I am NOT a submissive.
Professional Domme from northern CA, now in WV until late-2027 and then moving to the TX Hill Country area an hour NW of San Antonio.
I am seeking someone VERY specific. I am searching for a MALE submissive for house and pleasure duties. MUST be at least 5’11” tall as I am 5’11” and you will be accompanying me to social outings/events (upper class), as well as on vacations. I am ultimately looking for someone who can move into the home and be available 24/7. You can work if desired but it won’t be “required”. Someone who is a remote worker would be perfect.
All living/travel expenses would be covered by me, you would be provided with medical, dental, and vision insurance as well if desired. I STRONGLY prefer a nonsmoker, able to obtain (or already have) a passport, and a man with experience in this lifestyle.
If you feel that you have the desired qualifications, respond with a photo and be ready to talk via text until I am comfortable that you are a strong fit.
I am single, no kids, 50, therapist and published author, extremely financially secure, no pets, and I am open to more for the right man.
You will be fully vetted if selected.
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For some, that looks like strict roles, long-term dynamics, or a sense of control that runs deeper than surface-level play. For others, it’s about intensity, curiosity, and pushing into territory that feels more focused, more deliberate, and more real.
Whatever the pull is for you, it deserves honesty, chemistry, and the right kind of match.
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Extreme BDSM can involve stronger restraint, deeper control, and more psychological depth, which means the dynamic only works when both people are tuned in, communicating clearly, and respecting boundaries from the start.
That’s why the right connection stands out quickly.
On FET, you can connect with men who are:
- Into extreme BDSM and deeper power exchange
- Confident with domination, submission, and control
- Open-minded, respectful, and self-aware
- Comfortable with limits, negotiation, and communication
- Looking for real chemistry, not fake edgy behavior
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Trying to talk about intense desires on a mainstream dating app can quickly go south.
FET gives you a better place to start.
This is fetish dating for kinksters who want to freely express their desires with people who get it. You can be clearer about whether you want extreme domination, extreme submission, rough handling, bondage, discipline, high protocol, training, manhandling, obedience, or a deeper kind of power exchange that goes well beyond light play.
That means less guessing, less awkward explaining, and more room for connections that feel aligned from the first message.
On FET, you can:
- Create a profile that reflects your real desires
- Post a free Kinky Ad
- Send a Spank to show interest
- Chat with local kinksters
- Join the Forum and meet people with shared interests
Ready to Meet Men Who Match Your Edge?
If extreme kink is part of your desire, your curiosity, or the kind of intensity you want more of, FET gives you space to explore it with people who understand the appeal. The live listings on the page include women looking for training, extreme bondage, complete control, stronger domination, and rougher play, so the tone here clearly supports a more intense BDSM audience.
Women seeking men can browse profiles, post what they’re into, start chatting, and connect with kinksters who bring confidence, awareness, and real chemistry into the mix.
Sign up today and find men who match your energy, your edge, and your kinky side.
Keep it kinky. Find your match on FET today.
looking for a bi girl to have fun with my partner and I tomorrow night. Local, I will host. Must be clean, as are we. Very 🍃 friendly. We’re pretty chill, it’ll be a vibe. Dinner and fun, message me. I’m a bbw, he’s more athletic mixed with dad bod 🤤 and (extremely blessed below the belt). Prefer submissive but open to other. NEITHER OF US ARE NEW TO THIS. Both been poly and/or swinging for years.
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Women Seeking Men - Extreme
If “extreme” is the word that fits what pulls you in, you already know this isn’t something you can drop into a standard dating app and expect to land well.
FET is built for kinksters who want space for the full spectrum of desire, including the darker, deeper, and more demanding edges that don’t translate in vanilla spaces. Here, “extreme” can mean a lot of different things, from heavier BDSM and intense physical play to structured power exchange and dynamics that feel immersive rather than occasional.
For some, that looks like strict roles, long-term dynamics, or a sense of control that runs deeper than surface-level play. For others, it’s about intensity, curiosity, and pushing into territory that feels more focused, more deliberate, and more real.
Whatever the pull is for you, it deserves honesty, chemistry, and the right kind of match.
Women Seeking Men For Extreme BDSM
Women seeking men in the extreme space are usually looking beyond labels and into how someone actually shows up. Intensity on its own is not enough. What matters is how that intensity is handled.
Extreme BDSM can involve stronger restraint, deeper control, and more psychological depth, which means the dynamic only works when both people are tuned in, communicating clearly, and respecting boundaries from the start.
That’s why the right connection stands out quickly.
On FET, you can connect with men who are:
- Into extreme BDSM and deeper power exchange
- Confident with domination, submission, and control
- Open-minded, respectful, and self-aware
- Comfortable with limits, negotiation, and communication
- Looking for real chemistry, not fake edgy behavior
A Better Place for Extreme Domination and Submission
Trying to talk about intense desires on a mainstream dating app can quickly go south.
FET gives you a better place to start.
This is fetish dating for kinksters who want to freely express their desires with people who get it. You can be clearer about whether you want extreme domination, extreme submission, rough handling, bondage, discipline, high protocol, training, manhandling, obedience, or a deeper kind of power exchange that goes well beyond light play.
That means less guessing, less awkward explaining, and more room for connections that feel aligned from the first message.
On FET, you can:
- Create a profile that reflects your real desires
- Post a free Kinky Ad
- Send a Spank to show interest
- Chat with local kinksters
- Join the Forum and meet people with shared interests
Ready to Meet Men Who Match Your Edge?
If extreme kink is part of your desire, your curiosity, or the kind of intensity you want more of, FET gives you space to explore it with people who understand the appeal. The live listings on the page include women looking for training, extreme bondage, complete control, stronger domination, and rougher play, so the tone here clearly supports a more intense BDSM audience.
Women seeking men can browse profiles, post what they’re into, start chatting, and connect with kinksters who bring confidence, awareness, and real chemistry into the mix.
Sign up today and find men who match your energy, your edge, and your kinky side.
Keep it kinky. Find your match on FET today.
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