Please answer these questions when you contact me
I can not fracking wait to meet you!

Age/Location, please don't reach out if you are younger than 35.
Committed to quickly meet in a reasonable time frame? If you are out of town, are you able and ready to visit me within 2-8 weeks? Long distance is ok, if temporary and you can visit regularly. I will not play online if we have not met in person and are not in a relationship where I control the pace.
Looking for a monogamous FLR both ways? I am not looking for a cuck, as it immediately puts your primary want as the relationship priority. I'm looking for a female-led relationship.
Attracted to BBW's? (I'm a size 26. Tell me you googled it when you reach out)
For-reals single?
Educated, respectful, and stable?
Are you smoke and drug-free? I have asthma, any smoke will not work.
Are you Christian or comfortable if I attend church and talk about it?
Willing to spend the time (here, then WhatsApp, video chat, visit) to get to know ME before diving into all things kink? I have purposely NOT included all my kinks in the into sections.
The two biggest things you can do to impress me is to be steady in your communication and believe it or not, here is the sticking point for almost everyone, just be respectful! I'm professional, own my own home, and I don't have any kiddos. I have an MBA; I am serious and intellectual when I need to be and if the situation requires. A relationship (physical and emotional) takes time for me to build. I will NOT have sex until I understand that we are both looking for a relationship and giving us a chance. I have not had a lot of partners.

Hard Limits: 3rd parties, scat, , permanent marks, s, kids, , incest play, diaper play, photographs/videos of scenes, BBW , and neglect and silence.

Kinky Date35 to 80 years ● 400km around USA, Madison one week ago

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