Hi, I’m a 22 year old college student in San Antonio, Texas. I’m 5’4, currently around 175 lbs, and I’ve just started working out because I really want to develop a softer, more feminine figure over time.

I’m a complete virgin and total beginner in all of this. My only experience ever is lightly kissing and fingering a girl once years ago. Nothing else. For a while now I’ve been fantasizing about a kind, patient Mistress slowly turning me into her pretty sissy girl, guiding me gently from a total blank slate.

Because I live with my parents, everything has to start completely online and discreet (messages, tasks, voice notes, maybe video when I can get privacy). I’m naturally very shy and awkward, especially when talking, so I’ll probably be blunt, quiet, or say things weirdly at first. I might stumble over words or not know what to say, but with patience and kindness I open up, and I’m very loyal and consistent once I feel safe.

I’m looking for a real long-term dynamic where you take ownership and help mold me step by step. That could mean workout and diet tips, hypno suggestions, chastity guidance, voice and mannerism practice, and especially help with clothes, makeup, toys, etc. when I’m able to get them again (my parents found and tossed the few things I had, so I’m truly starting from zero). My goal for 2026 is to become at least somewhat passable and finally take my first cock with your guidance.

I have literally no right now for tributes or to buy anything myself (college and living at home), so I can only do this with a Mistress who is okay with that and would be willing to fund parts of my feminization herself because she enjoys the process and wants to see me transform into her girl.

The vibe has to stay gentle and supportive. Light playful teasing is fine if it’s sweet, but please no mean, cruel, or heavy
, no ***, whipping, or anything that feels scary. I want this journey to feel safe, exciting, and caring.

If you love the idea of patiently shaping a nervous, broke, blank-canvas boy into your proud sissy (and helping make it actually happen by funding the clothes/toys/etc.), I’d be so grateful to hear from you. Thank you for reading.

Pro-Dom/me Session18 to 35 years ● 60km around USA San Antonio

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