PLEASE ONLY MESSAGE ME IF

  • YOU HAVE READ AND COMPREHENDED MY ENTIRE PROFILE
  • YOU LIVE LESS THAN AN HOUR FROM THE LANCASTERMANHEIM AREA
  • YOU ARE BETWEEN THE AGES OF 32 AND 52
  • YOU ARE NOT ATTACHED IN ANY OTHER WAY
  • NO OR HAVE FLOWN THE COUP
  • YOU HAVE A DRIVERS LICENSE, CAR, MEANS OF INCOME, PLACE TO RESIDE
    (I am merely looking for someone with, at the very least, the same amount of adult responsibility that I have. I cannot believe that I have to request this, but the amount of people, my age and older that have none of those is astounding.)

    My tag line is pretty much how I wish to live my life, and is also a quote from one of my favorite movies.

    I have been involved within this lifestyle for all of my adult life about 20 years of experiences and as always, the journey has led me down many paths, and it is always ever changing.

    Im smart enough to know what I want and need, and open minded enough to know that I still have much to learn.

    I have become jaded with the lifestyle over my years of involvement, and perhaps I do have a bit of a chip on my shoulder.

    While I may identify as submissive on the lifestyle spectrum, it does not mean that I am this way with random internet strangers. Take the time to talk to me, show interest in wanting to know me, and the rest will follow.

    I am only seeking long term situations. I would, for the right match, make of them the axis that my world spins upon.

    I have been on the submissive end of the spectrum for the majority of my involvement in the lifestyle. Some of my happiest times were when I was involved in a 247live insubmissivegirlfriendwife.

    I have also experimented, and found a fondness, for the top end of the spectrum for situational play. This is usually just for play or fun. For me, it can almost be described as being a service top.

    For me, the lifestyle is so much more than the physical. For me the mental and connection is more important than the physical.

    I am NOT motivated or focused on sex and physical play. If you are only here to get your rocks off, please, just pass me by.

    On the physicalkink side of things, the activities I enjoy, in time with someone, range from flogging, cell popping, sensation play, orgasm , deep thuddy play, and especially on the top side - tease and denial.

    For non-kink interests...
    I am a taphophile at heart and am genuinely intrigued by, obsessed with, addicted to, have a strong appreciation and respect for etc. all things regarding taphophilia, death, dead things, mourning, grieving, cemeteries, etc. These interests CAN and DO filter over into my kink life in varying degrees. Always happy to talk more in private about them.

    I do have hobbies (addictions), inlcuding WoW (TaphNoir1200), horror movies, industrial and metal music, bellydancing (to industrial and metal music), reading, coloring, enjoying nature, crocheting, playing various boardcard games and am a VERY casual Magic The Gathering player.

    I have a strange sense of humor, use sarcasm as my second language and am a shining example of an introvert.

    Im also a hobbyist artist, mainly
    ting various whimsical things on stone, with a focus on dragon eyes.

    I am lightly tattooed, and have small gauges in both of my ears as well as a daith piercing.

    Yes, I am pale, chubby, freckled, crazy fuzzy chemo-hair regrowth, I have scars, I have health ailments, I have physical limitations for bondage, and am nowhere near the most gorgeous thing youll see. In saying these things I wish to get the physically focused, all about the look people out of the way.

    I also have a few health ailments including Diabetes, Intracranial Hypertension, and am currently in remission from Ovarian Cancer as of 3419.

    I am looking for a legit connection with someone for something long term and lasting.

    I have NO interest in hookups, merely play partners, etc.

    I look forward to any sincere messages.

Kinky Date32 to 52 years ● 50km around USA Manheim

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Roleplay is one of my fetish, the creative of it, the desire you can fullfil, bag dragon are good just role playing, like maybe one day cosplay roleplay or the next daddy daughter, or mom and son, all imagination bew
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Lovesmoke play,breath play, tattoo( playing after one or watching someone get one),
Push you to the point, how all you think about is doing what I say, doing ,like going out and fucking who,how,and where to fuck someone, dream of pleasing me, the sweet of your tear,feeling your of not pleasing me, wear what I say, does a I wish, I will make you tell me your darkest fantasy and use it against you, you
Embarrassing task
I may tell you have to do,the feeling of have the power of knowing what really turns them on
Do the things they are too scared to do on your own
Going out in public and doing whatever I ask you to do and
showed me a picture of what
Controlling who they may fuck exactly how,who and where I say

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Dominants like to be in control. Unlike BDSM tops or sadists, their need is not particularly to inflict pain but to be domineering and have control over another person. Some Doms/Dommes expect to be obeyed immediately and without questions. Others enjoy being tested, and having to show their dominance over the submissive who’s being bratty. There is no one way to be a Dominant. Dom/Dommes can also be sadists, tops, masters or riggers. Dominant is a huge category of BDSM made up of many very different people who all have one thing in common, their need to be in control. The D in the term BDSM stands for Dominance, therefore Dominants are an instrumental part of BDSM. .embed-container { position: relative; padding-bottom: 56.25%; height: 0; overflow: hidden; max-width: 100%; } .embed-container iframe, .embed-container object, .embed-container embed { position: absolute; top: 0; left: 0; width: 100%; height: 100%; }
Non-monogamists break with the societal tradition of having just one partner at a time. They will prefer to be in an open relationship. They can be called polyamorous. They don’t see sex or kink as something to keep between themselves and just one other person. They can have several partners at once, these can be just for play or more serious relationships. Every non-monogamist will have different approaches to non-monogamy. Polyamorists will have, or look to be in, more than one relationship. These will be more than play and sex, and involve a romantic and/or intimate aspect. Swingers may be married or in a committed relationship with one person but they will indulge in kink or sexual play with other people too. Swingers can be single, it’s not all about wife-swapping. Anyone not in a monogamous relationship can be referred as polyamorous. Non-monogamists can indulge in all kinds of fetishes and kink play. They can be Dominant, submissive or switch if they’re into BDSM. They will rarely be slaves as devotion to one Master or Mistress doesn’t come easy to them. However, they might work well in a relationship with multiple slaves and one or more Dominant partner.
A submissive who enjoys being restrained is called a rope bunny. They don’t have to be restrained by rope. Chain can be used or spreader bars, items of clothing or handcuffs. A rope bunny enjoys the constriction of restraint. A rope bunny may really enjoy rope. The feel and the constriction as well as the artistic value of the ties. They may enjoy being suspended in rope too. There are all kinds of rope, with different sensations from soft to scratchy. A masochistic rope bunny will enjoy extra pain with their restraint and may like to mix restraints with impact play. Some rope bunnies are very into the artistic element of rope. Enjoying being part of shibari and kinbaku rope ties. This kind of bunny in particular will need a rigger to play with, as it takes time and practise to tie in these artistic ways. Other rope bunnies are more interested in the bondage element. Not really bothered about how they’re restrained, just that they are. Rope bunny is an all-encompassing term for a submissive who enjoys being controlled by restraint. This can be purely a kink thing, or it might be a sexual turn on too. Bondage play doesn’t have to be sexual, just like any other BDSM play it can be very satisfying on it’s own. As with any classification of submissive there are many different preferences a rope bunny could prefer. Some may be very much into the feel of cold chain, others may enjoy the ungiving nature of wooden stocks and pillories.