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I want to talk/meet with someone kinky, preferably someone new and inexperienced, so that we might explore our fetishes together. I believe being open-minded is key, especially in the bdsm scene and thus i will likely be open to most things bdsm, as long as there is no permanent physical damage or change in appearence involved and it remains strictly between us. So no public or stuff like that.

I’m mostly a submissive from what i gather, but i do get turned on from the thought of controlling someone else. Tho mostly at the prospect of restraining somebody else, possibly in some kind of predicament. Like for example tying someone down so that they can’t quite sit down and also can’t stand with their legs straight, so they’re d into this 90 degree position for their legs, which is a posture one cannot maintain for long, at which point they might pull on some nipple clamps, maybe a crotch rope tightens, or maybe they push a pole-mounted dildo deeper into themselves. That sort of thing.

As for my submissive fantasies, i have a lot of kinks, but the main ones are probably: bondage, chastity, pegging, edging, denial, cbt, electricity, doctor roleplaying, cunnulingus, sensory deprivation, generally just being i guess - power exchange. now i havent really experienced any of these with a partner so that list might change, but those are definitely up there in the top 10. and being ordered around and stuff like that doesn’t really get my rocks off at all, nor does verbal , but it doesn’t bother me if the dom is into it. I think generally i just get some enjoyment and sexual fulfillment from knowing that my partner does, so I’m probably down for mostly anything because of that. Maybe this also has something to do with the fact that i find the idea of being d into chastity and pleasing my partner with a strap-on to be extremely erotic. However, despite these fantasies about chastity and strapons and pegging, i would not say that i’m into sissy play. At all. Maybe i could learn to like that sort of thing, but at the moment the only way i get turned on thinking about sissy play is being d into it nonconsensually, which is more about the of being ***d to do something, than it is about that specifically.