It would appear I can't reply to messages which really is a shame.The gorgeous Dom's who have taken the trouble to contact me deserve my attention and I'm really sorry I can't reply. 💋My perfect would i would be the sexual submissive in a relationship. I am gay and identify as a sissy . I am probably trans and enjoy wearing feminine clothes. What I would like is to be in a relationship, both sexual and loving and hopefully long term. My day's of casual sex are hopefully over. I am retired and I will try to explain this part delicately, available on a daily , weekly, monthly basis. In a caring relationship I am available 24/7. My interests ? Outside of taking care of the needs of a Man I enjoy hiking, visiting historical sites and visiting nudist beaches when the weather is warm. To be honest I have a very limited experience of the BDSM scene but being in a vanilla relationship isn't for me. My need to be sexually Dominated is overpowering and that is why I have chosen to be on this site. My limits? Honest answer is I don't know but it would be fun finding out. I adore Men and cock, frequently play with anal sex toys and really enjoy it. I was ed in a gay pub once when a Guy squeezed my bum.so hard I couldn't move, let alone protest, and I really enjoyed the .. It's fair to assume I am perfectly fine with being degraded . I own my own home but would prefer to spend a lot of time in yours. Definitely not looking for casual sex but saying that I enjoy being the filling in a sandwich and open to threesomes. I look forward to becoming your obedient partner.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 99 years ● 100km around UK Southampton

Hi to everyone,
I have been amicably divorced for around 26 years with a couple of significant relationships between then and now. I'm living alone in NW Leeds . Yorkshire, and I'm a single, experienced, nurturing disciplinarian / Dominant as well as a successful Mentor Dom. (Dominant, yes.....Domineering , no ! )
I'd like to meet a woman., either just to be friends ,or initially as friends, but open to letting things evolve if there is a real rapport between us. I am not afraid of commitment, if there is a good chemistry and we share similar values. Equally, I am capable of respecting limits in a simple friendship and a committed relationship.
I'm looking for a woman who wants to explore and develop her submissive, little girl or masochistic side further. I am patient and I respect your choice to be someone who is loosely called a submissive. I have been told I am authoritative and have presence. Please know that you are my equal in all respects except for those areas we have mutually discussed and agreed that I take the lead. Whether you are a novice or experienced is not an issue for me. The woman I’d like to meet would enjoy spending time together in both vanilla and our shared and complementary kinks. I have always found it mutually beneficial if the first couple of meetings are purely social in order to learn about each other and to build that vital rapport; say in a pleasant cafe or restaurant which is safe and convivial. It is important to be able to communicate openly and candidly in order to achieve a mutually loving, fulfilling and enduring friendship or relationship.
You may be straight, bisexual, sapiosexual, gender fluid or any variation. I hope that isn't too much to ask?
On a more casual NSA basis, whilst I remain single, I am happy to be an occasional or one time disciplinarian to a younger man , non binary or trans , say up to his forties if he is no taller than 5’ 10". I am 5’8”.
Looking forward to hearing from anyone who feels there may be a connection.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 64 years ● 75km around UK Leeds

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