So I had a perfect situation going: she was also married in an ENM relationship. Let’s call her “Jen”. Jen wanted a regular, recurring thing and so did I. She was cute af. Out of respect for her, I won’t go into any details, but we went on a couple of dates and played a couple of times, then I had to end it.

Why?

Jen and I were sexually incompatible: It turns out that through this “girlfriend” experiment, I realized that my own sexual identity is around how hot and erotic my relationship with my own wife is.

However, my beautiful, sweet, owned wife and sub’s actions may have ruined vanilla sex for me - at least in a 1:1 setting. When we play together with others, our dynamic is still active even if it’s invisible…

Back to my mini relationship: she wasn’t into BDSM, but she was a natural Dom. She loved to take control and keep it. The power struggle was sort of fun at first, but then it just became sort of…blah.

Of course, I asked my wife for advice since we’re communicating this whole time anyway, and she at least didn’t call me crazy when I said that I would strongly prefer a slightly kinkier relationship, and that I thought I would start to lead with that approach…

So here I am! Looking for someone that feels easy to hang out with, and can be real, and honest, and your *** true self - the Sub who needs to be praised when she’s a good girl, and gets delicious spankings if she’s being a brat.

In return, you’ll get a kind-hearted friend and Dominant play partner. I won’t be your Dom on principal, but I will act JUST like one - based on your boundaries, needs and desires - once a week or so 😈

Don’t be shy😘

NSA25 to 50 years ● 95km around USA Argyle

If Tom Allen and James Spader merged in Snorlax form ...
Gothic soul, emo heart, autist brain, perverse sensibilities.

Megustalations.

Head shaved, mind depraved, enamoured of theatre and song.
Rain on the roof and cuddles in quilts, these are a few of my favourite guilts. Along with vanlife, FetLife, and urbex. Oh my!

Catch-22 is my humour. I'm into surrealism in all things. Also very much enamoured of well choreographed routines and linguistical limberness.

I want a love that seeks my own, a soul that encompasses me, that feeds off of my attention and affection. Someone to dance with in the rain, in the woods, in supermarkets and silence.

Time spent hiking, (also scooting - I'm spending far too much with Voi), hunting for abandoned and spooky places is time well spent. Indoor hobbies include perfumery, cooking, watching horror / gore / exploitation films and miscellaneous musicals and designing clothes and contraptions for fun.

I'm looking for someone to make food shopping fun, stroke all the fluffs and floofs with, who'll send cute pictures to me, and that I can treat, tease and traumatise in all of the special ways we'll both love. The ideal is a romantic relationship built on fetishistic foundations. Especially through more subtly expressed intimacy, such as a hand slipping into mine, or a kiss gifted unexpectedly as I turn to see you.

Talk to me about philosophy, psychology, stories and how these intertwine, in myth, in religion, in sexual fantasy and relaxation.

Come be the focus of my loving attention and suffer the barbs of my endless puns. Charm me with your vivacity so I yearn to make you cry yourself to climax. Seduce me with your mind so I wish to pet, pretty, and punish you. Keep me with your innocence, no matter how I taint it.

Talk to me. Let me into your head. I'll make you better. I'll make you mine.

Details of kinks can be found from my profile, or more ideally, learned through conversation.

Kinky Date5km around UK Bicester

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