I'm a SwM (Single White Male) / Born on 10 Sept., 1972 / Reside alone in a clean, & roomy 1-bedroom apt. on the 400-block of E. King Street Lancaster, PA 17602, with no pets, or kids, & I've never been married. I've never been diagnosed with any deadly STDs, & I'm not into having multiple partners; you can feel safe, knowing that, about me. I am monogamous. Make sure you are, as well.

I'm both very easy to talk to, & to deal
with, & are D&D-free, & neither smoke, do illicit ***, nor drink. I am
a Christian, & do not believe in, nor shall I accept a 1-night stand,
or some basic, so-called 'platonic' relationship. I seek a long term
relationship with a SwF pref. from PA, 25-50, who drives or who understands how to use pub. transp., as I do.

Musts

You must be an independent lady, and who can also stomach an independent, monogamous
& a creative man, who is in touch with his feelings.
You must be emotionally stable, meaning... no unprovoked explosive nastiness, or I will hastily abandon what's left of our relationship. Period.
You will either drive, own a bike of some kind, or know how to utilize public transport, & you will be both willing & able to depart your residence to actively travel to my location--or to anyplace which you and I determine to meet at, to participate in a long-term relationship.
You must have a kind attitude, & have a good sense of humor.
No begging me for $. I'm retired, & I'm no walking bank, so...
...don't ask.
You MUST be a permanent res., of the US. I am not now, nor have I ever been the least bit suited to any long-dist. relat. You will be a permanent, legal citizen of the USA, or I shall not oblige to participate in any romantic relationship, with you.

I have much to offer, in terms of being emotionally stable, very polite, & have very
good cooking skills, plus I happen to be very good with my hands.
I'm a creator, & love to create. It's both a blessing to me, & a gift.
I also greatly enjoy a whimsical sense of humor, & love to make others laugh
through impersonations, & a quick wit.

I cannot stand rude, grossly obnoxious, socially-retarded women, nor shall I settle for some woman who tries to bully me into some type of a so-called 'platonic' relationship. I'm neither suited to, nor shall I ever be comfortable accepting ANY type of a so-called platonic, 'just buddies'
arrangement. End of story. I'm a man with the feelings of one, and that will be respected, just as you expect you & your feelings to be respected, in that same way.

Kinky Date25 to 45 years ● 5km around USA, Lancaster one year ago

That's the version, I reckon. To start with, I like the idea of a monogamous relationship with a fun sexy lady. Polyamory is well and swell for those who are into. Honestly, I am not judgmental stuffy sort of person. I mean, whatever blows yer skirt up is ok with me. But for me personally, I just feel like One Woman is enough, and that's what I like. Also, I like to be honest and have people return the favor.

So, here's some more Honest. I am not a vastly experienced Dom, and have no experience as a Sub.

I have had a few flings with Ladies who like to be tired up, spanked, humiliated. and fun stuff like that.

When people are single, it's a gamble as to how upfront others may be in how they present themselves. In my own limited experience with pretty much Novice Level BDSM, I really liked it a lot. And the 3 women I have been with that liked it were married, unfortunately..

Not one of them bothered to tell me that up front, and that was a drag. Anyway, I don't think any of them were lying about being married. It's just that none of them told me ahead of the game. More like phone call from hubby to say he was on his way home from work early. weird stuff. enough of that.

But after all that, including the melodrama, I was hooked on BDSM

So, that's what I want now. Infact, I NEED a Lady who is into that kind of lifestyle, and not married. Not married, and no other boyfriends here and there. I'm not taking any kind of moralistic stance. Not at all. I just don't like it! So, I am 66 years old, I have a few photos with my profile. I'm a pro Guitat player and Singer, and all in all, in general, a pretty easy going sort of guy.

I hope this personal add works. i don't like being single, and one night stands or even a fling that lasts a couple weeks don't sound like much fun either. Not anymore. Thanks for taking the time to read this. Until we meet again, or for the first time even, take care and be well!

William

BDSM Play Partner32 to 55 years ● 50km around USA, Phoenix one year ago

Dipping our toes in the water here to see how much enthusiasm there would be for an idea we are playing with.

Hi he, she and theys! and thanks for getting thus far. My name is… let’s call me The Librarian. I’m the happy and well kept male submissive of my Dominant.

My dominant would like to branch out of our relationship into the world of ProDomming, some of which she has tinkered with before. However rather than just hold obscenely pricey hour long sessions where she can just get your bottoms a little stung before a timer dings (which she is frankly bored of!) She has thought of the idea of hosting intimate little weekends away. These would after a time come with a reasonable cost, however we’re going to have a few trial weekends which we would offer at cost (rent, food, toys)

The premise thus far involves a group of a maximum of 6 (Herself, myself, and 4 lucky subs!) holing up in a isolated little cottage somewhere within a reasonable distance of London. We would all follow Her rules, be subject to Her play, and enjoy our kink together.

Although She can be a pretty demanding Boss, the idea is for the weekend to also have elements of luxury and rest - at the end of the day, we’ll all have jobs to get back to bright and early on a Monday morning, and dragging yourself somewhere black and blue with 2 hours sleep across the weekend isn’t beneficial to anyone, no matter how pleased your inner submissive is! Because of this, you’ll be allocated a bed although may share a room, fed good food (my Dominant loves to cook - though we will definitely be washing the dishes and chopping the veggies!), and enjoy themed activities.
Themed activities you ask? My Dominant has quite the imagination and so far she’s thinking Strip-n-spank poker, locals walks to forage your own switch, and is threatening pin-the-clamps-on-the-book-loving-submissive (I’m hoping this is more varied).

My Dominant is set on dipping our toes in the water first with a non-specific weekend away, though in future if there is plenty of interest, we’d look at grouping specific kinks together.

Ideas for a trial weekend from a kink point of view:
Impact play (The Dominants favourite and a non-negotiable! Though levels of severity
potentially are!)
Group play
Bondage
Training to follow basic rules and positions
Gagging
POTENTIAL individual, hands off intimate play. (Being told to make yourself come).

Future ideas (so far):
Schoolhouse weekend
Crossdressing or latex
Beginners weekend
Couples getaway
Pet play
Slaves weekend

You’d be welcome regardless of the kinks you enjoy so long as they’re legal (although obviously we’d only be indulging in the ones Dominant loves!) Our idea is we’d have time to negotiate and talk through likes and dislikes before the weekend, and every decision would be made and stipulated in an individual contract. You would be issued a safe word on arrival and would be ‘free’ to use the word and either walk away, or have a quiet chat with myself as Librarian or Gatekeeper of the place around broken expectations.
Myself being on site was my Dominants idea as quite often it feels overwhelming submitting and expectations not being met. I’m quite funny and a good listener (definitely do not have Dominant standing over me instructing me what to type here!) so you’d have someone on site to discuss scenes or changes you’d like to make and why as a sounding board. Alternatively, don’t talk to me, and live your best, in-the-moment sub life at the feet of the Dominant! Entirely up to you :)

Now a word to the wise - we do not and will not be ignoring safe words to provide unbearable beatings or other play. We’re not interested in breaking up marriages so if you’re in a relationship WITHOUT permission to play, it’s a no from us. Dominant is happy topping all genders and ages, however we’d need you to be in reasonably good physical fitness to join (aka Dominant doesn’t want any heart attacks at the hands of her strap!), and if you’re a couple you must both be either submissive, or switches and submit to Her for the weekend.

If the above sounds like a (good!) dream for you, please do drop us a short intro into our DMs. We’ll keep details of all approved candidates, and once we have gathered enough interest for a trial weekend, we’ll be in touch with the details.

For your intro, Dominant would like:
A good four of five sentences about you - interests and hobbies outside of kink.
Then, a bit about your experience with kink, including details of any relationships or situations you are currently in.
Explain what excites you about our idea, and what makes you most nervous.
A list of your kinks (favourites, ones you’ve tried, ones you haven’t tried, soft limits, hard limits)

Please say hi even if not interested if you have any ideas or feedback (that would make you interested, or even just to help a fellow sub out!)

Thanks for getting this far. Message if interested!

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 550km around UK, London one year ago

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