Being honest and upfront : One first and foremost I am Married. Which means if anything goes beyond talking/chatting. My wife will be made aware of. If it goes beyond a couple of dates. I would ask that you meet her. You don't have to become friends. But I'd at least want you to be comfortable talking to her.
Two, I have an OSO (Other Significant Other , poly term). We have been together over 10 years. There may come a time where I ask you to meet her.
Three, I have.... idk what to call her. A friend at the very least. But someone who wants to play around. It's just the timing never seems to be right. ... lol
Four, I am NOT trying to build a Harem. But I am poly so...I would NOT, will NOT ask you to limit who you talk to, see, possibly even date. All I would ask is that I am made aware of.
What I am looking for is a mature submissive/slave like woman. One who has attitude ,passion, fire, spirit. Both Brats and SAMs are welcome !!! And yes in my opinion a slave can be all of those things !!! She should be very masochist !!! As well as exhibitionist !!! And not afraid to explore her fantasies both in play and sex. Someone who is not only willing to look into the darkness ( both around us and inside each of us)but wants to walk into it and explore. I would prefer she be bisexual. And really big bonus points if she not only has a foot fetish. But also knows how to take care of someone's feet. Yes I love to have my feet taken care of( hot foot baths, massages, and pedicures. I'll even let you ***t my toenails. Though I get final say on color.
I also like for a woman I am involved with. To not be afraid to take the initiative. Something like surprising me on my lunch break. Hot summer night, you show up with a cold milk shake or something. Dressed inskimpy clothing.... or none at all....lol
I'm a bigger guy ... ie. FAT. I have a big beard hair all over, glasses, tattoos, and I smoke cigars. I work full time in a fairly dangerous job( I work in an aluminum foundry). And I work 3rd shift. So taking you out for breakfast is a better idea than dinner. But not opposed to going to dinner. Especially if I don't have to work that night. And I am a simple guy food wise. Meat and potatoes....lol pizza, burgers. I am not hard to please food wize. And prefer jeans and Tshirts. But doesn't mean I can't dress up if the need arises.

Other than that. Just ask me

Kinky Date30 to 65 years ● 100km around USA, Evansville one year ago

Sadomasochist switch here, actively looking for a woman (or transgender person) to be my regular play partner. I live in South Columbus Ohio and I cannot host, so you have to. Kink-wise I'm a true switch and I am equally into giving and receiving all my kinks. Primarily I'm into: edging, orgasm denial (especially long term), chastity, extreme pee desperation/holding, bathroom use control, supervised bathroom use, human toilet paper/asslicking, and I have a few light scat fantasies that I don't necessarily want to live out but I would love to experiment with the right person. I have a thing for women with hairy, sweaty armpits and I am particularly attracted to BBWs and older women, but I am not picky. Whether you are more of a Domme or a sub or even a switch who can be both, I'm happy.
IMPORTANT: I'm in an open relationship with a woman who is bisexual and also a switch, so if you are bisexual and willing to play with both of us, that's our ideal situation. Domme both of us, or submit alongside her, or something in between. She's more submissive than I am but that's ok (currently she's in semi-permanent orgasm denial and I don't let her cum very often). I'm particularly interested in pee holding, giving or receiving but mostly I want to be on the receiving end...control my bladder and deny me permission to release! Make me stop and start my pee flow on command and don't let me empty my bladder until you decide to let me (even if it's all day!) I love holding my pee and I need a good challenge.

Please be able to travel and host!!

BDSM Play Partner21 to 45 years ● 5km around USA, Columbus one year ago

How long has it been since you quenched your thirst for uncommon desires & treated your body like an amusement park? Now ask yourself, “how long have I scoured the Internet but came up empty-handed every time because I haven’t found what I really, really want for free?” Well you’re not alone. In fact, many of you are in the same boat, knocking your heads on some wall because you’re unsatisfied. Unsatisfied because just like many things in this journey we’ve come to know & accept as life, the same-old same-old has become just that, old & you’re probably in the market for something new. For example (not that this matters to Me) many of you who read this profile are married or attached, but why are you here? The same old ball & chain you married has become your same-old same-old.

Well the Cobalt Lair might just have that newness you’re looking for. I’m Mistress Sugarbritches & I’m the shemale proDomme who all of the other Dommes & Mistresses wish to be after they die & go to the afterlife.

I schedule My outcall BD/sm sessions 7 days a week from 2:00 pm until Midnight but will make exceptions for night owls, at a higher premium than the normal rates.

I only offer fetishes, fantasies & role play BD/sm sessions. What I don’t offer are sexual services (good luck finding a proDomme who will offer those). Those are performed by kinky sex escorts like Sally from a back alley who spanks Johns with hairbrushes from dollar stores while they beg Her to put Her dick into their mouths or bone their asses so they may “please” their “Mistress”.

Wake up & smell the leather, you’ll be glad you did! And if you request it, I’ll be more than happy to bang your head against a wall so you don’t have to.

The Cobalt Lair goes almost anywhere! I don’t screw people, I satisfy them!

Pro-Dom/me Session30 to 75 years ● 100km around USA, San Diego 10 months ago

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