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I'm looking for someone who shares at least a few of my interests but is, more importantly, passionate about what they like and do. I really do love hearing people who care go off about things even if I'm not currently into it. I'm really good at taking interest in other people. I need someone willing to be proactive in relationship building; someone, who will start conversations with me as much as I do with them. I'm huge on affection that goes both ways. While the closer you are to North Carolina, the better. I'm happy with leaving things long distance as long as we can meet at some point. I would be more than happy to move out of my state for the right person.

For myself, I can be assertive when the situation calls for it and often find myself taking on leadership roles. When people get to know me more, I think they find someone sweet and sensitive.

I'm going to college for programming and will probably make a career out of that, but my biggest passion is writing and storytelling. My other interests include reading, playing video games, tabletop games, and video essays online, and probably a dozen other niche things that take up my time.

I'm happy to be your boy, your pet, or just your sub. I just need the dynamic to feel loving. I need the sense my happiness is on your mind even when you do things like hit or humilate me. I'm big into getting collared because I adore the feeling of someone wanting me if that makes sense.

I'm huge into praise and teasing and I'm willing to give most things a shot as long as it's not an extreme kink like permanent damage, scat, knifeplay and the obvious stuff. I like calling the dominant mommy but I dun need it. While this component of the relationship is important, we should get to know each other as people first.

Here's some important things about me and my needs that may be dealbreakers for you.

  • I don't believe in God but have great respect for religious people. While I'll never be a believer, I'd make some accommodations for a lover's beliefs.

  • You need to be left of center. We can disagree on a lot of things, but must fundamentally understand the world as a flawed place that needs to be improved.

  • I'm a chubby masc person right now. But I'm also nonbinary and will be taking moves to become more androgenous such as pursuing laser hair removal and eventually hrt.

  • I'm looking for someone between 20-37

    Please do not message me just because you want any sub. I want to relate to you. If you consider yourself a creative person, we'll probably get along.

    If all that sounds good to you please send me a chat on here and tell me about yourself! After that let's go somewhere else to talk ideally discord. I wont chat anywhere that does not allow me to use my keyboard.

Kinky Date20 to 42 years ● 100km around USA, Charlotte one year ago

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A baby Girl / baby Boy is often known by the gender neutral term, little. A little is a type of submissive who embraces a childlike state. This can manifest in many ways including curiosity, a love of play, carrying a soft toy and dressing in clothes associated with being young. They can also use items such as pacifiers and diapers, but these are optional. Not all littles see themselves as being that young. Littles are submissives who need a great deal of nurturing and care from the Dominant who looks after them. Their Dominants are usually known as Daddies and Mummies. Littles will engage in activities which are associated with childhood. These include colouring in colouring books, doodling, blowing bubbles, playing games like tag or snakes and ladders. On the face of things, it seems a little takes more looking after than other submissives. It may be that they expect and need more support, time and nurture but their submission runs deep. Little’s relationships to their Daddy Dom or Mommy Domme are very intense. There is a great dedication from the little to their Dominants. They have a lot of submission to give. Littles can be bratty especially if this is a way they can earn fun punishments that they want. Littles, like all submissives, crave control. They may want very precise rules and will go out of their way to push the boundaries and test their Dominants. Littles often enjoy mixing BDSM gear such as cuffs, ropes and collars with pretty lacy dresses or dungarees. The contrast of innocent and not so innocent makes them happy.
Non-monogamists break with the societal tradition of having just one partner at a time. They will prefer to be in an open relationship. They can be called polyamorous. They don’t see sex or kink as something to keep between themselves and just one other person. They can have several partners at once, these can be just for play or more serious relationships. Every non-monogamist will have different approaches to non-monogamy. Polyamorists will have, or look to be in, more than one relationship. These will be more than play and sex, and involve a romantic and/or intimate aspect. Swingers may be married or in a committed relationship with one person but they will indulge in kink or sexual play with other people too. Swingers can be single, it’s not all about wife-swapping. Anyone not in a monogamous relationship can be referred as polyamorous. Non-monogamists can indulge in all kinds of fetishes and kink play. They can be Dominant, submissive or switch if they’re into BDSM. They will rarely be slaves as devotion to one Master or Mistress doesn’t come easy to them. However, they might work well in a relationship with multiple slaves and one or more Dominant partner.
Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.

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