I’ve been scouring this site to see people’s views and perceptions of punishments and rewards. And of course, it’s a very subjective matter as there’s limits, preferences, and people’s opinions as well.
So let’s talk about what I consider punishments to be first:
Since I tend to like more extreme things, and have a higher tolerance, I’m going to need something that is more severe- especially since I have bratty tendencies, I’m looking to be corrected. And a punishment can be a NUMBER of things. Ex: infliction, control/restriction of outter communication (eg. family, friends); sensory deprivation, being tied up in a stress position (minutes, hours, days), , water boarding. Quite frankly I could go on. I want that psyche involvement. Make me so scared of you that I don’t want to act out because I know the punishment will be severe. I feel like with a M/s dynamic or most BDSM dynamics, the person who is not in a position of power should feel a sense of toward to person in power as a result of respect being integrated into the person who is not in power within the dynamic.

Now for rewards! Yay!:
Rewards are generally subjective to the sub/slave/pet/etc. personally, I love being rewarded with praise, cuddles and direct attention, taking care of any bruises or cuts you inflicted on me, princess treatment, less time in a stress position, allowing me to see my friends or go do something special, etc.
rewards shouldn’t be over given - as this sets the scene for greed and a sense of being spoiled, then the brattiness will never be corrected. But rewards are necessary because I need to know when I’m doing good, and you approve of those certain actions or you’re pleased with how I am.

But i definitely want to hear other peoples opinions, and what type of rewards/punishments you give or receive.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 500km around Canada Calgary
BDSM Play Partner50 to 70 years ● 50km around USA Florence
BDSM Play Partner50 to 70 years ● 50km around USA Florence

57 male bi seeks a Femdom Lifestyle Mistress..

LOCAL TO SACRAMENTO ONLY.

NO OR ANYTHING FINANCIAL, NO PROFESSIONALS IN ANY SEX BUSINESS

MONOGAMOUS ONE ON ONE IS A REQUIREMENT

Kind but overwhelmingly Dominant. 23 years experience needs a Mistress with experience to run this one.

I wish to cook and clean and worship hand and foot day and night. I did so for 5 years being kept indoors the whole time except when Mistress took me out. No male clothing, no car,
, phone... No autonomy or human identity... My personal heaven. I just wish to repeat it and remain that way til the end.

We would start online learning about each other. Regular communication, transparency and truth in learning about each other and what we wish from each other. Then moving to Mistress's schedule. Days weeks at a time, at first we'd take it slower just to get to know, it won't take me long so it's up to my Owner.

Eventually I wish to ultimately move in, share expenses and have Mistress decide literally everything having completely command and autonomy over this sissy puppy toy.

24/7 POWER EXCHANGE

I have been exposed to most every form of kink and enjoy almost all of them. I'm very oral, sexually but also in play as my body is very expressive moaning, crying trembling stretching. It is a natural reaction but most who have seen me be played with enjoy the show. şïşşy is very intelligent, kind, loyal monogamous loving romantic and extremely slaveishly obedient. You will literally Own a true slave toy with zero resistance or drama. No guilt trips, this puppy firmly believes in chastity as an additional extension of Mistress's power and that she is this baby doll's SOLE SOURCE of, well, everything! Eating sleeping standing going potty they are all to be asked for. If Mistress rarely gives physical release that is the way She desires it so it is my greatest joy to be able to offer that kind of power. It truly is my personality and mentality.

COOK, CLEAN, WORSHIP HAND AND FOOT UNLIMITED.

I'm an EXCELLENT cook and baker. I clean floor to ceiling fan. I don't need to be constantly commanded. I am proactive and constantly learning and improving myself thru podcasts articles etc on how to be a better slave for my Mistress. Again, I did this before so it's not a hopeful fantasy. My former Mistress moved for the sake of work 😔 That was 7 years ago. I've been on dating sites since November. The only time I'm my life. I'm extremely monogamous and desire the same in a one on one loving power exchange lifestyle 24/7.

As I did before if I'm allowed to wait on You and make your most craved and crazy dreams come true -

YOU'LL NEVER LIFT A FINGER FOR YOURSELF EVER AGAIN!

BDSM/Fetish Family35 to 69 years ● 65km around USA Elk Grove

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