me:
BBW
I am an intelligent woman, working on my Ph.D. in a traditionally female-dominated field.
I am on the introverted side, preferring the company of one or two others than a large group.
My vanilla interests include reading (or listening to audiobooks) mysteries and science-fiction and playing certain video games (currently obsessed with The Last of Us II).
I am an *** lover, and usually foster a litter of neonate kittens once a year, raising them until they are ready for their forever home. I also have a hot mess of a rescue dog, and two cats.
I am liberal with all that entails.

While I am a strong competent woman who can take care of myself, I am seeking to be the s in a D/s LTR. Both in the bedroom and out.

I have a high sexual drive and sex is a very bonding activity for me. Sexually my experience is mostly vanilla. I am not masochistic, however, spankings both excite me mentally, and feel delicious when I can get them.
I am willing and want to explore other aspects of BDSM. I don't know what I will like until I have tried.

I am looking for a Dominant man.
Body type: doesn't matter.
Age: 40s or older.
Intelligence: A must
Education: Irrelevant
Smoker: No
Location: Within a day's drive for me. I am not looking for an online relationship. I need physical contact for bonding and to explore this side of myself.
Long term I want a relationship that involves domestic discipline. I expect to be a fully contributing member of the relationship, but not the final decision-maker. The power you take in the bedroom will be yours outside as well.


Hard boundaries for me:
Scat
urine


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