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yes this is long but please read it all I am honestly seeking someone or friendship and play. Super plump male. Been told im handsome though. (Of course it was my mom)Looking for weekly-ish hang. Not interested in intercourse (at first). Looking for real friendship male female or anywhere in between or outside of, who i can also bondage role play and cuddle with. The primary things I'm interested in are being kept as a pet, French maid, d feminization, but if you dominate me which is my preference eventually you could pretty much do what you wanted. I do believe to dominate someone you actually need to have real physical power over them. as a for instance they allow you to bind their hands to start. As this can be a scary and potentially dangerous I would obviously want to start very slowly with just hanging out and casual play. As for my interests. I love horror movies superhero movies I like mystery and drama too. Im massively into horror I guess. I enjoy debating things (who wins predator versus Robocop or could demons really exist and does time actually move) was a comic book fan when I was a kid and some of that had carried over. I love the fantasy world in general. I'm also a huge Bengals fan. I am married but the marriage is open with a don't ask, don't tell, don't get caught policy. As for my kinks I especially enjoy it when someone can pin me on their own and spank to dominate me. I have found there is no bigger turn on than being d to do someone's bidding because you can't stand your ass burning anymore, and you can't stop them either. Of course again for this kind of play even though there's no intercourse you have to be very comfortable with each other. Might eventually lead to some more serious sexual relations down the road. Looking to hang weekly or every 10 days or so I do not have a car, just to warn you. So you would drive. other than that. if you feel like I might be an interesting person to you let's connect, start messaging, and see if things move along. I should also note. while I am ready to explore. I have never done anything sexual with anybody other than a woman, so unless you're a woman you're kind of getting a virgin. One last thing while I have been on top and bottom throughout my life. it's mostly been on top. if I found someone who wanted to own me during our special time together. that might not be so bad, and would eventually come with much more benefits