I've always dreamed about having "the 1950s dynamic". I've wanted to come out of the office to the smell of dinner cooking, my dog Tony snoozing nearby, and the sense of calm that comes from knowing that everyone and everything is taken care of.

There are some hiccups, though: due to some issues that have recently been resolved, I don't currently drive, though I'm working on getting my license by the end of the year; I don't (and won't) ever want kids - and I'm actually getting a vasectomy in December; and finally, because of some family issues, I'm no longer religious.

If none of these are dealbreakers for you, please read on.

What am I looking for, exactly? My housewife with a modern twist. I don’t want a partner who’s stuck at home, slave to the 9-to-5 grind or chained to a job she hates; I want to make enough that she doesn’t have to work if she doesn’t want to. I want her to be able to choose how to spend her time, whether that’s pursuing a career she’s passionate about, focusing on creative projects, or managing our home together. Ideally, she should be someone who’s fit or at least no stranger to the gym - I go 2-3 times a week and have recently built a little home workout plan for myself during the day at work. I’d love to find someone who shares my passion for cooking - I’ve tried to cook a meal at home every day this week, and my most recent meal was a big bowl of homemade goulash. I’m also a huge nerd: huge enough that I started my own game design company in 2023, and I’m hoping to take it full-time soon. I’d be thrilled if you shared a love for tabletop or story-driven games.

But more than shared hobbies, what truly defines the kind of relationship I want is the dynamic behind it: the way we relate, I lead, and you follow. I’m a Dominant by nature, not just in the bedroom but in the way I live. I find fulfillment in leading, protecting, providing structure, and creating a space where my partner feels safe to let go: to relax, trust, and be her most authentic, feminine, and devoted self. I’m drawn to service-oriented, obedient, or otherwise submissive women who crave direction and consistency. I want to find a woman who feels peace in having clear roles and being cared for with purpose and authority.

My kinks lean toward the domestic and devotional: obedience, service, rituals, praise, structure, and old-fashioned discipline always grounded in love, consent, and emotional safety. I want the kind of D/s dynamic that extends beyond the bedroom, where power exchange is woven into daily life: soft, steady, affectionate, and deeply respectful.

So what do I bring to the table?

Security. I own my own house that I’m working on fixing up, all my bills are paid on time and in full, and I've been working toward being able to retire at 40, 45 at the latest.

Safety. I've always tried my best to listen to my partners and create an environment where we can disagree without those disagreements turning into angry shouting matches. I want to be the person she can rely on, who helps her grow into the best version of herself, and who she can come home to (physically and emotionally) when the world gets too loud.

I don’t want to rush into anything: instead, I want us to build this relationship step by step. Ideally, we’d start with a conversation over *** chat for the first few days, then angle for a voice or video call within those first two weeks. From there, if we feel like there's a connection, I'd want to go on a first date that feels easy and genuine like a virtual movie date or, if you're local, a trip to my favorite bookstore followed by ice cream. One date should turn into two, four, more… I want slow, steady growth as we find our rhythm. I’d want to reach a place where we’re spending more time together, feeling like home to one another, before taking bigger steps like moving in or exploring what a D/s dynamic between us might look like.

At the end of the day, I’m not looking for something casual or uncertain. I want a woman who values structure, who finds security and peace in clear roles and strong leadership. I believe in setting the tone for my home: protecting, providing, and leading with both strength and consistency. In return, I want someone who takes pride in her role, who wants to trust, follow, and build something lasting by my side. If the idea of a traditional, power-exchange dynamic built on loyalty, trust, and purpose speaks to you, then you already understand the kind of bond I’m offering.

Since I've been getting a lot of time wasters and spam replies in my inbox, let me know your favorite comfort meal or ideal first date in your first message.

Kinky Date18 to 46 years ● 75km around USA Mechanicsburg

Hey little girl... Cum here...

Are you a woman who craves the exquisite release of surrender? Do you long to shed the weight of choice and exist purely to please and obey? Your search ends here. I am currently seeking one exceptional female to become my remote slave—a role reserved for the truly devoted and daringly open-minded.

The Art of Remote Slavery:

This is a dance of ultimate submission, conducted through the invisible threads of the internet. You will live your normal life, but beneath the surface, you will be owned. A single, secret word, shared only between us, is your key. When I send it, you will shed your identity and step into your role. You will respond, "Yes Daddy, your wish is my command," and from that moment, your will is mine. Your body, your mind, your pleasure—all instruments for me to play. This sacred trance lasts until my command is fulfilled or one hour passes, returning you to the world, marked by the memory of your service. Every detail—our names, your limits, your availability, your safe word—will be meticulously defined in our contract, ensuring your complete security as you explore the depths of your submission. To cement our bond and immortalize your devotion, every encounter, every command, every moment of your surrender must be recorded—whether by a hidden camera, a strategically propped phone, your own hand, or by another person I designate.

The Ideal Candidate:

I am searching for a female with an insatiable hunger to be commanded, one who finds bliss in the Daddy/little girl dynamic or similar. Your age and race are irrelevant; your spirit is everything. The more uninhibited your mind, the further we can journey together. Due to my current incarceration, this connection is exclusively remote, a bond forged in words and will. Your desires should align with the thrill of Dd/lg, age play, profound Dom/sub dynamics, sleeper slave scenarios, stranger danger, calculated risks, public exposure, dogging, tip-for-tip games, and the delicious mindlessness of a robo slave.

Your Initiation:

Our journey begins with conversation. We will explore the hidden landscapes of each other's kinks, fetishes, and most secret fantasies. If the chemistry ignites, we will craft a bespoke contract, a testament to our shared desires. Upon your acceptance, you are owned. When you receive the activation command, your life pauses. You respond with your pledge, and then you wait. You wait for my voice on the screen, for the command that will set your body and soul alight. This is your chance to find out what it truly feels like when "the devil made me do it"—to give in to your most primal urges with the full, exhilarating permission of your Master.

**A Glimpse into Your Commands:

  • The Office Obedience:

    "Baby girl, today you will wear a skirt or dress, and you will wear nothing beneath it. At your desk, you will text me. When I reply, you will select a common office item—an object touched by your colleagues—and you will record yourself. You will slide it deep inside your pussy, using it to fuck yourself to a powerful, shuddering orgasm right there in your cubicle. You will not clean it. You will return it to its place, and you will send me the video as proof of your devotion."

  • The Stranger's Seduction:

    "Baby girl, you will use a text-now number. You will take a breathtakingly explicit photo of yourself. You will send it to ten random numbers I provide, with this message: 'Daddy i'm so drunk and horny rn, last night was so intense! I can still taste you... Help me get off real quick, send me something and tell me what to do... I can't wait until your next route near by, I need you inside me now!' You will engage those who reply, pushing the conversation as far as you can, with my guidance."

  • The Confessional:

    "Baby girl, please your Daddy. Whisper to me your deepest, darkest sexual secret. Describe your most forbidden fantasy in such exquisite, filthy detail that you make Daddy cum with your words alone."

  • Plug n Play:

    "Good morning, baby girl... It's time to start the day with a little extra spark. Feeling sluggish? Plug it in, baby.

    • Version 1: Grab your fox tail plug and wear it all day with only a short dress or skirt. No panties. Send me pictures and videos throughout the day and on command.

    • Version 2: Work your extra-large stainless jewel plug in until it locks into place. Wear your shortest skirt or dress and no panties. I want pictures and videos throughout the day and on command."

  • The Delivery Dessert:

    • Version 1 (The Accidental Flash): "Hungry, baby? Daddy's ordering you food, but you handle the tip. Answer the door in a towel, your hair wet as if you just showered. Apologize sweetly and ask the delivery driver to step inside while you search for their cash. As you 'search,' you will stumble. The towel will fall. See where the moment takes you."

    • Version 2 (The Kneeling Offering): "You will be completely naked, wearing only a blindfold. You will kneel by your front door, holding a sign that reads 'Your Tip' with an arrow pointing to your open, waiting mouth. We will repeat this until a driver accepts your offering and feeds you his creamy dessert."

    • Version 3 (The Unlocked Door): "Baby girl, hungry? Daddy's got you. I've ordered food, but you get dessert first. You will be naked, on the floor near your unlocked, slightly ajar front door. Your ass will be high in the air, your eyes covered. No looking. No talking. Just wait. Daddy's special delivery is on his way, and he's going to love his tip."

      Your New Reality:

      This contract is your key to a world of pleasure you've only dared to imagine. Expect mind-blowing orgasms from the most depraved sexting, the adrenaline rush of public exposure, the raw, primal thrill of sex with complete strangers, forbidden public masturbation, and earth-shattering climaxes in the most forbidden of places.

      The Dare:

      I triple-dog-knot-dare you. Are you truly kinky enough to handle this? Are you brave enough to find out what you're capable of when you finally let go?

      Daddy adores his obedient girls and loves to spoil them with expensive gifts. This is an exclusive arrangement—one slave at a time. Contracts can be renewed by mutual agreement, ensuring our dynamic remains fresh and intoxicating.

      With years of experience in orchestrating safe, anonymous encounters, I know exactly how to push your limits while protecting you. I have studied the female body and its psychology for over five years; I know your desires before you do.

      Your first act of submission is to reply.

      Ready to let go? Ready to be owned?

      Message me for more information or to begin your application.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Charlotte

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Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
A baby Girl / baby Boy is often known by the gender neutral term, little. A little is a type of submissive who embraces a childlike state. This can manifest in many ways including curiosity, a love of play, carrying a soft toy and dressing in clothes associated with being young. They can also use items such as pacifiers and diapers, but these are optional. Not all littles see themselves as being that young. Littles are submissives who need a great deal of nurturing and care from the Dominant who looks after them. Their Dominants are usually known as Daddies and Mummies. Littles will engage in activities which are associated with childhood. These include colouring in colouring books, doodling, blowing bubbles, playing games like tag or snakes and ladders. On the face of things, it seems a little takes more looking after than other submissives. It may be that they expect and need more support, time and nurture but their submission runs deep. Little’s relationships to their Daddy Dom or Mommy Domme are very intense. There is a great dedication from the little to their Dominants. They have a lot of submission to give. Littles can be bratty especially if this is a way they can earn fun punishments that they want. Littles, like all submissives, crave control. They may want very precise rules and will go out of their way to push the boundaries and test their Dominants. Littles often enjoy mixing BDSM gear such as cuffs, ropes and collars with pretty lacy dresses or dungarees. The contrast of innocent and not so innocent makes them happy.
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