For starters, I'm a 19 year old from Twin Falls, and I'm very new to the kink community and am not super experienced with sexual stuff. I'm generally a super open book on trying things, and I want to try just about everything I possibly can. I'm looking for someone (Ideally a woman, but I'm open to couples as well), who would want to talk and maybe get together to see if we click, and if we do then we could explore things together. I'd prefer someone who I could consistently get together with, and I am willing to travel, as I'm unable to host, but it would have to somewhere within an hour or so of twin if it's going to be happening often. I don't really have any preferences on looks, really all that I want is someone who is interested in me and open to exploring things with me. Some of the big things I'm currently looking to explore is D/S Play (both sides of it as I'm a switch who leans a bit more to the dominant side), Brat Play, Bondage, and possibly freeuse or CNC on the more extreme side of things. I'm someone who generally prefers to focus on their partners pleasure over their own, and I'm someone who loves giving oral a lot. As for me as a person, I'm a fairly laid back and easy going guy once I warm up to people. I'm generally a very introverted person so it can take me a second to warm up to you, and I'll definitely be nervous upon first meeting you. I eventually will warm up to you, and I'm generally super open and honest with things upon getting comfortable with somebody. I love watching movies, going on walks, and playing video games. If you want to see what I look like, I've got some pics and vids on my profile, but if you want to see more message me and I'll gladly send you more. Sorry if this is a bit long winded lol, but anyways I'd love meet some new people, make some new friends, and find someone to explore the kinkier side of life with. Please, if you are interested at all please message me and we can see if we might connect. :)

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