Melbourne-based. Adult-only. Consent-led.

This is a training program, not a play party and not a dating service.

I am currently accepting applications for a small, curated intake into a structured submissive / service-oriented training program designed for individuals who want to explore submission with clarity, accountability, and care.

This program is suited to those who:
• Are curious about submission or service but want guidance, not chaos
• Value consent, communication, and emotional regulation
• Want structure, expectations, and progression rather than “vibes”
• Are interested in earned roles, not performative kink

What This Is
• Educational, skills-based training
• Focus on consent literacy, service, protocol, and self-regulation
• Small cohorts in a calm, contained environment
• Clear boundaries and professional standards

What This Is Not
• No sexual activity
• No nudity required
• No ***-for-entertainment
• No exclusivity or ownership demanded

Submission here is intentional, voluntary, and developed, not taken.

Format
• Application-based entry
• Short program (4–6 weeks)
• In-person sessions held in neutral training spaces
• Location disclosed only to accepted applicants

Who May Apply
• Adults (18+) of any gender or background
• Beginners welcome if they are thoughtful and communicative
• Experienced submissives welcome if they are open to structure

How to Apply

Send a brief message introducing yourself and answering:

  1. What draws you to submission or service?
  2. What structure are you seeking right now?
  3. What are you hoping to learn or develop?

    Applications are reviewed intentionally. Not all applicants will be accepted.

    This is slow, deliberate, and built on responsibility.

    If you’re looking to become something — not just try something — you may belong here.

Kinky Date18 to 80 years ● 500km around Australia Melbourne University

Hi, I’m a 22 year old college student in San Antonio, Texas. I’m 5’4, currently around 175 lbs, and I’ve just started working out because I really want to develop a softer, more feminine figure over time.

I’m a complete virgin and total beginner in all of this. My only experience ever is lightly kissing and fingering a girl once years ago. Nothing else. For a while now I’ve been fantasizing about a kind, patient Mistress slowly turning me into her pretty sissy girl, guiding me gently from a total blank slate.

Because I live with my parents, everything has to start completely online and discreet (messages, tasks, voice notes, maybe video when I can get privacy). I’m naturally very shy and awkward, especially when talking, so I’ll probably be blunt, quiet, or say things weirdly at first. I might stumble over words or not know what to say, but with patience and kindness I open up, and I’m very loyal and consistent once I feel safe.

I’m looking for a real long-term dynamic where you take ownership and help mold me step by step. That could mean workout and diet tips, hypno suggestions, chastity guidance, voice and mannerism practice, and especially help with clothes, makeup, toys, etc. when I’m able to get them again (my parents found and tossed the few things I had, so I’m truly starting from zero). My goal for 2026 is to become at least somewhat passable and finally take my first cock with your guidance.

I have literally no right now for tributes or to buy anything myself (college and living at home), so I can only do this with a Mistress who is okay with that and would be willing to fund parts of my feminization herself because she enjoys the process and wants to see me transform into her girl.

The vibe has to stay gentle and supportive. Light playful teasing is fine if it’s sweet, but please no mean, cruel, or heavy
, no ***, whipping, or anything that feels scary. I want this journey to feel safe, exciting, and caring.

If you love the idea of patiently shaping a nervous, broke, blank-canvas boy into your proud sissy (and helping make it actually happen by funding the clothes/toys/etc.), I’d be so grateful to hear from you. Thank you for reading.

Pro-Dom/me Session18 to 35 years ● 60km around USA San Antonio

An ideal playdate for us begins well before we ever meet in person.

We value thoughtful pre-date planning with someone who is collaborative, communicative, and respectful. We want to talk through interests, limits, consent frameworks, and logistics together in advance. During planning, we expect mutual input—but once a scene begins, we are looking for someone who is comfortable deferring to me as the dominant partner and final decision-maker.

Structure & Energy

Clear negotiation beforehand; no assumptions

Defined roles, expectations, and boundaries

A shared understanding that power exchange is intentional and consensual

Comfort engaging with both of us as a couple, not separately


During the Scene

I take the lead and direct the scene. The ideal partner is someone who:

-Is eager to participate within a power structure where I am in control

-Is attentive, responsive, and grounded

-Can stay present and adaptive while following direction


My wife enjoys intense, consensual roleplay centered on submission and captivity themes, which are always negotiated ahead of time. These may include:

-Captive or ownership-style dynamics (e.g., caging, collaring, restraint as symbols of control)

-Heavy impact play, within agreed limits

-Verbal and that reins her femininity
(gender-affirming language only; demeaning terms used intentionally and consensually, never dysphoric)

-Clear consequences or punishments for disobedience, as discussed in advance


Some interests—such as bottom play—require very thorough prior discussion and are never assumed.


Care & After

Strong attention to aftercare for everyone involved

Emotional check-ins and accountability

Space to decompress, reconnect, and communicate


What Matters Most

We are looking for someone who understands that:

CNC is a negotiated fantasy, not a license

Consent is ongoing and revocable

is intentional, specific, and affirming—not careless

Trust is built through communication, patience, and respect


Chemistry matters—but compatibility, emotional intelligence, and respect for our dynamic matter more.


Please read our bio before sending me a DM

BDSM Play Partner29 to 59 years ● 140km around USA Richmond

Heyo, I'm Chris! I'm new to the community and just starting to dip my toes into being part of it, but I've been wanting to give this stuff a shot for a few years. I'm 24-year-old California guy (Bay Area) with a plethora of odd skills, too many hobbies, a great sense of humor, an absurd range of interests (both kinky and mundane), and really just an all-around alright guy.

I wanna be shown the ropes. Explore things, experiment, have some fun and maybe share a few laughs really just a chance to indulge in the kinkier side of life without getting degraded or beaten into submission. Being the pet of an owner who wants a pet to play with and give them the company they need after a rough day, having a friend who'd tie me to binge watch shows with them, being the plus one of nerdy guy or gal who wants to dress up in cosplay with someone with at the cost of having me crossdress, serving as the sub to a dominant who's just looking for that'd enjoy the simple feeling of being bound and basking in the company of another— it all works! I'm willing to explore it all! We can pursue it as casually or intense as we want. I'm after the connection and fun, not sexual pursuits and chasing after thrills.

If given the chance, you'll have a goofy, sweet sub on your hands who'll try to make your day better however he can, memorize your likes and dislikes, shower you with affection whenever you want or need it, and do his best to make you happy.

Looking for long-term and monogamous. I'd prefer getting to know each other first, preferably as friends or dating instead of get straight into it. Can't host, as I live with my family due to financial issues.

BDSM Play Partner21 to 45 years ● 100km around USA Santa Clara

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