I’m eigh, but not new to dominance. I’ve guided submissives before, learned how to read a man’s breathing, how to steady him with my tone, and how to shape a dynamic that feels intimate, structured, and unforgettable. I’m not here to experiment. I’m here to claim the right submissive with intention and control.

What I’m Looking For
A submissive who wants sensual dominance, follows instructions without excuses, stays consistent, communicates honestly, and craves real structure. Someone who understands that obedience is a mindset, not a performance. Someone who wants closeness, discipline, and a woman who leads with calm authority.

What I Offer
Sensual but firm dominance. Psychological and emotional guidance. Daily expectations, rituals, and correction when needed. A dynamic centered on connection, desire, and controlled vulnerability.

My Limits
No
, no ***, no toilet-related play, and nothing unsafe. No lying or bending rules. No pushing boundaries behind my back. No bratting disguised as “fun.”

My Interests
Power exchange, sensual discipline, teasing, edging, obedience tasks, kneeling rituals, positions, daily check-ins, light impact, voice-led control, and grounding through tone and presence.

If you want a Mistress who is young but deeply experienced, who blends softness with command and knows how to guide a submissive man into deeper obedience, introduce yourself properly. Share your name, age, what you need from a Domme, and why you believe you would fit under my direction.

Approach with intention. Only intention.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Des Moines

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