. I am not a vastly experienced Dom, and have no experience as a Sub.

I have had a few flings with Ladies who like to be tired up, spanked, humiliated. and fun stuff like that.

When people are single, it's a gamble as to how upfront others may be in how they present themselves. In my own limited experience with pretty much Novice Level BDSM, I really liked it a lot. And the 3 women I have been with that liked it were married, unfortunately..

Not one of them bothered to tell me that up front, and that was a drag. Anyway, I don't think any of them were lying about being married. It's just that none of them told me ahead of the game. More like phone call from hubby to say he was on his way home from work early. weird stuff. enough of that.

But after all that, including the melodrama, I was hooked on BDSM

So, that's what I want now. Infact, I NEED a Lady who is into that kind of lifestyle, and not married. Not married, and no other boyfriends here and there. I'm not taking any kind of moralistic stance. Not at all. I just don't like it! So, I am 66 years old, I have a few photos with my profile. I'm a pro Guitat player and Singer, and all in all, in general, a pretty easy going sort of guy.

I hope this personal add works. i don't like being single, and one night stands or even a fling that lasts a couple weeks don't sound like much fun either. Not anymore. Thanks for taking the time to read this. Until we meet again, or for the first time even, take care and be well!

William

BDSM Play Partner32 to 55 years ● 50km around USA Phoenix

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