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These are a few fantasies I'd be interested in acting out, or at least partially acting out; I wouldn't want to go too far, because I don't enjoy real pa!n or !njury. (And if you'd like to see what I look like, just ask for access to my private photos. My public photos are selfies with clothing added by AI.) All right, here are some of my more recent fantasies:

-- You matter-of-factly explain that since I agreed to meet you in person, you now have the right to use my body in any way you see fit. That I let you buy me like a cheap cut of meat at a grocery store. After you make me strip, maybe you even order me up onto the kitchen counter, grabbing handfuls of my flesh and feeling it for firmness, thwacking my thighs with a meat tenderizer, as if I really am nothing but a piece of meat, before you hop on top of me, or tug me down to the floor, to ride me as you wrap your hands around my throat...

-- You make me work out in nothing but a pair of black boxer briefs...while you periodically glance up and order me to switch to heavier weights, or traipse over and squeeze my biceps or smack my thighs...or you just decide that I've turned in such a lackluster performance that it's time to end the workout early, and you push me down to the floor, on my back, straddling me, and slide your hands around my sweaty neck...

-- A lot of my fantasies tend to involve ch0king. I've done it to women before, but I've never been ch0ked myself. Never even been dominated. Always dated submissive women who wanted me to be dominant in the bedroom. So I'm craving a woman who'll say, maybe mid-conversation, that it's time for me to shut up. Then you order me to lift up my chin, and you curl your hands around my neck, your thumbs pressing down on my throat, as I sputter and ch0ke under you, and you ride me like a horse.

-- Maybe one of us bathes the other. But I'm not sure whether it'd be more appropriate for me to bathe you worshipfully by candlelight, massaging soap into your skin and shampoo into your scalp, gently and soothingly...or for you to scrub me clean, as roughly as you can, just scour my body with a brillo pad as if I'm a filthy pet or piece of livestock. Either way, I think the bath needs to end with you mounting and riding me...maybe even holding my head underwater and snickering at the way I sputter and splash around beneath you, as if I'm just a funny bathtime sex toy.

-- The two of us come back to my place after a date, sitting on the sofa, you looking bored, or tired, starting to ignore me...until all of a sudden your eyes light up, and you ask me excitedly, "Hey, would you mind if I strangled you? I bet your body would look soooo good all naked and sprawled out on the floor!" I'm shocked, at first, and I just assume it's a sick joke...but then I realize you're serious, and I start trying to bargain with you. Maybe I offer to let you ch0ke me, just a little, hoping it'll be enough to satisfy you...but, of course, it isn't, and you slowly talk me into letting you throttle me for longer and longer, removing more and more of my clothes, letting you smack me around, inspect my body. "See? You like getting ch0ked, don't you?" -- Until eventually I give in, and you remove the rest of my clothes and mount me...

-- We meet, go out once or twice, and I try to impress you by bragging about my cooking. So I invite you back to my place one evening to make you dinner. We start cooking together, but it doesn't take long before the power dynamic shifts wildly in your favor: you spill your drink on my shirt, seemingly accidentally, so I have to pull it off -- my undershirt, too -- and you look at my chest coldly, impersonally, reach out and poke my pecs...slap my abs, watch my flesh jiggle...offer unsolicited advice about what muscles I need to work on, while I just awkwardly nod, hope you'll let me get back to cooking...and when I do, you watch me intently for a minute, then order me to strip completely naked so you can get a look at the rest of my body.

I demur, tell you we should wait until after dinner to, uh, take our clothes off. "You're the only one taking your clothes off," you tell me, and calmly walk over and pour the rest of your drink onto my pants. I sputter some protest while looking down in shock, start to unzip my jeans, but you grab my chin and jerk it up, lock eyes with me, instructing me to stay still for a minute -- "I'm gonna punish you now. You want to get ch0ked or held underwater? Ten seconds, either way." So I choose to get ch0ked, it seems easier -- and when you release my neck, you tell me I'm allowed to strip out of my jeans now. My underwear, too. And you have me strip naked in the kitchen, commenting on my anatomy as if you're critiquing a drawing or statue or doll, and I hand you my pants and boxers, then hop up on the cold kitchen counter.

By the time dinner is ready, you've informed me that your chairs and table -- all your furniture -- are for people wearing clothing, not for naked or underwear-clad bodies...but that once your dinner's on the table, you'd be happy to dump some food -- maybe crackers, or leftovers -- onto a paper towel on the floor for me to eat. I groan, but I don't bother complaining any longer...and while I try to make conversation with you, crouching down on the floor to scarf down some barely edible food while you devour whatever meal I've cooked for you, you just ignore me while you read or watch or scroll through something on your phone.

After you finish eating, you look at me -- I'm still trying to chew a few last bites of my own awful meal -- and you say, sounding disgusted, "Dude, I don't think this is gonna work out...you're just not my type." You get up, you grab me by the hair or arm, pull me up, retrieve my clothes from wherever you left them, take a few plastic bags, and lead me outside -- I'm feebly struggling, begging you to let me put my clothes back on before we go outside where people can see us -- but you just march me over to the building's trash room, or garbage can in the backyard. You toss my clothes in a bin, order me to get in too -- and I just give in, hoping the night will just end already, climb into the garbage. You finally offer me some praise, pat me on the head, so when you tell me to lift up my head, I happily comply, letting you zip tie a plastic bag around my neck before you lower the dumpster lid, dust off your hands, and walk away.

Or -- even darker ending -- when you finish eating dinner, and I offer to help you put the leftovers in the refrigerator, you wait before answering -- slowly look over my whole body, pause, think for a minute, and finally reply: "No. I wanna save space in the freezer to hold you."

Goddess Hatari love seeing you screaming for mercy while giving extreme *** makes me happy and gives joy....I extremely love needles and bursting BALLS..

Want to find a sadist

I’m looking for a partner near me in Southern West Virginia. Im a sadist with a pleasure side. I have great communication.

Dominant

I want to meet a masochist that is prepared to grow a loving obedient relationship built on respect and growth.
Some experience. Want permanent now.

Yes I love FTM. No not a chaser…. It’s about respect and journey.

Im looking for someone sadistic who would be willing to tie me up and *** my genitals, im so serious about this and would be willing to pay

I'm a full masochist bottom seeking someone into sadistic practices. Femdomme, cbt, impact play, restraining, pegging, sounding, electro play, wax play, degrading, humiliating - Your name it. If you enjoy it, I'll submit to it

Sadist Domme here so I have all the toys and not interested in any subs, poly or parents looking for chit chat AT ALL. I'm looking for a BULL. Another Alpha that can match my attitude and sense of humor to play and test out equipment as I find and bring it onboard. I'm open to parties but in general it's not a requirement. ( Some munches have turned into Facebook friends ) Be fantastic if you like taking pics because as Gen X... I'm either just allergic or dyslexic about that ..it just doesn't happen and I have a lot of stuff to work with! Still working on the profile so expect edits and uploads.

Service sadist & rigger - looking for fun, guaranteed to make you drip with pleasure thru you need for ***. Aftercare is my favorite part.

"My focus is a serious, long-term commitment, so our first meeting will be a low-pressure assessment to see if the intellectual connection and emotional maturity are present. This isn't a 'date' but a deliberate meeting on neutral ground (coffee/drinks) where we can discuss our long-term goals and dynamic intentions before moving forward."

A sassy seductress and diversely skilled Domina, I elicit a thrill from enticing My sissies & slaves into shameless submission and enjoy indulging My sadistic streak. I have a penchant for the psychological aspects of My sessions. You will feel weak to worship My petite, athletic physique; tastefully decorated with artistic tattoos.

I am skilled in dishing out discipline, pushing My submissive's beyond existent boundaries and encouraging the exploration of their fantasies. I thrive when sensually teasing & ***ing My toys, and can be very creative in the ways I execute control.

I enjoy catering to niche requests and relish in playing a variety of Superior roles, creating inventive role play scenarios is something I am very well versed at. I possess a vast vintage wardrobe and stunning collection of couture latex clothing. As well as lots of PVC, leather, satin, lingerie and hoes & boots to suit any kinky occasion.

I work from an elite & discreet dungeon facility. I can sometimes be available at short notice, but generally prefer to schedule advanced bookings to establish better rapport. I am intuitive, enticing and experienced in eroticism.

I am seeking my girl/sub and all it encompasses. I dont play games and expect the same. My spectrum ranges from Daddy Dom to sadistic tendencies and beyond. Drop a reply,.let's chat and see what happens.

Hello and thank you for taking the time to read this somewhat long post. I am attempting to establish minimum compatibility prior to spending an extensive amount of time chatting. your honesty with yourself, who you are, and what you want is paramount.
My ultimate goal is to find a partner in life with whom I can be Myself without . My descriptions and requirements below are in many cases goals, though they need to be acceptable to you as anything said or written is considered an acknowledgement and soft-commitment; honesty and transparency are important to Me.
Obviously, there will be discussions surrounding basic life goals and desires as well as the items below, so don't get scared away thinking you and your feelings are not being considered. Part of being a Daddy is concern for My girl and her well being.
you will use My use of capitalization in written communications.
The lists below are in no particular order, hence bullets, not numbers, mostly just a stream of consciousness.
I very much look forward to starting a dialogue with you, so reach out soon.
About Me
I am an Owner/Daddy who has had one submissive 30 years ago and the same one again recently for a total of about 2 years. That relationship is completely over now.
The hiatus between was when I pushed the kinkier side of Me down and lived a vanilla life. I am at the point I no longer want to ignore my kinks and fetishes and I would like to have another sub/slave with a cervix to join Me.
• I have a low body count and prefer you to have the same, if possible, though this is not a hard requirement. Corrupting you is one of my fetishes.
• I want to create a relationship of trust and safety where we both can express our desires without judgement.
• Assuming compatibility, marriage is possible/probable though regardless you will be collared.
• I have an extensive list of kinks and fetishes, some of which may be considered extreme.
• I have sadistic tendencies.
• I am well educated.
• I have a felony conviction for negligent homicide as part of a traffic collision. No or alcohol were involved.
• I am white.
• I have a penis about 80% of average.
• I am currently overweight (200 lb), though I am working to improve Myself. My goal is 150 to 160 lb.
• My known limits are no or play.
About you
• you may have from previous relationship(s).
• you are open to being pregnant (once again) as I would like to have a child. This is not a hard requirement as long as you are accept another carrying the child.
• your commitment to me will be unshakeable regardless of our activities.
• you will put Me before yourself.
• you will never lie or deceive Me in any way as this would erode and/or threaten the safe environment.
• Preferably, you are similar in your experiences and lack thereof, and have my kinks and fetishes you have repressed and want to experience.
• you understand that I will most likely be open to or already have any fetish or kink you desire.
• your kinks/fetishes may concern or scare you because you the repercussions (not a requirement) as getting you to do those things is part of my desire. The safe environment I am seeking to build should help assuage many of your concerns.
o you will perform My fetishes and kinks even when they are not fully your own.
o you will be having sex with women. Whether you enjoy it to start is not relevant, though you will be expected to obey and participate enthusiastically.
• you will be expected to address Me as Sir at most times. Other pet names are acceptable as long as they are respectful.
• you will be collared once compatibility and long-term commitment has been established.
• you have masochistic tendencies.
• you swallow.
• you may be given an SLRN (this can be discussed).
• you will keep a tidy house and provide healthy meals (similar to TradWife).
• Preferably, you are similar in your experiences and lack thereof, and have many kinks/fetishes you have repressed and want to experience.
• Preferably, you are similar to Me in your experiences and lack thereof, and have many kinks/fetishes you have repressed and want to experience.

Strong-handed sadist looking for a submissive female that derives her pleasure from *** 💥 Would like to find a consistent partner so our dynamics can really develop. Consent and safety come first, everyone cums later 😉

Hello, I'm Master Addanus. I only accept female submissives.

If you want to feel remotely controlled 24/7 by someone eccentric, kinky, sadistic, and demanding, who will make you experience extreme sensations include pleasure, you've found your Master.

Note: I'm very tired of investing time and resources into training women just to fulfill one-night fantasies. I'm looking for a few submissives, probably just one who's committed and takes her role seriously 24/7.

I have no problem with inexperienced people, but I want a serious woman in her submissive role.

If I find the perfect sub, I probably won't want anyone else from now on.

I'd like to meet someone in Chicago who wants to check out some kinky events in town, as well as get together & see if there's a spark. Read this, then read my profile. My kinks are there.

I want you to get to know my body & mind before we use restraints or gags. I want you to be curious about my fantasies, turn ons, etc. before we get into any "scenes."

Familiarity, vulnerability, intimacy...all of that feeds the play, & I'm looking for deeply satisfying play time, not just "kinky." I want to be fulfilled by the kink I'm engaging in. Otherwise I'm just an accessory to your experience. And that's not what I want. Even if you say I'm a toy (and I love to hear it) I really want the play to be informed by what gets me off to experience & hear from you. We're pretending I'm your toy. I'm actually a person.

Looking forward to hearing about your fantasies & potentially exploring them together.

I know that it’s quite the long shot, but hey, you miss 100% of the shots you never take.

I’m looking for my kinky soulmate. The woman who is my exact kink counterpart; I truly believe that she is out there. I want to find that woman who has me checking my phone every hour with excitement and anticipation to read her reply. The woman who can’t keep her hands off of me or mine off her. Ive been searching for her for years now and I know she’s there. I would prefer that she’s close to my location for convenience sake but am open to online to start!

A little bit about me and my kinky self:
I discovered my first kink when I was a 13 year old boy and saw my first bondage porno. It had aroused me in such powerful ways that I didn’t even understand. From then on I spent my age years researching the lifestyle and community, developing new and different kinks the more knowledgeable I became about the lifestyle and community and all the different assortment of kinks and methods of self sexual exploration.
I’ve been in the community since I was in my first ever BDSM relationship at 19 years old. I had confessed my desires to my girlfriend at the time. At first she was skeptical but after having read the story I wrote about one of my fantasies, her pussy was soaked and she quickly found out that she was born to be a submissive little cumslut who loved following my every demand or instruction to a tee; because she knew what came with that. We spent 4 years together and over the course of that time we experimented with many different D/S role dynamics. We found our two favorite dynamics were DDLG and Master/slave. Unfortunately, we broke up after 4 years together.
We have been broken up for 7 years now and I have been in 3 different BDSM relationships since then. None of them lasted much longer than a year but during the time I spent with them, they went from completely unaware and unknowledgeable of kink & BDSM to fully trained submissives who almost become a different person when they become aroused.

My list of kinks is far too long to list every single one of them but I’ll list some of my main ones.
-Bondage -praise- /degredation-cock worship(obviously receiving)- deepthroating (again-obviously receiving)- orgasm play(control, denial, edging, ***d orgasm/pleasure overload etc.)- rituals(what type varies by submissive archetype) -anal play (both giving and receiving)-training- exhibitionism- squirting-
There are plenty more that I’m sure I’m forgetting, but you kind of get the point.
If we are in a romantic relationship outside of our BDSM relationship then please understand that I will love you and treat you like you are the center of my world, and our BDSM/kink lifestyle can most definitely be separated from our “normal”/conventional romantic relationship if that’s what you would want. I am monogamous, and do not wish to seek out other partners when I am in a committed or romantic relationship. Once exclusivity is declared between us, it will remain that way until we break up and part ways.
I also would like to put out that there that while I heavily lean towards Dom, I do identify as somewhat of a switch as well(in case you are one to occasionally crave the urge to grab me by the groin and tell me what’s going to happen next.)
I love love love writing you dirty stories about the fantasies in my head, and I promise you’ll love reading them. Once you read one, even if it’s just a long, dirty message; you’ll be able to see it so vividly in your head that you’ll actually feel like you’re there; it’ll make you tingle all over and unable to stop thinking about it until you get to experience it for real. I would share a short snippet from one of my many stories in the ad but it’s already super long to begin with so if you want a lick of that dirty smut/erotica material; just send me a message and I’ll send it over to ya😏😘

As far as my non kink parts I am 29 years old, 6 feet tall and 190 lbs. I’m no runway model but I’m decently handsome lol and have a fit, muscular build. I’m not shredded and all veiny or anything but I’m definitely built as I used to be a college athlete and still actively work out and lift weights.
I absolutely love fishing and being outdoors with my two dogs, watching Sunday football while playing football. I coach kids in the sport I played growing up and playing in college- bonus points to anyone who can guess what sport that is- and no, it’s not football.
I game occasionally (ps5) and sometimes go through spurts where I game quite frequently. I love spending time with the ones I love-especially my girlfriend when I have one.
While I am looking for something real and long term that eventually turns to a real life, in person relationship; I am okay with other arrangements such as an online situation, or strictly NSA situations where outside of kink/bdsm, we have no ties or obligation to one another. If I’m missing a situation that you would be interested in pursuing don’t hesitate to message me if you like what you’ve read so far and think we might click; I’m open to consider ALMOST any sort of situation or arrangement.
I am strictly heterosexual, so if you and your hubby want to play, just know I will not have any sort of physical interaction with him(I’d like to avoid couples for the most part pretty much but willing to consider certain arrangements regarding that). ABSOLUTELY NO MEN, nothing against gay people, just not my thing; so don’t ask!
The most recent results from bdsmtest.com is:
== Results from bdsmtest.==
100% Master/Mistress
100% Rigger
100% Degrader
96% Dominant
96% Voyeur
84% Switch
77% Experimentalist
75% Brat tamer
75% Owner
73% Primal (Hunter)
63% Non-monogamist
58% Exhibitionist
43% Sadist
30% Daddy/Mommy
17% Vanilla
6% Ageplayer

I can’t wait to hear from you!

Hello,

I am a sadistic Dom and experienced rope top. I’ve got 12 years for experience as a Dominant and 8 years as a rope top. I teach power exchange and rope and I travel as a performing rope top. I’ve been in several multi year dynamics and I’m testing the waters to see what might be out there.

I am a Master, a Daddy, an Owner, and a rope top.

My style of dominance is a mix of strict and exacting, and sweet and babying, I really enjoy the juxtaposition between the two. I demand a lot and I am equally tender and affirming.

I have far too many interests to list here, but my tops kinks all come from a love of power exchange. I love cnc, free use, , enduring to satisfy me, all forms of protocol, rope (of course), ddlg, dark taboo scenarios, service submission, pet play, and so much more.

In a perfect world, and a long term dynamic, I would find an alpha submissive who was looking to dominate other submissives with me while submitting. I am simply looking to explore with submissives right now.

Feel free to look at my profile and reach out if this interests you.

That mutually obssesive love. That need to please through pleasure and ***. That desire to see you and only you. To understand you intimately not just physically but emotionally and mentally. To make you my obsession and me, yours. Kiss me, bite me, love me, I need this. Not just as a fling, no, for the long haul.

Ok so against my better judgement I’m here again looking for dominant sadistic women to serve/have fun with. If you’re interested would love to hear from you. All I ask is be realistic, if there’s a twelve hour time difference between us it’s simply not going to work out. Have a great day