Hi, I'm a 22 year old college student in Boston looking to, hopefully, find a monogamous long-term relationship with a caring woman. Let's take a walk through the common, grab some lunch, or do your favorite activity.

About me:

5'10" Blond hair and blue eyes with a bit of a dad-bod (185 lbs). From the South End.

I'm really a big nerd and a homebody. I bring teddy-bear energy everywhere I go: incredibly huggable/snuggleable, calming and grounding, playful, amiable, very go with the flow. I enjoy a playful, affectionate dynamic.

I love Marvel, video games, and I recently joined a ttrpg group that I'm enjoying. My current read is the 4th book in the ACOTAR series, though I'm not very far in so no spoilers. I like to play video games; primarily Destiny 2, Borderlands, and Pokemon. Trying new restaurants is one of my fav activities. Hear me out, beach vacations >> exercise or tour-intensive vacations. I'm also an engineering major going into my final year of college, hoping to work at a medical device company when I graduate (fingers crossed); ask me which companies I'm looking at because they're really cool. I have two older s, two older brothers, two brother's in law, one in law, and three niblings; so family holidays are big, noisy, and amazing. I don’t have a car.

I would love to serve my woman for that sweet reward of the smile on her face and getting to know that I'm hers. I want to be the one who helps you decompress after a long day. Let me bring your morning coffee, do your laundry, keep you company while running errands, and be your excuse for an Irish goodbye.

STD-free. Occasional drinker. I've never smoked cigarettes and I stopped smoking weed this year.

About you:

Preferably 20-32 years old. No particular type with regard to appearance. I'm looking for someone more date-oriented, as I'm wanting to pursue a long-term relationship.

I'm especially attracted to nerds, gamers, introverts, and other homebodies. While I enjoy exploring, I love retreating back home together and enjoying each other's company. Having similar hobbies and/or hobbies that you enjoy bringing other people into is definitely a big plus. I tend to text a lot throughout the day, so it would be great to find somebody who likes frequent communication.

What I'm looking for in a relationship:

Take initiative and make first moves. Ask me out, take my hand, and kiss me first. I would love to feel pursued, but I'll be putting in an equal effort as well. Take me to a nice dinner and flirt with me until I'm flustered. I love cuddling together on the couch and letting you be the big spoon as you run your hands through my hair. Spoiling me would definitely be a bonus, but not required.

Caring and affectionate vibes are what I'm looking for.

If I sound like someone you'd be interested in then send me a message, we can exchange photos, and see if meeting each other is in the cards for us.

Kinky Date18 to 40 years ● 55km around USA Boston
Kinky Date44 to 80 years ● 105km around Canada Sidney

I value consent, communication, and trust above all in a relationship. As a dom, I lean towards a more strict and controlling dynamic, preferring to express my dominance through firm yet consensual actions such as hair pulling, throat squeezing, spanking, and pinning against the wall, among other things. Equally important to me is the psychological aspect of dominance. Dominating someone’s mind is a powerful way to deepen submission. I consider aftercare an essential practice. It is a time for us to reconnect, reflect on the experience, and make sure we both feel safe and cared for. This balance of control and care, the physical and the psychological, defines my approach to being a dom. If you are to be my sub, I will do my best to care for you. I am flexible and willing to adapt to what you want. I want to make sure you enjoy this and feel comfortable throughout.

To support that safety and comfort, I use the colour system during scenes. Green means you are comfortable, enjoying yourself, and want things to continue or even intensify. Yellow tells me you are approaching a limit, and it is time to slow down, adjust, or check in with you. Red means stop completely. No hesitation, no questions. Everything ends immediately, and we shift focus to care and reassurance. This system is not just a formality for me. It is a clear and trusted way for you to have a voice, even when you are surrendering control. Being a submissive is so much more than just being teased. It is about trust, vulnerability, and finding strength in letting go at the right moments. Submission means choosing to yield, to follow, and to place your trust in someone to lead you. It is about allowing yourself to explore your desires and boundaries in a safe and guided way.

A submissive listens, follows guidance, and embraces the structure or rules set by their dom. Sometimes it means showing obedience or completing tasks that rein*** the dynamic. Other times, it is about being honest and open about your needs and feelings. The teasing might be enjoyable, but it is only one part of submission. The real power of being a submissive lies in your willingness to give yourself fully to the dynamic, knowing you are safe, cared for, and valued.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 500km around Australia Crestmead

Threads and discussions that include: hair

  • I'm curious to find out which it the most popular trend for pubic hair. What you have and which you prefer. Open to boys, girls and anybody in between I am generally clean shaven although occas ...
    • 41 replies
      • 1
      • Like
  • PUBIC HAIR: SHAVE OR SAVE?

    What's your style down there? Do you prefer shaved, bushy, or a special hairstyle? Share how you like to keep your own pubic hair, and let us know what you enjoy seeing from others too! 🌿✂️ ...
    • 1,459 replies
      • 530
      • Like
  • Pubic Hair

    Question for the ladies...do you prefer men to have a full bush, trimmed or shaved pubes? And why? ...
    • 37 replies
      • 4
      • Like