Melbourne-based. Adult-only. Consent-led.

This is a training program, not a play party and not a dating service.

I am currently accepting applications for a small, curated intake into a structured submissive / service-oriented training program designed for individuals who want to explore submission with clarity, accountability, and care.

This program is suited to those who:
• Are curious about submission or service but want guidance, not chaos
• Value consent, communication, and emotional regulation
• Want structure, expectations, and progression rather than “vibes”
• Are interested in earned roles, not performative kink

What This Is
• Educational, skills-based training
• Focus on consent literacy, service, protocol, and self-regulation
• Small cohorts in a calm, contained environment
• Clear boundaries and professional standards

What This Is Not
• No sexual activity
• No nudity required
• No ***-for-entertainment
• No exclusivity or ownership demanded

Submission here is intentional, voluntary, and developed, not taken.

Format
• Application-based entry
• Short program (4–6 weeks)
• In-person sessions held in neutral training spaces
• Location disclosed only to accepted applicants

Who May Apply
• Adults (18+) of any gender or background
• Beginners welcome if they are thoughtful and communicative
• Experienced submissives welcome if they are open to structure

How to Apply

Send a brief message introducing yourself and answering:

  1. What draws you to submission or service?
  2. What structure are you seeking right now?
  3. What are you hoping to learn or develop?

    Applications are reviewed intentionally. Not all applicants will be accepted.

    This is slow, deliberate, and built on responsibility.

    If you’re looking to become something — not just try something — you may belong here.

Kinky Date18 to 80 years ● 500km around Australia Melbourne University

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