Hi! My life partner in both life and kink recently passed away after 30 years together. As such, I am hoping to expand my horizons and circumstances by reconnecting with the greater kink community. While I am considering exploring a LTR, I am at present in no hurry to commit to anything permanent as I am still adjusting to this.

I am primarily seeking a situation involving a sub or slave female that might lead to a LTR. I can host for mild to wild BDSM play; prefer subsemphasized text with masochistic tendencies and desires. SORRY NO MALES!

Me? I'm a 63 y/o widowed Dom WM with a dry but dark sense of humor; 6'3" 195 HWP, professional, pierced nipples. I'm presently recovering from some health issues but am moving along very well and am very much a fighter; not a quitter! College educated and although mature, very in touch with my inner child. I can transition from NPR to Bob’s Burgers without flinching nor being embarrassed about doing so. Music is a vital part of who I am as is humor. The ability to maintain a sense of humor without arrogance when it comes to BDSM play is, in my eyes, vitally important.

I am not looking for someone squeamish but someone adventurous, who is intrigued by spankings/paddles, restraints and nipple clamps, wax play, blindfolds, latex, leather, tight restraints, watching/ voyeurism, large objects and. . .?

I switch on occasion if the chemistry is right and am open to CBT, pegging, sounding, and pretty much many of the other interests I’ve already outlined. In other words, I can take in what I dish out...

I have a wide variety of gear to add to the total ambience… Anything from mild to wild, as I do have a bit of a sadistic streak…

You? ...are sane and secure, clean and discrete. Enjoy some curves, but sorry- no extreme overweight. Prefer mature but will consider any age or race with a willingness to test your limits and maintain creativity with a certain degree of humor and humility. LOVE tats, piercings, ebony, goth and...

Limits will be respected but tested; also receptive to sexting. Because of scam efforts and ulterior motives of some responses I have received, I actually prefer meeting at a neutral location first in the general Milwaukee area although, yes, I can host...

Desires and Fantasies
My partner and I have explored plenty of things in the past including play dungeons, pet play, role playing etc. I've already explored plenty of fantasies, so just let me know what yours might be...

If you are looking for pay for play or if you’re a “” seeking s, move on… I have better things to spend my on including partners that are actually interested in something more LT and stable, and who actually play instead of yanking chains (rhetorically rather than literally)... If you’re looking for someone to send you or ***s sight unseen, well… while I appreciate you’re thinking that I was born yesterday, I wasn’t…

BDSM Play Partner30 to 70 years ● 50km around USA Milwaukee

Looking for a Dom to train me as you see fit.Let me kneel before you head down by your feet let me lick 👅 suck you’re feet and toes.emphasized text

I am a male sub very shy I have been trained to keep my head down and to only speak when spoken to and never answer back. I am happy to be locked 🔒 in your collar to show your ownership of me. I last Mistress trained me to except maintenance punishments when she felt I need it. I have had a weeks training in Germany, where I had three dom’s to serve one male and two female. I was not spoken too as I could not speak Germany. I was stripped and put in to a neck collar and pad locked in. A leather body harness was then fastened tightly round my body. I was now there slave. My first morning was cleaning the house from top to bottom. They pointed to tell me to clean again it was not good enough. Food for me was oatmeal and nothing else. In the evening I was told to stand still and serve drinks when told which was different when I don’t understand. I think they started calling me names and humiliating me. Then I was punished with a hard long spanking on my bare bum with belt,wipe and crop leaving me in a lot of discomfort ,sore and bum feeling like it was on fire all very humiliating in front of people I did not know.
I know what to expect this time I am still shy but more obedient will not answer back. I will take my duties very seriously and not question your commands.
I am happy to dress as you say. Eat what I am given and not question punishment and
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Hope to start training with a new Dom soon.

BDSM/Fetish Family25 to 70 years ● 200km around UK Harrogate

Hi! I have a very high sex drive and adore women. I love foreplay and pleasuring women. I am well endowed and have been complimented a lot on my sexual abilities.
I have had several long term partners in the past and prefer that to quick hookups. I am not looking for something deep and meaningful at the moment just someone to have long term fun with. But who knows where that will lead.
I like exploring someone sexually and find it mentally fulfilling as the more you know someone the more I can excite them and turn them on easier. I think sex and orgasms are more mental than physical so until you are in someones head you cannot get that fulfilment.
Once I know someone I love using that knowledge to orgasm them over and over. I get a kick out of finding out those buttons and spots that I can play with to excite someone. Its a lot more pleasurable for me to orgasm with someone who is already very excited. Feeling a tight wet pussy orgasming on my cock is such a turn on.
If you both haven't got wobbly legs by the time you have finished then something has gone wrong.
Dont get me wrong it doesn't have to be full on every time, the odd quicky or grope on the sofa is good, but also I like to make sure I press ALL the buttons quite frequently.
I do have quite a high sex drive and I hope I can can find someone to match. I think this has not helped in past relationships where I have more needs than my partner. I am not upset about having to sort myself out occasionally but some women feel like this is not acceptable. I love foreplay and especially giving erotic massages. I have very warm and healing hands and love rubbing soft warm naked skin.
I dont have many donts. I am very keen to try new things and love mixing up positions, but I always do come back to my favourite as doggy. I get so much pleasure from that. I get so much depth and control.
Anyway enough about me waffling on. I would love to hear from you. I am very open honest and easy going. Please drop me a line and I will reply. xx
PS. I have a goatee. Reading a few profiles I guess its a marmite thing. If it did come to it I can shave it off! I would sooner have a sex partner than a goatee! :-/
For reference. I have my own teeth, my own hair, I own a car and house, I shower at least once a day and like to dress and smell nice. I have a 7 inch cock that I find the perfect size to reach all those important places.

BDSM Play Partner40 to 60 years ● 10km around UK Nottingham

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