It's pretty clear that the Size 0 look isn't the norm. The average dress size in the UK, for example, is a 16 - meaning that the overwhelming majority of women don't fit what we currently consider to be the "ideal" body size. The good news is that "ideal" is absolute bullshit; everyone is different, everyone's body is different, everyone's health is nobody's business but their own and everyone finds different things attractive.
There are plenty of people who enjoy being on the larger side, and even more whose type in women runs to the curvy. Whether this forms part of a fetish or is simply a matter of aesthetic preference depends on the individual - but whichever side of the line you fall on, it's important not to run the risk of fetishising a person in a way they haven't consented to.
Collaring is a common practice in the BDSM community. People in all kinds of Dom/sub relationships often like to have something physical to symbolise the bond between them, be that a Daddy and his little girl or a Dominatrix and her slaveboy -and the giving and wearing of collars is frequently used in this way. For many people, a collar is a clear sign of a deep commitment and has a sincere emotional meaning for them. Of course, the objects used in this way aren't always literally collars--some kinky couples like to symbolise their ownership using bracelets, anklets, rings, chains or any other adornment that has a particular meaning for them.
There's more than one 'official' definition of what the letters in BDSM stand for, and plenty of people don't agree on their exact usage! However you use the term, though, it's a catch-all way of describing a whole bunch of kinks and fetishes that are more common than many people imagine: bondage and impact play, sadism and masochism, domination and submission.
Safety, consent and respect for boundaries are all key in the practice of BDSM, and it's vital to negotiate properly with your partners before getting into anything heavy-handed. Thankfully it's not so hard to learn - most places around the world have their own BDSM communities that are only too happy to take in newbies and help them learn the ropes.
This group challenges the old script. It's a space for men — and anyone exploring masculinity — to share feelings, ***s, softness, and strength without judgment. Let’s talk vulnerability, emotional openness, and what it really means to be a man today.
Bem-vindes a BDSM Brasil!
Nosso objetivo como comunidade é possibilitar trocas entre os membros, promover debates interessantes acerca do BDSM e garantir a segurança de todos os participantes.
Essa casa é 100% SSC (São Seguro e Consensual)
Se você está afim de fazer novos amigos, compartilhar seus gostos com pessoas que vão te compreender, aprender e/ou ensinar sobre práticas ou até apenas jogar papo fora e reclamar da vida seu lugar é aqui!
Power exchange is one thing — relationships are another. This group is all about navigating love, connection, and long-term dynamics within the world of BDSM. From contracts to communication, poly setups to vanilla blends — let's talk about what makes it work.