How long has it been since you quenched your thirst for uncommon desires & treated your body like an amusement park? Now ask yourself, “how long have I scoured the Internet but came up empty-handed every time because I haven’t found what I really, really want for free?” Well you’re not alone. In fact, many of you are in the same boat, knocking your heads on some wall because you’re unsatisfied. Unsatisfied because just like many things in this journey we’ve come to know & accept as life, the same-old same-old has become just that, old & you’re probably in the market for something new. For example (not that this matters to Me) many of you who read this profile are married or attached, but why are you here? The same old ball & chain you married has become your same-old same-old.

Well the Cobalt Lair might just have that newness you’re looking for. I’m Mistress Sugarbritches & I’m the shemale proDomme who all of the other Dommes & Mistresses wish to be after they die & go to the afterlife.

I schedule My outcall BD/sm sessions 7 days a week from 2:00 pm until Midnight but will make exceptions for night owls, at a higher premium than the normal rates.

I only offer fetishes, fantasies & role play BD/sm sessions. What I don’t offer are sexual services (good luck finding a proDomme who will offer those). Those are performed by kinky sex escorts like Sally from a back alley who spanks Johns with hairbrushes from dollar stores while they beg Her to put Her dick into their mouths or bone their asses so they may “please” their “Mistress”.

Wake up & smell the leather, you’ll be glad you did! And if you request it, I’ll be more than happy to bang your head against a wall so you don’t have to.

The Cobalt Lair goes almost anywhere! I don’t screw people, I satisfy them!

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Masochists enjoy having pain inflicted on them. It might not be all kinds of pain, but only specific types. They usually match up with sadists because sadists enjoy inflicting pain. Masochists tend to be submissive, but can be switches too. Masochists know what it feels to take a punishment do can make effective tops in a scene. Some Dominants have masochistic streaks, enjoying a certain level of pain themselves. Masochism is centred on the pleasure of pain but many masochists enjoy being controlled and dominated too. Masochists are often bratty, to get the pain they want. The worst torture for a masochist is totally withholding punishment as they crave pain. In day-to-day life masochists may find non kinky ways to satisfy their desires such as pushing themselves hard during exercise. Masochists often use pain to feel free from the pressures of day to day life.
A sadist is a Dominant who enjoys inflicting pain on a submissive partner or partners. However, it isn’t always that a sadist enjoys inflicting all kinds of pain on others. They may well enjoy specific sadistic tortures. They may prefer using a particular instrument like a whip or a cane or they might enjoy adding a sadistic element to other BDSM activities such as rope and restraints. Sadists get pleasure from inflicting pain on others. This is always consensual and agreed in advance. They can enjoy the visual evidence of the pain they’ve inflicted in bruises and welts and red skin. They often enjoy the noises a masochist makes while they are inflicting pain on them and enjoy watching the way that masochist moves as they are tortured. They may even enjoy restraining the masochist so they can’t easily move. Not all sadistic torture leaves marks. Sadists can use electric that inflicts lots of pain on their masochist but doesn’t leave lasting marks. Not all sadism is focused on the physical. Sadists often use fear and control to play with pain without inflicting any physical damage at all. This is called a mind fuck. Many people often ask what is a sadist? There isn’t one simple answer. Every sadist is different. Sadists are most often Dominants but can be switches. Even masochists and submissives can have a sadistic streak. Enjoying inflicting pain on another person, maybe because they understand the thrill of feeling the pain themselves. Sadists can become sexually aroused by inflicting painful torture on others, it can also be simply about submission and control. Sadists often spend many hours honing their skills with one particular torture implement to get the most sadistic pleasure out of their implement of choice.
An all-rounder enjoys a little bit of everything. They don’t have a preference to being dominant or submissive and are happy to switch between them both. They are happy to try everything once! All-rounders are similar to experimentalists but they don’t have the same drive to keep trying new things. They’re happy to try new things or stick to whatever their partners like. They are very laid back with no real, deep desires of their own for any one kink or fetish. As they enjoy variety, all-rounders are good for all kinds of scene. They will be eager to try new things and will also be good at suggesting new things to try or add in to a scene to give it a different twist. All-rounders enjoy making other people happy so they’re fantastic partners for anyone because of their enthusiasm. All-rounders might not have the same passion that some people with specific fetishes and kinks do but they are more flexible. Happy to try out new things, they’re not set in their ways or reluctant to do something different. An all-rounder is the kind of person who will happily be the exhibitionist one day and a voyeur the next. They’ll be your slave for a while then will be your dominant. Variety is the key to a happy all-rounder.

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