Hi I’ve logged back in after many months. Wasn’t here for very long before so am still new and a little cautious, but still very curious..

Looking to explore my little side. It’s something I’ve been curious about but not something I’ve ever talked about or pursued. I’m very independent in my day to day life and struggle to ask for help but I have a need to relinquish this and be taken care of, in and out of the bedroom without needing to ask (or help me learn to be better as asking) and to be a naughty and sweet submissive in the bedroom.

In my past I have dated younger men but behind closed doors (in my mind and imagination) I get the most aroused and wet when I think about an intelligent, calm, loving, in control daddy giving me love, attention. Making me feel desired and safe and touching my mind and body.

Psychologically, It’s all about feeling safe and desired and adored. I have some body insecurities so to have my daddy desire me and to feel cherished and erotically wanted by him, would make me feel such a special girl for my daddy and would iron out the anxieties or insecurities I have.

In return, when I feel that safety, nurture and attention is genuinely given to me, I will want to give my love and attention and my all to my daddy. If I trust my daddy, I will want to make him so very happy. I am naturally very attentive and I like to please and tease.. I love seeing daddy lose control when I give him my desire (thats the switch in me).

Please note:
Im all about nuance and sensuality and mental play that naturally builds to something more urgent and dirty. I don’t do 0-100, or mimicking hard kinks like you’re a pair of actors reenacting what you learn as being sexy from watching porn. I doubt anyone under 35 will know what this means. I want to FEEL REAL. Real sexy. Real anticipatory. Real naughty. Real dirty. Real wet. With a person that just understands
that sensuality and silence is erotic.
It’s not about headline grabbing black & white kink. (I understand why people chase the fun sensationalist highs of whips, chains, hardcore boundary pushing sex, but I personally find labels the opposite of nuanced and sexy!) Only the most emotionally intelligent men will understand the subtlety in the psychological difference and they’re the ones I would love to hear from. Thank you for reading x

Ps. I really crave a sensual erotic kiss at the moment before anything else!

BDSM/Fetish Family34 to 75 years ● 50km around UK Leeds

Well-grounded guy with a successful and fascinating life here, but behind closed doors, I need to feel ashamed, pathetic, ugly and stupid.

I'm getting excited by a man that I can worship and compliment while he is being bad to me in several ways:

  • verbal and psychological ***
  • hard insults, like body shaming, not politically correct
  • mocking and laughing at me
  • uglification - throw some ugly rug or write degrading words on my body
  • show me on live camera while i suck you or humiliate myself, even though i beg you not to do it, and you give me poppers and then *** me to
  • make pictures with your smartphone and show me how I look, *** me to see myself
  • feet worship
  • s***do/underwear tease
  • if you smoke, breath out on my face, or even throw ash on me
  • spit all over me
  • *** all over me
  • write the name of someone you despise (your annoying boss) on me and use me as an object of mockery and ***
    I have a great life but in front of you we are in a roleplay, in which you are a hot desirable hot man, and I'm a total loser who is only good to be mocked at, laughed at and bullied.
  • open to more ideas/scenarios/fantasies.

    My favorite scenario: you look into my eyes and insult me while I'm taking poppers, and we are talking on how hot you are and how I'm not. Please, tell me, again and again, what a loser I am to you. Tell me I'm pathetic. Tell me I'm a fat pig, again and again and again. And I will admire you and worship you and tell you how amazing you are, compliment every part of you.

    I can also, as a part of the game, order you dinner something like that.

    I usually don't look for sex because the loser is unworthy for normal sex with you, but it's not a rule. It's possible that while I worship you, you look for someone else for sex, show my how you go on grindr and find someone better looking, making me feel bad, while using me as a coffee-table, footrest, or just something to laugh at.

    Facts:
    A man in underwear turns me on more than hung cocks.
    Poppers makes me stupid and weak and I want to show you
    I can also give you massage, we meet and I'm your masseur, there to please you and take care of you, and all I ask in return is that we will talk, communicate. I ask for nothing else.

    If you are not verbal I don't think it will work. But you can share with me some other fantasy, maybe I'd love to try.
    We can also have a session dedicated entirely to me working on your feet. Or giving you a bath... I'm open to anything fucked up and weird :)

    Get in touch with your expectations/ideas.
    I CAN'T host.
    Everything in consent and respect (except the meet itself ah ah!)
    I'm chubby and lately I started laser on my chest and abdomen. Feel free to laugh and mock at that.

    Eye contact and creativity are a big plus.

    I'm a guy that has a good job and life, educated, friendly, social... But sexually I'm messed up. Please let me show you.

Kinky Date25 to 65 years ● 25km around USA Los Angeles

I won't respond to you, if you are not local to me.
I visit Mexico during the winter... Canadian winters suck lol. I am able to work remotely. 🎉

Seeking service oriented boys for real life service in Pickering Ontario. Also another service sub in Mérida Mexico during winter. No cybersex. No meet and beat. Long term service only.

If I get distracted, please do not take offense and just keep messaging to keep my attention. I never try to ghost. If I am not interested, I will tell you directly. So it's your responsibility to keep in contact. With multiple businesses and in and out of the country, things get hectic lol

In Canada I require my boy to serve in my home, warehouse, computer work, etc. CFnm. Please read my profile. Available hours are critical. Suits shift worker, self employed or retired. Typically from noon to five during the week...1 to 2 times a month.

In Mexico, Seeking an English speaking service oriented boy.
Helping me with my Spanish, serving as a translator, helping me with whatever service I require. In my garden, in my home, foot massages, etc.

I move slowly, I love to train and keep a boy for years. Not into Mommy or AB play.

For my dedicated personal boys, this is not meet and beat. We spend multiple dates getting to know each other BEFORE any play or service occurs. I will use your personal talents and knowledge to better my life.
I enjoy CFnm, collar/leash, sensual to medium intensity bdsm play. Optional interests are violet wand, male chastity and going to local events... those we can discuss and compromise.
Not looking for sex, long distance or sexting. Cock cages are hot but not necessary. Not interested in cbt or your cock.
I am married to a kinkster and I am looking for a casual play partner only.
Are you seeking a long term play partner, submission to a mature realistic Domme, friendship and serving a Mistress... Message me.

BDSM Play Partner30 to 99 years ● 100km around Canada Pickering

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A pet is a submissive who enjoys taking on aspects of a domesticated animal. Pets enjoy the freedom of being animal-like. They leave all adult responsibility behind to play like their chosen pet. There are many different levels of pet play. Some pets enjoy dressing up with masks and gloves so that the pet can’t speak or use their hands as humans would. Other’s just like to act like pets without any particular specialist gear. There can be a sexual element to pet play but quite often it is just simply about play and the power dynamic between the Owner and their dearly beloved pet.
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Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.