You are in the right place! I live and breathe shibari since I make my living selling rope, teaching and doing shows/related projects. You can see some of my tutorials here: https://bdsm-training-school.fetish.com/courses/shibari-the-easy-way

Recently, amicably out of a 9 year relationship. Currently, looking to see what comes my way whether it be Miss Right or just Miss Right now.

In short, I'm a dirty old (gentleman) with a penchant for younger ladies who appreciate such things. Vintage but surprisingly good condition and in full working order. Sense of humour, often dark and inappropriate. Largely functional brain. I speak my mind and don't shy away from controversy...or is that just Foot in Mouth Disease? I don't do drama, so don't have an ex who won't talk to me.

No bigots prejudiced against the usual things or political views, Brexit or Covid...

BDSM Play Partner5km around UK London

Who am I
Hey I am Hristo, 35 years old. I am enjoying my life, with all the joys and challenges that involves.

I'm an introvert who enjoys watching Sci-Fi movies, listening to music, playing video and board games from time to time. I also like to go for walks and hikes. I tend to be shy, but once I get to know people I can be very open. Love learning new stuff and if somebody offers to teach me something I’m hooked. Am respectfully and caring person.

I am a switch, as I love the idea of both submitting to and dominating someone. It’s so intimate and involves trust from both sides.

I enjoy a lot that bdsm has to offer. I'm open to try new things.

Some of my main kinks include: spanking, , , bondage, anything to do with orgasm control (tease/denial, edging, multiple orgasms, ruined orgasms, post orgasm ), sensory play,
My hard limits so far are
, ***, needles play.



What I am looking for

I'm looking for a long term D/s dynamic with someone who is interested in a serious relationship. Prefer someone with some shared vanilla interests in addition to the kinky ones. I don't expect anyone to submit right away, I expect to talk, build rapport and trust. When you do submit I want it to be because you respect me enough and know me enough to have decided that I'm someone safe, capable, and healthy for you.



What to expect from me

I personally feel that trust is the single most important key to any healthy relationship. I feel that it is important for a submissive to feel secure in the care of their dominant. My arms should be their safe place where they will always feel cherished and free to be themself. I strongly believe that actions will always speak louder then words and that actions should be consistent in nature. If you don't mean what you say or can't back up your words then don't make empty promises.

My partner will always know that they can talk to me about anything. I will never take my submissive or their feelings for granted.

Healthy communication is very important and I will be just as open in sharing my thoughts and feelings.

I feel that there is beauty in a relationship that is built on honesty, healthy communication, and mutual trust.



I am always interested in meeting new people, and would like to meet and talk with like minded people, get to know them, and make new friends. If someone special enters my life, I will welcome them and we will see where it leads.

BDSM Play Partner150km around UK Swindon

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