Why give her a Yoni Massage?

Yoni massage or yonic massage, derived from the word Yoni, a representation of the vulva, which comes from the Shakti word that means sacred place. The Yoni massage is a type of Tantric full-. It primarily focuses on the breasts, thighs, and stomach and then focuses on the labia, perineum, clitoris, G-spot, cervix or C-spot, A-spot, which is behind the G-spot, and other erogenous zones. When done right, this is a healing, theutic massage.

Women's bodies are so used to being understimulated, overstimulated, disregarded, shamed, and penetrated too quickly.

You get to give her the gift of bringing conscious intimacy to this beautiful part of her body and give her the opportunity to fully relax and receive intimate touch without needing to worry about judgment, performing, giving someone an orgasm, having an orgasm, or faking an orgasm...the gift of pussy massage is allowing her body to feel safe to be held, seen, surrendered, and to feel whatever she feels and to have whatever experience she needs to have.

Regular pussy massage can:

• Help her get out of a performative mode in sex
• Help her get out of her head and become relaxed and present with her sensations
• (necessary for most women to have an orgasm)
• Help to heal "I'm taking too long" syndrome
• Open her up to new/unexplored sensations
• Increase intimacy between partners
• Help to release expectations of her body
• Help to release any need for external validation
• Help to heal a habit of faking orgasms
• Release shame around the appearance of her vulva
• Increase *** flow and circulation (important for natural wetness)
• Increase sensitivity
• Relax tight pelvic floor muscles, release tension and can help alleviate ***
• Intensify orgasm

• Reduce stress
  
  Sharing the purpose and/or benefits of Yoni pussy massage with your partner can help you both to ground into why you'd like to have this experience together. Kindly remind her that this massage does not require her body to have any response. She is not expected to appear aroused, to be wet, or to have an orgasm. It is for pure relaxation for her body to fully surrender and receive and feel whatever she needs to feel. Invite her to be present with her body and sensations and to communicate if she wants any changes to the pressure, sd, or touch type. Your role is to honor her body's every request without question or judgment. Lovingly inform her that you will ask permission before penetrating her with your finger(s) and that she is free to say no. Penetration is not a necessary part of this message.
  
  Set your intentions for the massage and the energy you're bringing with you. (ex. Total mental and physical relaxation; a chance to experience new kinds of sensual touch and sensations with no-pressure-to-perform [it is not about her having an orgasm]; creating a space for her to feel safe and surrendered in your loving hands, etc.)
  
  Not many women have had a Yoni massage. I have a massage table. I have four sensual messages:
  
  The Yoni massage which is focused on the front and builds up to the pussy massage. It is great for healing and making your pussy feel wanted and appreciated and even healing past sexual trauma. Also great, if you have issues reaching an orgasm, the Yoni can help; if you can't have multiple orgasms, the Yoni can help with that too.
  
  The Tantric massage starts with the back and a bigger total massage and ends with a shorter version of the Yoni, but I use a vibrator for g-spot orgasms. This has a lot of edging before I give the multiple orgasms, and if you feel comfortable, you can squirt. I have special absorbent flat pads.
  
  Chinese cupping massage I use vacuum cups on the back, and it leaves two rows of bruises from being pulled into the cups. I used to do fire cupping but my ex got the fire cups in our divorce. I now use vacuum cups which are more accurate and consistent. I also have cups for making nipples stand proud and a pussy pump cup that will fatten up your pussy, and swells with more liquid, and this makes your pussy more sensitive for sex toy play.
  
  The Velvet Wand massage, which is an electric device invented 100+ years ago, this tool and its attachments are fun, but a body mode where my hands become electric or your body becomes electrified. There are many metal tools in the Velvet Wand kit for teasing your tits and pussy with electricity, it sounds ***ful, but the power is fully adjustable and is incredibly erotic.
  
  These are all sensual and relaxing, but the Yoni can heal some sex trauma issues. I'm experienced with couples classes but not certified; there is no Yoni certification in the USA. I have done all of these many times. The Yoni is my favorite. But you can pick whichever you want.
  
  Would you like to meet first in a public place or better a BDSM munch with other kinky people. Where in Atlanta do you live? I do not travel. Just a zip code is fine, then I can suggest a local munch or a good place to meet. I will travel to munches and a first meet.
  
  Tags: #Yoni, #Tantric, #Tantric massage, #Sting's Massage, #Yoni #Pussy Massage

18 year old trans male (FTM) (pre-op atm however i do want top surgery) from australia looking for someone who is into the idea of having a stay at home adult baby to care for and look after. This would be completely platonic for me as i am aro-ace but i am ok bit nsfw elements and am very open-minded, i would be ok with sexual things happening eventually but only IRL and not over messages. this would however all be irl not rp or erp i am not interested in any of that. i want this to be a lifestyle for me.

i am looking for someone who loves the idea of forcing me back into diapers and s me to "be a baby". this would be done by mittens that lock around the wrists so i cant pick up things properly, a lockable diaper cover so i need to rely on you for everything, boots that have spikes on the bottom so that i cant walk and have to crawl everywhere, instead of having a "normal" bedroom i would have a nursery with everything a baby would have like a crib, changing table, rocking chair etc, have rules that i have to follow that a baby would have, be d to sleep in a crib, watch cartoons, play with baby toys, things like that.

i love the idea of having no control just like a baby and having to be completely reliant on someone else for everything, i want to lose all control over everything including my bladder and bowels the thought of having to rely on you for everything and have to wait for you to be ready like you decide that my diaper isnt wet enough to change or you strap me into an adult baby bouncer that i cant get out of and i just have to bounce there waiting for you ly.

id prefer someone who is possessive and/or protective, strict but doting and would love to spoil me at any given time, will treat me just like a baby no matter what and is ok with the idea of having me as a 24/7 stay at home little. if this sounds interesting or something you would like please send me a friend request on discord to littlebby. i am very open minded so feel free to ask any questions or anything like that, or if you like something that isnt here. My only limits are striclty sexual stuff, i dont want this to be about sex i want to be d to be a baby, ***, id be ok with spankings if it was a last resort, choking, feminisation, misgendering, mean yelling and hard degrading. If you enjoy something that i havent listed and isnt in my limits tell me about it id probably be willing to give it a go.

I don’t see group activities enough on here. I hope that changes

I want to start a little group meet once or twice a month.. i will use different locations for a change of scenery and the 1st event maybe going ahead on the weekend of the 25th

Numbers are to be confirmed but I still waiting on a few deposits to come in…

Cheers
Jakey

I would like to meet anyone who's dominant or even sub cause I like to play both and have tendency to switch. Maybe you can change that and make me one way or the other or show me new things that I might like or dislike

Im looking for a Partnership with a sub female preferably OR a ts twink or femboy. I am a lover of all human beings. But I'm attracted to femininity NOT GUYS or Masculinity. I give off enough. 35 to 45 range skinny to thick in the right places. Im also available for life coaching for free if your willing to change your perspective to change your life. I'm in the west Cleveland area and can host or travel. 3016063722 txt me and ill take it from there!

Hey there kink ppl. We are looking for a women that would enjoy being pleased by two males. We like to meet up. Befriend. Then see if we work out. It will start out as a friend with benefits then if we want. It can change to dating. But that later. Come swing by and say hi.

Hi, I am seeking something real and realistic. A relationship, preferably LTR, with a dominant woman where we can share all kink and vanilla interests. In person, face to face. Old school. I am a bit old fashioned, very monogamous, still believe in chivalry.
I am notlookingforsomeonetodospecificthingsto me. I am looking for someone who shares similar interests. I am not interested in changing myself
or who I am, and I am not interested in someone changing who they are, or compromising, for me. I am, however, open minded and am open to exploring and growing. But I won't compromise my hard limits and boundaries, just as I would never expect or ask you to compromise yours. if I haven't mentioned a specific interest of yours, feel free to ask. I am open and honest, feel free to ask me anything.
I am a sub. Not a slave. I am very comfortable with who I am. While I am happy to learn, adapt, and grow. I will not change who I am or what I am looking for.
As already mentioned, I am seeking realistic. I have interests outside of kink. I have dogs. I have a serious soft spot for rescues. If you share this interest, that would be fantastic. Living as a gimp in a cage until needed, is entirely unrealistic.
I am not desperate. I will not chase you if you are not interested, or we are not compatible. I'm looking for a mutually beneficial relationship where we both want the same things, reasonably. I will not try to something that was never going to work.
I am more than happy to answer questions, clarify, or even just exchange ideas. Feel free to contact me, and if it wasn't meant to be, then it wasn't meant to be. But at least we'll know.

I am a masculine and muscular sub male with a special interest in chastity. I don't have any interest in feminization or being a sissy. Not judging others, just being honest. If that is what you seek, I wouldn't be a good match for you. I seek someone who enjoys the control chastity gives as them much as I enjoy being controlled.
I am emotionally and physically strong. I am not submissive because I am weak, I choose submission because I have been drawn to dominant women since as long as I can remember. I am not a beta anything. I am not a sub because I am weak. I choose submission. I do not choose the submissive role with just anyone. I choose submission when I am with a dominant woman who inspires my submission. One who I am comfortable enough with to offer my submission to. Those who know me, but not this side of me would be shocked that I am submissive. So that leads to the next submissive cliche. I am not worthless, useless or have a weak character. Why anyone would want someone who is worthless is beyond me. I'm not a worthless sub, I seek to be a valued sub. My words may say this, but my actions will prove it.
I pursue a healthy lifestyle, am active, am at the gym at least 3 days a week. No , no smoke at all, rarely drink. I make an effort to keep healthy, but am not fanatical at all.
I am intelligent, creative, witty, and have a great sense of humor.
I am very functional and very sexual, my interest in chastity is control. I do not use chastity to mask any physical issues. I enjoy pleasing my partner and I enjoy long term arousal. And a woman who truly enjoys that control is incredibly exciting.
And being someone who believes in actions over words, chastity is proof that I am 9nly interested in one woman when you have been given my keys. I always hated the infidelity questions if I worked late, of was at the gym longer that normal. Steel chastity, pa piercing, says devoted to one as strongly and confidently as possible.
I am experienced in short term denial as well as long term denial and am ready for whatever you decide or desire. I do really enjoy a sexually selfish dominant woman. The control is very addictive, especially if she enjoys it as much as I do. I feed off of the energy of the one I'm with. If you feel guilty, I feel guilty. If you are excited, I am excited. I want you to be comfortable with your control and enjoy it. So that you find as much fulfillment as I do.

I have several stainless steel devices and am secured with a pa piercing. You hold complete control when you hold the key. And as this is completely consensual, you are free to enjoy and explore your control. And enjoy it. My pleasure is derived from your pleasure. The more you enjoy things, the more I do.
I am a moderate masochist. I have many years of experience in bdsm, and I love bondage and (moderate, but eager to explore) ***. Again, it's the control. But chastity a way to feel bondage and control day and night. Without being a burden on you. Everyday, all day control. It is fun when I forget about it, but am reminded by the unforgiving steel. All day long, at different times, I am reminded of my keyholder. I love that snap back to reality that the control is very real.
With masochism, like chastity, I feed off the energy of the one I'm with. The more you enjoy it, the more I do, and the more my tolerance goes up.
I want to be well rounded. If you feel light and sensual, if you feel hard and heavy, light tease, intense tease, or are not in the mood. My wish is to be available for whatever you need. I seek to improve your life, not complicate it.

I am in Southern California, I have houses in Palm Springs and Big Bear Lake. I can escape the heat and the cold as needed. While I love splitting my time between the desert and the mountains, and would love even more to find someone to share all this with. I would be open to relocation to the right location. Hit me up if you want to know more.

Somewhere there is a submissive or a slave that wants a dominant man that is calm and confident outside of the bedroom and deliciously strict and disciplinary inside. I am only interested in LTR/marriage. I have a high IQ, a high income, high moral standards, high physical standards for myself and my slave and I am a high profile leader in my industry. When I come home you should be eager to show affection and please me sexually.
I am open to brats, littles, pets, slaves.. I want my natural dominance to quench your thirst for being loved and controlled. You will not need to work outside of the home. We will practice TPE and 24/7.

I am open to all races. I can visit you and relocate you from anywhere in the world. I know I am a unicorn and my standards are high and won't change. I am happy to train the right candidate.

Our life together will include travel philanthropy volunteering to help people in need. Secretly I will tease you, *** you, humiliate, discipline, dominate, and gratify you incessantly.

Update: AIN'T NOTHING CHANGED !! 12/12/23
My fetish is eating pussy. Nothing I love more than making my partner cum until they can't stand it anymore.

Experienced switch on a journey to find more kinky people that are open to exploring and, quite honestly, doing weird shit together. To some extend I know what I like and if you think you can change or improve that I'm all ears. Pretty flexible it all depends on how far you can stretch me hehehehe.

Sub slave male looking for his Dominant for a mutually rewarding D/s arrangement for (hopefully) long term and regular servitude, mutual fulfilment and exploration into every corner of the BDSM lifestyle, including the dark ones.

53yr old, 6ft/1.83m medium/large build, average dad bod. Long haired but always clean neat and tidy. Own boss in a geeky hand's on technical professional, intelligent and educated. Told I'm good company love good humour and conversation, never take life seriously, full of bad jokes and joviality, yet knows when to shut up and engage respectful slave mode.

Have been collared before, served Dom's/Domme's and couples long term and casual for 25yrs+. Very loyal and dedicated, love everything about the lifestyle from pampering and sensually making my Dominants feel good, sexual is optional, domestic servitude and medium to extreme levels of everything on the BDSM menu.

Very few limits, can be heavily marked and some modifications (including some permanent with consent).

Let's have a chat and see where it goes.

Ps.
NOT looking for any Pro/Fin/pay-to-play type arrangement, *** will not change hands to play.. genuine Lifestyle only.

I'm not a tight arse, my Dominants will be treated well like my most valued friend in that regards. just saying I'm not looking for a commercial arrangement in any form.

Curious to both queens and kings thoughts 💭 on the subject

Like how it first came to topic .
Who brought it up ?

Mainstream propaganda projects bbc is superior white guys are just weak ?

For me the idea of watching or allowing my queen explore with others is hot !! Even if the guy is bigger etc 🤷‍♂️ I’m comfortable enough in my own skin not to feel inadequate!!!


For a while now this is something I would like to explore with my long term friends with benefits ( no idea I’m on here btw never mind cuckolding) )

I don’t know how to bring the subject up. Or how she would react 😅


The reason for the question and hopefully great advice and understanding of my inexperience in the subject. ( go easy on me please lol I haven’t intentionally Ment to come across as rude etc but won’t hide from my inexperience on how to approach the subject.


Like I have tried to say during my message above 👆

Main stream influence projecting just bbc as the dominant in the lifestyle white woman black men

Rarely in the reverse dynamic

Find it quite discriminating and harmful to younger white men
Especially Tbe *** scenes BNWO

(btw all entitled to there own preference. Just personally seeing slot of white gate and mainstream or social media administration etc not act or keeping things clean . I. E away from racism!

As a curious newbie to exploring such things BNWO has been a massive game changer for me in regards to cuckolding . I’m all for preference. Playing roles to fulfil each other’s goals etc

So I guess amongst the many questions I have asked or trying to ask what is your opinion .


Please no hate . I purely understand I may have came across as ignorant or even confusing.😅😂

First time trying to write it as I see it . Apologies lol

We are an open minded couple looking for other open minded kinky people for good times.

To be clear... we are real people that like to fuck. We don't waste time chatting or exchanging pictures. If you need some kind of proof that we're real , just ask. Don't say you'll meet us and then disappear. If you change your mind, it's fine, just be honest.

He is completely straight. She is mostly straight, a tiny little bit bi-curious.

Single men and women. If we decided to meet with you it is for fun only. We are not looking for a third in our relationship. If we have similar interests we could potentially get together for activities outside of the bedroom.

Couples. We are looking for couples with similar interests for activities in and out of the bedroom.

Rules
1) We only play safe. Condoms are required not optional.
2) We never play separately.
3) Good hygiene is a must... Cologne showers do not count as good hygiene, no cologne at all is preferred.
4) If she uses her safeword all activities stop.
5) She is my submissive and only submits to me.
6) She loves rough treatment but not *** so be mindful of that.
7) She is a submissive, not a piece of meat. She deserves respect and appreciation.

We are both open minded and very willing to try new things so if you have something in mind just ask.

Want to try older women for a change looking for an older woman who wants to mess around with a young gun

Hoping to change that, I'm pretty relaxed and open minded down for cyber fun or meetings if the distance is ok.

Hi There,I want a date..I’m not so experienced with fetish,because my former girlfriend s found it strange..But I like to be dominant,but i think it’s Exciting to be dominated..I want to be with a transwomen..a phantasie i have Many years..I’m openminded for everything..i like high heels and footfetish..Hope i can find a date here

Hello I am older but genuine virgin, very sub, was handcufefd once and want more. want to be handcuffed, ankle cuffed, collared and gagged, then miad to live my dream serving a MASTER or maybe a party of MEN who will degrade me and humiliate me. I also have a puppy training shock collar anda need to serve. I share and they guys dont know about me so I can never accommodate. Not skinny or pretty just very very sub and want a MAN to change my status. please

I am looking to chat with and meet with some females for a change. Looking to roleplay and maybe date and explore my sexuality. I am actually trans FtoM and looking to Date and maybe roleplay with a woman as my characters jeromiah and daisy. I would be playing as the controlling husband jeromiah and you would be playing as Daisy my submissive wife. I’ve been writing a book about these characters for years.

I would prefer to meet in person eventually rather than just do this over online messages.

I have a few different things and ideas *** like to try

Looking to meet cool people. I’m polyamorous so I do have other partners. Not looking to change my life, just add to it.

Want to try some things. looks for a gentle loving dom. We could try switch, open to that. Very inexperienced, so this could all change.

Just wanting someone to hang out with that wouldn't mind seeing me in a diaper. Don't have to change me or anything like that.

Experienced '50's male, usually dominant, seeks young domme who would like to practice with an experienced older switch in order to ring the changes as feeling slightly bored

Attached is my resume for your perusal.

Name: Shockr
Role application: Daddy

Age: 41
Height: 168cm ( 5'6" )
Length: 20cm ( 8" )
Width: 84cm (slim)
Depth: 'Like, totally deep, man.'
IQ: 137
BMI: 20
IPD: 6.3

Education:
College
School of life
Google

Key Skills:
Writing
Organising
Being silly
Making tea
Reading stories
Cleaning
Remembering names of stuffies
Cooking
Tech support
Being a perv
Opening jars
Grocery shopping
Praising good girls
Vacuuming
Fluffing kitties

Hobbies & Interests:
Sex
Camping
Videogames
We*D (420)
Music
Movies (including Pornhub)
All of the above + sex

Personal Description:

I should start by saying I am in a poly relationship with Sassy13. I'll chat with anyone, but ideally you would enjoy both our company.

I'm the type to ask you if I can make you tea or bring you something. I like cwtches ('cuddles' for non-Welsh folks), and kisses in the morning, all through the day, and saying 'Goodnight' is important. I like the little displays of affection and very much appreciate bedtime rituals etc
I have been told I have a very calm and soothing voice.
I like the DDlg dynamic because I'm a very caring person and get a lot out of rushing to your aid. I also get quite a kick out of being called 'Daddy' (Not right off the bat, there needs to be chemistry)
With that said I'm probably not going to change a soiled nappy ('diaper' for the US folks). Likely more suited to a slightly bratty middle who likes to banter
I'm king of cheesy lines, dad jokes and gutter humor; I apologise in advance
I am very easy to talk to; I will literally talk to anyone. I'm cheeky, sarcastic, flirtatious and mischievous in reasonably equal measure. If I connect with you, I'll probably talk all night.
I'll want to get into your head. I love to have mementos; words, sounds, physical artifacts. Something that keeps me in your memory even when I'm not physically there. I need your mind to submit before your body
I have an insane sex drive - someone once referred to me as 'hypersexual', which I took as a compliment I'd probably say sex is on my mind 75% of the time, with the other 25% being dedicated to trying not to think about sex. Keep up! Haha
Personally, I think foreplay and intimate contact throughout the day is very important, I'm an extremely tactile person. I love to build the tension until we snap and can't hold back.
"Sex at 10pm Wednesdays and Saturdays" does not work for me
Speaking of which, I am also a bit of a nightowl. At 2am I am probably at my PC gaming or smoking a blunt (420-friendly).

Previous Experience:
Aug21-Sept21: Daddy role - Mostly remote temporary contract
Online interaction with fast service level agreement. Several positive face-to-face visits.
Left role due to no prospects of progression

Mar14-May21: Unofficial Daddy role - Permanent on-site
Carried out all duties of home maintenance and personal support.
Left role due to conflicting work-ethic

Character References:
LittlePinkPanda [fetlife/users/739227]
"He once put his arm out to make sure I was protected from moving cars"

Cariad [fetlife/users/13329345]
"His voice is very Daddy like when he's talking. Calm, soft, its nice to listen to."

(For anyone still wondering if this is serious. You're probably going to struggle with my terrible sense of humour )