I’m a confident not cocky, calm, intelligent and down to earth guy, who loves great conversation and the simple pleasures in life, especially when it comes to walking, photography, cooking or a good boxset. I’m also naturally dominant, know what I want and like to be in control, but I am not controlling, nor am I pushy. Think of me as a gentleman, with a Dominant and kinky undercurrent.

I will always support, cherish and treat you as my equal, nor will I ever belittle or shout at you. However, I will use you for my pleasure (within agreed limits) and put you in your place when I feel it is appropriate.

I’m looking for someone who enjoys a mix of Ds and vanilla, who likes to be challenged and who challenges me, where trust and a mental connection are built organically, which would ideally lead to a friendship or LTR. I also live in the real world and appreciate we all have real life responsibilities and commitments.

For me, everything is about respect, trust, and being safe, sane and consensual (SSC). Additionally, it’s about structure, consistency, fulfilling her need to please, submit and having a deep mental connection with her Dom.

In terms of my Dominant side, I’m strict and demanding but also caring and imaginative, with a particular interest in the psychological side of Ds. For me, I love nothing more than building anticipation, seeing her relinquish control (within the agreed limits), mentally letting go and her body following. However, she always knows that she is in a safe place and will be given lots of aftercare, TLC and cuddles.

My interests are varied and ever evolving. I particularly like impact play, including spanking, floggers, canes, paddles, belts, whips, crops. As well as mental BDSM, dressing to please, restraint, collars, belts, rope, gags, hoods, orgasm control, protocol, service positions, giving oral and outdoor play. I also enjoy rough play and CNC on occasion, although nothing at the extreme end of the scale.

Always happy to have a conversation or meet for a coffee without any expectation or pressure.

BDSM Play Partner150km around UK, Winchester 2 years ago

New to site March 14, 2021 If your interested please respond because I may just look at profiles. Disclosure: I am always upfront with my partners that I have been blessed with my gift (HSV 1/herpes) for over 20 years. I have never found in the past that this was an issue. Note: With my experience if you are a Dom you speak of your likes and not hide your attributes. you are in what you want (first contact) you show your face because it is the place I will look into your eyes and wait for gestures.

Submissive looking for a Dom that will adhere to limits. Had a Dom that was experienced with stimulation and gradually increased thresholds. Looking for someone with experience preferred but may allow a new Dom the chance to broaden his experience. It is hard to trust just anyone no ego driven individuals aftercare is a must. Please don't play with people safety in this lifestyle.

I have been out of the lifestyle for about 10 years raising an 8 year old. I am looking for a stable trusting Dom. He must understand that to be my Dom you know we have to click. I am giving up full control to you. Eyes wide open and looking straight up for each gesture and non verbal que.

I am not into knife play or
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Mostly experienced with bondage, restraint, cuffs, Saint Andrews Cross, spreader bar, paddles, floggers, whips, canes, swing, n clamps.etc. No ddlg

Visited with a partner in the past mainly Florida swinger's clubs, private parties, hotel events, restaurant closures, nudist events and hotels, theater play with glory holes, and private homes.

100% Submissive
100% Rope bunny
95% Masochist
90% Voyeur
84% Experimentalist
62% Degradee
53% Exhibitionist
52% Brat
50% Slave
32% Primal (Prey)
29% Vanilla
19% Pet
9% Non-monogamist
0% Ageplayer
0%
/Girl
0% Switch*

Pro-Dom/me Session32 to 59 years ● 5km around USA, Ephrata one year ago

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