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This is my first experience with BDSM, but it intrigues me. I love the art of rope tying and bondage. I love the control that someone else can and might have over my body. I want to experience that lack of control and maybe one day experience that type of control also. I've always had to be dominant in almost every aspect of my life, and I want to finally be able to let go and someone else be in control in whatever aspect sees fit to them. I love outside, and anything with Nature. I enjoy cooking and pleasing, hospitality. I have a fiery spirit with a delicate heart. I love hard but hate harder. Ask Away!!

Any type of dynamic/ relationship without connection is seriously lacking.

When people bond they trust each other, when the trust is there, people feel safe/comfortable to be their true selves/to be *** with you and when you prove to be worthy of that trust, the bond grows deeper. You really can't have a dynamic worth anything without connection in my opinion.

If the connection is there, there's very little I wouldn't be open to doing with/for my partner.

Looking for a very specific kind of partner. I’m not into anything extreme or fringe, however my kinks are quite niche I would say and it’s uncommonness for lack of a better word has resulted in me coming here to find exactly what I’ve been searching for.

I’m offering a “package” so to speak to any woman who’s interested. It contains 6 different fetishes I’d like to indulge in on an at least weekly basis(can be monthly depending on our schedules, distance etc). I am willing to compensate you for your participation. We can work out a price in further detail(perhaps you can message me). The fetishes are listed below

• Outfit modeling- You’d wear various outfits picked out by myself. Essentially you’re just walking around in the chosen outfit, maybe at the mall, maybe I take you out to lunch or dinner. The clothes will be anything from Y2K inspired, low rise jeans, tight jeans, short skirts, office attire


• Buttcracks- So here you’d be in a variety of positions, perhaps stooping down, or squatting, or bending over, all while showing your buttcrack. We could do this in private or in public but ONLY if you’re open to such an idea


• Commando- You would model outfits handpicked by myself and you’d wear them with no underwear. I’d like to take you out when doing this, so a movie date or a trip to the park is an option if you are open to that.

• Odor- This is one of the more “out there” options. Basically I’d ask you to refrain from doing one or all of the following- Showering, brushing, changing clothes. We’d meet and perhaps I’d request of you to blow your stinky breath up my nose. Or maybe I’d ask to sniff your armpits. It could even something as simple as me just sitting next to you and casually inhaling your BO as you mind your business


• Butt sniffing- Ah, another weird one. I would include this with “Odor” but it’s so niche that I see fit to give it its own category. Now here you’d go a few days without bathing per my request. Once that particular time frame closes I’ll ask of you to meet me and you can probably figure out the rest. Id sniff your butt to my content. There might be times where I’d just want a mild stench, so perhaps you’d be out all day, walking around or even working. Id ask we if we could meet up and it’ll go that way. OR again, we’d go the “not showering” route. I should also mention that outfits are important though a specific type might not always be required. Maybe I would ask you to wear a pair of tight jeans or slacks, other times you can just wear whatever you have on at the time


• Farts- And now we’ve come to the strangest one on the list. I must admit, I don’t expect many people to take me up on this but I’m gonna add it anyway. This one is pretty much what you see. I sniff your farts. You’d eat anything that makes you particularly gassy OR I’d buy you a meal of my choosing. Afterwards, we’d meet and you’d push out as many farts as you can. I’ll once again emphasize the importance of outfits. However, there will be times when you can just wear whatever you have on


Okay now here’s the thing. If you are interested in this whole “fetish partner” thing, you don’t have to choose all 6 of the options, you really don’t. You can do only 1 of 6 or 2 of 6, you get the idea. Most importantly your boundaries matter. If there’s anything, anything at all that gives you cause to pause or it’s something you’re not totally into, we won’t go forward with it, that simple.
For anyone interested, please message me and we can discuss things further. I’d prefer that any potential partners are of legal age.

Thank You for looking..
i’m not looking for one offs, i don’t meet straight away, i’m looking to get to know You and what You expect from me so i can fully submit to You..
i’m g, i’m submissive, extremely submissive, i have been for over twenty years.. i’m looking to be entirely committed to You, but in return i’m looking for a reciprocal arrangement. i need to feel wanted and loved as a submissive and to entirely trust You. i’m not looking for players, i’m not looking for one offs. i need to have things to look forward too, i need to know when i’ll be seeing and serving You again. i need consistency.
i’m not a swinger, i’m not looking to sleep my way through the site…i obviously enjoy vanilla sex like everyone else but kink is always my preference. it would be nice to meet one special person, or one special couple who appreciate my submissive needs. Ideally i’d like You to be Dominant, not necessarily all of the time but definitely when it counts.
i’m looking to be entirely devoted to You, to establish a connection and an understanding. i’d love to form a relationship which to all intents and purposes looks vanilla to those on the outside although we obviously know differently.
Now the shit stuff… i’ve been hurt, hurt too many times now and i’m not sure i can keep going through that. Yes i’d love to be owned again in the future… but i’m not looking to be owned one day and then disowned the next. i’m looking for someone who appreciates the complexities of ownership and the need for communication, i have emotions like everyone else and they’ve been destroyed in recent years.
i’m genuine, honest and trustworthy. i’m single and have nothing to hide and i’m happy to meet for a social too see if we might be on the same wavelength.
Some important things…
TRUST.. i think trust is THE most important thing. i need to trust someone fully in order to submit fully. It really is that simple. i’m willing to put myself in some compromising situations which totally depend on a bond between us.
HONESTY.. Close to and alongside trust is honesty. Please be honest, i’m open and honest about everything and if You can’t afford me the same courtesy i really do not want to know. i’ve nothing to hide, i really hope You don’t too. Please don’t lie to me, i cannot abide liars.
i will NOT accept a friend invite without chatting first and establishing some friendly banter… asking to be a friend without talking is likely to get You blocked..
i’m verified, i’m a paid up member and i have face photos which i keep private. This is a very private thing to me and certainly not something everyone would understand, i’m not looking to be “outed”.. my submission doesn’t happen overnight, it requires time. i’m unlikely to meet You right now or at the drop of a hat, even less so now. i’m submissive, i’m not stupid or a doormat. Firstly please talk to me like You’d talk to anyone else, everything else comes over time.
i work, like a lot.. but i’m looking to change this and i do have free time in the evenings and at weekends.. i rarely have any weekdays off unfortunately.. hopefully this will change over the next year.. i have my own place, it’s pretty small and the walls are thin, ha.. but i can accommodate.. i can also travel, i drive and i’m happy to come to You, or meet at a hotel.. (i know somewhere that’s ideal)..
i have been submissive for a long time and i’ve been fortunate to experience a lot over the years. i’ve served Dominant Ladies and Dominant Couples… i’ve experienced everything from mild to severe Domination and i enjoy the differences that people bring. i’m well versed in submitting and i’d like to think nothing shocks me anymore. i imagine i am too extreme for most people but please don’t let that put You off.
Please do not hesitate to get in touch whether You are experienced or just interested in kink and bdsm, i am always willing to answer any questions openly and truthfully.
i enjoy all aspects of bdsm, serving, being controlled, doing as i’m told, rules, protocol, , punishment and . i am yet to use my safeword and have never said “no” to anything sane. i do and always will remain polite, respectful, courteous and thankful whilst serving. Although i am happiest serving whilst made to dress like a slut i am also happy to serve whilst naked and . i’m clean and always shaved for meets..
Interests include but are not limited to..
.. i am a bit of a slut, i like being made to endure for Your amusement. i like to be pushed hard, i’d like to be made to wear Your marks… i’ve a particular interest in cbt, i hope You might too..
.. i’m an odd thing, i enjoy being humiliated, i think it’s the lack of control.. i find being made to dress slutty humiliating, and i enjoy how that makes me feel.. i also quite like the cnc and f***d bi bring, it’s hard to explain and not everyone will get it but for me it’s about doing as i’m told or doing things i’m made to..
Closeness.. i love to be touched, stroked, to have my hair played with.. it doesn’t always need to be about the extreme.. The After care is really important too, i would like to feel loved as Your submissive, beat me but hold me afterwards. But After care is not just immediate, after care is also about when we are apart and involves communication and talking about feelings and insecurities that may crop up..
Finally i have a stoma, it saved my life, i’m not ashamed of it or embarrassed by it… but if it bothers You it might be best not to message thanks..
Anyway thank You for reading, if You got this far and might like to chat please put “sub slut” in the subject bar so i know You’ve not nodded off..
Thanks.. hi

In my opinion the psychological side is the most important aspectI and for me to fully submit to u I need to trust u and build a connection and for u to earn that side of me otherwise no can do.

Respect is one thing I value tell me what ur about allow me to know u and ur mind and how u work and I’ll allow u to do the same back and hopefully a connection will form. If I notice red flags or lack of respect then I won’t hesitate to let u know.

It doesn’t matter if you see yourself as a Dom or a Sub or a Switch. There are times in life where you feel ignored, transparent, not worthy, lacking confidence and powerless. Those moments happened a lot for women but not for goddesses who know a bitch they can walk on and have lick their shoes clean.

I am a very submissive Norwegian man.
I have decided to stop having sex.
To not Disapoint any women with my lack of manhood. I need a woman to guide me towards becomming locked in chasity cage permanent. If you like control you get what you wish. My chasity cage are remotely controlled from anywhere. Cellmate. By a app on phone. Please someone help me

Hi,
I am looking for a new partner to have fun with. Sometimes it can be a little intense. But it will always be both interesting and fun.

This isn’t new to me, as I have been doing this for a very long time. My lack of images is down to having only just joined this site and have not got around to putting any up.

However, it will only be a profile image for public view and everything else will be friends only.
I prefer to be drama free. So if that’s not you then don’t reply.
I am single and not being secretive for any reason. I don’t mind if you are not. But would prefer a single person.
Passionate , with lots of sexual energy I can be hard work. In that my appetite sexually is very demanding.
If you are tattooed and pierced then I would love to hear from you. My profile says near Chester but I’m closer to Warrington. Manchester is also easily accessible.
I am happy to chat, flirt and meet if we can find a connection.
I am not desperate, so will not bombard you with messages….. but if I like you, I will pursue you. Hunt you down even, if you are prey.

So hopefully there is enough here to ***k your interest.
X

Updated 23.10.2023
Although I have previously stated that I will add images later to my profile. I haven’t as yet got around to it. And to be honest I probably won’t.
If through having had enough conversation to make me want to meet up. Then I will most likely share a pic. Although that would spoil the surprise a bit…. as in lessen the excitement of a blind date.
However, as with all aspects of my life, I am in control of this…. If I want to meet , then I will invite you. If I want to share images then I will do. But I won’t just give them out now without some conversation having been had between us. Regardless of whether or not you have images on your profile.

If that is not acceptable to you then you are probably not who I am looking for. But you could chat and find that you indeed are…😉
Updates 24.10 .2023
If you have visited my profile then thank you for your interest, even if just curious enough to see if “ not for you”.
But if you are interested and your filters won’t allow me to to message. Then please do message me.
Thank you!

Update; If you have liked me and you have filters on. Please know that I am always grateful for them. And it is your filters that have stopped me messaging to thank you.

Further update 20th January 2024.
I always try to reply to messages especially if we have been in conversation. Sometimes if I don’t reply straight away …. It’s because I am doing something away from this site. I am not being rude or dismissive.
Thank you

I have really grown in interest and outright craving to explore the slave life with the right Mistress. Unfortunately have had some bad luck so far (I will explain more when we connect) so I have yet to have an IRL session. I am open to one time thing, FWNB, LTR or really anything honestly.

I promise if you give me a chance, what I lack in experience I will make up for in eagerness, loyalty, and overall obedience. I will try almost anything once for Mistress

Translated into English using «Google Translate»:

Hello beautiful Mistress.
I can, at my own expense, come to any Mistress living in any country of the world for permanent or temporary residence in her country, provided that she provides me with housing and renders me all possible assistance for my successful adaptation in her country of residence.
If You can provide me with accommodation for my residence in Your country and want to meet with me, write to me and I will come to You. The longer You allow me to live in the housing provided by You, the higher the probability of our meeting will be.
You can not provide me with housing, but simply arrange a job for me in the country of your residence. In this case, the company-employer will provide me with corporate housing, as well as pay for my travel to the city where you live.

Now I would like to tell You a little about myself:
I am an amateur athlete who has set several world sports records, the full list of which is indicated at the end of this questionnaire. I also very rarely get sick (in the last 8 years I got sick only once).
My work fits in my laptop, so I can move freely around the world and live in Your country of residence for as long as You want.
Despite the fact that I have the means to come to You, I am still very limited financially and will not refuse any possible assistance from You regarding my arrival to You. If You agree to help me in my visit to You, please let me know how You can help me. Also, please let me know for how long You can provide me with accommodation and whether You charge a fee for the accommodation You provide. If You plan to charge for my accommodation in the accommodation You provided me, I will not be able to come to You.
Perhaps in the future I will not need to provide any assistance for my arrival to You, but at the moment - it is necessary.


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If you live in the territory of the "Cayman Islands", then this will facilitate our meeting, since I would like to get a Caribbean passport.

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My sports achievements I have set many world records.
Among them there are world records in exercises:
"Squats with a barbell of 60 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach";
“Squats with a barbell of 61.25 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach”;
“Squats with a barbell of 62.50 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach”;
“Squats with a barbell of 63.75 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach”;
"Squats with a barbell of 65 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach";
“Squats with a barbell of 66.25 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach”;
"Squats with a barbell of 67.5 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach";
"Squats with a barbell of 68.75 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach";
"Squats with a 70 kg barbell for the number of repetitions in one set."

I have broken one world record in the Guinness Book of Records. For the rest of the exercises, only non-official records were set and broken by me, the videos of which were searched for on various video hosting sites.
Unfortunately, due to lack of time, I was not able to film my latest achievements in sports. In this regard, at the moment, only my sporting achievements, which have long been outdated, are posted on the Internet, which, nevertheless, in the world, in my opinion, no one has yet surpassed. At the moment, I can do the exercises that are now posted on the Internet with much better results. (I will send You links to videos with my sporting achievements if You want.).
I also have good results in the exercise “Push-ups from the floor in a shortened amplitude” (I never filmed this exercise at all and there is not a single video on the Internet that would have filmed this exercise in my performance). I am progressing regularly and will most likely be able to set a world record in this exercise too (unless it takes me a lot of time to complete, which I have very little).
In the future, I plan to continue setting world sports records.

I am new to the life style and have explored a lot online but have never had a chance to explore in person. My whole life between work, family, friends I dominate but I am incredibly turned on by the idea of submitting to a mistress and losing all control.

What I lack in experience I make up for in willingness to explore. Also happy/confident I could be a switch if you also want to explore both. Also I travel a lot for work so distance doesnt bother me.

Hello I was hoping to meet and talk to femdoms in the area. I am shy and have social anxiety so if my answers are lackluster I apologize in advance.

I was tied up by my date, sounded fun. She ball gagged me, against my will she did me like a bitch with her strapon, I loved it lack of control and not knowing how much I would like it I want more

Open to casual through to commitment depending on person, circumstance and feels.
Often, I get asked to steer or lead (or even navigate), and that's fun but honestly, that's never been something I would have insisted on. I find topping relatively natural but y'know, it can sometimes lack freshness.
Have always been a fan of certain consensual non-consent games and am now becoming more than curious about the paths not taken.
*NB**: I have no wish to take anyone, anywhere that they do not wish to go, yet I do love intensity, going to extremes, wherever they may be.

Things that interest me start with intensity, the kind of connection where getting into someone's head &/or having them in yours seems palpable & very, very personal. I answer to a wide range of fetishes, sensual seduction & intimate, evocative drama/roleplay.
...Allways, in the service of fun.

Often people come to play with roles mapped out. I would speak up in favour of exploration. Discovery can be so hot! ...so can vulnerability. I tend to need to meet a person before I really know the strength or the details of what I'll be interested in. But I'm interested in a lot of things.
That applies should we become casual, considered, or committed. Yes, w' the right person I'm open to any or stepping through them to find out for that matter.

Willing to go just about any place that really works for someone because when it really works for someone, it almost doesn't matter what you are doing but only how well you do it, how big your leap is and how invested you are.
I do have some favourite places though...

Looking for someone to help a bisexual feminine 19 year-old male just finally getting out into life after a youth of chronic illness delve deep into his sexuality and BDSM kinks. Any takers? Hope you have lots of cuffs and chains...~

Also someone who'd more than love to just be friends, love roleplaying, cosplaying, acting, and uh, while even more rookie and unnatural at it compared to being a submissive, I'm more than willing to Switch as well! Just hope you'll bear with me if I'm not exactly the best at it... ....and am also lacking any equipment of my own, haha. Mind if I borrow...?

I'm looking for a FT LTR DdLg dynamic...Someone with previous experience would be preferable but not essential. Full knowledge within the lifestyle would be needed though! I'm not looking for chancers or fakes...I can spot you a mile enough. Ive been in this long enough to have a very efficient 'fakedar'. DO NOT mistake my submission or my 'status' as weakness or lack of intelligence. I want to belong and be owned by the right Daddy Dom and eventually maybe leading to TPE. Also open to be contacted by other littles!! Hope to hear from you soon

hello there
my name is Beth, I have a lot of things a interested in yet I lack experience. Am hoping to find a Mistress who can train me up in exchange for care, hosting and entertainment services in London, UK.
If that sounds interesting drop me a message.
beth