HI asm a Master/Dominate my name is John they call me Rave.
I have been in the lifestyle 20+ years I first was a submissive under a great mistress who thought me a lot and I spend 5 great years learning.

I am looking for a LTR NSA or POLLY whatever your flavor. One with mutual respect respect for consent and a Dominate / Submissive With great communication so there is no arguments fighting or disrespect where we remain Respectful at all times of course you would have a say in everything and transparency would assure that there is no ghosting lying or problems Transparency and Communication . I would have the final say and I base it on a fair judgement of whats best for the relationship and I would not let things happen giving you to others unless in a Polly or NSA agreement and safety and safe sex is needed to have there way just to dangerous now days with STD and HIV Be Safe! Love care and mental emotional and physical support always in the relationship and I am a romantic at heart so I am not abusive mental emotionally or physically I am looking for some one that is ready to explore new things who enjoys impact play and bondage and Sabari and is ready to give them self to me fully after a year fully and is collared in 6 months that is a lot like marriage then the CNC contract after one year where she is ready to fully give her self to me for our needs. It is because of scammers I have made it where you must verify your pictures on this site to message me. I'm not a Sugar DADDY I am a Master/Dominate have respect when you message me I am not here to play games. I am willing to take time to get to know you as friends first if that's what you need. I have a very high sex drive so i am not looking for someone who has to take 6 months to make up there mind while they scout other men online If your out of the United States I could be interested in Internet relationship but video and voice is required. I can message you for the first 30 days after that you must be able to call me on the phone or video call me daily. I am not a perv I am a Master and have control over my sexual needs and I do not require nudes unless you want to send them to me or your taking part in our Nightly Ritual I am very kinky but I understand fully about the rights of consent and respect for my Submissive DDLG Slave Brat I take care of you menially emotionally and physically After care and Safe Words and make sure you have a safe space to grow. If you are interested you can message me here be happy to speak with you and answer any questions you may have and even fly you here by paying half the airfares if you need help but we must be well established for some time befor we do that so and you must be able to travel and relocate when the time comes. I love Brats I am a Sadist and Infor not into hardcore that's ok you don't have to be as long as you enjoy Impact play and Bondage you need to be Tamed message me. I am working on my Projects now Hanging the spanking rings on the wall and adding the tiedowns to my refurbished bed and have plans to build a beam in the back yard so you can do some Sabari Safety always first when it comes to suspension so if your a Rope bunny that's a pulse nothing more sexy then a bunny tied up in her submission and zone until then I am learning new things and will keep it to partial suspensions and practice is needed so hours of being tied up off and on trying new stuff "I am not a expert when it comes to Ropes but I enjoy Hemp Ropes they are my rope of choice to use in Sabari also like wax nipple and clit *** Thys and breast and butt impact play and others is a lot of fun all within safe limits "Hope to here from you soon Master/Dominate Rave.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 55 years ● 500km around USA Redfield

Threads and discussions that include: submissive

  • Just curious how many people here like being dominated with their partners farts. To me, nothing drives me more wild but im curious how many others are into it as well. How did you get into it? W ...
    • 10 replies
      • 16
      • Like
  • I’ve only been in a couple submissive positions and I want to feel safe with another person but how do you just feel that is that something you’re supposed to feel? (Tgirl not a man btw) ...
    • 23 replies
      • 36
      • Like
  • I don't know about you guys but I have found it frustratingly difficult to find the right person for me. As if dating for men in the modern world wasn't difficult enough with apps being flooded b ...
    • 222 replies
      • 33
      • Like
  • Similar to submissive

    A submissive likes to be controlled, relishing someone else taking responsibility away from them. Some are subservient and submit willingly. Others are brattier and put up a fight. There are also submissives who will fight sometimes and be subservient at others. Submission can be confined to the bedroom or only taken out to BDSM and Fetish clubs and dungeons or it can used in all kinds of day to day situations. Some submissives chose to be subservient in all their roles, others take on submission to escape the responsibilities of work and family life. Submissives let someone else take control. They may have a list of rules to abide by set by their Dom/Domme. If rules are broken then there will be punishments too as well as rewards for good behaviour. Some submissives love to be naughty and punished, others want to be good and strive to do their best and be rewarded. Others will want a mix of the two. It isn’t all about humiliation and degradation for a submissive, unlike other bottoms they are more concerned with being subservient and giving over control to another person. .embed-container { position: relative; padding-bottom: 56.25%; height: 0; overflow: hidden; max-width: 100%; } .embed-container iframe, .embed-container object, .embed-container embed { position: absolute; top: 0; left: 0; width: 100%; height: 100%; }
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.