Hello from Scotland

I'm looking to enter into a relationship with a male or female who is willing to take me on as either a sub or slave in training but also ready to deal with the fact that I'm quite shy and anxious about sex ever since I got out of a horrible relationship where even mentioning the idea of sex would cause my last partner to insult and degrade me.

This was not a BDSM relationship, there was no understanding that she didn't mean it so I was humiliated for simply wanting to take our relationship to the next level at her time of choosing.

Okay, enough about the sad stuff. I'd prefer to start with online messaging on this website with the possibility of exchanging contact info in the near future.

While I am looking to fill a slave role I am also looking for someone to trust and someone who can respect me just as much as I will respect you. That said, don't be shy to give me orders as I'm willing to try anything while I learn about being a slave. I consider myself open minded but things like Scat, Pissing and Severe Bodily Harm are not a turn on for me.

I don't mind where my new master or mistress is from in the world, if things start to get serious we can go from there.

I will never ask for to go abroad and see anyone should any relationship get that far. On the other side of the spectrum I will not give , mainly due to the fact that I'm dirt poor.

So if your willing to train a shy newbie who has a lot of enthusiasm to give, please don't hesitate to get in touch! Feel free to have a look at my profile and learn some things I didn't put down here.

Kinky Date25 to 40 years UK, Moray one year ago

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