Hi! My life partner in both life and kink recently passed away after 30 years together. As such, I am hoping to expand my horizons and circumstances by reconnecting with the greater kink community. While I am considering exploring a LTR, I am at present in no hurry to commit to anything permanent as I am still adjusting to this.

I am primarily seeking a situation involving a sub or slave female that might lead to a LTR. I can host for mild to wild BDSM play; prefer subsemphasized text with masochistic tendencies and desires. SORRY NO MALES!

Me? I'm a 63 y/o widowed Dom WM with a dry but dark sense of humor; 6'3" 195 HWP, professional, pierced nipples. I'm presently recovering from some health issues but am moving along very well and am very much a fighter; not a quitter! College educated and although mature, very in touch with my inner child. I can transition from NPR to Bob’s Burgers without flinching nor being embarrassed about doing so. Music is a vital part of who I am as is humor. The ability to maintain a sense of humor without arrogance when it comes to BDSM play is, in my eyes, vitally important.

I am not looking for someone squeamish but someone adventurous, who is intrigued by spankings/paddles, restraints and nipple clamps, wax play, blindfolds, latex, leather, tight restraints, watching/ voyeurism, large objects and. . .?

I switch on occasion if the chemistry is right and am open to CBT, pegging, sounding, and pretty much many of the other interests I’ve already outlined. In other words, I can take in what I dish out...

I have a wide variety of gear to add to the total ambience… Anything from mild to wild, as I do have a bit of a sadistic streak…

You? ...are sane and secure, clean and discrete. Enjoy some curves, but sorry- no extreme overweight. Prefer mature but will consider any age or race with a willingness to test your limits and maintain creativity with a certain degree of humor and humility. LOVE tats, piercings, ebony, goth and...

Limits will be respected but tested; also receptive to sexting. Because of scam efforts and ulterior motives of some responses I have received, I actually prefer meeting at a neutral location first in the general Milwaukee area although, yes, I can host...

Desires and Fantasies
My partner and I have explored plenty of things in the past including play dungeons, pet play, role playing etc. I've already explored plenty of fantasies, so just let me know what yours might be...

If you are looking for pay for play or if you’re a “” seeking s, move on… I have better things to spend my on including partners that are actually interested in something more LT and stable, and who actually play instead of yanking chains (rhetorically rather than literally)... If you’re looking for someone to send you or gift cards sight unseen, well… while I appreciate you’re thinking that I was born yesterday, I wasn’t…

BDSM Play Partner30 to 70 years ● 50km around USA Milwaukee

Joined site March 14, 2021 If your interested please respond because I may just look at profiles. Disclosure: I am always upfront with my partners that I have been blessed with my gift (HSV 1/herpes) for over 20 years. I have never found in the past that this was an issue. Note: With my experience if you are a Dom you speak of your likes and not hide your attributes. you are aggressive in what you want (first contact) you show your face because it is the place I will look into your eyes and wait for gestures.

Submissive looking for a Dom that will adhere to limits. Had a Dom that was experienced with stimulation and gradually increased thresholds. Looking for someone with experience preferred but may allow a new Dom the chance to broaden his experience. It is hard to trust just anyone no ego driven individuals aftercare is a must. Please don't play with people safety in this lifestyle.

I have been out of the lifestyle for about 10 years raising an 8 year old. I am looking for a stable trusting Dom. He must understand that to be my Dom you know we have to click. I am giving up full control to you. Eyes wide open and looking straight up for each gesture and non verbal que.

I am not into knife play or **.
Mostly experienced with bondage, restraint, cuffs, Saint Andrews Cross, spreader bar, paddles, floggers, whips, canes, swing, n
clamps.etc. No ddlg

Visited with a partner in the past mainly Florida swinger's clubs, private parties, hotel events, restaurant closures, nudist events and hotels, theater play with glory holes, and private homes.

100% Submissive
100% Rope bunny
95% Masochist
90% Voyeur
84% Experimentalist
62% Degradee
53% Exhibitionist
52% Brat
50% Slave
32% Primal (Prey)
29% Vanilla
19% Pet
9% Non-monogamist
0% Ageplayer
0% /Girl
0% Switch

BDSM Play Partner32 to 59 years ● 25km around USA Beaver

NO MORE MEETS AT THIS CURRENT TIME
I have selected my current crop of subs and once I am done with them, I’ll move on to the next set of victims!

UNFORTUNATELY I FEEL I HAVE TO THIS, AS IT SEEMS PEOPLE EITHER DON’T READ MY PROFILE OR CHOOSE TO IGNORE IT! SO FROM NOW ON DON’T CONTACT ME IF YOU’RE UNDER 45, LIVE A HUNDRED MILES AWAY OR MORE AND IF YOU THINK YOU CAN JUST TELL ME WHAT I WANT!

Just a side note to the big babies (not in a fetish way) on here! I have been ignored by a few guys on here, I can only assume this is because I didn’t respond to them in a timely manner? GROW UP, I get a lot of messages and sometimes Iit takes me a while to reply. Those that have acted like *** are actually the older men on here. Put your dummy back in!

OK, so starting from fresh. Going to delete all my messages, so message me by all means but let’s act like we’ve never had contact before. Why? It’s part of my game, also shows me who wants to play? Play what I hear you ask? Well, quite simply I want to punish you, tease you! There’s no sex, no oral, in fact the less contact the better, I do CFNM play, voyeurism, cock slapping, ball squeezing, that sort of thing, and if yiur down for filming it, even better. Married men and over 50’s get preference. In fact, don’t bother messaging if:
You’re under 40
Not in a realistic distance, especially if tou not even in England!
You want sex or BJ
You want cybersex or dirty talk
And please please please don’t ask me how I’m finding it on her, I have been on here for years! Don’t ask me what I’m looking for either!

Kinky Date45 to 80 years ● 50km around UK Manchester

Anything below this line is coded to be invisible to bots

IN OTHER WORDS IF YOU DONT READ MY INFO AND THEN ASK THE QUESTIONS THAT ARE ALREADY ANSWERED I HAVE NO INTEREST IN TALKING TO YOU

Hey everyone, i am Genderfluid Bondage Submissive/Pup looking for owner(s) and handler(s), my experience so far has not been so stable in the mono relations so i wouldnt mind trying Poly
I dont know what else to really to write being that i suck with this dating stuff

Mainly i am here to get to know people and find people that i can possibly get into a serious relationship with as their mate and pet maybe slave.

One idea i really like is always on a leash and silent and even with my pup hood on with a dog muzzle sorta thing and i have a fantasy to maybe even go as far as getting an ear tattoo or ear tag for that perfect someone or couple to rub in the mornings to remind me i belong to them. (And i am actually afraid of needles or generally anything that penetrates skin) i also fantasize about a nearly 24/7 in depth role as a pup (learn to track hunt do show and agility)... but i do understand that it is not 100% possible as life is a thing.

I am really weird in alot of ways, and many have said they like that about me. willing to try new things and some crazy things. but i am really touchy on trust and honesty, meaning they are EXTREMELY important to me and it does sometime take a while for me to get comfortable with anyone. i try not to hide things. but i also have a tendancy to say exactly whats on my mind with no filter or hesitation. so meeting as friends and doing vanilla people stuff (lol) is a good start like going for a drive exploring, coffee, helping you do things like work or beating that over powered boss on your video game

I do live in Aldergrove quite a ways from main roads or malls and do not go out much currently (at least until i can pass my damn roadtest) but i can host.



== Results from ==
99% Bondage receiver
87% Pet
85% Submissive
68% Primal (Prey)
65% Experimentalist
65% Masochist
62% Slave
57% Non-monogamist
57% Exhibitionist
56% receiver
53% Brat
53% girl/boy
39% Vanilla
31% Switch
24% Voyeur
24% Ageplayer
18% Sadist
17% Dominant
17% Bondage giver
13% Primal (Hunter)
12% Owner
11% Brat tamer
9% Master/Mistress
6%
giver
6% All-Rounder
5% Daddy/Mommy

Kinky Date25 to 45 years ● 50km around Canada Langley

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