I enjoy making new friends and am very loyal with my friends. Trust is a HUGE thing for me. I go out of my way to help my friends in whatever way I can.

I’m bi - lean way more towards the gay end of the spectrum. If we got into play sessions, most of the time I won’t be able to host, because I have a few roommates, FYI. Maybe sometimes it’ll work out - always down for a hotel room on occasion. MUST be DDF (verifiable - will reciprocate and do the same for you).

Normal Interests: hanging out with friends, board games, video games, making films, traveling, Japanese culture, watching sitcoms (Frasier!!)

Kinky Interests: AB/DL (more DL than AB), bondage, spanking, chastity, sissy play, anal play, vanilla sex, edging, threesomes(?), maybe more I’m not thinking of.

Don’t Know: scat (in diapers)

Hard Limits: Scat, ***, knives, piercings, sounding, public play, fisting, drinking piss, breath play

I do not always want to be in kink mode. Especially with AB/DL - there are times where I play frequently, but also times when I don’t play at all. I would prefer a normal friendship and if benefits, it’s okay not to do kink! I’m more of a bottom but it would be nice to try topping sometimes. Hard limits are there to be up front, and if it’s not on any list, I’m likely down to try it.

Looking for 25-30, any race in DFW. Prefer normal build guys - I’m 5’6”. Not looking for a daddy in the traditional sense, but I’m definitely more sub in the bedroom. (Equals outside of it!).
PM if interested! Will not respond to shitty PMs.

BDSM Play Partner23 to 30 years ● 10km around USA, Dallas one year ago
BDSM Play Partner18 to 30 years ● 130km around Canada, Forest 3 years ago

Meeting is on hold until they have a vaccine for Covid-19, although I am willing to msg and chat on the phone until then.

I have 36 years of experience, almost 15 of those (so far) in a 24/7 TPE marriage.

I am not now and never have been a Pro. Those who use pros have the wrong skill set to serve me.

We are now looking for houseboy or maid. I am uninterested in forcing crossdressing, though am fine with and enjoy you crossdressing and feminizing yourself. I am open to once a week to bimonthly. If you fit in well, we could discuss more. There is the possibility of light play- mostly CBT and/or spanking, scratching and flogging. We can discuss other forms of play. What I will NOT do with you is anal penetration strap-on, or bring you to orgasm. I will not watch you bring yourself to orgasm.

I am am realizing I am in the mood for a masochist. If I find one who fits my desires I may be up for dinner (including my sub hub. NOTHING is done behind his back) once Covid-19 is quiet! LOCAL ONLY! NO EXCEPTIONS! Local means within an hour of Long Beach CA. I am uninterested in travelers. Photos will be taken of all play times. You may wear a mask and cover any identifying marks, scars or tattoos.

While I am willing to exchange mails with people and be friends, you won't get me to slide into cyber domination of you. I live with the real thing. What would I get out of online?

Now that I am married, I am sexually monogamous. My husband, Beach's toyboy is my collared sub; providing for all my sexual needs and most of my BDSM needs.

Intelligent, creative and a touch sadistic. I first started showing dominant sexual behavior at 17, when I talked a boyfriend into cross dressing. I only realized that the things I did (bondage, hair pulling, biting, tease and deny, spanking, manipulation, queening, cross dressing and CBT) were part of a "lifestyle." in 2000.

I'm a strong believer in SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual) play, but also respect RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) if the people are truly aware of the risks involved. We used to be active in the So Cal scene and went to munches, dungeons and events. We haven't been to a munch in five years and we are out of touch with the local scene.

Physically, I'm 5'6", a SSBBW (a large woman), with light brown long straight hair and hazel eyes. I was born in late March- typical Aries, and have a maternal streak, as well as being sadistic. I love whispering sweet nothings in my subs ear while I hurt them, or cuddling and soothing them after a long session. The maternal streak also means I feel very protective of my subs, and protective of subs in general.

My favorite forms of play:
-CBT I am all about enjoying a penis in my own, special way!
-/Sadism/masochism - I'm a bit of a sadist and loooove the screams a sub makes when taking consensual for me.
-clothespins -I seem to have a slight fetish on that front..
-flogging/whipping/caning
-spanking/paddling
-tease and deny
-being pampered by my sub - including washing my hair, waiting on me, opening and holding doors, making me tea, cooking, cleaning, laundry and such.
-photographing my sub at "play"

MY hard limits:
-illegal /alcohol by either party in session - I want all of my and my sub's senses functioning normally. I don't want something masking a problem.
-gags - I have allergies, and am made uncomfortable by the thought of restricted breathing
-bathroom functions - just flat out ewww.
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- small amounts like from a play piercing is ok, but in any larger quantity, it belongs INSIDE the body.
-anything that might cause a medical emergency- such as asphyxiaphilia or edge play. I have no desire to try explaining how something ended up there to a doctor or paramedic.
-illegal acts.

My secondary interests are hair worship (stroke my hair correctly, I'm a happy Woman), having errands run & chores done, having custom toys made, chastity, watching cross dressing, sensation play, sensory deprivation and more. I also have a visual media fetish and enjoy photographing BDSM play and California landscapes

Vanilla likes: reading, collecting signed first edition books, Sims3, Spore, ocean stuff, movies, chatting, theater, museums, good conversations, dining out, crochet, friends, aquariums, cats

BDSM Play Partner28 to 75 years ● 25km around USA, Long Beach one year ago
Kinky Date18 to 43 years ● 25km around UK, Andover 4 years ago

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