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LeNatyrex
Submissive in search of owner

Just a submissive boy looking for their dom (male/female/other) feel free to message! I'm looking for anyone in the Milwaukee/Chicago area who wants a one nighter, friend w benefits, or short/long term!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 160km around USA Milwaukee
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Yourlocalkink
Submissive femboy. 19. Dominate me.

Hi. I'm asher. And I'm ready for anything. No matter what you offer. You can tie me down. You can gag me. Degrade me. Hurt me. You name it. Use me however you want. Break me. If your willing to pick me up. Come down and use me like the toy I am.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 25 years ● 75km around UK Portsmouth
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glasgow886717
Sauna tomorrow

Looking to meet submissive older and fit rugby-bodied men with thick calves, thighs and curvy ass, with mustache.
BDSM Play Partner ● 35 to 60 years ● 5km around UK Edinburgh
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AlexM6356
Straight male for sub females.

Im a strictly straight dominant Male looking for submissive females. I am all about consent and discussing our kinks and limits before we do anything. Im open to just being FWB's to long-term relationships.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 35 years ● 50km around USA Patchogue
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KinkstersWelcome
New here

Hello,
I have wanted kink in my life for as long as I've been dating. I am finally venturing out into this magical world of kink. I want to meet a woman who is interested in dating and interested in kink. If you're interested in play or a scene, that would be amazing. Im looking for submissive,verse. I love rubber/latex and leather.
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 30 to 56 years ● 80km around USA Las Vegas
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BrownShowerLover
Seeking A Lady To REVERSE POTTY TRAIN In L/T Relat

  • I am seeking a 24/7 live-in long-term relationship with a lady I can REVERSE POTTY TRAIN + enjoy and PLAY with. Such play includes BATHROOM USE CONTROL and will be erotic and sensual by design.

  • I believe in honesty and trust in a Daddy/little girl submissive relationship. You will be UNCONDITIONALLY LOVED and ACCEPTED without your *** of abandonment as we EMOTIONALLY BOND and SPIRITUALLY CONNECT with each other through wet, messy, and stinky play.

  • I relish being a witness to a lady in DIRE NEED to go to the bathroom who is "accident" prone. Being STINKY in front of me shall happen when you sit on my lap, cuddling and snuggling with me... Gazing deeply into my LASCIVIOUS EYES ... As the air in the room shifts and we both relax in the environment where time and space slow down in a sort of foreplay between us.

  • YOU: Are very clingy, needy and dependant.
  • YOU: Seek to possess me (Your Daddy) and to be possessed by me.
  • YOU: Fancy being ORALLY PLEASED BY ME while you go to the bathroom in your pants/undies/pantyhose/diapers or on me or in my mouth.

  • YOU: Don't mind getting messy and stinky with me for this and fetish leads to a fascinating dynamic between us that brings out the best in the both of us.

  • I invite any intrigued lady to write to me (Richie) directly at (Spelled out here): LasciviousEyesAtHotmailDotCom
Kinky Date ● 18 to 99 years ● 500km around USA Garden City
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Nir01
Looking for a proper submissive girl

I need a good girl who does as shes told
Kinky Date ● 18 to 25 years ● 40km around USA Arlington Heights
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las-vegas78721
Pussy exhibition

“Spank me like you mean it… then cuddle me after.”
Because I like a little *** with my pleasure — and a lot of affection when the teasing's done. I’m the kind of submissive who talks back just enough to earn a punishment... but always melts at a gentle touch right after.

Ropes? Yes please. Rules? I might bend them.
But aftercare? Mandatory.
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 19 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Las Vegas
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RedBeard3D
Daddy Dom seeks petite Sub

Seeking submissive for regular play sessions. Must like ropes, ***, and pleasure play.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 165km around USA Maryville
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J-Hams
Switch looking to explore his submissive side

Interested in women, trans women, and couples. If your looking for someone to dominate im your guy. Would love to get to know someone and maybe start something consistent
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 80km around USA Marietta
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goodsubman
Discreet Submissive Seeking Structured Control

Devoted, obedient, and wired to serve.
Looking for a powerful, intelligent Mistress who enjoys psychological dominance, control over daily rituals, and using her property for Her pleasure — even from a distance.

I crave rules, tasks, routines, and the mental weight of being owned. Rituals, voice notes, text commands, even silent control — I long to be molded by Your will.

Private life requires absolute discretion. No drama. No exposure. Just deep, real service behind closed doors.

? Yes, please. ? Sometimes. Structure? Always.

I don’t beg for attention—I offer my loyalty, day by day, if You choose to take it.

Let me be what You shape me to be.

🖤

DMs open to real Dommes only. No fakes. No flakes. Total respect
Kinky Date ● 18 to 54 years ● 170km around Italy Padova
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freeusewhxr
Submissive 25 girl for dom

I am a bit new to this, would be nice to chat with a dom, to experience and please you with my body.
BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 80 years ● 500km around Israel Havat Gilat
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MrSensible25
Submissive play partners welcome.

No experience required, no expectations, talk to me about yours.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 110km around USA Cleveland
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Dethrix
Looking for a New Play Partner

Pretty much what the titles says, I’m looking for a new submissive in the nearby area. Nothing requiring hard commitment, but we’ll see where things lead. Preferably around my age, and a size queen.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 190km around USA Richmond
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angelthedoll24
Looking for head

Looking a good submissive man for some throat . Be a good boy for me . I’m in Roanoke va
Munch Buddy ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Hollins College
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mvvm
Let's hang out

Looking for a submissive Girl
Kinky Date ● 18 to 55 years ● 165km around Netherlands Voorthuizen
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PLEASEandTEASEme
Licensed to Tease, Trained to Please

Submissive seeks connoisseur of anticipation and master of artful ***. Enthusiast of rope marks, blindfolds, deprivation, punishment, and that wicked grin before things get truly interesting. I’ll obey your every command; you orchestrate my undoing with exquisite edging and control. If your pleasure arsenal is as inventive as your mind, let’s make sparks fly.
BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 60 years ● 245km around USA Mesquite
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Dorsetstrider76
Looking for a Daddy/Top

Ideally I am looking for a local Daddy/Top for casual no strings fun or a FWB. I am a Bi Curious submissive eager to experiment and explore this side of by sexuality. Not into but I love role play, and ***. I am married so any meets would need some pre planning and discretion is a must.

If you are interested please drop me a message (I am not a paid up member so can't see spanks) and tell me what you are looking for.
NSA ● 40 to 99 years ● 10km around UK Poole
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Drenotshy7
Who is into pegging?

I'm looking for a female that isn't shy to be dominant and submissive in Myrtle Beach.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 62 years ● 85km around USA Calabash
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knoxville54569
Looking for a submissive future wife

Someone will be my puppy, like hard fuck. Open minded
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Knoxville
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cheekycock
Looking for a Third:)

25F and 24M looking for a 21-26yo female. We’re both new to multiple partners so we are looking to explore what that could be like. We like switches but leaning submissive. Likes both men and women and is respectful and communicative:). We’re looking for something not too serious and formal, just good sex.
NSA ● 18 to 26 years ● 40km around USA New York
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