So… I am writing this because a lot of people seem to be confused with…let’s call it “The inner workings” of
B.D.S.M. ( not here of course, just in general)...
Bdsm and M/s are separate things, M/s may or may not contain elements of bdsm.
The bdsm community outnumber the True M/s people by a huge amount.
True M/s couples (or groups) are not that common.
They appear common because bdsm people mostly believe that M/s is a part of bdsm.
And bdsm people often, in fact usually blur the distinction between M/s and Dom/sub.
They throw around terms such as slave and Master like candy but those words are like the word love to me and should never just be thrown around.
Mostly, they do not understand (or accept) slave, as property.
In the bdsm world most activities revolve around “scenes”
This is where the term slave gets *d, people always used to use the term submissive which is the correct term, but the word slave seems to be in fashion. Something that people don’t understand the totality of the word slave.
Now in True M/s lives, the slave gives permission and consent to her/his Master when the slave is collared.
Therefor the Master never needs consent again.
However, many in the bdsm world won’t understand or appreciate this.
They also mostly won’t appreciate that the slave is Master’s property and He can do anything He so wishes, so **
and **** are largely mute points.
Because for it to be real, there cannot be any limits.
Sex, massage, dancing, seduction etc.
She always looks and smells divine.
A true slave weaves the essence of love, honor, high ideals, and strong desire to grow spiritually in these areas…as well as all aspects in life. It is well to see how the Master describes this subject. To Honor…To Love…High Ideals…And a strong Desire to grow Spiritually…Are not only how the Master describes this subject…But is the reason why Master…is…Master
But everyone must take responsibility for their own reality. It is an art, and as such requires not only study and practice but also the inspiration and the love-hate relationship all artists have with their craft.
Through experience of Master’s…They can tell you what the two trademarks are of all True women are:

• The ability to laugh, even at the worst horrors…And…

• The ability to throw jargon out the door and discern the heart of every matter while never taking any matter too seriously.
The simple reason for these abilities is that by actually doing Your own reality and actually experiencing the magickal universe instead of merely reading about it, these abilities are automatically developed.
T/they should be overjoyed with T/their common connection…W/we all recognize the potential that results in the formation of this union…it is merely the beginning of something new…
T/they should be empowered by T/their sexual Magick…and though it transforming into the beginning of who T/they should be…The Beauty of the connection that is so Strong…no Limits…total Trust…above all Loyalty… Did You all read that?? Above All Loyalty… If Master and slave can not be loyal then it is Not a true M/s relationship, it is Dom/sub relationship. A M/s relationship is stronger than Any Marriage anywhere on Earth and should be treated as such! It is a lifetime commitment! That is why there are only a handful of “True” M\s relationships in the world!
Everything in balance.
A True slave should trust in her intuition and nurture her environment of deep devotion, patience, and intense passion…sometimes in silence…
Master and slave together set the standards for which direction they want their life to go.
The slaves’ opinion is always listened to by Master; but in the end the slave knows that His decision is Final.
Every Master strives for “the slave that comes willingly on bended knee” that His slave learns to just pick up on these things over time and doesn’t have to be told or punished anymore.
Its understanding more than just sex, its learning about each other

BDSM/Fetish Family5km around USA Seattle

HI asm a Master/Dominate my name is John they call me Rave.
I have been in the lifestyle 20+ years I first was a submissive under a great mistress who thought me a lot and I spend 5 great years learning.

I am looking for a LTR NSA or POLLY whatever your flavor. One with mutual respect respect for consent and a Dominate / Submissive With great communication so there is no arguments fighting or disrespect where we remain Respectful at all times of course you would have a say in everything and transparency would assure that there is no ghosting lying or problems Transparency and Communication . I would have the final say and I base it on a fair judgement of whats best for the relationship and I would not let things happen giving you to others unless in a Polly or NSA agreement and safety and safe sex is needed to have there way just to dangerous now days with STD and HIV Be Safe! Love care and mental emotional and physical support always in the relationship and I am a romantic at heart so I am not abusive mental emotionally or physically I am looking for some one that is ready to explore new things who enjoys impact play and bondage and Sabari and is ready to give them self to me fully after a year fully and is collared in 6 months that is a lot like marriage then the CNC contract after one year where she is ready to fully give her self to me for our needs. It is because of scammers I have made it where you must verify your pictures on this site to message me. I'm not a Sugar DADDY I am a Master/Dominate have respect when you message me I am not here to play games. I am willing to take time to get to know you as friends first if that's what you need. I have a very high sex drive so i am not looking for someone who has to take 6 months to make up there mind while they scout other men online If your out of the United States I could be interested in Internet relationship but video and voice is required. I can message you for the first 30 days after that you must be able to call me on the phone or video call me daily. I am not a perv I am a Master and have control over my sexual needs and I do not require nudes unless you want to send them to me or your taking part in our Nightly Ritual I am very kinky but I understand fully about the rights of consent and respect for my Submissive DDLG Slave Brat I take care of you menially emotionally and physically After care and Safe Words and make sure you have a safe space to grow. If you are interested you can message me here be happy to speak with you and answer any questions you may have and even fly you here by paying half the airfares if you need help but we must be well established for some time befor we do that so and you must be able to travel and relocate when the time comes. I love Brats I am a Sadist and Infor not into hardcore that's ok you don't have to be as long as you enjoy Impact play and Bondage you need to be Tamed message me. I am working on my Projects now Hanging the spanking rings on the wall and adding the tiedowns to my refurbished bed and have plans to build a beam in the back yard so you can do some Sabari Safety always first when it comes to suspension so if your a Rope bunny that's a pulse nothing more sexy then a bunny tied up in her submission and zone until then I am learning new things and will keep it to partial suspensions and practice is needed so hours of being tied up off and on trying new stuff "I am not a expert when it comes to Ropes but I enjoy Hemp Ropes they are my rope of choice to use in Sabari also like wax nipple and clit *** Thys and breast and butt impact play and others is a lot of fun all within safe limits "Hope to here from you soon Master/Dominate Rave.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 55 years ● 500km around USA Redfield

My different forms of pussy play or maybe it is pussy worship.

I'll put it into six bullet points:

  1. DEZ or deep erogenous zones starts with a colposcope or my camera on a dildo to show you your 4 DEZ and how each one feels and discover which you like the best and the best order to massage them. One you start orgasming, I will keep giving vaginal orgasms but will add clitoris orgasms and the combination orgasms are my true goal.
  2. Orgasm Research is where I give multiple orgasms in a ***d way, where like a mild form of CNC you can't stop me from giving you more orgasms and training you to have longer orgasms called Status Orgasmus. I have had to stop due to hyperventilating and will lookout for safety or medical issues.
  3. Medical play is where I will vacuum pump your clit, then pump inner labia and then outer lips to be puffy and swollen. At this point, I will give your swollen, sensitive pussy multiple orgasms. Then inserting a speculum and give more orgasms with a full sensation. This is in stirrups and not bondage.
  4. My Yoni massage has 30 steps and takes about an hour. These are the important things to understand before the massage. You have no need to feel rushed, or act (fake an orgasm) or feel any pressure. Just feel my hands making you feel good. Get out of your head. Solf music, no lyrics, red or blue lighting for soothing, and relaxing experience.
  5. Orgasm Control, making sub ask for every Orgasm. 75% of the time is Yes. 10% is is count to 5 or 10 then ask again for a yes. 10% it is ask nicely, and you must say "Mr Sting, my i please Orgasm". 5% or less I will ruin an orgasm. Edging falls under this category. I'm not really into making a sub not masterbate when not with me. I think female masterbation is very healthy and should be encouraged to a point. I have a clicker counter, subs have a hard time counting above five with me.
  6. Teaching to Squirt, not all women can squirt but but I have a lot of successful subs squirt for the first time with my training. I do not to this in a *d gimmick way but with, building trust and some time and my pelvic floor muscle coaching and a bit of specific squirt training. This isn't a single scene but a longer D/s training.

    My favorite munches:**

    • Peach Munch - in Peachtree Corners, my munch I started & run.

    • SAM or Sugarloaf Area Munch meets monthly in Duluth

    • Kennesaw Kinskters meets monthly near Maietta Square

    • HOT Hothouse Slosh meets monthly at a Brewery in Lawrenceville

    • Trivia Munch meets weekly in Sugar Hill

    • AASS or Atlanta Area Spanking Society, meets monthly in Dunwoody

    • Cobb Munch meets monthly in Kennesaw


      Sometimes I go to these:

    • Alpharetta Munch meets monthly

    • DAM or Decatur Area Munch meets monthly

    • N.A.K.E.D. educational Munch meets monthly in Woodstock

    • Alternative Woodstock Area Munch meets monthly

    • Hiram Munch meets monthly

    • Gwinnett Munch meets in Duluth bi-weekly or twice monthly.

      There are more in the Greater Atlanta Area, out further. Just ask me.

      I'm putting 500km, but remember you must travel to these munches.
      If you ask nicely, I can also help you find munches in your area.

Kinky Date19 to 70 years ● 100km around USA Atlanta

Looking for a new sub. My new sub will be "baby diaper girl" and wear a diaper and onesie while with me if she is allowed to be clothed. She will be completely taken care of and not need to or be allowed to make any decisions or do anything without my say so. No water sports, no one is ing on you, playing with any poop etc. Not into that, no branding no no marks bruises only safe play with safe word but with the baby diaper girl twist. I'm a formally trained Dom have been for 20 years. I enjoy teaching about the lifestyle as much as living it and really enjoy pushing subs to their limits so they can learn about themselves and come out as better stronger people. I'm a respectful Master but a non tolerant one. I don't like disobedience and it's not my choice but a fact that punishment follows disobedience. Will never cross the prearranged limits ever and always have safety at the top of my priority list before the fun comes into play. If you don't understand what the lifestyle is about and that sex is very low on the priority list in a Master/slave Dom/sub relationship then we're not a fit from the start. It's all about power control pushing limits exploring your wants desires likes you never new you had but having fun and getting close to someone you trust along the way. Don't get me wrong I love sex very much so as a matter of fact but thats not why I want a sub/slave if I wanted just sex there are much easier ways- buy a couple drinks at a local bar for a cutie impress her with my sense of humor then later with everything else 😁😁 just kidding. Baby Diaper Girl where are you? Your daddy needs to find you he is worried about you and is bored with no one to take care of.

BDSM Play Partner21 to 60 years ● 50km around USA Glenarden

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